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Wow! People can cry o. All these on top online contest

Lolz, interesting

My own question is why do serial cheats marry? You can not keep ur dick in one place yet you marry, I don't understand o. It's all about wanting to eat their cakes and have it. And they are the kind that will almost die if another man so much as look at their wives twice not to talk of her cheating with respect too .Talk about killing with sword but can't stand blade pass in front of their face. Smh, women have suffered. And they'll complain about women marrying just for money.

No. I can't.
I would prefer someone that seems like me.

Wonderful women. These are role models

Plastic surgery .

The weird thing is those 'precious'sons they seek usually end up miscreants they wish they never had. Reminds me of a great uncle who abandoned his first family on top male child, the child that later grew up and chase him with cutlass. His house collapsed, if not for the girls he abandoned he would have been homeless

Thank God her daughters are doing well and matured, they should just take their mother in, uplift her spirit, take good care of her, give her access to quality health care, and let him live his life how he wish, he'll come crawling back.

awesome11:
It says a lot about the kind of being the lady is. Undoubtedly, she chose her supposedly best friends and assumedly made the choice of who to marry. One attracts what he/she deserves..

My advice: She should take a break and think through how she has found this kind of people as her destiny influencers.. The result of that search process will be crucial to her life..
How've you been?

You totally made sense.

I'm good, you?

megawax8:
The act is very stupid, shameless and unforgivable. But sometimes, we have to live with somethings not cause we love them but perhaps for a greater cause.

At the end, it's always down to us to decide what we want so she should take time to think it through even if she has to do it while in her father's house.

Yes it's her choice.
But I wonder why serial cheats marry. Why not remain single and Bleep around as you wish. People talk like women are robots with no feelings, I can bet it most men can't cope with such betrayal, but she is expected to suck it up and deal with the pain. And there is no assurance the man will ever change. If she doesn't detach her self emotionally from him, she will keep living a miserable life forming 'Mrs'.

viktohmarkz:
My brother shut it, if she's paid won't she spend the money on herself,would she use it to call police for her village people?

he is responsible for how she dress biko,if she's that way and he is properly dressed it show that he shows no attention to someone taking care of his children.

later if she thief to buy things em go still carry am come IG with words like this "I can't believe humans are wicked, a girl I feed and take care of stole my 3,000dollars"
I rest my case

Am I looking at same pix with everyone? Seems people are just making a mountain out of a mole hill. The girl I saw there is not badly dressed, if she use her pashmina the smart way, she'll look even better and her dress is nice the only odd thing is her slippers which we can't say it's worth or why she wore it. And she looks well fed and they even allow her take a picture with them and uploaded it. I don't know why everyone is talking like the girl is in rags. The couple sef didn't dress in any special way

megawax8:
You know the problem I have with harsh decisions? You never know for sure which is right.

You might say she should dump the marriage...... Could be a good thing but then, this is marriage not a relationship. It is never rosy. Its a good thing she caught him but i don't think first times are just enough to back out, perhaps a second.

She doesn't care to know what makes him do what he does? There definitely is a reason and if its her, chances are her next husband would cheat too. Also, couples are meant to support themselves not 'abort mission' at the slightest opportunity and to think that she has a child for him already, i don't want to go into the effect it could have on the unborn child and not talking about if she has the resources to raise a child.

If it has to get to a divorce, fine but remember, there's no ready made perfect husband for anybody out there.

*I rather I know he cheats than don't know he does while he cheats*....... All i'm saying is she should seek the advice of professionals or maybe older ones before taking radical decisions even if she eventually has to.

Someone sleeping wt two shameless close friends of hers!
? It's those kind of men that sleep with their wife's sister if she is shameless enough. I don't know about anyone else, I can never forgive such, the mere sight of him will continuosly irritate me.


She should sha not forget to send the chat to the one preparing for wedding 'sfiance, so he'll know the kind of woman he is planning to marry

omolola15:
She's pregnant. Read the comments. Just that the op didn't include it in the first post.

O ga o. Still doesn't matter though. But if she can cope with a dirty cheat, all the best. Don't want to hear stories like woman stabs husband to death later o

ednut1:
because d wife self go be olosho or ex olosho na. Abi wetin u feel

I dey feel u jare. Cos I don't understand o

megawax8:
People be harsh sha.

It was bad enough that he was cheating, it now had to be with a friend. Sorry, two friends....... Smh

I think you need to see a counselor. Don't rush into making harsh decisions for now.

Perhaps, confront him and let his parents know about it.

I am no professional though, just an opinion.

Personally I think she needs the harsh decisions now. It's still early before she carry belle and gets tied down. The man is obviously a dog in human clothing before he graduates to her sisters. Unless she can cope with a shameless cheat sha.

I can't even see any marriage here. 3months into the wedding and he is cheating wt two of her friends? Useless husband and friends. She better go for HIV test and other venereal diseases, she might have caught something.

How can just one person have 2 Oloshos as friend? People are wicked sha

All these witches sef. Useless people, wickedness personified, can she treat her child this way?

Am I the only one that can't see any big deal here?The girl is relatively dressed well apart from the slippers which by the looks should be at least N400. It's not like the family dressed so gorgeously too sef and they even included her in the picture which they uploaded and the girl is looking ok .I don't know sha

Beautiful

Cbeatz:
shez been slapped for being dumb seriously......gals need to chill ....watz bad in offering a person a ride even if na babe ........if i was ur bf and i offered my coursemate a ride and i told u am dropping her along our route....is there any reason to start being irritating#guys are human too#cant blame God for superior powers

I maintain my stand. Will he die if he didn't slap her and drops her off in the middle of the street instead? To proof macho or what?

I really see no justification for the slaps. I don't know why everyone seems to be supporting it. Yes, she is stupid, but being slapped twice, for what?

I'm sure he knows she is uncultured, he worst he could have done is to tell her to get down if she is not willing to behave.

Beautiful woman

eitsei:
I think God really loves him that's why something pushed him to check through his wife's phone, if not how would he know about all these? If the OP hadn't gone through her phone maybe something worse would have happened to him

Don't mind the people saying he shouldn't have gone through her phone. Thank God he realized he is living with a snake. Only he would be putting himself at more risk if he keeps this a secret, who knows what other plans they have for him. and now that she knows he knows, he is even in more danger.

The story gave me shivers.

@Devguru. Thanks for the update. Did you find out why she did such? And I still think you should tell your dad at least and her own parents ASAP. Your wife seems someone easily influenced, let them talk sense to her and her parents should be able to warn their daughters off

Am I the only one that can't read any meaning to this post? No head and tail

The first pix, the guy looks strained. Anyway HML in advance, na you know wetin you see in yourselves.

You all should ignore, infogenius or whatever. He is not normal

This is serious o. What sort of siblings are those? And why would a woman that had been supportive try to soil her husband's reputation, seems the plan is even deeper than what the OP heard. The siblings are obviously trying to destroy her home.This is just crazy.
I think I support the family meeting stand, make sure you have your evidence at hand. Play the recordings for them and see how things play out. Such a thing shouldn't be kept secret.
You have every reason to be mad, I am even mad on your behalf sef. But cool down to make whatever decisions you make, and please don't keep this secret, let your family be involved

infogenius:
I see that you are shallow minded. Possibly having the fish brain and fishy way of thinking.

You call me a saddist and buffoon for stating a deep fact.

Listen to me, any woman that open her legs for any man besides her husband has disrespected and abused her marriage.

You don't go about opening your legs for fools and I watch the scene for about 10 minutes and you want me to say well done and praise your heroics.

I think you need to wake up and reset your brain.
For God's sake, how many real men have you heard of patted the backs of their wives for sleeping around without their consent to save his ailing health or to meet the immediate need of the family?
Tell me one real man.

If your man can pat your back for doing so, tell him I said he is a weakling and a buffoon

You think a man marries a wife for decoration?

A Man boosts his value through his wife and if for any reason outside an agreement of the husband a woman gives out the cherished pot of honey,that value is eroded.

If a woman is raped off the presence of the man, then he does his best to rally around and support her. Which I support.

You don't need to call me names for telling you what you don't know or for stating my opinion. I don't need to please anyone which includes you with my comment on a sensitive issue like this.

What transpired that night may go a long way to affect their generation.

Maybe you think it is a joke.

Many marriages have struggled today because many women in particular do not know the place and value of their husband's in the family and vice versa.

People mess up anyhow thinking that is all to life and they can be forgiven if they are eventually found out. That is why marriages are breaking up anyhow today like glass cups.

Simply because the woman or the man does not understand or have the necessary depth of understanding of the value and their roles in marriage.

My dear you still have a long way to go. Open your brain and learn beyond what you see and hear about marriage because they are not deep enough to take you far.

Don't worry I'm sure your wife will even take the gun herself and blow your brains out . I'm sure you are the type of person that thinks every problem in marriage is caused by a woman. And people who will tell people that were raped to shut up cos they enjoyed it. Sick
See him talking like the woman planned to be raped or was happy about it. I've read about about these kind of occurrences and the woman usually suffers continuously for it at the end of the day. I wonder why women are still taking the risk and being sacrificial sef. Doesn't mean they won't still rape her even after killing the husband.
The husband never stood up for her! And now it's her fault.


And you are beyond fish brained, you are just pathetic, feels like I'm replying a psycho.

eitsei:
really ? Can you wear see-through dress to mosque since it's only heart that matters? I guess your answer will be No, so my dear it's not only by heart but also by appearance

Lolz, I was being sarcastic. That is what they say nau, only the heart matters, do not judge, he who is without sin cast the first stone. Since she is a child that doesn't know what modesty means, she can wear bum short and crop top sef. Funny people

It is the heart that matters, who are you to judge? If she likes she should wear pant and bra sef, only the heart matters

LMAO. First to do no dey pain nau. But 20 rats and a bucket of cockroaches! Haba, just one rat sef can freak one out, talk more 20, with roaches also doing their own, locked with one in a room.
If she really loves you and sees you are truly sorry and I think you should go through her mom, don't worry she'll come around. If she doesn't, move on.

infogenius:
I am back to talk objectively on the main scene in this post.

Quite frankly the op made a mistake. She made it for love as stated in the post.
Did your husband ask you to open your legs for touts? You willingly allowed those riff raffs have their way without ur husband's consent.

Not every man at that scene will understand the sacrifice you made because there was no mutual agreement between you two on what happened. You decided too.

The job of your husband amongst other things is to protect his family. He never gave you that mandate even at the cost of his life. How dare you open your legs without your husband's telling you to?

What makes you think that your husband is not even thinking that you just wanted to have fun?

The husband is mandated to protect his family which includes making the right decisions even at the cost of his life to achieve this.

There was a similar incidence in my area in Festac when I was growing up. According to the report, the woman was even moaning to the jerks of the touts.

That event ended her 6 yrs old marriage as her relationship with her husband broke until they finally divorced.

I will not open my eyes and watch touts ride my wife without telling her to do so. I will rather die.

I have an obligation to protect my wife even at the cost of life.

I am not perturbed by what anyone says about the man been unfair after the wife was raped because of him.

The man had the Final say even at gun point and since the woman gave in ignorantly, she has a lot job to do to win her man back

You are not normal. And I pity any woman that ends up with you .

She should have asked him, please can they rape me? He will then say 'yes', allow them.

He should have even taken the gun from them and shoot himself if he felt so strongly about it.