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Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 9:01pm On Jul 05, 2021
larryjonze:
Are you just trying to be dumb or just simply blind, which? who needs a bible, there are about 195 countries in the world how many women done rule or are presently ruling.

if masculine doesnt make a better leadership why did ur mom had to move in to a man's house.

if masculine won't guarantee a better lead why do we have more male VCs in territary institution all over the world, so much for westernization

I know masculine make better leaders cos 90% freedom fighters/activist in the world are men,emancipation begat "lead" you reminded me of that faze song originality, we own it, just know ur history woman.
Is linda ikeji blog doing better than seun nairaland, check there stats whu dey lead grin

Dem don arrest Nnamdi kanu whats mrs kanu waiting for grin grin talk is cheap stop mistaken ur small boobs for balls.
See online scammer trying to teach me about leadership. grin
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 10:20am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
You wont be able to court a ton of women to understand female nature(cat-like), so It’s useless arguing nature with anyone, it just seems delusional to me
Women are better leaders and invent all we use. Women are superior leaders grin
You can be the head and your husband take the neck; it’d turn out great grin
Do have a lovely day
Do you know what is delusional? To argue that gender determines how qualified someone is to be a leader and then to use the Bible to assert that God wants men to be the leaders when a majority of the population walking this earth is not even Christian. See male logic. grin

The women I know would definitely make better leaders than you do who can't think for himself. wink
Family › Re: Can Postinor 2 Delay Your Period From Coming by Hathor5(f): 10:16am On Jul 05, 2021
Brawlscartel:
She took first before her ovulation and the other 5days After her ovulation......

She is still getting her normal sign of period but it's not coming
Nobody can give you certainty but a pregnancy test.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 9:51am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
This debate started with who should lead
Get a dictionary or search google
Type masculine traits & feminine traits
Those women you mentioned have concentrations of masculine traits;
The debate started with who should lead
Both genders have concentrations of masculine & feminine traits, there’s a spectrum from low to high.
Like I said by design men tend to gear towards the higher percent of those traits
A woman seeking power is masculine
Very masculine.
Guys will always pick a feminine woman
And what makes you think that masculine traits make better leaders? Your Bible? grin

You have the tendency to think in black and white categories. It does not make you appear intelligent and educated. It makes you look like a simpleton. Sorry.
Family › Re: Can Postinor 2 Delay Your Period From Coming by Hathor5(f): 9:49am On Jul 05, 2021
If she took the drug after ovulation, it won't work, she might be pregnant.

But postinor can also delay the period as it delays ovulation.

I would do a pregnancy test if I were her. She should also go and see a doctor for a check-up.

Like people before me said, the drug is an emergency drug. Why do you people toy with your health by taking it twice a week?

Condoms are cheap by the way.

Good luck!
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 9:35am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
Lol seems you don’t know it’s stated in the Bible that this world is of the devils grin
It is filled with wisdom my friend
And once again you prove that you can not reason for yourself beyond the Bible.

You need to learn to distinguish between facts and beliefs, between subjective opinions and objective truth.

Like I said your opinion is an opinion and it is based on belief, bias, emotion and selfishness.

And for your information, there have been and are millions of women who have used their logic to achieve what you can only dream of.

I am sorry if the women in your environment are driven by hormones and lack logic.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 9:26am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
Based on reality; every race has its strengths & weaknesses from a general stand point

If you want to move with the blue & green eyed demons feel free grin
It's not about strengths and weaknesses. It's rather about your line of argument that God chooses who leads and God has not chosen your race.

I love it when the logical gender uses the Bible to appear logical. grin
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 9:07am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
To your question
It’s because most women love their babies more than themselves

I never said I am superior
I only said God or biology by design picked men to lead.


For example; if burglars get into your house are you telling me you would be in front leading the family or you’d let your husband do that while you protect the kids ?
Ok o lead
Not the black man then, right? grin
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 8:49am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
Prior to social media, ma’am there are treaties first world countries force developing nations to sign for their benefit. Only a few greedy sellout rulers benefit from.
First world countries are benefitting from our predicament.

Visa, Education, Tourism etc

If we are to add race to this.
You don’t know whites are powerful; even buhari is afraid of them
Ever heard of economic hitmen ?

Europeans suppressed & murdered native Indian Americans, native Canadians,
They sit on top of the global food chain
They actually take out rulers who don’t comply with technology

Men decide where power resides, whether or not they know it
Men have civilized the world over there to the point where they decided to make her the first figure head.
Oh well this isn’t a debate.
So the white men was more logical than you to gain so much power? Is it why you need to tell yourself that you are better than a woman?

Instead of using your superior logic you are here playing the victim.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 8:23am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
No disrespect ma’am but many women can’t handle power because of their biological makeup(monthly flow, emotional instability etc).

Even the Bible says it’s better for a man in financial troubles to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious & angry woman. God said the man is the head. Our brains & wiring are of different make.
If you give some women an inch they’d take a mile.

Let me give you a tangible example because I’ve studied female nature while dating.
Virtually every woman on earth prefers to date a man that brings chaos/drama(excitement) into her life instead of a man that brings peace/stability(boring).
Women can’t live without drama or maybe I’d state over 95% lol.

Anger isn’t a disciplinary trait; that’s an emotion.

Well most men build houses, roads, infrastructure, work dangerous jobs to keep the economy going & operate on a fact based reality early in life compared to most women.
Men are the disposable gender so you won’t understand things from a guys angle.

If most men are handling it bad, I guarantee a ton of women will handle it worse.
What a man can do a woman can do better is one of the societal lies put out there.
Nigeria is simply down because of a few factors. We have warlords that want to keep the power baton amongst themselves and a powerful way to do that is by keeping the natives in penury.
Our leaders copied all the white man has done in ancient times to conquered territories.
Military men think a certain way
All is fair in love & war; we are at war with our own.

In conclusion I’m not saying all women but most, over 90%.
I might exclude the women in STEM disciplines
Zero facts. All recycled stuff based on emotions and self-interest.

If our monthly flow makes us so much out of control why do you leave children in our care?

And you call yourself the logical gender. grin



Now go and study the achievements of Buhari and Merkel. grin
Family › Re: Nigerian Parents And Oversized Cloths | My Own Story by Hathor5(f): 8:01am On Jul 05, 2021
hbemigho:
You mean I should send you my akant number make you send your laughing token?

I promise you, na suya and yogurt I go use am buy. No be my fault say the country be like this na
grin
Family › Re: Nigerian Parents And Oversized Cloths | My Own Story by Hathor5(f): 7:59am On Jul 05, 2021
gfon:
Omo i dey always shed tears wen mumsi go buy suits(coats) for us,coats looking like agbada with enough foam for shoulder.I dey always see am like parachute.For the shoes area,abeg no go there,i no wan start to cry this monday morning.
gringrin
Family › Re: Would You Allowed Your Spouse To Do This? (photo) by Hathor5(f): 7:56am On Jul 05, 2021
Is it for me to allow or not or do my adult children have a say in this too? Rhetorical question.
Family › Re: Please "Go And Marry" Is It An Advice Or Insult? by Hathor5(f): 7:53am On Jul 05, 2021
FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?
Unsolicited advice is alway annoying.

And just because you feel that someone's lifestyle is not age appropriate, it is not for you to tell them what to do with their life.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 7:48am On Jul 05, 2021
cococandy:
More food.
What kind of meat is it? It looks delicious.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f):
yinkeys:
@Mecka
This is blatant lie from the devil. Women tend to move around with their emotions compared to fact/logical based men. A 2 parent household is the best for any healthy child. Not saying single parent home kids don’t turn out great; it’s just like saying smokers are liable to die young but not all smokers die young.
To mother is to nurture
To father is to instill survival skills, discipline, rumble & tumble. A lot of Black American kids didn’t grow up with their fathers at home. Go see how it has destroyed families particularly children without discipline there.
The Black American community and family has been destroyed by the country's unfair treatment, racism, discrimination and as a result poverty and drug abuse in the first place.

In my family our mothers and grandmothers instilled much more disciplined in us than our fathers/grandfathers. My father and grandfather were much softer with us kids than the women, especially with us girls. Saying that all fathers do A while mothers do B is an overgeneralization. It doesn't work like this in real life.

In my own family I am the stricter disciplinarian. You can soften daddy's heart with your sweet face and voice but when mommy is angry you can only ask God for mercy. grin

And if you think that women are less capable of operating on logic then compare how well they run countries and companies and compare it to Nigeria that has never had a female leader. Cheers!
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 7:36am On Jul 05, 2021
yinkeys:
Single Fathers tend to raise their daughters better than single mothers. That’s actually true but I won’t bring out the facts.

If you want parenting & dating advice from an expert. Check out Suzanne Venker on YouTube.
There’s actually many reasons why people don’t even take American women serious at all. Guys mostly use them as community bicycle & there are huge reasons why the American families tend to be broken these days
I am very much interested in the facts so please bring them out.
Crime › Re: NDLEA Nabs Nigerian Mum-of-3 With 100 Wraps Of Cocaine In Her Private Part, Bag by Hathor5(f): 7:35am On Jul 05, 2021
Reference:
Protect her kids from what exactly. They haven't committed any crime. Or am I missing something here.
Why is it so difficult for you people to understand that the family carries the shame when you publish her name and face? You think the kids are not affected when their mother is publicly shamed?
Crime › Re: NDLEA Nabs Nigerian Mum-of-3 With 100 Wraps Of Cocaine In Her Private Part, Bag by Hathor5(f): 7:33am On Jul 05, 2021
DuwaRepublic:
Why do these people keep wanting criminals to be protectedhuh Denounce her actions first
She has got a family. They need to be protected. Let her face the law and leave her family out of it. Simple.
Crime › Re: NDLEA Nabs Nigerian Mum-of-3 With 100 Wraps Of Cocaine In Her Private Part, Bag by Hathor5(f):
Very sad. cry

But her name and picture should have never been published. If only to protect her kids.
Family › Re: Nigerian Parents And Oversized Cloths | My Own Story by Hathor5(f): 9:24pm On Jul 04, 2021
Comedy!

I wish there was a 'donate button' on NL so that I could pay for the entertainment. cheesy
Family › Re: Nigerian Parents And Oversized Cloths | My Own Story by Hathor5(f): 9:23pm On Jul 04, 2021
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Family › Re: Your Experience While U Rejected Food At Night by Hathor5(f): 8:54pm On Jul 04, 2021
beautyhd:
Not my fault being the only female child, I was closer to my dad and yearned for his affection.
Mon is late now but dad is very much alive.
My prayers every day is for God to keep him for me.
This almost moved me to tears. May God keep your dad in good health. Amen.
Family › Re: Men Learn From My Mistakes by Hathor5(f): 11:54am On Jul 04, 2021
"If you want to test a man's character, give him power." (A. Lincoln)

I am usually a very forgiving person but it pisses me off that the wife after all was still taking care of this guy.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 8:20am On Jul 04, 2021
greenie77:
I posted in one of my earlier posts that they both need psychiatric evaluation.
Most definitely.

The funniest and most annoying part at the same time was the post where she called on the mods to complain about Nairaland. Imagine a homeless mother with two kids who is running away from her abusive husband having the energy to complain about Nairaland. grin Whoever believes this nonsense is very naive.
Family › Re: My Son Is Too Shy by Hathor5(f): 8:15am On Jul 04, 2021
Welcome to the 21st century where kindness is punished by parents with beatings. undecided


First of all, your son doesn't have to be like you.

Secondly, you can talk to your boy and explain to him that other kids do not have the right to take what is his and suggest that he reports to you when this happens so that you can handle it for him. He saw nothing wrong with the other kid taking his biscuit. Children do not see all situations the way we see them. He is five and it's your responsibility to protect him. He still has plenty of time to learn how to stand up for himself. Lead by example.

Third, if you start beating a shy child you will destroy any little confidence he has in him. He needs encouragement, not beatings. And being shy is not a crime. One of my best friends was shy until he was 19/20. He is one of the most confident people I know today. Your child's personality is not set in stone. He will change many times until his personality fully forms. If you want to help him, love and encourage him. It's bad enough his mother just left him back.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 8:09am On Jul 04, 2021
Ginaz:
Heartless wicked evil man. Did you send her and the child to the dread of the night? You couldn’t answer cos you obviously did.

If she ever comes back to you, she’s the biggest fool on earth! You’re not only physically abusive but your lack of affection for your children’s safety is disgraceful. I wonder what she saw in you in the first place . Worthless man .
Save your energy dear. I don't trust this couple, if it is a couple. The husband acts like a psychopath on purpose. If he truly was the psychopath he pretends to be, he would know how to manipulate people to his advantage or, if he is not that smart, at least try to pretend that he is not as evil as he appears to be. But it's not what he does. Instead he is provocative and extreme. I don't know what the truth is behind this thread but it is not what it seems to be. Anyone who gives them money has himself to blame.

I just wish we had social services to look after the well-being of the kids, if there are any, because the individual/couple behind this thread are not fit to raise children. Very sick people.
Family › Re: The Worst Parenting Advice by Hathor5(f): 8:03am On Jul 04, 2021
This is a very well written piece and I agree with the points you have raised. It is the 21st century and people should be responsible about the number of kids they have. However, I wonder if the poor know much about family planning. The sad part is that there are no government incentives to help poor people with family planning.

In a different context the picture would make sense. I have noticed that many times people from humble backgrounds, not necessarily those from extremely poor backgrounds, tend to be more grateful to their parents than some privileged kids who still complain how their parents could have done more, behaved differently, given them this or that.

So it all depends on the context. I know the picture shows a poor family but people from middle-class or upper-class homes complain sometimes too. And even though I know that kids need more than money and that some homes lack love, affection or peace and parents do not have enough time for their kids, I also know that most parents, except for the dysfunctional ones, want the best for their children and give them their all. So I am equally annoyed when people blame their parents for not having done more or even worse for their own mistakes.

And then I think to myself that one day they will have children of their own and realize how much their parents have actually done for them and how hard it can at times be to be a parent.
Family › Re: Confused! by Hathor5(f): 9:56pm On Jul 03, 2021
budaatum:
I'm amused at how you set your priorities. Your marriage is burning but your concern is the Rome of Nairaland!

Should you not be busy putting a roof over the heads of innocent Diye and Kiishi, if not over your head too?

You story is a lesson to many who benefit from it as they see fit, just as you should have learnt from those you told to be submissive when they were in similar situations on the same "GREAT Nairaland" you "used to know"!

May we not make the mistakes you make.
Thanks for this!

Their comments are getting more and more annoying.
Family › Re: How Old Were You When You Got Married First Time? by Hathor5(f): 9:52pm On Jul 03, 2021
Ugmama:
True talk though personally I don't wholistically enjoy being single. Lol
That's why it is hard for you to understand the people who wait long with marriage.

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