₦airaland Forum

Iceyjayz:
Change for everyone's sake, I've warned you severally to change from your American wannabe mindset, it's not healthy for you

Nikkganc08:
He said all SUGAR DADDIES should retreat.

Cos one is dead.


I hate it when guys post stuff as if they don't have experience.


Once d male tail is erect, the network to the brain is automatically disconnected.


That's why u will see videos of a female jambite in a hotel room telling a 60-year-old man to kneel and lick her toe.
The man wud obey instantly with so much joy on his face.

Same reason a man wud give his ATM pin out to a lady and then say 'withdraw any amount u want'


Our boss died in active service.

His manhood will live on.

He'll forever be in our hearts as a great man that died for what he believed in.

A true HERO.


Unlike these Lily-livered cowards littered on naira***d

Let's leave d dead to rest in peace.

The living wud still indulge in activities that led to d death of d dead.

HBB1:
Didn't shower enough money on a woman that comes from money?

You think Oyinbo women send money like that?

Iranu!

Iceyjayz:
Get a life hathor, you haven't changed for once

AbiodunDagogo26:
so because i kiss now make i resign haba for wetin na..............................this oyinbo ppl sef

LadySarah:
How do you eulogise this kind of horseband on his burial day?

Left for me,the woman should just move on with her life and let the man's family bury their pen.is tv son.

Never heard of super tv till yesterday.

NwaAmaikpe:



A career woman like this should not marry.
It is selfish to marry when you know your job will not let you give your husband the utmost spousal attention.

But if she must marry considering that a husband is a woman's greatest laurel, she should not demand sexual exclusivity from the man because contrary to what they've made us believe that they are married to their jobs, they mostly have affairs in the workplace.

Any man in late Usifo's shoes will do the same thing he did considering he lived apart from his wife and was the dream of most women.

My friend in Abakpa who lives in a 2bedroom flat shags his wife's sister in the living room while his wife is asleep in the bedroom.

We must at least commend Usifo for respecting his marriage well enough to take his affairs from his comfortable and secure Banana Island home to an AirBNB apartment.

The video even showed he walked ahead of Chidinma in the restaurant; not side by side, or hand on waist.
That shows the amount of respect he had for his wife and how concerned he was about sidetalk.

He was a good man, but good men die quick.

cococandy:
How does one double like a post? Because this is thumbs up. The goal of all moral policing of women and preaching about values is never because those who say it mean are good people or that they even believe it.
It’s because to them, that is a way they can scare women into thinking they do not deserve anything more than a mediocre existence subject to the generosity of the man giving it.

Mindlog:
So warped that some believe that having a healthy marriage is a sign of weakness, of being emasculated.

There is a sad increase of children and adolescents with attachment disorder and conduct disorders all due to dysfunctional homes. I know after completing my specialty in Clinical Child Psychology, my appointment book would be brimming with young ones who needs professional intervention.

Mindlog:
The intention of this thread by the OP is to scare women into remaining in marriages that is toxic to their overall well-being and probably their children', that it is safer to remain in that cage because out there, they will find it difficult to readjist!

I guess OP never researched on how women whose husbands abandoned them and their kids to start a new life elsewhere have coped. If overwhelming majority of Nigerian widows have after the death of their husband ,on their own raised their children without assistance from her late husband's family, he would have a better understanding that post divorce is not all about darkness for a woman, that is why many forward thinking lawyers who are into marriage and family law refer their female clients to a licensed MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist) for pre-divorce and post-divorce therapy which is intended to disabuse their minds from the traditional views that she is a nobody without the spouse who feels he is not obligated in contributing to make the marriage a healthy one. A woman with a good lawyer who legally divorced properly should be able to secure the obligations the man has towards their children who are products of their union...school fees, healthcare etc and not subject those obligations to his mood swings.

I laughed where OP brought up the changing of light bulbs, that the woman would be helpless! Uncle, you have no idea on how majority of Reverend Sisters do things for themselves, Sisters whey dey slit the necks, roast and butcher goats themselves, pack am for freezer na to change light bulbs go come be rocket science!

God hates divorce, just as He hates the repeated intentional behaviours and actions that leads to divorce, you leave your cooking unattended to and still believe sogged or burnt food is not your portion.

Focus should be on husbands and wives working as a team for a healthy marriage and a conducive family life where the husband, the wife and the children they have been blessed with, can thrive.

ImaIma1:
They are probably from dysfunctional families.

Some men just have this overestimation of themselves that they try to paint a woman's situation as disadvantaged while they claim to have all the odds in their favour.

Divorcees are constantly remarrying; male and female. These guys should learn to deal with the fact that the world doesn't rise and set on their assesss.

Bagehot:
Unfortunately . . . that is the reality of the world we both live in - accept it or not. I have caught three different pastors with their Babes, and most of these older men would tell you they all do it - they are even worst than the younger men.

That you haven't caught a member of your own family is largely either due to a scarcity of resources on their part, or they are very coded. An overwhelming majority of men across the world have trysts.

ImaIma1:
This is just a one sided writeup with myopic points.

What happened to having a househelp? Most homes have helps, so the woman doesn't have to do everything on their own.

Many divorced women also get remarried if they want to. It's just that some actually decide to focus solely on their kids. They are more concerned about the kids than the fathers are. The father can even abandon the children with her and remarry but the woman will go out of her way to see that they are fine.

Divorce sometimes is necessary and may be the best thing for a woman for her peace of mind and freedom from a bad man. That, enough is bliss. What if she did everything to save the marriage but the man wasn't helping matters and decided to leave? She should force herself on him, so that she doesn't suffer all these your listed points?

My close family relative is separated from her ex. She works and she has a nanny, plus family is always available to help. Divorced mums figure things out to make sure things still flow.

Last week, my husband had to go stand in as a father for father's day in school for his friend's daughter. She's a working divorced mum without much family (only child and only her mum alive) but friends and loved ones rally around her to help out.

Maybe before you write something like this, you should actually study divorced mums around and not just what you feel happens, just to make the man seem.like the "victor" in divorce, thereby making the woman seem like the disadvantaged one.

Bagehot:
LOL! In most cases, the Father-In-Law already knows whats-up, and the Mother-In-Law would turn a blind eye. As long as you are taking care of your family, and non-violent, you are good to go.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Nihgga hide your face. Quit fronting to be a female

Boss13:
He didn't cheat. He exercised his options as a man who is doing well financially. Our tradition allow men to have as many women as possible. Enough of this nonsense. It is a pity a young and silly girl decided to cut his life short instead of leveraging the network he has to transform her life.

However, I still think there is more to this issues. The police report indicated other suspects involved who are at large. A possible honeycomb or a crime of exploitation gone wrong.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
It's not in a man's nature to hold on to a single woman... No matter how much he loves the wife, the urge to hunt younger women will always be there.

Some men fight the urge... The good news is, non has ever won




Man is born to win

budaatum:
She can hopefully sue McDonald's too!

GboyegaD:
If you want a particular gender, opt for an IVF with gender selection. It is the surest.

Other options might be a TVS to know when the egg is released and copulate immediately of you want a male however, it isn't guaranteed.

Klass99:
Thank you dear

I saw the thread and was like WTF is wrong with some people? It is beyond sad, the way some people think, the sort of assumptions and conclusions they jump to as well - mindsets full of negativity.

One poster even claimed the OP is promiscuous, of all the things OP wrote promiscuity was the thing that poster picked up on. Very nonsense and ingredients comment, na that one vex me pass sef.

By the way I'm enjoying your pregnancy thread and the stories being shared. While smiling to myself, liking posts and also thinking Klass you will not put yourself through this nightmare

Klass99:
I am surprised at the majority of responses asking the OP to mind his business, as if a sincere thought or act of kindness is now a crime and taboo! Have you people never been touched (in your hearts) by the kindness of thoughtful people who sensed your needs and helped you without you asking? Na wao!

zaynie:
Baby 2 remains the drama queen amongst all 3.
She hasn't changed one bit


I actually lost a lot of weight in my 3rd pregnancy. I wore my pre-pregnancy clothes all through. I think I went down 2 dress sizes. Went from a size 18/20 to a size 14/16.

angelfallz:
If only Nigeria has its own kids' shows. We rely heavily on the west for kids' shows like cartoons etc.
The few that we grew up with, are no more. Like Tales by moonlight.
Nigeria needs it's own kids' where we can teach our children our own values and not the values of the west.

cococandy:
All those “values and morality” policing only applies to women. According to them, God has a different set of rule for women and a different set for men.