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I just hope they didn't deal with innocent people, but if they were truly the evil doers then they deserved what they got.

Nice write up OP. A case scenario is the mother of one that disgraced herself some days ago, if she had worn an elegant, well covering dress, her breasts will not be the talk of the World. Like it or not, the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed. I can't see a guy in crazy all torn up jean, sagging his life out and even identify with him, I will automatically see an un serious person.

You can't wear pant and bra out or a fish net or dress barely covering anything yet expect people to see you as a decent, respectable woman. You will see some people and wonder if they have parents at home. Let's not even talk about our yeyebrities who some porous brained teens and even adults take as role models.


Well, like they always say, it's their life and body and they have freedom to wear whatever. It's the heart that matters, I feel more comfortable with my boobs exposed and my gown short enough to expose my VJ if I bend, don't judge me, I might be better than the lady dressed modestly.

tomquest:
I met some former colleagues of mine whom I'd seen about 6 years ago. Believe me, while I was able to recognize all the guys, it was a Herculean task identifying all the ladies, most of whom I knew to be slim/trim/curvy and unmarried then. Almost all of these once-slim ladies are now looking big and fat and absolutely less plummy than they used to be.

Why is it hard for MANY married ladies to stay trim and sexy? Is marriage a "breakthrough from hunger" or what? And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights?

I've seen a lot of ladies in their 30s who are so lazy to even take a 20 minutes walk in a week, at least just to exercise and burn some fat. Let's not even mention going to the gym. They drive or board okada all their lives. And when they eat, you'd ve amazed at the amount of calories they consume!

Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother? Guys, do you like your wife looking like she's your mum?

First, not all women gain so much weight, trying to look around me, you all seem to be exaggerating. There are fit, slim married women around and there are robust ones who had been even before marriage. And let's not talk about men who gain weight after marriage. My parents for example, my dad was the one that gained weight while my mum still has
her portable build even after 6 kids. And it wasn't like she was doing any special exercises, she was just lucky to have a good genetic build as regards weight gain, her mothers had same build. She has the average day layout of a Nigerian woman. Wake up 4am, pray, cook and other chores, prepare the family for school and work, go to work, come back 5pm at least, chores, and prep dinner, etc, and the cycle continues.
These Factors can contribute:

- Diet: We generally have a poor diet in Nigeria, most of our traditional dishes are high calorie foods. How many homes do you see where they eat veggie and fruit salad as a real food. We all want our pounded yam, amala and all. How many families eat dinner before 6pm? People eat heavy meals late at night, how do they work that off?


- Pregnancy. Overflogged, some people are lucky not to gain so much weight though.Some people don't even look pregnant till they are in their late trimester, while some people would have ballooned up to 2 times their normal size and find it hard to shed off after child birth.

- Birth Control methods-Some birth control methods such as use of hormonals cause weight gain.

- Laziness and sedentary life style-Unless an house wife with a maid, that sits in front of TV every day eating, which an average Nigerian wife doesn't do, I really don't see much to this.


- Genetics: Some people are just genetically programmed to have a slim frame. I have friends that can eat mountains and they won't show any visible weight gain, while some people will even gain weight while suffering. It's genetics. My mum could lose her baby fat fairly well and still look moderate after several preggies, while a friend of mine is still battling with the weight she gained while pregnant even after a year, diet, exercise and all. She looked so jealous when I told her I wanted to gain weight instead.


- Stress-When one is stressed there is more likelihood to eat junks rather than healthy meals

- Overeating - Some people just like eating a lot without any care about how to work it off.






Let me just stop here, I haven't been to other Countries so can't say if it's only Nigerian women that are obese like you people always try to paint it.


And men with beautiful, prim wives still cheat, a man that will cheat will, even with a lady that can't stand beside his wife. We could as well try and justify a wife cheating cos her husband got broke, can't we?

Both parties should help themselves to keep fit.

Doesn't mean you shouldn't keep them covered. Are they for your husband and children or the whole World

How lovely she would have looked well covered.

SamMilla1:
You are probably an evil woman.
Take that from me.
All those bunch of lies you told against this girl just to paint her black, would you say the same things if she was your sister?

I can easily tell that you are angry because she came from the husbands side. It's common with all evil women.

Change your ways when you still can, otherwise you will pour hot water or acid on her someday and end up in Prison.

She broke Plasma TV,
She broke Toilet WC, really? That hard thing? How did she do that? With a sledgehammer or what?

What else did she do?
The evil girl broke her shoes,
She Tore her school uniform,
She Bed-wets, fights, never do anything such as assignment?

She goes into her room, picks out her best clothes, which of course you paid billions to buy, she wears the best cloths and runs out to play with it in the mud. An 11 year old girl, whose tiny breasts must have started sprouting out, playing in the mud, with her best cloth?
Please in which country is that? Somalia or south Sudan? Gawd.
How old were those chibok girls writing WAEC when they were allegedly kidnapped? But your evil girl here still plays in the mud at 11.

Why don't you just tell us you want her gone so you can bring your own sister? Apparently you have a ready replacement, even before your husband beat you to it and brought her to his house.

I am way too intelligent to believe all the rubbish you said about this innocent girl.
Even Lucipher will find it very difficult to win a destruction contest with this 11 year old girl.

On top of that, her father comes for monthly salary in your World Bank home.
Of course with other incentives such as groceries etc.
Where is the mother in all this?
How many times have you reported her to the mother or even to the Reverend Father or Pastor? I believe that's what you people do down there when you really want to help.

Do you really expect me to believe you?
No mention of one good thing from the girl, not even to fetch water or cook anything?
Apparently according to you, her life assignment is to destroy everything in your home, nothing else.


Your heart is black because I don't see why you were hesistant when your husband wanted to bring her. Do you know their family history?
Who trained your husband? What exactly are you bringing to the table?


You first of all painted the father of the girl with black paints as if you know anything about him.
Evil thing.

And all you people shouting send her home, do you really think this evil thing is telling you all the story?
Do you not believe that if this is a law court, the girl will have her chance to say her own version.
She never wanted her in the first place and she admitted it up there. She just wanted her own relatives to fill the house. It's common with evil women.

I'm not saying the OP might not be exaggerating but you are totally unfair. If you know how hard it is to train a difficult child you won't be saying this. It's hard enough when it's your child but even harder when it's someone elses because people will term every action you take.

I say this out of experience, one of my cousins once lived with us, and even though I was younger then, I pitied my mom, she was always behaving like she is possessed. She would use blade to cut her sandal and my sister's, we had a rail in front of our rented house then, she will knowingly go there and hang her head between the rails, throw the key of the house away, and all sorts of weird behaviour, all our neighbours knew her then.

This girl has living, healthy parents, why should she be a burden to others?

What sort of nonsense is that?

Dyt:
For all the years the little has learnt to live
She has been that way
OK
I am not in support of all you wrote that she does
But what if she happens to be your daughter?
Will you sit and watch her bedwet?
Watch her doing all the things she does?
Have you showed her with love and care?

Ok sorry I am not giving you what you wanna read
Bye

Her child is her responsibility not someone else child, especially not when the parents are alive, hale and healthy and gallivanting around, producing more children, if what OP said is true. The girl should be with her parents not another person's headache. I hate it when people try to shelf their responsibilities on others, that's what some people do, keep producing children they can't cater for and scatter them round with relatives.

Barakallahu fihi.

But, I think I saw this pix 2 years ago

Adonbelievit

Speechless. Quick recovery baby boy.

Fayose, their rose model. How are the Ponmo sellers?

Some people just don't know what fits them. How lovely she would have looked well covered. Anyway, she is flaunting what she's got like others . Shame

LeFreakSoChic:
Good to know my vote counted. Congratulations LANICKY. Ugly or not, you are 50,000naira richer. Keep being yourself dear. The sky is your starting point.I for sick I that fake ass had won. LMAO. I should be a prophetess. She was trying too hard. You shoulda just let nature take its course. Better luck next time girl. So many aggrieved newts everywhere. 30,000 naira ain't no change these days. Let her make do with it. LWKMD!!! To the oafs complaining that she used her friends. If na by that, the Obalende hood rat would have emerged the winner. They were everywhere like germs. TF?! I'll be glad to sponsor therapy for her and her minions.

Mttcheww! Well done:/

Stupedinluv:
Look who is talking of logical discussion. You voted someone with absolutely nothing to offer apart from pretension? you are a in a state of delirium.

Gbongaun, pretension?

My enemies have dead

gossipfreak:
Just SHUT UP!

Are you saying that she won because of a voice note that wasn't available for download to at about 3:30pm yesterday? Even going by the nonsense you just typed, she wasn't the most insulted, mimzy was. So STFU and stop spewing thrash! The girl doesn't deserve it and she is UGlee!

Abirun. So you sef sabi ugly person. From the way she drags others down, one would think she is one beauty queen. Yeye

Indeed it was. I just hate bullies with passion. I wish them a thousand terrrible deformities and pain. Bunch of sick sadists.


Lanicky, you are a really strong-willed lady, and I admire that so much. Beautiful and unique in all your ways. Enjoy your victory, let them cry to high heavens.

dahaz:
You could have been the queen if you have contested

LMAO. Daha.z, don't flatter me. Who knows me in Africa?

How're you doing, bro?

Congratulations Lanicky, all other Queens, Mimzy, Ivyy (never knew I was always spelling this wrong), refiner, mysticgal, Optional1, diasyluv and every other contestant. You all did great

Aminat508:
Thanks @ HaneefahRN Ramadan Mubarak!!

You are welcome sis.




Same to you.

I vote Lanicky

cc: NLjega

Wicked woman and I can imagine how her cries will be the loudest. And even selling the man's car and sharing the money? Oga o. They must face the music. But that guy with dead man's cloth doesn't have sense sha, God wanted to them caught ni

This got me in tears. Why are people so wicked? What did this poor baby ever do to deserve this. O God!

misreal:
An isis memeber in the making.

An innocent baby? That was a very sick joke. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Beauty with brains. Keep soaring

Lovely women

Lanicky is very pretty, all her pics I can see no make up not even earrings (yet still looking good), nice physique and a cool dress sense. All these haters sha. Plus her campaign team are doing a good job. All the Contestants are beautiful.

vhictour:
Read the topic well u"ll understand.

@topic... Good for him... little did she know that she would work for a baby whose delivery she conducted....

Life....

Lasbrey95:
Personally, i think people are products of their actions. So,there you have it, the product of her action has turned her provider.

vhictour:
Read the topic well u"ll understand.

@topic... Good for him... little did she know that she would work for a baby whose delivery she conducted....

Life....

The topic is misleading. She doesn't work under him or in his hospital. They are colleagues (probably a government job).

It's wonderful. I wonder how they both knew. This life sha.

Gflat:
I prefer mimzy to win than that ugly thing Lanicky

The ugly thing you can create? I wish something terrible can happen to you, that will make you so deformed you will appreciate beauty when you see it.

hopeforcharles:
" I vote lånicky

Add
cc NLjega for your vote to count.

I vote:
Ivvy
Lanicky
Mimzy
Mysticgal
Optional1


cc : NLjega

Sango of Africa. You are sighted.

Thank God. May God bless you.
That crazy witch has been shamed