₦airaland Forum

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.

While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.

To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.

I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

Who has a real problem. Should post it abeg. Not all these attention seeking on the name of problem

Ibemi:
Someone said green snake doesn't bite. I don't know how true it is

Yes, it doesn't bite. It's kills

peekspot:
https://punchng.com/vessel-with-566-containers-berths-at-onne-port/

Picture or I don't believe

anamo:
Who else notice that the japa noise has reduced these days? Or people no longer japa again ? Before, anywhere you go on social media you’ll see things like “I don’t get these things, I just talk to a man who sold his 5 duplexes and 500 cars and 6 businesses in Nigeria to relocate to UK permanently “ “new dispensation”

Is it that people no longer japa ir they’re hiding it now?

U think everything revolves here in nairaland. Go embassies u go still shock

StormpyBee:
Na spiritualist no be herbalist she be.

Please correct them abeg... Many nigerians get it twisted. Herbalist is a doctor that treats illnesses with beens and roots.

But when most people hear herbalist, they just think fetish , they feel it's a witch or spiritualist

I bet she will still be the one complaining when she finally gets a rich cheating partner

Wetin be 30%

I guess people wey dey wrote all this news no dey go market...
Price of most consumables dey increase by N100 or N50 every week

Na the innocent new wife I pity. Chai...

The music no let me hear the raking agian

I thought she is a police officer. She no dey go work again? 🤷

Emyogalanya:
But this my friend is contrary to what took place on pentecost day. Where the disciples spoke the different language of the people gathered. How comes this day all of them are limited to english thats not even the language of the church/Bible. and same people cannot speak african languages well

The disciples spoke in tongues (in languages other than theirs) on Pentecost . It is different from giving someone the gift of eloquence in a language, boldness or courage

nedu666:
I did not know God was a English teacher. What of maths?

I don't know if odumeje is saying the truth, but such situations are possible. If you don't believe in God, why not just let it pass.

It happened when God chose Moses to go against pharoah, likewise many of the disciples Peter, James , John etc when Christ resurrected and gave them the great commission. Majority of them were not formally educated

Sant Paul exploits was obviously different beyond the other apostles because he was highly educated(modern day doctorate ) before he was converted.

So it is possible and the perfection may take a process as well. Am not vouching for indaboski o but just say that such is possibly in Christianity

ufotunang:
..how illegal. .. what about churches that the church members put money in offering box for offering....to you it's not illegal abi

Oil dey your head...

With this pattern Dem don hold efcc for blockos.

bjcole:
Let Efcc go and rest conductors and market women, they are the ones defacing our naira notes

Dem no go try am go there . Those locations bare the home of mutilation and they can't try arrest reach there, unless they won arrest entire market

MuslimIgbo:
Still illegal

how?

Been having this slight vertigo feeling over me for a week now that comes with some nausea and makes.me.vomit sometimes ... When it started a friend suggested I go for malaria test which I did( though my previous malaria outbreaks don't come with such symptoms). Off cause they saw streaks of malaria and I was on medication.

All it's ok but I still get that vertigo feeling and creates certain imbalance when I walk. Google search I did is linking it to ear labyrinth... But I have no pain or hearing difficulty whatsoever just the slight dizziness/ vertigo

Who has experienced this before?...

meedoLock:
Happy weekend frnd
So, you are to holistically consider your mental state and imagine all the physical and mental stress having kids would make you go through. Most especially, women of this world.

I'm also expecting a first child, and I do feel for our mothers/women, they in most cases go through this children rough play torture alone, while men goes to the street of course to fend for their families.

How does these relate to having plenty kids🤷🤷

GanagiBitrus:
Over 50% of Nigerians abuse the Naira in one way or the other.
Difficult for EFCC to prosecute them, except the offender is a celebrity.

50% is and understatement. 98% including you and I . Even police collecting and squeezing it into their pock is part of mutilation... How Dem won do that one

CodeTemplar:
That's why after 6-8 months, the notes are looking like madman's dreadlocks.

Others will put in pocket and sweat will touch it. Some will put in bra to conceal it. Some will squeeze it as gesture of secrecy when handing it to police/army officers at roadside or as bribe, Others write on it. Some will tear part of it for spiritual purpose.

Nigerians are not fit for independence.

How will efcc prosecute offenders of the bolded part(which I believes robs everyone), because they also fall within the cbn naira mutilation act

SoNature:
The EFCC wants to make a strong statement with these strings of arrests. Who knows? Maybe this will successfully end the era of spraying money at parties and events. It's high time we stopped destroying the naira. NOA should also take this message to markets.

It will not end, the spraying this time will be done from hand to hand. When the sprayer sprays the sprayee, the sprayee will be collecting it by hand and hand it over to the person packing it. It won't touch ground

U never know Nigerians, efcc go tire cos they can't tag that one naira mutilation


Come to think of it... The cbn naira mutilation act goes beyond spraying and trampling. Squeezing, writing on it, staining with food etc are part of the act. If they really want to follow it to the later, every Nigerian will be arrested.

I have soda it before, after 4 to 5 prosecutions pleading not guilty like chief priest. Efcc will play down on the arrest.

Dem dey put seasoning for fried egg?. I find it difficult to eat fried egg when knorr or Maggi is added

DuBLINGreenb:
GWR is no longer what it used to be but all the SA congrats bro well done.

What did it use to be? Records are meant to be broken bro!

Use the right word APPRENTICESHIP

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Why is it difficult not find this quality in a woman

1. VIRGIN...
2. Nothin more

Lawless country

What if she gathered all those things for the sake of this video, or she uses someone's room to do this video to get attention


Don't believe everything you see online

God forbid, See as lawyers dey confuse themselves. I wonder whether they teach different laws in different schools .

Omoluabi16:
He should sit down and reflect. He might even have another wealthy enemy that wants to settle scores. Nothing to gloat about. If government reason you, your money won't save you oh.

Ask Chief MKO Abiola.

Perhaps he has a reason or intentions for pleading not guilty.

You forget There a level the government will push this to it will affect almost every one including the minister of finance and many other senators who have been found wanting in this crime.

Believe me after 4 or 5 prosecutions pleading not guilty, efcc will slow down on all these

uuzba:
They that are not broke, why don't they use the group chat avenue to help the broke people?

They use o. My secondary school alumni group raised up to 5ook during the burial of someone. The family was surprised

Alumni groups in my opinion are ok. Some rich class mates must surely show themselves to intimidate but you just have to ignore them. Do that little you can.

During free will donation, make the contribution you can, attend occasions you can. The intimidation can sometimes drive you crazy sha o especially bit you were academically bright back then... bit just do what you know you can and relax

VinnyBaba:
In my Secondary School and University WhatsApp groups,
I hardly Comment or make contributions.

I see them online talking about social media trends, Our School days, Visitations,etc and I always Wonder 'Do these Pple have Jobs and ambitions?'.

I talked to a Friend of mine About this and he said 'I am Anti-Social or an Introvert'.

But Really, I see those Alumni WhatsApp Groups as an Organization of Time Wasters.

HOW ABOUT YOU?
Comment.

It's because you are a broke guy just like me.
We broke people always see it as a waste of time😊😊😊

If the bird has responded with something like: " bross, you say Wetin?" he would have been the one running by now.

He for no sleep house this night

You want to eat your cake and have it abi. Agbaya!

If I may ask, what do you even need her respect for, will it increase your salary? U don Bleep finish pursue her yet you dey find respect. Oga manager relax. Provided she does her job well, whether or not she respects you is inconsequential