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lonelydora:
No good Pentecostal church bash Catholic church.

kolawoleibukun:
Wizkid you no wealthy my dear. This is not the way to be wealthy. There is a difference between being rich and being wealthy. make una teach that pikin sense abeg. Entertainment industry na very useless one. shine today dust tomorrow. better invest your money wisely cos you are still young and have a long way to go. we never even talk of the schools fees of al these baby mama's and money for Hennesy for all those loyalists around you. if footballers can go broke, music does not have that kinda money yet wizzy.
you day try but e never reach to make mouth. You too small to day feel high. MC Hammer, Mike Tyson, Lauryn Hill, and 50 Cent self way make real money in dollars, dem broke. see Ja Rule dem are broke arsses today.
All these ticket way you day sell in Ugandan Shillings and CFA and Naira no qualify you as wealthy. In about 10 years you go wash another new kid go replace you. spend your cash wisely now that they are coming in and invest in what will give you return when your career is over.
Come down from that private jet now and live a life that can accomodate your future if not na problem oh.

Gloryboy:
What you girls don't understand is that there are actually more male virgins than the females, but you will never know cos most are shy to say it out even if you ask them.
So just stop that mindset of the girls being only one keeping themselves.

biacan:
Men should learn how to be respectful towards their wives decisions.....Too much of everything is bad so is sex as far as I'm concerned if your wife is not in the mood and you lured her on and have your way....? Now that's rape and such men should be brought before the law let them face their jail times..... I hope it helps

Ishilove:
I mean, of what use is it? The best payback is moving on and being happy

martyns303:
I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.

mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.

fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.

Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.

December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.

Edited:

I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help.

nicanony:
Nairalanders, your advice is needed. Had to open a new account to post this for a friend who is currently in a mess.

LONG POST ALERT!!!

She dated her ex-fiance for 9years during which a lot of things happened.

She happens to be one of those cool-headed naive girls. He had carnal knowledge of her when she was 17 without her consent (assumed rape). She told no one out of fear, stigma and condemnation. The guy came back begging that he loves her & would like to marry her in future and since the deed was done, they should just start dating. After much pleading, she agreed to date him (Her biggest mistake). She noticed the guy use some slang when talking with his friends but felt it was normal guys stuff & didnt know what it meant and moreover after they started dating he disassociated himself from them. He brought out the idea of them making a blood oath to keep d relationship solid & to marry each other which after much persuasion they did it. Unknowingly to her, the guy was a cultist.

While they were in the uni, she got pregnant twice & wanted to keep d baby but the guy insisted on a D&C cos he wasnt ready to father a child as @then so he took her to d hospital to get it done. After graduation, his attitude changed and he started flirting with other girls, dated 2 known ones and always came back begging. My friend loved him & took him back despite his excesses. Suitors started coming, d guy started hitting her, gives death threat to any man who he perceives is asking her out via phone/message & threatens her. To the extent, he threatened a Captain (Navy man), the man wrote a statement that her ex was a cultist & ordered his men to teach him a big lesson but d girl pleaded on his behalf. She had to call our friend whose father was a soldier, he intervened & the captain later dropped d case after much pleading. He later stopped the hitting & threats on her after she stood her ground on one of those occasions but said he was never breaking the oath that must get married.

She got a fair job, supported him financially cos he couldnt get a good job after graduation. He proposed & marriage plans kicked off, she spent all her savings 4 d plans and getting him a good house for dem wen dey eventually get married. N.B: She didnt stay in d house. Both families had met and all that was left was to get the formal marriage done. They started having issues & d quarrels became much, so she decided to give him some space for 3months which they both agreed to. After 3months, she returned & found out d guy was dating someone else who he camped in his house. The guy said he has moved on since d girl gave him space & dat he loves d new girl & wants to marry her and all he wants is to break the oath they did when they were young, that they were never meant to be. They met with a pastor who broke the oath for them. The new lady even went as far as threatening her never to call her ex-fiancé line again if not she will see what will happen. She recorded d call & told her sister. After the call, she noticed she has been falling ill off & on, she thought it was normal until her mind went back to the threat call.

She was devastated and almost committed suicide if not for d intervention of a friend of ours. After the suicide attempt, she told us everything (her close friends), we also found out her ex-fiancé was a suspected cultist. During the suicide attempt, she was rushed to the hospital cos she fainted (before now, she sometimes complain of lower abdominal pain). Several tests & scan were carried out on her & it was detected that her womb was okay but are fallopian tubes were blocked due to infection after the D&C which means she has a very slim chance of ever conceiving unless through IVF. Since then, she hasn't been herself. We told her to let go but she keeps insisting on paying her ex in his own coin becos she can't lose all.

These are d steps she intends taking:

1) She wants to report the guy to SARS as a suspected cultist for him to be indicted (There are evidences that he has given 3men death threats who approached her marriage(including the Navy man who wrote a statement of him being a cultist). She approached the Navy man recently who is now a Vice admiral and he said he is willing to give her any assistance needed.
2) Reporting a threat to life case in SARS/any police station on the new girlfriend so she should sign an undertaken cos we heard she is into diabolical stuffs (hearsay) and there is an evidence (the threat call she made).

OR

1) She wants to make a report to d army barracks on him owing her money (she was a military student) i.e the money she spent during the end days of deir relationship (house rent, money he borrowed etc) running close to N800K. He would be made to sign an undertaken (undertaken will be drafted by a lawyer) stating that the money must be paid, he would also pay for the treatment needed to flush the blocked fallopian tubes and pay for any other damages. All almost running to the tune of N1.5M.
2) Reporting a threat to life case in SARS/any police station on the new girlfriend so she should sign an undertaken cos we heard she is into diabolical stuffs (hearsay) and there is an evidence (the threat call she made).

ARE HER PLANS REALISTIC?? WHAT OTHER ADVICE CAN BE GIVEN TO HER??

cococandy:
“Who owns more Louis Vuitton?”
“who goes to Sephora more?”
“what’s your Sephora status (I’m a VIB)?”
Insert eye roll from me.
She talks about other people behind their back so much. “I’m not a bag snob but how can that lady call herself a fashionista but all her bags are michael Kors?”

passyhansome:
If you present yourself as TRASH you will be treated as one, SELF-ESTEEM matters Ladies always know you are a unique creature and you deserve nothing less than what you are. Also put effort in developing yourself don't be a liability in relationships, a wise woman builds her home according to the book of proverbs

geozone:
you tend to put all aspect of your life on social media. men there is bad vibes in the air. not everyone means well o. even that baby probably has enemies now. Anyway sorry for your loss eventhough you are being foolish.

SamoaJoe:
But I will never criticise another man business because it's where somebody eats from, that he makes up.
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Neminc:
Is he saying it's wrong for the church to make use of modern technology or what? So it's only secular organizations that have the right to use the app abi? Mtcheeew

JudgementHammer:
Haba. D elderly woman actually meant since d time she pasted d sticker on her gas cylinder, help and support has been coming up to her. Her children and helpers have been taking up the refill expenses, not her anymore.

pocohantas:
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the disloyal one She is fat, smelling, they wanna divorce her, if they had met you first...they would've married you. All na for you to sha hang leg, make them administer prick...

The people involved should fear God.

blessedkidd:
The Newly Established Uni Owned By The Former Gov Of Rivers State Dr Peter Odili

PAMO [Peter and Mary Odili] UNIVERSITY OF MEDICAL SCIENCES [PUMS] Port harcourt is among the six universities approved and accredited in December 2017, by the federal executive council [fec].



The property where the university is located was formally known as THE ADOLESCENT PROJECT (TAP). It was used as a youths skill acquisition and empowerment center owned by Justice Mary odili, Dr Peter Odilis wife and was commissioned in the year 2006 by Ex President Olusegun Obasanjo. The property has now been renovated and the university is set to be commissioned 0n Saturday the 10th of February 2018.



It is said to be the first private medical university in Nigeria. And it has commenced undergraduate admission for it's first batch of applicants for the 2017/2018 academic year.


The take-of faculties are faculty of basic medical sciences and faculty of clinical sciences.

The programs include Anatomy, Biochemistry, Human nutrition and dietetics, Pharmacology and Physiology for faculty of basic medical sciences as well as Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery [MBBS] for the faculty of clinical sciences.


More photos below.
http://overheardinafrica..com.ng/2018/02/photos-of-newly-established-pamo.html

AbdelKabir:
So the following day in fajr, I was announced the imam together with some other excos...so imam made me understand that I have the privilege of staying in the mosque even though the parade is on. I was happy upon hearing that, this was how Allaah paved a way for me Alhamdulillaah, so that morning I didn't go for parade neither did I go for afternoon.
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marvin902:
lord knows i cant enter that church.. dude somethings annoys me with hes statement.. jesus left he sit for him to sit down.. he is the right hand of God and its members dey too worst joor the day this guy came from london.. that day turn to Christmas for their members.. they do polo,wrist band e.t.c total chaos just because daddy and mummy came from london

ollah2:
Yes it shows how disrespectful and salty you are. Non Christians hardly derails your threads but same can't be said about Muslim threads.