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TravelRe: DIY Guide To Australian Permanent Resident Visa - Part 2 by helpee(m):
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CrimeRe: Two Thieves Burnt To Death At Coker Express, Lagos (Graphic Pictures) by helpee(m):
EMIOMOADEOYE:
That you support it means that you are as monstrous as you accuse them to be.

In America, even if someone trespasses your home, there are still scenarios where you can still be culpable for murder.

If you cannot prove that the trespasser posed an IMMEDIATE life threatening risk to you or your family AT THE TIME OF MURDER, you will bear the full weight of a murder charge.

Read that well ooo. Even if this trespasser killed someone and he was already escaping before you killed him, you are liable for murder.

Which means that going by that premise, all those supporting and executing jungle justice are all murderers and facilitators of murder. Criminals. Just like the person they judged and executed.

There is no jungle justice in the US. Stop using illegalities to justify barbaric acts.

As I have said, what the thief did or did not do is besides the point. The fact is that he is a human being like you. Plus you did not see him commit the crime. You only hear people say this is what he did.

What if it is mistaken identity. You cant tell me that all the cases of jungle justice that has happened so far in this country have all being actual thieves.

There have been many cases of mistaken identity or extreme justice. What do you have to say about jungle justice meted out on an 11 year old simply because he shoplifted food in the market. You will come an justify that by saying that is how they start abi.

What about women who have been lynched on the ridiculous notion that they were witches. How in God's name are you able to prove accurately that someone is a witch?

Please let us stop justifying nonsense with nonsense arguments.
lies. Just fire three warning shots in America and the person is gone ( The three warning shots are only useful if you are not in immediate danger. If you are in immediate danger like someone charging at you, you can draw your gun and kill without any warning shots. Now imagine someone tries to rob you on the highway in America, you don't need any warning shots, just empty the bullets into them and you a hero so what nonsense are you saying?)

The fact that you have so much sympathies for people that kill people without mercy just to dispossess them of their properties shows you are likely a thief...infact, an armed robber. You talk of many cases of mistaken identities....yes. It also happens regularly in court. people have been sentenced to deaths only for the court to reverse the judgement decades later...after the person is dead. You think the people lynching them are fools? When was the last time you heard of jungle justice in Lagos if not because people have had it to the brim. The fact that you obviously try to twist the American jungle justice system has rubbished your entire argument. You can say even America that practices such with guns, they have their own limitations and faults....like every other thing that involves humans, there will be risk of error. Innocent people can rarely be killed in a situation like this.....but innocent people can also be saved from death by eradicating people like these too. If these guys were not killed, they might have killed another victim since then and guess what....it could be your sister so be grateful

NB- if you can show me just one case where anyone was publicly lynched and burnt by the mob for being a witch in Nigeria in the last twenty years on the internet then I will take you seriously. Just a single case where someone was publicly burnt for being a witch. You are only trying to be smart by half. show me just one in Nigeria where it IS PUBLIC THAT BURNT THE PERSON FOR BEING A WITCH.
CrimeRe: Two Thieves Burnt To Death At Coker Express, Lagos (Graphic Pictures) by helpee(m): 7:43am On Jul 17, 2021
EMIOMOADEOYE:
And you think I haven't in my 35 year sojourn?

You think I don't carry a scar around that reminds me of them everytime I look at it?

Just tell me that you can take a knife and take a life on the grounds that you are claiming.

Tell me that you will take a stick and smash out the skull of another human, pour petrol and set him ablaze with your own hands simply because another thief like him (not him in particular oooo) attacked you.

Heck...most people do not even know what if feels like to be attacked and yet they support this.
You know nothing. I can never kill another human being wether na thief or not but I fully support what they did to these monsters. I've said it over and over...America that claims to defend human right fully support jungle justice. They only legalised guns to make it look decent but it is the same thing. Someone trespass your home, you gun them down and walk free. Anyone attacks you like these dead fools attacked the motorists, you gun them down and become heroes.
CrimeRe: Two Thieves Burnt To Death At Coker Express, Lagos (Graphic Pictures) by helpee(m): 6:43am On Jul 15, 2021
kuntash:
But who can now prove their crimes ?

These kind of judgement kinda makes us worse than animals , it's better they receive serious beating and handed over to the security ... At least ...

I don't support crime in anyway , but there is nothing as comforting as hearing when human being is given an opportunity to turn a new leaf ...

They are still humans ...... At least !
In America, if you feel your life is threatened, you bring out your gun and kill. Infact, the only thing you need in a non life threatening situation is to fire warning shots before killing. In that case, it is developed and civilised world. You don't care about wether they are still humans. If a burglar breaks into your home in America, you shoot him dead and you become a hero. Since they are using guns to kill, you don't care. It is not barbaric so it is not jungle justice. At that time you don't care about your human right.. you don't come out to say no to jungle justice but when the are burnt here...it is very barbaric. it is stone age. Don't worry, we will start using guns to kill them so you will know it is not barbaric.
CrimeRe: Two Thieves Burnt To Death At Coker Express, Lagos (Graphic Pictures) by helpee(m): 6:38am On Jul 15, 2021
VTJN:
The earlier you come to terms with the fact that jungle justice isn't the way out, the better

We aren't in the stone age era, this is 21st century

They deserves nothing but fair hearing, historically even the most notorious criminals in Nigeria are being given fair hearing

Stop putting your emotion nto play man!
So they don't do jungle justice in America abi? You people like to deceive yourself. America is the home of jungle justice. If anyone breaks into your home and you shoot them dead, you will walk free. Why can't you allow him to steal and then charge him to court? You think this one is jungle justice because they burnt them but it is not jungle justice when you use gun to kill them in America? Abeg grow out of your inferiority complex. If you legalise gun in Nigeria, this will stop too. We can just kill them in a civilised way so you will be happy it is no longer jungle justice
FamilyRe: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 7:53am On Jun 25, 2021
Superboss:
Lol! how you young chaps make assumption here is quite funny to me.
O boy! I am married. Married to the one I love.
I how difficult it can be for for husband and wife to live in different locations.
Can't they be seeing each atleast once in a month?
They had the means to even be meeting every fortnight.
The dead has been done, the man is no more. It is for the living to learn from this.
There is nothing to learn here. Even wives do kill their husbands and that you are married now does not mean it will continue to be like that. From reliable information, the man and his wife are not even in good terms. Stop judging from afar...moreso, that you have not cheated does not mean you won't eventually cheat. Let your wife stay in Abuja first then you can adopt your suggestion of monthly nocturnal visit. It may not last long though before either you or even the so called love of your life will succumb. The fact that you are even imagining what it feels like to marry a career woman means you are not married to one yet...at least a very successful one for now so you you are not in this man"s shoe and you won't know how it pinches. By the way, I am equally married for over 12years in a very lovely relationship but I don't deny reality
FamilyRe: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 7:13am On Jun 25, 2021
Superboss:
I can't imagine a man having such a pretty wife and still cheated.
This life get as e bi.
You will know when you marry one. A pretty wife in Abuja while you spend all your life alone in Lagos. We don't face reality. Na maid you go Bleep self.
FamilyRe: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
gift4nature:
talks like this piss me the hell off. Is it now women that doesn't have the urge. Let's give ourselves brain abeg.
And who says women no dey Bleep about. Who told you the wife was not fucking all those ministers she was working with in Abuja or even a younger guy. That the husband was caught does not make the woman a saint. Abeg leave this innocent man. Blame the evil girl that killed him. He may even be planning to have a second wife since the wife is not available and it is not a sin in our culture. Stop blaming him for doing something most people...both men and women are doing
FamilyRe: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 6:59am On Jun 25, 2021
Romanoff:
I was waiting for this.

You people don't want a liability for a wife, if a woman now has a job or doing well in business, you people will complain she's too busy with her career and business for you people. Una no wan be sole provider so that your wives won't ask you for money, yet y'all don't want career women or wives that will be richer than you.
Wetin una dey find gan gan?

Was the man a jobless man? Wasn't he also a career person? You think as a CEO and billionaire, he sits at home to wait for his wife?

A man's true character is tested when he has money. And the devil used his money and love for women to send him to an early disgraceful end.




Speak for yourself and the men you know.

I know prosperous men who have never stepped out on their wives.



So who come gain now, the man tired of sleeping with his beautiful wife or the wife who is still alive and still doing well in life?

I hope she remarries a younger guy.
you don't need to hope . She was probably dating all those ministers before. That the husband was caught does not make the woman a saint. She was probably fucking all over Abuja too. By the way, the man may probably not see this career woman for two months....most men will cheat anyway so nobody should blame him for cheating. Blame the evil woman that killed him. Bottom line is that it is someone like the wife....another woman that killed him.
InvestmentRe: The Scam In The Crypto World by helpee(m): 4:02pm On Jun 24, 2021
SavageResponse:
Why will it not crash? Something that is pure junk!

A coin that had about 1 quadrillion units in circulation!

They just used it to scam people!

If you invest all the money in Nigeria in Shiba Inu it's price will never hit $1!
why do you need it to reach one dollar? People became multimillionaire with shiba in dollars....many people made a lot of millions. Most of these coins have 8 zeros....just cancel 4 zeros and you are a millionaire in dollars with 1k investment. Ask people to teach you rather than spreading your ignorance. People made millions with shiba. Watch out for hokk and kishu too. They will soon cancel several zeros before year end. If you like, go and put 500 dollars there and thank me after one year. I just gave you this info for free
InvestmentRe: The Scam In The Crypto World by helpee(m): 3:26am On Jun 24, 2021
GeneralPula:
Shiba inu coin?

What coin is that?

You need to understand this bro - bitcoin is the only certified crypto, with maybe Etherium. Which one be shiba inu bai lol..

Never put your money on any coin that’s not btc or eth..
so you need to know...shiba inu coin made people *10,000 of their money before it fell within a year and even since it fell, if you had put money early, you will still be above X5000 by now. Look, you people are looking for fast money making venture. Crypto is risky but all these coin you think are useless are making people multimillionaire with only 1k dollars investment. Research these things and stop following bandwagon. If you had invested 1k dollars in shiba coin a year ago, at the time it was ATH, you would be worth close to 10 million dollars. The guy that is discouraging you probably heard about it when it was so high and quickly put money. By that time, people were ready to take profit and if fell. Who do you blame? You don't buy only when you hear the good news ...by that time it is too late
InvestmentRe: The Scam In The Crypto World by helpee(m): 6:05am On Jun 23, 2021
Kokaine:
yeah thanks what about dogecoin. I put #165k about two months now and what I'm seeing is #48k.
you lose nothing until you sell. You put money when it was at the ATH. People that have put money for over a year whose money is now *100 will obviously want to take profit so they will sell. Stop making people rich. You are obviously buying when you hear good news then you are bound to lose because before you hear the good news, it means the coin is doing well . Dogecoin was *1000 this year alone. If you are the one that made that kind of money, won't you take your profit? So buy low( usually when everyone is afraid just like now) then sell high. Most people will buy high and when the coin is dropping they will sell low and then claim it is a scam. So, if you are wise, hold your coin....doge will still hit 2 dollars
InvestmentRe: The Scam In The Crypto World by helpee(m): 5:07am On Jun 23, 2021
djsjxjfjdisjdjb:
which year are you in please? Is the bear market not hitting you at all? if you still call this bull market, I wonder oooo
He is correct. It is a bear correction in the bull run. You see...most people buy when everyone start saying crypto has tripled but by that time, smart investors are ready to sell. Just look at this kind of post...when you see people talking like this...that is the time to buy crypto. When we are back in the bull run, most of them will come to buy it at a very high price and when they lose, they will say na scam. Don't mind the post. Infact, this kind of post is a pointer that it is time to buy
HealthRe: Christiane Amanpour Diagnosed With Ovarian Cancer by helpee(m): 4:27am On Jun 15, 2021
Idabakanta:
Quote me any where.. she has won this battle.. especially with early diagnosis.. abeg, what is any woman above 50 doing with ovaries and uterus? And what is a 50 year old man doing with a Prostate gland? We need to educate our people..
which battle? Which early diagnosis? Ovarian cancer is aggressive. She may be lucky but no one ..not even her doctors can be so sure with ovarian cancer
HealthRe: Christiane Amanpour Diagnosed With Ovarian Cancer by helpee(m): 4:26am On Jun 15, 2021
HitRun:
Plenty people de survive am.
plenty people no dey survive ovarian cancer o. It is one of the most aggressive gynaecological cancers. Na God go help am
PoliticsRe: COAS Appointment Is A Missed Opportunity For Unity - Farooq A. Kperogi by helpee(m): 7:16am On May 29, 2021
helinues:
Please stop quoting me.. That's not too hard ask.. There are thousands of other NL'S to engage with.

Thank you
then you stop talking trash on a public forum. You can't be displaying madness for others and insist we should allow you to enter market when we have a psychiatric home. It is too hard to ask that we must leave your biased comments for others to see without anyone pointing out your bigotry
CrimeRe: Baba Ijesha Granted N500K Bail On Health Grounds by helpee(m): 10:07pm On May 17, 2021
CSTRR:
No.

Yomi fabiyi is not a true friend. He is a shameless paedophile supporter and probably a paedophile himself that has not been caught.

If I had a Friend that was accused of paedophilic rape, especially with that kind of video evidence, i would cut all ties with him and publicly denounce him.

That child could be anybody's.
please rest. He is not a true friend but you that will cut all ties is the true friend. Which video evidence did you see? You saw the age of the girl in the video that made you to know he is paedophile or you heard what they were discussing. Abeg
Foreign AffairsRe: The Banner On A Ship Carrying Jewish Refugees To Palestine In 1947 by helpee(m): 5:42pm On May 16, 2021
Bettykeys:
Unfortunately, Christians in Nigeria are not aware that the number of Christians in Israel are not up to 3%

Majority of religion in Isreal is Jews with approximately 75% in population
so who cares? You think any rational human being will support suicide bombers and terrorist? You know how many havoc these Muslims have caused? Even if isrealis are worshipping sango, any rational human being will support them.against those terrorist. Apart from Palestinian and the surrounding Muslim countries, how many times have you heard that a Jew practicing Judaism went on a suicide mission somehere? Now consider the other party...from Nigeria to Mali to somalia to France to America to everywhere....they are always causing trouble so even if they finish killing the Jews today, they will start trouble elsewhere. They are naturally trouble makers. This is not about wether they are Christians or not, I will gladly support a traditionalists against those trouble makers
PropertiesRe: Should I Sign This Tenancy Agreement? by helpee(m): 6:29pm On May 12, 2021
Synord:
You are not getting the point . Nobody is saying it should be done without the landlord permission or landlord can’t inspect . I

Please read my last response more carefully .

Please feel free to also google structural changes to understand the true meaning of same

PropertiesRe: Should I Sign This Tenancy Agreement? by helpee(m): 4:54pm On May 12, 2021
Synord:
Issues with clause B3.

1) prior “ Written “ Consent of the landlord . This means even if Consent is granted , it must be clearly written and action acted upon the unwritten consent of the landlord is unfavorable . As such , no matter how dire or urgent the situation is , no matter how far the landlord might be , a clear written authorization of the landlord must be available before any structural changes is carried out .

Do you get now ?

If a certain paint of his house is leaking during an heavy rain and urgently needs to be done by molding a block or structurally adjusting maybe the window or burglary , it can’t be done without the express “ Written “ permission of the landlord .

A proper option would have been

A) just put “ Prior Consent “ of the landlord
B) such structural alteration is done if done in line with an imminent emergency or disaster is subject to final approval by the landlord whose consent can be sorted after same is carried out as long as such alteration , addition ,Most subtraction is in line with the terms of this agreement and done in good faith .


2) Issue Two with clause B3

No Force Majuere . - What if an act of God , or event prevents the tenant from seeking the written consent of the landlord before carrying out this structural adjustment .

Let’s say there’s an imminent flood about to enter the house and in a bid to save his properties , he breathes or quickly rearranges something in that house , should he still be held liable for breaching “ the written consent of the landlord approval”.
All these are not reasonable excuse. Imminent flood? From where? Rearrangement has nothing to do with structural changes. To make structural changes require time and planning and artisans. All the time you are using to make preparations is enough to inform your landlord. I haven't seen any tenancy agreement that doesn't include the clause that you can't make structural changes to the house without the permission of the landlord. If you are my lawyer and you draft an agreement without that clause, I won't pay you anyway. As per inspection, it is worldwide. Landlord must have a reasonable right to inspect their house. Check this write up I attached from far away australia and see how people prepare for landlord inspection

NB- any imminent flood that gives you time to make structural changes is no longer an emergency. You must inform your landlord. If it is really flood that won't give you notice then what you need is evacuation not structural changes to someone property. Quickly look for a way to move your things out for your own safety

PropertiesRe: Should I Sign This Tenancy Agreement? by helpee(m): 4:31pm On May 12, 2021
Synord:
Your third sentence is the reason why you feel there is nothing with those clauses . Trust me .

There are things wrong with the clauses
infact, in Australia, you can't even repaint the house without an express permission of the landlord and people prepare specially for inspection because should your landlord not be happy with the way you are using his house, he will give you quit notice. The problem is, getting a new house won't be easy because subsequent landlord want a reference from your work place and previous landlord. Landlord should have right of inspection at reasonable time is the key

PropertiesRe: Should I Sign This Tenancy Agreement? by helpee(m): 4:03pm On May 12, 2021
Synord:
This is a poorly drafted and ambiguous agreement .

Clause b3 and b4 are ambiguous . The attention aspect of the agreement is ambiguous , unneeded and poorly drafted .


What you are asking for is a professional legal advice which I can offer but of course, it is not free .

I would advise you don’t sign the agreement and if you need proper reasons as to why and what to do next , you can contact me via Pm or seek a nearby lawyer .

Remember , ignorance of the law is not an excuse and violenti non fit injuria .
oga lawyer,say you are looking for client. There is nothing ambiguous in those two clauses. I am not a lawyer. The landlord should have a reasonable right of inspection of his property. They may just time it...maybe annually or six monthly and then with maybe two weeks notice. Secondly, you want to make any structural change to my property even if it is painting, you let me know. That is standard
RomanceRe: I Noticed That My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me And This Later Happened by helpee(m): 5:08pm On Apr 24, 2021
Geonigga:
She has done the same thing in three occasions previously, she keeps on raising flemsy excuse that her phone was in her bag and many more similar excuses, I have to give her the benefit of the doubt until the recent one.
summary of the matter is that they were banging her when you called and she didn't want you to be hearing her ringing tone outside your studio. Are you satisfied now? Make u no dey bring all these children talk here again
PoliticsRe: Amachree: DSS Informed FG Of Pantami’s Extremist Views Before His Appointment by helpee(m): 8:46am On Apr 22, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
I think i am right, it is all about religion.

See your statement and check your hate.
You woke up early in the morning defending someone that said osama bin laden is a better muslim than him. They just posted a document that showed where the guy was plotting the assassination of a christian governor and promising violence to stop christianity in the north and the first thing you talked about is PDP. You are now pretending like a sane person while asking me to check my hate. If you don't hate the people this guy was planning to assassinate you won't be defending him by shouting PDP. Does Nigeria start and end with PDP and APC? Don't you see you guys are busy destroying everything including your own future and the future of your unborn children just because of 3k and your religious extremism? Like I earlier said, you will be more useful eating pig than killing your fellow human being because his religion is different from yours and anyone that holds such views as pantami can only be defended by a fellow terrorist so it is you that should check your hate and stop insulting our sensibilities early in the morning
PoliticsRe: Amachree: DSS Informed FG Of Pantami’s Extremist Views Before His Appointment by helpee(m): 8:19am On Apr 22, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
First, you claim, it was not about his religion, now we can now see the big picture.

It is all about religion.

Christians and pdp, keep forging and bringing up documents to paint Dr.isa PATAMI black.

How come, it is only pdp calling for his sack??

Who is Dennis Amachree? An anti government person, retired in 1999, who have a life career, abusing the buhari government, imagine, an sss former official living in the United states, this shows he is a betrayal.
Mad terrorist. Just go and do your own suicide bombing. You will serve islam better than this 3k you are collecting to defend terrorism early in the morning. It is even better for you to eat pig self and Allah will still forgive you than this
NYSCRe: Has NYSC Destroyed Your Relationship Before? Tell Us Your Story by helpee(m):
DemonInvoker:
I called my gf to come meet me at so so place that my car was bad and asked the Unical babe if she knew a mechanic around she said,yes!!one mechanic wshop was not far from there.
We went there together and saw a mechanic guy and took him back to the car...At that point I told the babe it was okay,That she can go and rest that it was my problem to handle but she insisted on staying...That she couldn't just leave me like that.
By then my gf was already calling to know exactly where I was which I told her...She finally located me... Immediately,She came she recognized and hugged with the Unical babe,they talked for a while and she asked me where I knew her from and I told her we just met...The babe became uncomfortable and left...The mechanic told me the problem with the car wasn't something he can finish that day coz it was already getting dark around 4:30pm already.
We pushed the car into his wshop and he promised before I come the next day that the car would be fixed.
I called a cab to take us to any nice hotel where we can spend the night...After driving round and round the town,we couldn't find any reason place to crash not even a manageble substandard hotel...Every where was already fully booked.
We entered one eatery to eat and settle down small...It was 7pm already...My babe then reluctantly told me not to worry that I can sleep at her place since she stays alone,that worst comes to the worst if I couldn't find a Hotel to Lodge...I can sleep at her Place....I was actually the one that told her precisely to look for a good hotel where we can Lodge and catch fun for like 5days not knowing her place was like a mini-hotel room... Comfortable was an understatement...And Then the Drama!!
*To be Continued*Story too long,man gaz sleep.
What is wrong with this man. See the way I balanced dey read story you come talk say you wan go sleep. If you dont want to start dreaming of masquerade pursuing you in that sleep, you better come and finish the story you started
PoliticsRe: Isa Pantami Criticises Clerics Who Go Into Politics (Throwback Video) by helpee(m): 5:32am On Apr 16, 2021
360degreess:
This man's political rivals and enemies are trying so hard to discredit him.. First, they lied that he is on CIA's watch list for sponsoring terrorism, the same news source came out to apologise that the news wasn't genuine.. Secondly,Someone came out with old audio of about 21years ago(year 2000), saying pantami said he feels Joy whenever Christians are been killed.. Now comes another new one again.. They are not mentioning the tremendous achievement he has made in the communication industry..Hmmm.Nigeria , Nigeria..
Well I trust Buhari,he won't even listen to all these nonsense.. Pantami carry go with your good works.
I am genuinely ashamed for you and your family. Do you know how many people his followers killed that 21yrs ago because of his views and teachings? So if I say I am happy that Muslims are being killed like chickens, you will still blame my enemies for what I say with my own mouth? Please, no matter what you are earning from Buhari, don't be completely shameless. You have children...they may be killed one day and pantami of this world will definitely celebrate their deaths in sha Allah if you continue like this
CareerRe: Your Experiences With Chinese Bosses As Nigerians by helpee(m): 8:22am On Apr 13, 2021
Muyiwaipere:
I started work as a technical operator in a popular Chinese company.He was really impressed at the way I handled the work and machine in the first day

the next day he asked me about the working process of the machine which I told him perfectly cause I am this fast learner

Guess what caused wahala o...he asked where I wrote it down and I said I have it all in my head ..

Bros no be small thing o...e change am for me funish and gimme two days pay say make I Dey go
He was right to be annoyed but wether he was right to sack you is what I don't know. How can you write it in your head? So if you fall sick no other person can operate the machine. No boss will be happy with that. You will eventually hold them to ransom if you are the only one that knows how to operate it by head
FamilyRe: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by helpee(m): 5:59am On Apr 12, 2021
DedeNkem:
You can let your home run wild! My home isn't a drive-through joint!

If you can't afford buying phone for your mother-in-law (if she can't afford it) to call whenever she's wants to come, then you're a failed in-aw!

If you have no rule at your home to keep unwanted visitors away, then you're a complete failure.

That someone is my in-law doesn't give the person impunity to visit at will unexpectedly. My mother doesn't visit without calling, so why shouldn't hers?!

Anyway, I'm fortunate to have great in-laws and I also call them before visiting.
Congrats once again. Most of you guys only runs your mouth on social media. So if your mother didn't call before visiting you won't open doors for her? Is your mother staying 10minutes drive from you? If your mum stays ten minutes drive from you and still have to call everytime before visiting then you are not really having a good relationship. So your mum can't come to visit someone in the area and use the opportunity to branch at your place just to say Hi because the so called son is living in dodan barracks. That your own mum has to call everytime doesn't make it ideal. Infact, that she has to call everytime means your relationship is not even cordial. My own mum? She can come anytime. My in-laws...they can visit us anytime. How many rooms do they want to use? Is it what they will eat or the sitting room they will use? I am doing well and they are doing well. I don't need to buy them a phone. They do call many times that they are coming...and if they don't call they are more than welcome. They respect themselves in my house and I give them their regard. We are in Africa. If you are living in the western world, you think you are the one that will be controlling the home? Your wife will just tell you not to come back home. She will just tell you she want you out of the house that is when your eyes will clear
FamilyRe: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by helpee(m): 5:18am On Apr 12, 2021
DedeNkem:
We are not in an era when mobile phones were rare or non-exitence. Mobile phone is one of the easiest things people have access to.

If you come to my gate without an earlier permission to come, make sure you've enough money to go back to wherever you came from!

I don't care about who you are, you must seek and receive permission before you come! And seeking permission doesn't necessarily mean you'll get it every time.
congrats. If your wife's mum calls your wife that she is at the gate, you will tell her not to open gate for her because you are the husband and the mumu wife will leave her mum at the gate because her lord, the husband has commanded her not to open the gate because she dey for prison. Even if you are the one that helped her mum to pay the hospital bill for her birth, there is a limit to which you will disrespect someone's parent all in the name of marriage. How much wil it cost to divource you? Definitely not more than the transport money to take her mum back to where she came from.
FamilyRe: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by helpee(m): 5:17pm On Apr 11, 2021
The op is just telling lies. He said his mother is dead in one of his threads and here...he is saying his own parents live 5minutes away and don't come visiting. Is it the step mum he described as a devil that will come visiting?

FamilyRe: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by helpee(m): 4:51pm On Apr 11, 2021
emerged01:
You shouldn’t judge him. That what he want. When it is your turn you can accommodate anything you wish. Some mother in law shouldn’t be tolerated.
you think we are in the 50s when women die in their husbands house? It is not always about what you want if you want a lasting marriage. If the man can't tolerate the mother in law on a visit, what other things won't he tolerate? Such men that don't want families around their wives are rarely nice. The women are constantly Living in fear. If you can't tolerate the mother in law you may tolerate divource. You think your wife will automatically hate her mum just because you don't want her visiting? Be considerate. When you show kindness to your in-laws your wife consider it as love

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