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dre11:
Nigeria's Chief Of Naval Staff, Ibok Ibas, Allegedly Locks Up Navy Captain For Six Days In Toilet For Uncovering Fraudulent Act



http://saharareporters.com/2020/01/21/exclusive-nigerias-chief-naval-staff-ibok-ibas-allegedly-locks-navy-captain-six-days

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

PaulErungworo:
FG has released a circular mandating the Director of Cash Management to stop salaries of tertiary institutions workers not enrolled in IPPIS platform. See circular below

obakovich:
I can bet you the poster won't see March if he does not report to police. Also write to immigration cause the man fit don use your money prepare to go Canada

Jadsy01:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2020/1/femi-otedola-wins-thisday-philanthropist-of-the-decade-award-photovideo-2.html

izospindle:
A Friend Wanted Me To Lend Him Money I Told Him This. Am I Wrong?

So a friend of mine told me that his girlfriend is about to lose her admission, because school fee deadline is tomorrow. He asked me to lend him 70k.

I know how he loves this girl so I asked him to fill a form before I give him the money. Am I wrong for doing that?

He started saying a whole lot of things and has not spoken to me since. Note this is half of all my savings and I have a purpose for this particular fund just that the time has not come.

Advice is needed please

Cutezt:
The man executed by boko haram terrorist has been identified as Mr Ropvil Dalep, from Pankshin, Plateau State, a student of university of maiduguri.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1545245698963201&id=100004333561967

EmpressT:
I will comment on this.
Hmmm.... Love mata no be beans o especially when you're emotionally attached to someone you love. To be frank, Susan looks like a girl who's taking advantage of your weakness i.e kindness in everything. And Benita is a wife material if that's who she truly is. And your family prefer you marrying Susan because she's out of school. Is that it?
Wow! My dear guy, you have weighted the qualities you saw in Susan and Benita and you have concluded that Benita makes you happier. Na you go marry person no be your family. Na you see wetin them never see. Marriage is for life! Once you go in, no turning back unless you want to remain single till Jesus comes.
If Benita makes you happy and you desire to be with her, get to know her better. But as for Susan haa i don't know wetin I fit say.
All I got to tell you is.......FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND PRAY TO CHOSE WISELY..... All the best.

Righteousness89:
Good Point @ bold...

My Fear for this scheme is that Some Ogas at the stop in the central could use funds to get some persons in the SW , who will do nasty things that could undermine this noble outfit..

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.reuters.com/article/us-iran-crash/iran-seeks-help-reading-downed-planes-black-boxes-in-new-standoff-idUSKBN1ZK0F4

Righteousness89:
I don't seem to understand..

Is Asiwaju Talking with both sides of His mouth?

It's Highly dangerous to be in the Middle..

ExAngel007:
https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5e2832d1a407c.jpg



https://mobile.twitter.com/seyishae/status/1219701915598102528?p=v

Do u believe her story?

Airforce1:
Didn't know The former house member was this rich

Chei, money is good.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B7k_0jiHH2Q/?igshid=hkrd8lr9bzen

KEVIND:
https://www.bbc.com/pidgin/tori-51182231

lalasticlala:
Controversial 'investigative' journalist, turned 'Evangelist', Kemi Olunloyo is conducting a poll online.

She shared this via her Twitter Page:

"VOTE NOW!
Should Chioma marry Davido or Peruzzi? She has dated both of them and lied to one that she was cousin to the other."

I taught madam said she was retiring.
This is a hard pill to swallow, if Chioma had informed Davido before it became public she lied , it's time Davido come out to defend her with Assurance. If Davido got to know now then Chioma is gonna join the Babymama's club now or later except the love strong like Olumo rock.

sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?

Sanchez01:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/tribuneonlineng.com/amotekun-cleric-hunters-opc-others-lead-solidarity-rally-in-ekiti/amp/

ahmedkoded95:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/01/it-would-have-been-major-blow-if-apc-lost-kano-plateau-%E2%80%95-buhari/amp/

OnlineTv247:
The protest embarked upon, on Monday, in Abuja by the leaders and members of the Peoples Democratic Party against the judgement of the Supreme Court on the 2019 Imo State governorship election ended abruptly at the Eagle Square.

Below is a video of the PDP protesters driving recklessly and carelessly prior to the horrific accident.

Watch The Video Below..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSMPRtQEAsQ

eric12345:
Doyin Okupe reveals only way PDP can defeat APC in 2023 Presidential election

Doyin Okupe, a former aide to ex-President Goodluck Jonathan has called on the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, to change its name.

Doyin Okupe in a post on his Facebook page, said the change of name and formation of a new party is the only way PDP can defeat the All Progressives Congress, APC.
https://www.naijanewsgist.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Okupe-reveals-only-way-PDP-can-defeat-APC-in-2023-Presidencial-election-scaled.jpg



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2469647473295070&id=1425109977748830

agemmy113:
Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.

But to my surprise she is taking it up.
Pls what should I do?

Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look.
She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back.

Dewaldg56:
I encountered this huge creature while driving through new road axis of sapele Delta State.
As at when I got there it was already killed.
I thought to share with you guys because if I don't some peppersoup loving Nigerians in this platform will not be happy with me


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xBW3ziNdV5g

ijustdey:
https://thenationonlineng.net/pdp-secretly-inciting-imo-lawmakers-to-impeach-me-uzodinma/

valentineuwakwe:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/01/uzodinma-god-has-vindicated-me-again-mbaka/amp/

BlackBigBlog:
I paid a surprise visit to one of RCCG branches, this is what I met - Pastor Adeboye

Today is Sunday when a lot of people are going to various church to pray and to worship God in full scale. Many people were expecting surprise visit from God.

This morning, when the general overseer woke up, if felt he should just paid a surprise visit to one of the RCCG branches. He woke up and went to one of his branch. We he got there, he meet them praising God.

Going to the presence of God is what man of God always has desire to do

He make this known to the world through his twitter handle. And a lot were commenting on his post.

Shared with Caption ...



Source : https://twitter.com/PastorEAAdeboye/status/1218899862852448257

Vokians:
No we Aren't.

kenneth3428:
‘We want him back’ — Ihedioha’s supporters troop to the streets of Owerri


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gc1rLkc_faw

Protesters trooped to the streets of Owerri, Imo state capital, on Sunday to  kick against the verdict of the supreme court which led to the removal of Emeka Ihedioha as governor of Imo.

The apex court had on Tuesday ordered the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) to return Hope Uzodinma, candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC), as winner of the election.

Uzodinma placed a distant fourth in the results announced by INEC. But the apex court declared him winner based on the APC candidate’s claim that his votes across 388 polling units were annulled.

The judgement sparked different reactions. The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has threatened to carry out a protest in Abuja on Monday.

https://www.thecable.ng/video-we-want-him-back-ihediohas-supporters-troop-to-the-streets-of-owerri

AtikuNetwork:
https://thenationonlineng.net/why-buharis-men-security-chiefs-oppose-operation-amotekun/

EzeCanada:
Omotuken this. Omotuken that. Omotuken here. Omotuken there. Omotuken up. Omotuken down.
Who is this Omotuken if I may ask?

PrettyCrystal:
While some Nigerian soldiers at the battlefield are getting tired and want to return home, a gallant young officer and his colleagues are storming the northern part of the country in high spirits.

The young soldier identified as Oluwatosin from Ibadan, Oyo state, was recently posted to Maiduguri, Borno state capital to fight Boko Haram insurgents.

Earlier today, the army troops left in a convoy while heading to their duty posts.

The young soldier revealed that he and his colleagues are battle ready for the deadly terrorists who have been troubling the nation.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/01/young-soldiers-arrive-maiduguri-in-high-spirits-to-battle-boko-haram-photos.html

Holuwahphemy:
Hello everyone.

Something happened yesterday and up till now I'm still boiling from inside .

Okay, here is what happened. I set out around noon yesterday to get a new phone at Ikeja. While I was about to board a bus to Oshodi where I'd connect with a bus to Ikeja, I saw a glo Sim registration booth. I asked one of the reps when they'd leave, and she said 6 pm. I promised to be back before then to get one. On my way back, around past 5, I went there and started the process. I was told to buy airtime immediately in order for the Sim card to work, which I obliged, and told them I'd buy #200 worth.

Immediately I collected my pack, I gave another lady who works with them and sells airtime #200. She collected my card, put it in her phone, loaded it and handed my Sim back to me. I thanked her and was about to leave when she stopped me and asked that I pay her for the recharge card. When I told her I had paid already, she erupted like a volcano. She began to raise her voice that passers-by stopped and began to watch us, she called me all sorts of names, 'Thief' being the most subtle of them. Her stance when I dared leave, and leave her to her ramblings, was that of a woman who would hold a man's collar and decorate his face with prints from hot slaps. She maintained I would not leave until I pay her, despite the fact that her colleagues asked me to go. I was so embarrassed. #200 was and is not my problem, I just didn't want to san'wo omo go. Last last I had to give her another #200 before she quieted down and allowed me to leave.

Later in the evening, when I got home I put the Sim in my phone, and the first call I got was from the said lady's colleague calling me to apologise on her behalf. She said immediately I left, she saw the money and she's ashamed of herself and couldn't bring herself to calling me and telling me herself, that's she's indeed sorry... Blah! Blah!! Blah!!!

She said I should come back on Monday to get the money. I told her I don't need the money again.

As I'm typing this, I'm so angry... Even with the apology and the offer to get my money back, I still feel cheated. Some of the people who witnessed our little drama would definitely not be there when she found the money. To them I might as well be what she painted me to be.

How did I do? Was I right to turn down the reimbursement? How should I have reacted? If you were in my shoes how would you have reacted?