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There must be something very wrong with these people

daretodiffer:
She is not abnormal because it is natural

Not talking in terms of it being natural or not.


She is trying though

dahaz:
I dont know why you choose to study nursing. you could have been better off as a guidance and counsellor

Lolz.
I'm sure whatever characteristic you noticed, that made you come to that conclusion would still come in handy with Nursing.

daretodiffer:
And calabar too

Exactly

daretodiffer:
Twins in Yorubaland?

Seriously?
Have you ever heard of ewa ibeji before?

I thought it was in some parts of Igbo land that twins were killed cos they saw them as bad omen then before Mary Slessor or so, worked on stopping the killing of twins in that region.

Yorubas revered them

Yomieluv:
[ if I were her hubby, I won't buy anything called pillow again..

This is what we called padded, eru-aiye, double silencer, full option, etc..

I envy her hubby, no need to buy milk at home, just Milo, or bournvita, better still Richoco.. Nature made milk..

Ha, I won't stop squeezing it..

Maybe If I were a guy I would find this attractive and worthy of envy. To me, she just looks abnormal.

Have I forgotten the definition of friendship?
This is just all shades of wrong.
He had accommodation issues, didn't have any male friend to go to but you even without prior notice.
You fight often for whatever reason, he sexually assaulted you and you are still calling this friendship and still crushing on him or probably want him?

You need help. Start by loving your self and put your mind on more profitable things.

IyfeNamikaze:
reading the comments by the "ladies" here, I got to understand something very cringing. 70% of nairaland ladies are naturally wicked.
jeez!!! anyone who tries to justify the woman's action in any way at all is the devil.
if you read the story and see the condition of the man and still thinks the man should be blamed for marrying a second wife then you are a devil... no mincing words here.

This is one of the reasons why I give 500 naira seed of faith on Sundays so that I don't end up with wicked souls like the ones here.

I'm sure if the woman was troublesome or he felt her capable of such wickedness, he wouldn't think of going to her for sex after marrying another woman. So him marrying another wife probably had nothing to do with her pre-2nd wife character. She must have pretended and laid in wait for him while he kid himself thinking he had everything under control.

There is no justification for this, she should have just divorced him if she couldn't cope with a polygamous family setting. Wish him quick recovery.

daretodiffer:
It cannot be refuted by the original MSSN group. This group should have been disbanded ande when they started. Their leaders should have been sent to imprison for this madness. I hope they are watching them because I won't put mass suicide past them. Thy need to be called what they are. They are terrorists! And they are gaining ground fast in our tertiary institutions.

What do you know about it?

There is supposedly extremism and boko haramism and prostitution going on the mosque which there is no evidence for, so let's close the mosque where the Muslim student body living in the halls of residence pray perfectly makes sense.

Let me ask what the extremism is, your evidence and all you know about this.


I pray at Awo mosque, I haven't come across any extremism unless you count sisters wearing niqab for whatever reason or from personal conviction extremism. Or probably the Quran, arabic and fiqh classes and Sunday MSSN programmes is what is terrorism and extremism.
There is certainly no prostitution or whatever BS mentioned in the article going on. Obviously the mosque has a partition between the male and female side. The DSA came in through the male side and knocked on the connecting door btw the two sides,and met some sisters staying in the mosque and asked for their ID cards, without any chance given to say anything or reason for that, then they brought up their sensationalized lies ridden article, four sisters in the female side became a dozen sisters locked in a room by some 'leaders'and prostitution allegations

This issues have been on ground for years. MC against MSSN and other stuffs we hear about.




Or I'm probably not getting your POV

Berbierklaus:
So you support extremism/Fanatism?

Breeding the likes of ISIS/BOKOHARAM when they should be cut off?

@bolded link

What evidence do you have for this? Other than this article which I read first hand myself and knew right away had no single truth in it.
People trying to defame others with the boko haram tag is nothing new. Some unknown set of people tried it with 2 brothers of mine, attaching the boko haram tag to them cos they know it's a sore spot for everyone.


How does not supporting the closure of the mosque equal to supporting extremism.

Alhamdulilah,the mosques weren't closed down.
I can see the enemies of Islam jubilating already, these sort of news is what they live for.

The article is full of lies and fabrications and has been well refuted by the MSSN.

You haven't been celibate cos you are a man and can sleep around but she should be celibate cos she is a woman abi. She is no longer a virgin pls kill yourself

The ass looks abnormal though .
Not my business, HML to them

Wow! This is very good

She is strong.

OMG!!!
What sort of animals did this wickedness for Goodness sake! A fellow human!

omoiseselagba:
WOMEN NATURALLY ARE MASTER MANIPULATORS.YOU SAID THEY ARE MARRIED AND THEIR CHILDREN ARE NOW GROWN UP.WHO NURTURED THEM FROM THE CRADLE TO ADULTHOOD?.......it is when the children are grown and very useful that the father wants to kill their mother.scam of all ages. the father can threaten the woman when he realizes OR feels that he has been sidelined.women tell lies alot and will never tell where they err.a good woman builds her home while a slutty and bitchy woman destroys her home.the children too are fools.they should reconcile their parents and restore the family.(only a fool follows the words of a woman)

So the children are dummies and don't know what is going on?

Yes, the woman must always be blamed. Let's blame the victim.
From experience most mothers try as much possible to even shield their children especially while they are young from the reality of hell they are going through but the child will always grow to know there is something very wrong.

A child that sees his or her mother being beaten up often doesn't need anyone to manipulate or lie to him about the situation of things and most times these abusers abuse their children as well.


The man is the fool for wrecking his own home and thinking his children will love him for it.

Iefosa:
Madam he is not your house help, not your slave.

Women can do like witch sha!

I nor fit dey under anybody for my life, NEVER!

But she is the maid and slave right?
If what she said was true then how does,
asking a grown sensible adult to wash his plate after downing the food you cooked mean slavery or asking him to fetch his own water to bath rather than take the water you fetched make him maid?

If he was living in the hostel he will not wash his plates or fetch his bath water abi.

Obynolee:
What will you be doing if this guy is not in your house?,leave those work you expect him to do undone or for your husband? Or pay people to do them?.will you be here complaining if this guy is your younger brother?. The unfortunate thing is that this guy is not here to state his own side of story. Woman face your chores and leave the boy alone. I blame the whole thing on poverty, do you think that it's the guy's wish to be staying in your house and be using your parlor as bedroom as an undergraduate?.

I just hate when people use this silly line, 'what if he was your brother'. If it was her brother she will know how to deal with him, without any 'gbeborun'who doesn't know how she is coping comes put to call her bad wife. A brother of my mum's came to live with us when I was younger so as to study, he didn't use 2 months before she sent him back to his mum when she couldn't cope with his crazy attitude.

But if it were her husband's brother everyone will expect her to cope with it.

When my younger bro did not smoke weed, how will he eat and leave the plate for me to wash or use a water he watched me fetching while heavily pregnant to bath, etc. But if it's someone from the husband's side even if they are in no way related, the maid of the house (aka wife) is expected to suck it up and clean after everyone before they call her wicked for standing up for herself.

Like one stranger my dad brought home then, that would come back after going wherever and be asking us ' didn't you guys eat in this house this afternoon '. So we had to be cooking afternoon and night food for him. The silly sense of entitlement, some people grow when they see an environment to breed.

This is weird. Was she tied down?

She shouldn't have waited till she had four children before leaving. Some women can take BS sha, he impregnated her sister yet she still kept staying with the stingy pauper. I hope that 10K is well-enforced.

Yeye man and still saying he is ready to take her back .

Happy married life to the couple.


But, I don't get, why so much venom whenever some people hear the word 'virgin' . Is there something I'm missing?

The guy is not wicked o, sebi the lady sold her brain for a cup of kunu.

The parents too have agreed to give their 19years old SSCE holder daughter out to a man she met barely two weeks on FB. I don't think those ones sef are normal.

Just advice her and let her live her life anyhow she wants, she'll bear the cross anyway.

doveda:
It is the wife, she is the only person that has a lot to lose na so she must act like a robot

Mttchew. I don't know why women gush so much about marrying a typical African man.
I'm certainly not seeing it in the rosy colours. I pray I get someone that thinks like a sane and considerate human.

doveda:
Don't mind them, instead of them to be ashamed that the women in their lives cannot pretend to get on with each other. They are here chatting shit. If you think your wife doesn't deserve to be respected, you better marry your own mother. You won't be the first to do that

Lolz. Abi o. Yeye.
It's immaturity, this OP for example will most likely not be able to keep a balance in his home. They are the ones that will be using their own hands to attract disorder in the home then start trying to pin the blame on the scape goat of the family, the wife.

doveda:
Bla bla bla

Do you know what my mum have done to make me what I am today? You think say na only you your mama dey sacrifice for? Also, because your mother had to sell pure mother and my mum doesn't, do not make your mother greater than mine. My mother is special to me just as yours is special to you. My siblings are the o my ones who can rule on that not YOU!

Therefore no one should come and expect me to laugh while his mother terrorises me on top say she sacrificed for her son. No woman in her right sense should disrespect her mother in law unless she is mad.
However if mother in law cannot respect herself and husband cannot handle his own mother, they should brace themselves for whatever comes to them. That aside, it would take a woman who doesnt respect her son to attack his wife. Such men should blame themselves rather than the women in their lives

The way some guys talk ehn, you would think na only them their mothers matter to or suffered for. The wives fell from heaven to come and be everyone's toy, they can treat anyhow . And yeah, you must be always cool headed and the perfect robot.

A normal wife would respect the MIL but making such stu. pid statements cos of what? If I were the guy's fiancee I would seriously reconsider my stand on the relationship.

This st.upid woman should just shut up already.

Lolz, so she is the hoe? They are all dogs and a bit. ch, what can I say, serves them right .

And they probably shared it to some other girls too and the cycle continues. The girl might actually not be the carrier though, but they've all shared it now.

They should better make sure it was only gonorrhea they contracted. hehehe

Back to OP. Your choice of words were too poor. Is she a disrespectful person and you think she would disrespect your mum? Don't understand why you would say that.
I would not be smiling if I was told such. So immature

Muafrika2:
I've seen some unfriendly mother in laws. An aunt of mine told her son to get rid of his wife for flimsy reasons and the fool did, despite the fact that they had a small kid.

According to psychologists, mothers feel like they are losing their sons when they get married. Many react by fighting the wife.

Daughter in laws can be evil too. But this one has taken one side so he'll never belive his wife's side of the story.

I agree. I lost an aunt couple of months ago, what she saw in her MIL hands, ehn.
She married while in school and was to be retained by a big company where she served, she convinced the son not to let her take the job that she can start cheating and become disrespectful cos of the good salary. She lost that chance.
They later told her to resign another job. She went into business and was doing well and trouble began again, saying the lady was using her son's head, that the man should marry another woman . She had to leave the marriage when she couldn't cope again with four children. Even after the lady's death, she still saw and talked about her like a rival.

Some MIL are like devils while some will treat the DIL just like their daughter.

That woman beside the groom in first pix though, looking like ojuju calabar


HML to. them

Mttcheew.