₦airaland Forum

Kriss216:
Night newspapers shouldn't have the luxury to select.

Ugmama:
But I still don't get it when one even has money job, house etc... Still not married.

Is it that they don't see anyone they love... Till 45yrs o

cococandy:
And the mom really accepted the transfer. Many women are enablers. It’s horrifying. As if she would be happy if her own husband tried to cheat her out of what’s due to her. Smh

CountDracula:
Ive not read the story but i Love the headline. Well done my boy

dobnina:
Were you reading my mind?
I don't want to be harsh but
I remember when she got pregnant for her second child, she came to naira land to beg, one lady asked her why she got pregnant again when she can barely feed. Lizzy opened her mouth to say Any woman that has one child is no different from a barren woman.
Nairalanders pitied her, contributed money for baby things and hospital things.
After some months, her husband opened a thread again and was begging for money.
He claimed his wife was in the hospital and no money to pay for hospital bills and hospital materials.
People pitied him and sent money to him.
Do you know that the husband had the guts to come back again to beg for money to feed his baby. He said his bike was stolen in his house and that was his only source of income.
Lizzy and her husband fit each other.
When she is ready to leave, she will leave but for now, she is only looking for excuses to beg for money.
I won't be surprised if she and her husband planned this.

Lizzyangel:
I guess you don't read all my messages on how my salary had always been on family spending, school fees,day care, feeding and upkeep...no single dime in my account to travel far or near, no family member around, where do we go from here?start roaming about or, I don't know.

Lostchild:
I am not blaming any woman over our wrong choices and misfortune. If anyone failed to learn from the mistake of others, then they will surely learn from their own painful mistake and the consequences of their wrong choice as swell.

☆My brother made first mistake and refuse to learn.

★ I made mistake and I got burnt but I learn from it and dont want to make amother mistake

RightToReject:
It's a well-known fact that women are more susceptible to greed/immorality than men, which is why they're called the weaker vessel.

GboyegaD:
Aunty, marriage has never been a cage and never will. There's no crime in night hangouts irrespective of gender. If my wife and her friends are going to hang out, I will babysit. Marriage is meant to enhance and not stifle life.

Magnoliaa:
[color=coral]i pray i don't end up like this.[/color]

Yxwqq:
Growing up, one of the things I loved most was seeing my Dad hang out with his friends. They would come over to the house, drink beer (lol), talk loudly about sports, Nigerian issues, etc; while my mom would cook lots of food for them to eat. I love seeing men, whether married or single, spend time with each other, gisting or cracking each other up. Men need each other the same way women do.

Left to me, you did nothing wrong, especially if you never stay out past 8pm and you only did this one-time because you were having a get-together with your buddies [whom you rarely get the chance to see due to your busy lives and schedules]. I would be thrilled to see you spend time with your friends after so long.
You should be allowed to have a life.

Oliviajones:
He broke up with me over a month ago. We still talk because I keep trying to convince him why we should get back together but he'd rather we remain friends. I've begged, I've cried, I promised changed attitude.
I get panic attacks at night, I can't cope properly during the day. I had built my life around him.

I can't do the no contact thing because I fear he'd forget about me and move on. Please talk to me. This is the worst I've felt.

pocohantas:
Challenges of being a man in 2021 is that you are encouraged not to fight women. One would think that has in anyway stopped you guys from being one of the most aggressive and loudmouthed black men in the world.

Go and fight them na. Who is stopping you?
No be you and your fellow werey women go fight? I can’t even remember the last time I saw people fight. We are cool over here.

jy2kbeyond:
Please allow the sensible ones to comment...Just observe and go.

cardoctor:
This can never happen here in naija. He will even get an applaudise from his colleagues.

Bouz:
When will our politicians do same too

officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.

addictiv:
What people forget is with power comes responsibilities, Patriarchy gave men power because men had to go out and build the society, fight wars, invent things, create government and kingdoms and some of them abused it. However the heart of this system was not to subjugate women rather to create a world where women and children could thrive and become better versions of themselves and enjoy the freedoms that they do now. However Women want power not because they want to build society, not because they want to create a better world for men and children, but rather they want power for themselves.

But like I said with power comes responsibilities and its the responsibility part that leaves an unsavory taste in the mouth of feminists because they only think about the benefits without preparing to be held accountable for the responsibilities that come with power. So now you have women become the major income earner and head of the house and yet complain about their man that sits at home all day taking care of the homefront. You have women wanting to be given top critical corporate positions and yet want maternity leave that will see them out of duty for months. You see women wanting to head government but want the position to be offered to them on a platter rather than contesting like men do for it.
Men have done an excellent job at shielding women from the harsh realities of life and bearing the brunt alone. However time has come for men to let go, and allow women hold the reins and bear the weight and see what's its really like to truly be in charge. It's only then can both genders truly appreciate that we are not the same and that we need each other to play our different roles in order to survive as a species.

Mayour11:
It's not easy to be a man in this part of the world o, especially with our belief as a people.

nedekid:
Gina's husband is a multimillionaire, possibly richer than the health minister. The husband is also a handsome fit and trim man.
Money is not the issue here as Gina's father is also a millionaire doctor and ceo of a multinational pharmaceutical company.
Heck the Gina drives a 70k pounds audi and lives in a 3.8m pounds house!

Thebest12:
Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
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Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.

Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

MiaB:
Don't take him seriously. He's a well known clown on nairaland

Iceyjayz:
You have to care. you are fast becoming something else.