Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Your Experiences With Chinese Bosses As Nigerians by Hamachi(f): 10:15am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Because they know employees don't know their rights. . . Even if they do, there is scarcity of jobs so being sacked and not having a job immediately would make employees stay put and condone their rubbish! |
Romance › Immigrant Couple Who Moved To Canada In Their Early 30's by Hamachi(op): 10:12am On Jun 30, 2023 |
This is a story about an immigrant couple who moved to Canada in their early 30s. Let's call them Jane and John.
As it is common with the immigrant community, they were quickly sold a Term Life Insurance by an agent who advised them to protect their lives and loved ones with life insurance coverage and invest the rest of their funds in other asset types.
This made sense to the couple, so they got a Term Life Insurance for themselves and continued to invest in RRSP, TFSA, real estate and other non-registered investments.
At the time they got their Term Insurance coverage, they were both 35 years old. Based on their family experience in their home country, their parents and grandparents had only managed to live upto ages less than 65 years old. So, they were pretty comfortable that a 30-year Term Insurance (T-30) will be sufficient for their needs.
As expected, the cost of a T-30 insurance was pretty affordable at a premium of $75/month for John, and $55/month for Jane. So, they had more than enough to invest elsewhere while their lives stayed protected with life insurance.
There was only one problem. They lived to be older than 65, the age when ther term life insurance terminates!
John had developed some health concerns at the age of 63 and expected to pass on before his 65th birthday. Shall we say fortunately, the Universe had other plans. He lived past that age but passed on 3 months after his 66th birthday.
Because their Term Life Insurance had now lapsed, that left the family with nothing to claim from the coverage. They had to source for funds from their personal savings and investments to pay for his funeral expenses, probate fees and final taxes.
This experience got the wife, Jane, thinking she needs to get another life insurance coverage in place immediately. By this time, she was already 66 as well. So, her cost of insurance for a 10-year Term Life Insurance was already over $260 monthly.
Considering that some of John's assets had rolled over to Jane, her passing will trigger significant amount of final taxes. So, she decided to get that insurance for another 10 years as this will last her till age 76.
Life can be tricky atimes. Jane refused to die before age 76, and lived until she was 80 years old. At this age, getting a life insurance had become unreachable and impossible for her.
Upon her passing, her family had zero claims to any insurance coverage because it had lapsed yet again.
With the probate process, funeral expenses and final taxes, the financial burden was quite significant for their children as they had to dip into their savings to sort things out while they awaited resolving other issues arising from Jane's will.
Throughout the period of their Term Life Insurance, they paid over $78,000. Yet, they and their beneficiaries were not able to enjoy any benefits from it because they lived longer than anticipated.
Are you planning for long life? Do you want this to be your story? |
Romance › Re: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 10:11am On Jun 30, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Growing Up As A Son Raise By Singlemother. How Has Life Be ? by Hamachi(f): 3:30am On Jun 30, 2023 |
I just want to emphasize that a boy does not become a man because he’s learned how to be masculine.
My ex, the biological father of my daughter, was a male. He mas masculine. He liked things that interest a typical male. But I do not believe he is a man. Because a man does not abandon his own child. A man does not make promises he cannot keep or commit to. A man holds up to his responsibilities instead of making excuses. A man does best by the people he owes out of self respect and gratitude. He failed to do all that. So he’s not a real man in my eyes.
If I had a son, I would not be worried at all. Because I can teach him about being a man more than anyone can. I think I can be more of a man than most men I know (which is really sad if you would think about it).
I acknowledge the need of a boy to have a male role model growing up - there are just some things both physical and emotional that only an actual male can guide him through. This he can find from his extended support system - grandfathers or uncles or even older siblings, teachers and mentors from the community.
If I had a son, I would be confident raising him with the right values. I would raise him to treat others with kindness, to keep his word, to own up to his responsibilities and to respect other people. And that’s really all that matters.
For my sister, it has been very hard. She was widowed when their son was just a baby, and my heart broke for him that he didn’t have a dad in his life.
Financially, for a while it was a struggle - I have major envy of all of those women that can be stay at home mums, or just need to work part-time - they have more money and more time.
Society is hard and judgy on single moms. People can be mean. I was probably more strict and had very high expectations of behaviour, as people almost expect the offspring of a single mum to be a bad asrse.
The hardest thing I found was there was no one to talk about the stuff the son was up to. If he did something cool, or funny, or reached a milestone… it would be nice to tell the person that loved them as much as you. Or even if they do something worrying… you don’t want to be slagging off your kid to your friends or even their grandparents.
I wish I had been better at asking for help.
In all though, it has been hard but it’s also been a blessing. The boy is an amazing teenager now, and a really good and hard working person. |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Hamachi(op): 2:40am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Bukola94: like relocating to another state, what if they still come around They make sure they don't come around. |
Romance › Re: What's It Like Dating A Nigerian Girl by Hamachi(f): 2:29am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Fruit4me: some of una here on Nairaland Dey write like say na goat milk una suck  I just tire for them |
Romance › Re: If You Are Above 30 And You Are Still Single As A Guy by Hamachi(op): 2:22am On Jun 30, 2023 |
 kaywhy09: Vowed not to marry until certain things are achieved.
Close to 4.0
Things getting worse.
No good income.
Can be so tiring sometimes!
But still will never do anything st.upid! |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 2:15am On Jun 30, 2023 |
 helinues: Being a boss is even more complicated than being a worker |
Family › Re: Are Men Really Polygamous? by Hamachi(f): 6:28am On Jun 29, 2023 |
Men aren’t monolithic group, some are polygamous and some are monogamous. The same is with women, some are polygamous and some are monogamous. Human nature is very complex and people tend to choose what works best for them. Monogamy works out best in the long run for both men and women, so monogamy dominates the human society.
Monogamy for the most part has been imposed on women then men. Ironically, in cultures such as African and Asian culture where polygyn is common, polyandry also tend to be common even though unlike polygyny, polyandry is illegal. Because if in a culture one men has multiple wives then it leaves other men who would have no wives unless they share.
In polygynous marriage where one men can have multiple wives, results in a large number of children per men but children also have high mortality rate than monogamous marriage because raising children is harder and require resources as well as individual attention, which is difficult. Women also have high mortality rate, stress and less rights in these marriages that increased the chances of abuse for women.
In polyandry, where one women can have multiple husbands results in lower number of children but offspring survive better with multiple men providing for the family and helping the wife raise the children. However, the problem is identity of the father is difficult to know in some cases and it may give men less incentive to provide for the children that aren’t theirs.
In monogamy, both men and women tend to get what they want the most in return. The man knows that the the children are biologically his so he can provide and pass his resources to the children and he doesn’t have to share his wife’s time with other men. The women don’t have to share the resources and the husbands time with other women, which ensures better survival for her and her offspring. It’s a good compromise that works out best for the men, women and the offspring in the long run. |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Hamachi(op): 6:27am On Jun 29, 2023 |
Bukola94: A man said in a thread that is girl is good but the girl family are so toxic. What will be your advice for him,is like the man in question wants to wife the girl. Just that her family is toxic Marry her and distance themselves from the girls family |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 6:26am On Jun 29, 2023 |
wunmi590: Wo ju mi le jor  Yoruba te e ko ye mi |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 5:46pm On Jun 27, 2023 |
 GodWrites: If you are not a good marketer, you can't succeed in business. Are you sure? |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 5:45pm On Jun 27, 2023 |
wunmi590: For congratulating me just because I've spent my June salary even before collecting it 😢 This is an opportunity to make a difference. Make the change now |
Romance › Re: Kindly Advise As It Urgent by Hamachi(op): 5:44pm On Jun 27, 2023 |
ojun50: Just avoid the person Thank you |
Romance › Re: Kindly Advise As It Urgent by Hamachi(op): 11:00am On Jun 27, 2023 |
ojun50: Baby or guy avoids avoided ooooooh I don't understand what you write. |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 11:00am On Jun 27, 2023 |
wunmi590: 😢
Aunty why are you congratulating me, please don't make me more depressed 😔 depressed how |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 10:58am On Jun 27, 2023 |
Ade1177: You save more money as a young guy building wealth in this lagos having multiple ladies
Having 1 lady being entitled to your money and demanding you buy iphone 14 pro max will drain you
Personal experience
Will only settle for 1 girl when you're sure you can take care of all her needs Lies, it practically impossible because you will give them tfare, hair, sub & recharge cards money , you gone basically spend. PERIOD |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 10:56am On Jun 27, 2023 |
Donpenny: Very fustrating, mine only take me for fews days despite my adjustments. Bills are choking. Just coming from my daughter's sch, her proprietor just keep adding unnecessary fees to jack up total sch fees claiming my daughter will pay for graduant fees when she is not one yet, i stood my ground that am only going to pay for exam and pta alone after have cleared her sch fees during resumption that is how kasala burst. Finally i paid for exam and pta alone. I hate extortion by greedy business men. My landlord is another greedy idiot, my rent is now more than tripe of what i paid 3yrs ago and my salary still remain within my entry ranges. Only having a viable business can make you stay ahead of this inflation. Is crazy out there. They are mostly shylocks, mine increased mine from 260k to 500k, as in I just weak |
Romance › Re: Kindly Advise As It Urgent by Hamachi(op): 10:20am On Jun 27, 2023 |
ojun50: If you know the family, his back and trust him then help. I don't know them. |
Romance › Re: Kindly Advise As It Urgent by Hamachi(op): 10:20am On Jun 27, 2023 |
Justdare: I beg you in the name of whoever you hold dear, please don't. Not for anyone and especially not for someone you just met on social media. I have had bad experiences regarding this, I had to pay off a 9 million naira debt I didn't incur just because I signed the bloody guarantor form. Thank you for your timely response. |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 10:19am On Jun 27, 2023 |
vincenteger: Sales of medical/Hospital/laboratory equipment/material, surgical, laboratory consumables, reagents, school science equipment. How has been so far? |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 10:18am On Jun 27, 2023 |
condralbedez: Outside Nairaland , that dude will be complaining to the masses that this Administration nah wahala oh. You sabi |
Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 10:18am On Jun 27, 2023 |
wunmi590:

Abeg make I no just talk wetin dey my mind...
This month salary will enter this Friday, I've already sepnt it all, even without receiving it yet...
May God help us congratulations |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Sharing My Experience On Nairaland Gave Me 15,000 Naira by Hamachi(op): 9:39am On Jun 27, 2023 |
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Career › Re: Salary Earners: How Far Did Last Month Salary Take You This Month? by Hamachi(f): 9:38am On Jun 27, 2023 |
 I save today, the money saves me the next day |
Romance › Re: Kindly Advise As It Urgent by Hamachi(op): 9:34am On Jun 27, 2023 |
phorget: Him no get family? They have the same surname |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 9:34am On Jun 27, 2023 |
vincenteger: Thank you very much
We'll be waiting for your tips on how to strive more in businesses. I hope we can be able to chat here too. What business are you into? |
Romance › Kindly Advise As It Urgent by Hamachi(op): 9:22am On Jun 27, 2023 |
From DM
Can I be a guarantor to someone I just met on Facebook because his an intern and they want to staff him in the organization (HB) & I intend to go into a serious relationship. Are there dangers?
Please 🙏 advice me as it urgent |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 7:54am On Jun 27, 2023 |
okoroemeka: business is war, to manage an SME in Nigeria now with poor electricity and 140% increase in petroleum products is more than war,it is something else I cannot explain No be beans |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 7:53am On Jun 27, 2023 |
 JOACHINpedro: Dating never start you don dey dish out relationship advise  |
Romance › Re: Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 5:02pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247: An why some tribe envy a certain tribe. When they try and fail they accuse the other tribes of being ritualist.
Now think 1000 traders are ritualist. Does that make sense.
They decide to be civil servants. The other tribe give them headache because they stand out.
Now tell me. Is it not jealousy
Civil war was fought and gone.
The next war waiting is the economic war.
That war thye shall be victors and not vanquished. Wetin be all these ones na |
Romance › Entrepreneurship Is Hard. I Duff My Hat For Every Business Owner Out There. by Hamachi(op): 4:15pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Entrepreneurship is hard.
I duff my hat for every business owner out there.
And I duff my hat twice for every B2C entrepreneur.
I have always wanted to be a business owner right from my first year in senior secondary school.
That's why I chose marketing as my trade subject in secondary school.
Also, why I am currently a digital marketing strategist.
And more specifically, why I help SMEs thrive in the online space.
Small and medium business owners have a special place in my heart.
I finally started my business a few weeks ago, and the experience has been of various shades.
My respect for business owners has 3x.
Dear business owner, you are a super human, and your business is a success.🤍
Henceforth, I will be sharing marketing lessons on the things I have had firsthand experience with in business.
I make sure to take note of the smallest things because of the marketer in me.
So if you don't want to miss out on undiluted value from a skilled marketer and business owner who's willing to help you grow your business, hit the follow button in my profile.
P.S. Say "Hi" if you own a business or planning to start one very soon. Let's know one another.🤭 |