₦airaland Forum

cedricksly:
was in the same exact situation sometime in my life, when I say exactly, I mean exactly, the Disrespect was so much on me and my family that I had to take the bold decision.. See Bro hold ur ear and listen to me, you see the load God dey try comont from ur head so, and u dey use ur hand wan place am back for ur head, I will still be here to tell you I told you so... See bro the tin about toxic women is this, u marry them or not, as soon as u have ties with them as per child sake, they will make your life, and marriage to another women a living hell, it is filled with extortion, calling u at odd hours around ur wife etc. See it might seem immoral to u, but she removing it is the best thing she can ever do for u... See bro mark today's date, you will regret any thing that makes u have any ties with such a toxic lady.... Do not worry I go remind u... If you are getting rid of a toxic women, that luckily haven't given birth to a child for u, you get ride of her completely with no ties whatsover with her, not even the smallest of having her number on ur fone or even unblocking her.. She will ruin u, ruined ur marriage with someone else, ruin ur relationship with your family if u foolishly marry her etc... NEVER EVER HAVE ANY TIES WITH SUCH PEOPLE.. send her the money and allow her remove the pregnancy, call me immoral but I Know what I'm saying.

What if op has married her what will be your advice. Know someone currently in this same shit but I no wan put mouth

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Should I tell you the truth?

That girl is not pregnant. Continue with the relationship and die early.

Barrylord4040:
Obi Pandora is a failure n the low IQ market trader

Says someone from a poverty ridden clan

Lukuluku69:
Yoruba word for a Bastard.

Ok. Tnx

SensualMan1:
Dont mention.

See the way I dey laff for my office

Cute baby

Lukuluku69:
This guy should shut it already.

This guy is an "Omoale"

Never a fan of the Royals but this guy is on another level.

Abeg wetin be omoale.
Seeing the word again

SilverOrLead:
He is not King Charles son.

He is the bastard child of his adulterous mother and her bodyguard.

Who said that?

Una don come again?

Edimakan:
One of them sabi nack for every movie

I guess you are referring to Van damme

shortIGBOman:
The North is safer than the EAST

Lol
In your dreams

BATified2023:
followed by south east

See them

DRM wan die.

Why is North always leading in bad things

Joserobot:
We gerit.

Correct fella

You say make I keep this thing for house call am pet?
God forbid!!!

I'm not worried about myself but kids.

I will get an ekuke to always alert me at night and get the other dogs to do the talking
If you don't Gerrit, fogerit o

habsydiamond:
These people sha.. no extention and the currencies never circulate.. na only politician all these their policy dey favour.. these people lack proper planning.. New currencies are can not go round as at now and u want to put a stop to the old ones. Make una continue o

You won't believe it if I tell you my hands have not touched the new note and I happen to handle money on a daily, mostly Transfer though, but still ...

Ofunaofu:
Plaindealer, your candidate have been shielded from attending any interview with TV stations and you see nothing wrong with that, but are fixated on a candidate making himself available for interviews and Debates at every point in time answering questions.

I think you are pathetic

A popular maxim says every country deserve the leaders they get.

In saner climes, this election would have been a no contest. In a place like America, Balablue won't even stand a chance. Americans value debate like their lives depends on it. They want to be able to assess and access their potential leaders.

But in Nigeria, urchins want to plunge us into another circle of misery
Look at the f00lish op celebrating a man who is too old and frail and even suffering from dementia over people who are cerebral, agile and energetic.
This can only happen in Nigeria.
My consolation is that the hunger go still touch Una the urchins. Be here shouting like demented goat, urchins while seyi tinubu and other kids of the rich are flying private jets and graduating from foreign universities. What foolishness Is greater than these?


Na Una go still suffer am

nedu666:
Pathetic urchins. The same arewa people here at apc rally are the same that welcome atiku in lagos and will be the same that will welcome kwankaso when he comes to lagos

I really don't fancy the crowd. I was at warri stadium one early morning ( the day balablue was visiting) and I saw buses from near and far bringing people from places like asaba, Edo state, even Onitsha. I was shocked.

Same day I was moving somewhere and I overheard a tout complaining bitterly that next time he won't attend such gathering. They promised them 5k but he got 700 naira.


The north is even worse. Those teeming army of almajiris are always available for rally

JASONjnr:
Urchins are really pathetic and dull .....


Peter Obi is really giving you all sleepless nights.....


I pray you find peace....

Aswear!
They say Obi won't win but dem wan die ontop Obi matter.

Make Una leave am for us.

Everywhere I go, every person I engage is talking about Obi.

Bantu10:
God forbid tinubu wins the presidency, he go arrest journalists tire coz na shit he go dey shit for body

The picture below shows a lot but most Nigerians are unfortunate and will plunge this country into misery again

dettolgel:
Naija I hail. Actually this is the first time I heard that it is normal for new notes to leave stain on white surface.

And you believe them

The pounds and dollars also do leave stains

amstamon:
Abeg! They should send me an account number let me pay mine! Shebi it's just 60k..
I hate debt!
NB:the acct number must be China related o
I no wan see any yeye firstbank or GTB. It must be from China cos na dem we dey owe

Bank name: Ghongzhou international Bank of the people.

Account number 4356772341.

Account holder: Federal republic of Nigeria.

Oya, account don ready. Do the needful

[quote author=VULCAN post=119778730]That ITK that women display constantly disappears when just one man tries to rape them.

A solid kick or knee in the groin brings an end to all desire to rape.

After you knee him in the balls you look for something to break his head with.

Your husband or boyfriend will be proud when he  the saga

[/quote
I tell you.
The man will defend the case with full chest sef.

This story be one kain

Workch:
Kwankwaso being a VP to Obi will not be effectively enough to make Obi win the election. The Igbo factor will still make people not vote for Obi in NW and NE. It will amount to People in NW and NE seeing Atiku and Tinubu as no1 and 2 option. Kwankwaso will not be able to deliver much as a VP aspirant.

The fact that kwankwaso is in the race and is going to scatter APC and PDP votes in NW and NE is a plus for Obi.

This is the most efficient way to steal votes from APC and PDP and make those votes utterly useless because kwankwaso will not win the election.

Don't you see kwankwaso stepping down for Atiku? I think that card is in the mix

First thing first... Be very knowledgeable about cars. EOD

kingreign:
The vessel itself was built in Nigeria by SERRIACRAFT LIMITED, EPE, LAGOS which had a sitting capacity of 30 passengers and was made from Fibreglass composite materials to help with weight reduction and buoyancy. The craft had twin Yamaha F200 outboard motors which by the way are 2.8L i4 4cycle engines putting out 200hp at the shaft and each motor was capable of 60 knots each; So, the combined outputs was 400shp

Written like a true motorhead

I'm not surprised.

Tinubuadvocate:
So we can still find someone who can't afford hospital bill in igboland? I thought all igbos are billionaire.

One of the billionaires have paid.
Choke on your bile

[quote author=meobizy post=119767522]Her porn is trash. She’s too lazy. The only good part is the men she uses are well endowed.[/quote.
Does she really act porn? Though she was joking

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

People will beg you into poverty!
Words on marble.

My cousin paid rent for someone ( 240k) for two years and school fees for the kids. By the third year the person was still calling that rent has expired o

QuinModah:
Why?

Take the one that is available now, ( offer letter is ready), then when the other one comes, you grab it
A bird in hand is worth 20 in the bush

SouthCaroliina:
Once I’m settled abroad like after 4-5 years, I’ll always come home for xmas with family and friends. Naija xmas too sweet abeg. Pack enough dollars come. Sleep the highest hotel, Bleep the highest bitch, go the highest club. After celebration come back to my abroad again till next December

Aswear!

Na my pattern be this. My uncle does Same. This Christmas, dude ordered for fresh palm wine( straight from top of the tree to his car boot, no addictive or sacharine). We chop suya and barbeque fishes.
He enjoys all this coupled with the jokes and mad laughters.

clinician2x:
Imagine the downtrodden disabled Nigerians living in the trenches and the rabbit hole. I saw one the other day and I wrote something in a piece of paper "sometimes death is a solution" and added to 500# and gave him. What that guy de live is not a life.

You are a cruel and heartless person. Why coerce someone into taking his life. Your 500 is worthless then
Bye

Thank you for the class