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One can't have a reasonable discussion or logical argument with these abokki animals. It's impossible because they're so full of shit.

With 15,048 terrible attitudes.

qtguru:
if you sleep with a man you are a gay to me. That's how i see it

You dey mind these idiots? There is nothing like bisexual in Nigeria. Leave those fancy terms to pure oyinbos.

In Nigeria, any bastard that can get aroused and put his smelly thing inside another man is GAY. If he like make he get 500 wives and 2000 concubines. Anything such 'men' do with women is just to camouflage for society sake. They are gay.

You be mumu. Men are scum and you're done with men because you were stupid enough to get yourself hooked with an obviously gay idiot.

It is not difficult to spot a gay fool. Any discerning person not to mention discerning woman should easily tell.

I can take you calling men 'scum' because you can't stand the fact that they exercise their African masculinity by having multiple FEMALE sexual companions (as any real man should). But giving up on men because of your poor judgment in joining body with a gay bastard show say this one na cock and bull story.

Asa is not a "veteran Nigerian singer" o, what rubbish. Asa is a legend.

All Nigerian albums put together are nowhere near her first album, eponymously named. That album is Nigeria's own Thriller.

Security around him seems lax.

Anyways, I don't have high hopes for this guy jare. Forget the good looking optics now. They all seem incapable of keeping a level head when they get into power. The Nigerian curse. Soon he will get sucked into the razzmatazz and stupendous money that comes with the office and will lose his soul. I don't think he will be another Peter Obi. But I desperately hope to swallow these words and eat humble pie. Let's see.

Make I laugh. Only a simp would take this kind of girl seriously as a 'girlfriend', because trust me, the signs are there that she is not a seriousness material.

By the way, this is exactly the kind of girl that would insist at knife-point that her husband must never cheat on her, else....

Look, any wife that is fanatical about you as a full-blooded African man not cheating on her is a hoe. I mean it. Don't EVER accept such rabid rubbish from any woman.

Real, traditional, good, genuine wife materials don't make a rabid fuss about that. Only these rebranded ashawo girls do that. That's why only simps end up marrying them.

osaeti:
Y always her always I don't understand, wat about him, his past, how many ladies he dicked, how many guys dicked him join, how many ladies aborted or have a child for him. Pls check his past life too before husbanding him. Mak person no go marry curse instead of husband.

This particular thread is about women's past. Open a separate thread on men's past; I'm sure you'll get appropriate responses there.

All these yeye 'woke' open eye, clever-by-half girls making stupid comparisons between men and women make me sick.

KarinaLove:
There Are Also Men Who Have Horrible Pasts. Have had several sexual partners. Lived a bad life. Done lots of bad stuffs. Slept with different women ever since their baby man could receive signal.

Are you now saying we should ignore their past and marry them like that...NEVER!!!!

NEVER!!!! NEVER!!!!! NEVER!!!!

Men like this always end up not having a stable home. They Can Never Have!!!

You're a fool, or a serpent, or both. There are men who did bla bla bla..... Are you as a woman expected to PAY GROOM PRICE on such a man's 'head', worry about traditional marriage 'list' of items to buy for the groom's hungry family, foot wedding expenses and also be the financial bread winner of the marriage etc etc?

Most of you girls are so daft with these your very ridiculous apple and oranges comparisons.

Lol

Not all these overexposed rats of nowadays, after following countless yahoo boys to witness dorime up and down, and frolicking from one nice hotel to the other, how can they settle down humbly and with submissive loyalty with one regular dude?

Many of these girls are damaged goods. Too much exposure has ruined their lives. Just forget these ones. Marry them and sign your death warrant.

He is only 'grateful' because Timaya is still rich and relevant. If Timaya wasn't doing well himself at this point, I'm pretty sure the boy wouldn't even mention his name anywhere.

That's the way of the world.

ikennaoma:
Someone will just wake up and bring up story from nowhere to discredit his follow man.. who doesn't know that he has partners, Moet Hennessy and bullet are his major partner.. so D'angels that was there in owerri for long is jj ejesons own right?? His club in owerri is ejesons own too abi.. make una go make una own money and stop fabricating lies to discredit a hard-working man

Oga keep quiet. Bullet owns and financed the Asaba project 100%. Bullet also financed the club project in Owerri 100%. D'angels was just an open bar belonging to Paschal's 'wife' before the club was added to it just last December.

No fire service to put out the fire
No police to secure the environment.
Even in the heart of Nigeria's capital, Abuja.

What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian government?

Before you marry any of these women, better investigate her family very well. Nothing as terrible as marrying into these useless families full of leeches, never do Wells and meddlesome idiots.

Na kraw kraw, stretch marks and rotten flesh full there.

FatherOfJesus:
Enugu is dope bro “by Nigerian” standard. The best quality of life after Abuja aswear.

Lagos wahala is too much, even with you money you can’t live a quality life.

This is very true. After Abuja comes Enugu, in terms of the serenity of the environment and basic liveability. The lush greenery and cool vibe of the Enugu city is so heart-warming to an Abuja boy like me.

Dope city it is. Nothing compares to it in the entire South. Maybe Uyo to some extent, but still..

People get issues for this life I swear.

This kind matter get as e be. It boils down to the wife's lack of understanding and whatnot. Honestly most women are damaged goods psychologically, so they lack socio-psychological awareness, especially after they think they have nothing more to lose (after one mumu man successfully marries them and they've given birth).

Besides, I'm always disgusted by all these useless men who leech on their sister's husbands. What is a fully grown man with hairy blokos doing sleeping and eating upandan like an idiot in his YOUNGER sister's husbands house? Hotel no dey for the town? There are very low budget, anyhow kurukere guesthouses abi hotels of about 3-8k in any town. If you no get money, stay there rather than carry your uneven belle go inconvenience your sister and her husband. Worrifuck. If you can't afford even the cheapest hotel and condition makes it unavoidable for you to spend some time in your sister's husband's house common sense should tell you to comport yourself like a ghost.. With utmost humility and near invisibility, to constitute as little a nuisance as possible. Not throw your felele weight around forming respected bros.

That said, I'm an advocate of diplomatic/long-rope autocracy, so here's the thing.

1. Start by assuming it was a harmless mistake by a 'low-brained' wife. Tell her clearly that you're pissed off at such behaviour, and that it must never happen again. Then watch her reaction. If she's genuinely apologetic, then no be issue. It's one of those petty transgressions that must be overlooked or forgiven.

2. However, if she's unapologetic and giving off nonchalant vibes such as yen yen yen, he is my elder brother who trained me in school, bleh bleh, why are you so immature or insecure duh duh duh duh, then you have to introduce your no-nonsense Idi Amin side. Kick both of them out. Let her go and live with him. It should take their entire village to beg you before you allow her back to your good graces.

3. Otherwise, if you condone her intentional bad behaviour, you're finished. These Nigerian beeshes are always about their own family... Their own mother. Their own father. Their own siblings. They don't give a rat's ass about your family as the husband. It's a tragic joke, so you need to be brutal when dealing with this kind of scenario.

The Maradona himself. Age has slowed him down, but has not changed him.

As bad as he is, he is everything (smart, empathetic, charming) Buhari can never be.

Which any random olosho can give him. So what is the compelling and difficult to get value you're adding to the poor guy?

In other words, so he married you... With your garbage and plenty wahala coupled with your family's wahala... because you can give a mere Mouth Gig? Chai.

It seems lots of men shortchange themselves by marrying these liabilities who have nothing meaningful to offer.

lozanni:
You are right. Too much familiarity will only breed contempt at the end of the day.
I think what they need to do is to create a 'Bilionaires hangout' because even if you are that wealthy, you will still need somewhere to flex and relax with friends.

There's certainly somewhere that billionaires hangout with their kind. People like Jim Ovia, Tunde and the rest have theirs. But I understand Modupe is in the middle of nowhere because the likes of TY or Jim cannot regard him or respect him because he is not his own man. Na him wife get the money.

At the same time, hanging out at Ikoyi Club with all those broke ass retired this or that forming elite wouldn't do him any good because many of the forming big men there would envy him and also resent him for the same reason and also for the Alakija name. So really, he has no business there.

Better to set up a mini guest house with bad recreational facilities where he can hang out with his own handpicked friends/loyalists/girlfriends. It wouldn't cost up to ordinary $3-4m to do this isomewhere in VI or Ikoyi. Let him persuade his wife to give him the money.

lozanni:
Some people will say: Baba, e ju iyen Le fun awon Omo Omo yin. Meaning : Baba leave such behaviors for your grandchildren to display.
Seriously, we know people, out of envy, might have continuously provoked the man until he reacted out of anger. Nobody has considered this position, although the Chief could have addressed the issue through official club channels rather than fighting.

What is he even doing in Ikoyi club ? Wealthy men such as TY Danjuma, Okeowo, Tunde Folawiyo, etc are members, but you will never find them there. At best they will only come on special occasions when something is being celebrated. They don't, can't and will never routinely hang out there...

Hanging out there frequently as someone of a certain status would only invite disrespect.

It's frustration that is worrying him. It's not easy to be a billionaire's husband with zero access to all that wealth. Even Naira Marley has more money than him.

All these kinds of merit-based accomplishments na mostly nyamiris and afonjas. You will never see any aboki there. It's only in Nigeria where they are sharing appointments and other things based on quota system, that's where abokis show their dirty faces.

Ehn we know, but Obi Cubana is still richer than him.

Lol. Christmas joke.

Toor.

These small boys need to learn how to stand their ground and REFUSE to give their phones to any bastard policeman that orders them to do so. I don't know how hard this can be. If they try to arrest you, STAND YOUR GROUND and refuse to be taken away from that spot.

I mean, how hard can it be to stand your ground in a public place like Lekki-Ikoyi Link, in broad daylight?

I can understand being afraid if it is midnight on one lonely bush side road, but not on a busy road....

As long as it is these random roadside extortion attempts, never agree to hand your phone, and never agree to follow them to their smelly station. The fact that you're there in the open, on a public/busy road in daylight is your best defence. Die there. You will not die, because they will not shoot you. It's all gimmicks to instill fear. But they are more afraid than you.

He didn't owe them satisfaction, you simp. They owed that to him... At his own pleasure. That's the Gold Standard.

Two weeks vacation for girlfriend birthday? So when you finally marry one olosho, una honeymoon go be 2 years.

You be anuofia. I sure say you never buy new wrapper for your mama for the past 5 years.

Esseite:
Well.. free lancers working for foreigners have trails of payments and working up N22m sitting balance as a free lancer, you are very well grounded affiliated with various organizations and must have trusted mentors who can step up. currency exchange would have had other exchangers flood the station with calls even from Abuja and police headquarters.. legit monies have trails. Fraud has made N22m look like change, earning it legally is a lifetime for majority.

Shove this your poverty mentality somewhere and stop talking nonsense.

The criminality in Imo didn't start today but I don't understand these people.