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Olumighty123:
A very unusual mistakes, how on earth do people forget stuffs inside a human during surgery ?

Happens all over the world. It is now very rare but still happens especially in emergencies and very difficult surgeries

Manaria15:
When you have only one doctor doing everything, when I had surgery, at General hospital, the doctors were about 3, excluding the anesthetist, what one could not see his colleagues will see it, it was a team work, and I didn't have any further complications to the Glory of God. From the day I decided to have the surgery I refused private hospital, even though it took me months to be booked, it was worth the wait.

Thank God nothing went wrong. It is way more complex than that. That you didn't have complications had nothing to do with general hospital. Complications happen everywhere and even with several surgeons things can happen

merahki:
Dear “God” Stop the judging
They are all consenting adults and will not be hurting anyone else with their party
So what gives!?
(Supposing that your one -track thinking was the case)

I guess you are the husband with the way you are running hecter skelter over the thread . So some perverts came seeking for advice on a public forum and I rightly gave my own impression and you find fault with my observation. If they didn't bring their perversion to online forum, I won't contribute in the first place . Which kind husband will know someone is requesting for sex from his wife and then go ahead to promise paying for the wedding of the guy for a job well done. Which job....for fuccckng his wife well or what? And he met same guy with the former oloso wife( at least she confessed using sex to pay for money which is a classical description of oloso) in his own house on many occasions and the mumu husband is still smiling. Either he is a mumu or he set up CCTV in that house waiting to unleash his wife nudes on the internet very soon. Anything short of that, they are all perverts. So what is my own in all these?

SifonAbasi:
I have told him. He said I shouldn't worry.
My husband promised to sponsor his edding whenever he wants to marry as an appreciation for all he did for me when I was single.
Just to please him, last year my husband awarded him a contract and that contract brought them together.

During my child's naming ceremony he was given our house address.

when your husband finally organise the orgy you guys are planning, let us know. Both you, your husband and your ex are all pervert

Platini7:
Yes bro......i still have the "fake" facebook account i created 10 years ago simply cos i don't want to be seen on facebook.
I still browse around facebook using same account but I DO NOT express any flimsy emotions to any girl there since when i stopped the act many years ago. That is just the plain truth.

Maybe the error was not deleting the account once i got married........but i guess that's because i completely forgot what i did with the account in it's early days.

Talk true jare. You be scammer. You were using fake Facebook accounts to scam people and your wife now discovered she married a 419. She ran out. Simple. It is 419 that usually open numerous fake accounts to dupe people. You scammer her friend using that fake account years ago. You think we be mumu? If your story is true make your village head die.

@roadtorecovery, decades ago, I was addicted to masturbation in school. It was so bad that one day, I went on a marathon fasting for three days without food and water. I was so tired. I slept with serious hunger about one hour before I finally broke the fast and I woke up with hard erection pressing the foam. The feeling was so sweet and I continued rubbing the erection against the foam till I released. Come and see frustration. But that was also my point of deliverance. I just told myself....IF I MASTURBATE, NA GOD I OFFEND NO BE DEVIL SO I DONT CARE AGAIN. Truth is....I still masturbated for close to a year afterwards but I was no longer feeling so guilty about it and the lesser the guilt, the lesser I was doing it. Let me tell you the problem...YOU FEEL YOU ARE OFFENDING GOD SO YOU WILL KEEP RELAPSING. Don't mind what over religious folks will tell you. Stop feeling extremely guilty. It will lead to a psychiatric problem. You already have at least two features of major depression which is a psychiatric problem. You are feeling low all the time and you are losing interest in things. Once the devil knows you no longer feel too guilty he will lose his edge over you. Gradually, you won't see the need for the addiction again and you will stop. This is not cocaine or heroine that you need special help. YOU WANT TO USE YOUR ABSTINENCE TO PLEASE GOD. IT WILL BE DIFFICULT COS YOU WILL FEEL GUILTY AFTER EACH RELAPSE AND YOU WILL GIVE UP. Tell the devil....I am not offending you na God I offend . Let God kill his son if that is the way he corrects them. Some people that don't understand what I am saying will tell you I am lying buy I've passed through this before so I am so SURE THE MOMENT YOU STOP THINKING THAT GOD IS HAPPY WITH YOU ONLY WHEN YOU STOP....that is the beginning of your road to deliverance. Wether you are addicted or not, God don't love you more so stop allowing the devil to use that as a bate. You will still go and have sex... but you won't feel guilty and suddenly you will see it will lose its hold on you

DedeNkem:
A rich guy I know, rushed his wife to the hospital for an emergency medical condition. They bluntly refused to attend to her because the guy didn't have cash on him to deposit.

The guy begged them to treat his wife while he goes to find an ATM to collect money. They still refused. He had to leave his wife alone laying there, to find an ATM.

When he returned with cash it was already too late. His wife was dead. They tried to resuscitate her but the effort was useless.

As the heartbroken husband tried to take his wife's corpse away, the useless hospital demanded he pay ₦150k. The guy dared them to stop him. He left with the corpse without any resistance.

Nigerian hospitals are death traps, some are filled with incompetent doctors and nurses.

keep deceiving yourself. They refused to treat her yet they demanded for 150k. Does it make sense? Of course it doesn't. This is what likely happened....he took the wife to the hospital when she was already dying. The hospital knew she only had 50/50 chance and knowing the Nigerian mentality, they rightly demanded for money cos once a patient dies in Nigeria family won't want to pay.While doing that they were still attending to her. They probably started her on oxygen and started treatment right away while the husband went to look for money. When he came back, the woman died and he outrightly refused to pay hiding under GRIEF and still went ahead spoiling the name of the hospital. So the hospital was right in demanding for their deposit in the first instance. Has it ever occured to you that from what you just said here...the MAN REFUSED TO PAY DESPITE THE HOSPITAL SERVICES AND YOU ARE STILL BLAMING THEM. It is not everyone that visit a hospital that can be saved especially when you present so late but you still need to pay for their services. Whatever made the woman to die so fast could only mean the condition was already critical...they only remembered the hospital when it was too late and the only offence of the hospital was that they asked for money. I AM 100 PERCENT SURE IF THEY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING THEY WONT BE BOLD ENOUGH TO ASK FOR 150K

maestroferddi:
Well, the consolation here is that there are few doctors in Nigeria who are making the most of what is available to make a difference.

The rest, like people like you, will continue whining about working conditions forgetting that the impairment affecting professionals in Nigeria is not exclusive to doctors.

Let the reform begin with change of attitude.

Egotism is something that has to be managed. Failure begins when people ascribe infallibilty to themselves so much so that when doctors are told to mend their ways, you get the funny rejoinder that they graduated top of their high school classes.

My brother, the notion that people are envious of doctors is a figment of the imagination.

People just want value. Period.

leave preaching for pastors and work. How many doctors do you have left in nigeria? The same way Nigerians are going for medical tourism is the same way doctors themselves are relocating like bees. The truth is that statistically, the best student goes to medical school. It is not even debatable. It is a sure fact. People want value....so the doctor should manufacture equipment to provide value while the engineers whose duty it is to provide the equipment still have the boldness to criticize the doctor that is trying to cover up their uselessness by making use of the available Chinese equipment bought with exorbitant loans. Wait there be looking for value when you can't produce common toothpick and you call yourself engineer. How do you guys feel comfortable calling yourself engineer in Nigeria still amazes me. Is it electricity? Is it road construction? Is it software development? Where do you guys excel? You are bunch of failures. Doctors are trying their best with the little they could do? What are you guys doing?

maestroferddi:
You have a twisted sense of entitlement and contrarian logic to boot.

So because, according to you, either Nigerian engineers are teaching in secondary schools or Chinese are running engineering practice in Nigeria, then nobody should point glaring inadequacies of medical practice in Nigeria?

And you are supposed to be educated!

An apprehended felon tells the court that he dabbled into crime because he believes Nigerian politicians are stealing?

Nobody expects the medical tourism that typifies Africa/Nigeria to abate, all people are asking is that some doctors should exhibit a modicum of discretion and objectivity...

You don't have to take it personally...

take what personally? You are the one that is lacking in the so called education. The inadequacy of medical practice in Nigeria started with lack of equipment because our poorly trained engineers have failed us. So we can't point out the problem in medical practice without telling you that you are a FAILURE FIRST. Give us equipment first. The engineers that are developing sophisticated medical equipment in America don't have two heads. Stop pointing out the problem in medical profession....help us to solve it by working. We are not even asking for CT SCAN YET...GIVE US THERMOMETER FIRST. Then you will qualify to point out the so called inadequacies...until then shut the Bleep up because you have failed the doctors

maestroferddi:
I don't waste my energy bandying words with rustics.

You obviously are incapable of engaging me in an intellectual interchange.

I will not help you since you have elected to was infantile conceit on your sleeves.

Engaging you in an intellectual discourse? Now that your own profession is brought to limelight it becomes infantile conceit? Fool probably working for PHCN disconnecting light on poles when your colleagues are busy designing systems and providing infrastructural development for their countries. Better concentrate first and sanitise your poorly regulated profession where even artisans call themselves engineers since you guys know nothing anyway. Engineers criticising doctors in Nigeria. You must be high on osogbo weeds. You guys are the most useless professional in NIGERIA. Tell me one thing....just one thing ....just one infrastructure that engineers have successfully developed in Nigeria without begging Chinese to come to their aid

maestroferddi:
I am a trained engineer.

We are known to solve problems without making noises and trying to milk adulations for the sake of it.

Now you have it...

you actually make me laugh. Of course you don't make noises until the houses collapse and most roads get spoilt after a single okada passes through them? Do you know that the singular reason why Nigeria is lacking in infrastructure is because our engineers are docile and rather than think through next way to construct a subway through the busy Lagos metropolis and solve our transportation problem, they are busy looking for doctors to bash online. If people like you are doing your job, the so called doctors will have equipment to work with rather than than looking for millions of dollars to buy CT SCAN. Anyway, most nigerian engineers end up in a village secondary school teaching physics so they won't even realise they have failed the nation.

maestroferddi:
Granted that the guy went overboard, but the incontestable truth remains that some Nigerian doctors need re-orientation.

Medical practice is intrinsically humanitarian else the Hippocratic sworn by doctors will be a spectacle of nullity.

Nobody is saying people should get medical service f.o.c but then moderation should be the way to go.

Go to some government hospitals and see some doctors fiddling with their smart phones and wasting their time on frivolities when they should use their spare time to update themselves on mordern trends in their profession.

It is not every time we should be sounding politically correct...

Tell us your own profession let Nigerians judge how excellent your chosen profession is....so easy to criticize others when you are most likely more guilty of laxity in your profession. I dare you to tell us your profession. In every profession, people need continuous orientation . So let us know how oriented your own profession is before you take it upon yourself to re orientate doctors.

philip0906:
Complete bullocks!

You people think it is everybody in Nigeria that is poor. Some of us can pay for quality healthcare, some of us have comprehensive healthcare packages from our work place...but you know what, we'll pass on that.

The news is littered daily with gross incompetence from Nigerian doctors who have either misdiagnosed or applied wrong treatment regimen in patients leading to deaths and all. Thousands of Nigerians loose their lives yearly to doctors gross incompetence.

The Nigerian doctor is an empty nut head who is more interested in the prestige his Dr tittle accords him/her than getting the job done the right way.

You think your president, lawmakers and wealthy Nigerians who go outside the country for proper healthcare are silly? I won't even go near Nigerian doctors for a simple diagnosis... Incompetent lots

let me tell you this fact. In almost every country, only the best study medicine. So the best set of people studied medicine in Nigeria. The meaning is this....if the best nigeria can produce are incompetent, imagine what you are!!! If nigerian doctors are empty nut heads like you said...imagine what will be on your own head...SAWDUST

alsudaes1:
That's the major point raised by virtually all of them, MONEY!

You really don't understand. The major problem is always money. You need to do CT scan of 45k to properly diagnose a patient they tell you no money. You do your best to stabilise the patient without the test, they will say the treatment was sub standard and the hospital has no equipment. You refer them they will say you rejected them. You use your money and maybe the patient couldn't make it, they won't pay a dime and still fights you. In advanced economies, money is not a problem for the doctor. He needs CT scan he gets it done. He needs surgery he gets it done . So money is the main issue since the doctor is not getting funding in any other place....

NB...and do you by any chance assume this money we are talking about is the profit of the doctor? Oh no. It is essentially to get the patient well. If you have to do what an average doctor does in America to diagnose a stroke, you will spend at least one million. The doctor abroad don't care about this since someone is paying for it. This patient comes in the middle of the night in Nigeria without any money claiming no ATM and somehow expects a magic. The doctor refers...they will say he didn't do first aid. He rejected them.because of money. Do your best with what you have, they won't pay a dime by the morning. They will just say their uncle said they should bring the patient to the village.

oluayebenz:
Nobody can predict embassy especially the US embassy.........

I have seen many cases where genuine applicants were denied while weak profile was granted.

Nobody is a VO here plz, since you have advice the applicant and still wanna ahead, pls let's chill.

We also need to stop saying somebody will be denied 100%, what doesn't work for A might work for B.

Grace might work for him

if we are to rely on luck then this thread is useless. And please, IT IS TRUE THAT MANY GENUINE APPLICANTS ARE DENIED BUT EXTREMELY FEW PEOPLE WITH WEAK PROFILES ARE GRANTED AND IF YOU SEE THEIR TRANSCRIPT YOU MAY UNDERSTAND WHY. It is practically not possible for a jobless person to get a visa to go and greet someone he met online. This is a fact!!! It has nothing to do with God. Yes many genuine applicants can be denied especially when travel history is not that good but FEW PEOPLE, VERY FEW PEOPLE WITH WEAK PROFILES GET IT. A jobless person can get a student visa with sponsorship but never tourist visa. You are jobless and you are going on tourism. Anyway someone already said I was preaching to choir and I think she is right. I wish him best of luck jare. Let us move to something else

Mr100Dollars:
Really?... I hate replying negative comments but let's watch and see.

We don't know you. This is a faceless forum. Do you now assume we are jealous of you because you met the love of your life on the internet? I had a guy working for me even before trump. He met a fellow Jehovah witness online and they fell in love . I told him same thing. He got a letter from the lady. Got a letter from their kingdom hall he would use the opportunity to attend a kingdom hall conference bla bla. I told him not to mention the lady. He didn't hear. He travelled all the way to Abuja saying they had better success rate than Lagos. The moment he mentioned the lady...the VO just concentrated on the relationship and denied him after just 3 questions. In this your case, it is very very certain they will deny you. You are only going for excursion at the Embassy. Don't say we didn't warn. No VO will give you visa. Let me tell you your profile( not meant to demean you) so you can put yourself in the shoes of the VO and see.....YOU HAVE NO WORK, YOU HAVE NO FAMILY, YOU HAVE NO TRAVEL HISTORY COS YOU CANT EVEN AFFORD TO TRAVEL ON YOUR OWN(Not your fault since you have no job), YOU EVEN HAVE NO HOPE OF GETTING A GOOD JOB SOON SINCE YOU HAVE NO EDUCATION ( YOU DROPPED OUT OF SCHOOL), YOU MET A LADY ONLINE( WHEN NIGERIANS ARE KNOWN ONLINE SCAMMERS), YOU HAVE NEVER MET, YOU JUST WANT TO VISIT HER FOR TWO WEEKS AND COME( TO COME AND DO WHAT?) Why will you come back? So you think the VO will somehow become blind or deaf to all these qualities and then grant you the visa because a citizen invited you? He may even feel obligated to protect the citizen from you....since Nigerians are well documented online scammers using love to defraud American. Build a better profile for your future than wasting money on a visa you will most likely be denied of. You should have told the lady you want to go back to school since she want to sponsor you. Get admitted to an easy country in Europe and go and study first. It makes more sense

Spanishmilf:
This is dumb

He is actually right. The guy will be denied 100percent. Unless he changes the story to something else.

Spanishmilf:
Vo won't consider him asper say na givernor dey sponsor dem.... Because for consular to deny some apc memeber and pdp member visa....... He is just like a normal applicants.... and this trump era is something else

Actually it depends. If he is included as part of protocol officers....it means he will have a role in the trip. You know as a governor, you will be expected to have protocol officers in charge of different things for the trip to be meaningful so if the governor is including him as part of the protocol ..he will likely get a visa . Nothing is hundred percent . Even a governor can be denied entry not to talk of his entourage but all things being equal...he stands a good chance

Yusuf1743:
Pls my question is this.... Someone without travelling experience and once denied us visa in 2years ago. Now the person has an opportunity of travelling with a deputy governor as one of the entourage. Sponsored by state government does this person as stand a chance of been denied ? 2. Won't there be any interview for the those people the state government choose as entourage? 3. Is there any possibility that the passport can be stamped and returned to them without appearing at the embassy for interview as its from the goverment?.


Any body with knowledge pls


Thanks

A friend of mine packaged a trip for members of House of assembly of a state more than 2yrs ago. He actually approached Howard university and got a one week training course booked for members. He took all of them to the embassy. He had a previous denial from USA embassy but had an unused Tanzanian visa. They were all granted the visa without much ado. He had the approval of the governor with an upfront of 15million paid. Unfortunately, after the visa approval, he didn't know when the balance payment was approved. Some excos connived with the clerk and they got about 50million approved and members shared the money rather than going on the said trip. By the time he discovered, he petitioned the EFCC and members were taken all the way to Abuja but I told him he was wasting his money, he didn't believe. Unfortunately, he had spent the bulk of the 15million organising the trip cos he paid Howard some commitment fee and used the remaining to settle some people that facilitated the contract so the balance could come out. The bottom line is that the visa almost expired in his hand as he no.longer had money to finance only himself self. I actually don't know how he got the contract....he was just lucky and persistent. He later travelled few months before the expiration of the visa. Needless to say when it was time to renew the visa, he was roundly denied. Back to square one. And many of those members of the house are no longer in the parliament so the case with EFCC is dead. Very true life story. What am I saying self? Yes...you stand a good chance as an entourage of the governor

Matjekdar:
Guru in the house pls I need your advice I have applied for US visiting visa and got denied (3 times with the same process) then I was a student in the university cos a friend of mine in the US advise me to apply claiming that am coming to visit my aunty who is a US citizen.He sent an invitation mail to me which is said to be from my "aunty".The interviewer asked me why am I going to the US which I explained,the interviewer asked again what do I do I said am a student,the interviewer asked again who will sponsor me I said my dad.to cut the long story short I was denied three times with the same process.Now am married with kids(2) and want to reapply as family visa how will I make everything tally with my previous record without any problem.

just make sure you now have good travel history. There is no short cut to USA visa for you after 3 denials. So, have good family travel history and reapply. Best of luck

Stiflersammy:
Is it that worse that someone single can't go for visitation without job or travel history and had a sponsor. This visa things is getting worse each day.

Even you that is not a VO knows the guy is not going on any visitation. Of course he is planning to run away instead of looking for jobs. If it is that easy, you think anybody will remain in nigeria after youth service?

Spanishmilf:
i really wish VO can spend time like this with applicant.................
They dont spend 1min w8th applicant anymore... And he didn't reveal alot of info here probably because of security purpose.. Let see how it will turn out for him
E go be

Oh no!!! A simple No as answer to any of the important questions will get him a straightforward denial. For example, if the VO ask what kind of business and he answers and the business has nothing to do with work. He then ask him, who is sponsoring and he says my employer, he will just end the interview at that point. I was only trying to explain and not saying the VO will ask him all those questions. Like the other guy said, none of us is VO. We are only guiding based on what has been happening at the Embassy during interviews.

NB same way if the VO ask him how long has he been working there and he says 6months and then you say your employer is sponsoring you. He will just end it unless you have extensive travel history to Western countries prior to starting the job.These are just guides. Anyone can get the visa. It is not an interview for a software engineer that requires technical knowledge so even a jobless hairdresser can get it but don't count on it...it only happens once in a while

Spanishmilf:
what if dem give him d visa??
Because i see nothing wrong his writeup

like the guy rightly said, there is no VO on nairaland so they can give anybody visa but on a balance of probability his question line won't follow that route. As you can see, he is hiding a whole lot of details that the VO will be looking out for. First, he said he is going for business and tourism. You think the VO will just pretend he didn't hear the business aspect of it? Not likely. So the VO will ask him, what kind of business and unless we know his answer to that question, we may not know his chances. Moreso, the VO won't likely ask him wether he has been to USA in the last five years cos the VO will know already. He will only ask him wether he has travelled to other countries before which may or may not be on the present passport. Also the moment he says he is not travelling with his wife and kid, he will like to know why they are not travelling with him unless we know that the business can't accommodate family frivolity. Moreso, why is the employer sponsoring this? Is the business related to work? What value will the business bring to the company to warrant the company sponsoring him to the almighty America. Finally, has he spent more than one year or two years in that work place? Of course most employers won't send you to America after working for them for just one year and even if it is true, the VO will doubt it. And the VO may ask for your salary because if it is not significant, you can easily deceive your employer and not return. By and large, the question line he provided is not likely. But nobody can determine the outcome of his interview from here

Spanishmilf:
this thread is in page 145 today....... And have been following it back to back have neither come across any insult nor any abusive words from a nairlander even tho some ask.... annoying question we just ignore them..... If quora or reedit has been allowing their users use insultive comment on OP i believe it will won't be as big and famous as it is today.... You can just ignore d dude or don't quote him at all why call him stupid imagine calling someone father probably a grown ass man stupid and u might be a weakling teen..... If seyewest, omobendele or beautydaddy has been using abusive words on some annoying questions i don't really think this thread will ever reach page 20......... Watch your languages if you are annoyed by some questions asked here go to another thread or go F U C K yaself

Lol. You know you eventually did exactly what you reprimanded the guy for doing. You actually asked him to FU.C.k himself. That is not a compliment

Mancala:
You do have some rights when you apply for a visa because it is akin to a contractual process. I am saying those rights should include (if not already implied) a fair adjudication process. A process that is evidently fair to all. In practical terms, this is called abiding by not only the letter of the rules governing the process but also the spirit if the rules.

The only right you have when you apply for a visa is the right to get a decision. Since you paid for it, they must give you a decision. So the moment they deny you the visa, they have fulfilled their contractual part of the process. They owe you a decision. How they arrive at that decision is non of our business

NB- something funny happened recently. A guy got stranded on a bad road cos of the rain. When he got the front gate of house he used to have a lady friend, he decided to go in and ask her if he could park the car around. The GATE WAS NOT LOCKED. So he pushed the gate open and was instantly faced with two giant fighter dogs who were not chained. They belonged to the landlord. They seriously battered him. When he got to the clinic, the landlord told him he won't be responsible for the entire bill cos the dog was not a stray dog and the guy didn't knock. The argument of the guy was that they should have locked the gate. The man said....did that dog bite you within or outside the compound? The man said he didn't invite him and it is non of his business wether he locked his gate or not. This story may not be related with what we are saying but the only lesson there is this....YOU CANT DICTATE TO THE OWNER OF THE HOUSE HOW HE SHOULD SCREEN HIS VISITORS. If you don't want to be bitten by a dog or you don't want to waste money applying for a visa, stay clear of the embassy.