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I hope he gained some other knowledge within that time frame. Wouldn't want to think he wasted 12 good years of his life.

When a fool gives advice.

me69:
No one can tell a Muslim what is allowed and forbidden to him except ALLAH SWT. Sanusi is stepping his bounds, if he came as emir to be custodian of western culture and ideas then he should vacant his seat. We are Muslim before anything else and you cannot make haram what ALLAH Has made Halal. This is also a warning to any pegan, human being worshippers that called themselves Christians, you better mind your business when it comes to Islamic faith. You guys worship a man so we Muslims have nothing good to take from you

So Allah permits a man that can barely feed himself to marry four wives?

These are grandpas and grandmas o
It is usually annoying to me when some people talk about the oldies like they were saints.

I knew he would.

Disgusting. I can't marry someone that will do such. Ablution sef will ensure the feet is neat anyway.

Explorers:
What will you say to thus photographer?

I think I once read the photographer that took that pix later committed suicide.

NwamaziNwaAro:
Marriage no be by force..

These days women marry unmarriageable men out of self-pressure and societal demand to get married or the quest for quick wealth...
After marriage;
They become punching bags
Or adulteresses; worse still, corpses.

RIP to the unfortunate woman.

The only happy thing in Nigerian marriages now are the pre-wedding pictures
I can bet these folks had amongst the best pre-wedding pictures.



By the way...what happened to his other ear?

Does he look like someone who has anything close to wealth a woman would marry him for?
He looks haggard and hungry.

Were they the ones behaving like loonies rolling in mud in a clip I watched? Very disgusting

Cretin

I'm sure she probably studied outside the Country or a Private University, she'll never understand the Students' plight.
Some people's lives are being toyed with and this cretin sef get mouth. Odensin

The guy is crazy, so chaining some dunderhead bimbos like dogs is his way of creating awareness about women rights?

So many fools here

She isn't bad looking not exactly beauty queen material though and it's weird having someone of a different nationality winning a pageant of a Country ( I don't know much about this)

The judges know the criteria they used in chosing her as the winner.

I wouldn't want to start out my married life with a man with so much baggage. Not just one or two children, four! From three different women!
He couldn't manage to settle with any of them, so he definitely has serious issues.

Is this story even true or the usual tales by moonlight?

Lolz. True

Really loved 'The Second Chance's plot quite different from the usual. Not really into telemundo films again though

Read about some stuffs like these sometime ago. Women have really suffered.

Who said single ladies are more? Women are just more pressured by the Society to get married earlier.

These people are just royally stu. pid

Where's the third guy? Tunde. Wonder why they stopped making music back then, they really made sense.

Good

Looks better with the hair cut. See the yeye hair she embarrassed herself for, made her look like a mad woman.
Those hairdressers sha. Mad people plenty for this World

Really bad. The pose is terrible, makes her seem all hands and legs, and that shoe ehn

ItsQuinn:
How is it possible to make it or to get a first class when you have to take care of the house, your husband, your child and school work? How? Unless you're a robot

Obafemi Awolowo University's best graduating medical student about 3 years ago or so, was a married woman. If I can remember correctly she clinched 12 solid awards.

My mum got married while in School and had two of us to care for, yet she had 2.1 in Mathematics

I'm sure it wasn't easy but very possible.

ItsQuinn:
How is it possible to make it or to get a first class when you have to take care of the house, your husband, your child and school work? How? Unless you're a robot

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Early marriage all the way by His Grace, gotta have my children early and close shop, hehehe.
It's so nice having your children look like your younger siblings. Having your first two children in University by age 40, etc. Makes life easier and doesn't mean you have to put a stop to your aspirations as long as one doesn't marry wrong.

She looks so familiar.
RIP. May God console her family.

DarkRebel101:
To paraphrase Mindfulness, men's attraction to bôôbs and äss is a biological imperative. It's the cross Nature has burdened us with. And trying to separate us from it like attempting to turn a sow's ear into a silk purse.

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Many women that marry poor men usually had no choice, or perhaps they had, in their naïve and callow youth, viewed the world through rosy and idealist lenses, only to regret their decisions of wedding a financially handicapped man midway into their marriage.

If we conduct a survey, don't be surprised if many of these women wished the circumstances were different and that they were married to a richer man. It's Darwinian, Haneefah -- women are genetically predisposed to craving a strong, all-providing alpha-male capable of protecting them from unsavoury elements. Financial security is just one of those things.

At least you agree men are as well superficial even moreso.


No choice? They marry them cos they want to and feel in love or they see qualities in him they really appreciate. Many women marry not- so rich men every other weekend even when they have richer men seeking their hands.
Yes, that is true. Of course a normal human will crave financial security, doesn't mean some don't make decisions not in line with that for whatever reason.

Mindfulness:
In fact, many women ended up and stayed in abusive relationships in the name of loff, not money.

Sure.
The 'I love him, he'll change ,etc mantra

DarkRebel101:
HaneefahRN, all OP said was that some women bring rue upon themselves by not getting married to their significant other based on compatibility and qualities that go beyond handsomeness and how rich he is.

He never said poor men don't beat their wives.

I know

Just making a point. All the talk about women going for money, riches made it seem so.

Mindfulness:
But I cannot overlook ugliness.

Lolz.
Yh, but you got my point.

DarkRebel101:
At least we both agree the money aspect is a no-brainer.



Really? I don't think so. It's you ladies that obsess over 6 packs, red lips, hefty muscles, big d***k, cute and pimple-free face, sexy beards...

Women are more concerned with physical attributes, even though it's just a smidge more than men's obsession. Just admit it already.



Are you trying to imply that most females go into marriages for opportunistic reasons?

Yes, ladies might gush about 6 packs, bla bla rubbish but they are more likely to overlook that than a man obsessed with big bo.obs and ass would. Men would even insult ladies they think isn't attractive enough for them


And what's with all the talk about women going for riches. Who are marrying the poor and struggling guys? Ghosts?
Yes, women love money, tell me who doesn't.

Mindfulness:
More likely to look beyond wealth? Definitely.

More likely to look beyond physical interestingness? You must be joking.

Seriously

When people attach domestic violence to a woman choosing to marry a rich man for whatever reasons known to her, I begin to wonder if poor men ain't abusive too. She must have it coming for marrying someone rich, like being abusive has anything to do with the money, or handsomeness or whatever.
People on both sides of the spectrum can be abusive.
She can as well choose to toil with a poor man who would still abuse her. Read a novel of recent, with one of the main characters as a victim of abuse, she never knew he was like that, all sweet and caring, till the relationship got more serious, and he slowly starts trying to control her, made sure she doesn't get a job even though she wanted to, just so she would be totally dependent on him, then the beating began. After each episode he is back to being sweet, caring and begging for forgiveness, promising not to do it again. And the cycle continues, black eye, broken bones, hospital admissions, getting him arrested and he'll emotionally manipulate her till she starts thinking she is the one at fault, she would never press charges.
Well, she eventually killed him though in self defense.

Some people are just psychotic. Yes, some women overlook the red flags cos of greed but some probably never noticed till they got in most especially in cases of short courtship or they feel they are in love or can change him, etc.