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Coder2Client:
This is exactly what a girl did that made me dumped her. She has no female friends except male friends and she a type that listens to what other guys say.

Your friend need to pick one of those male friends she hang out with and let that guy be.

I can't stand a girl that keeps male friends. A girl that keeps male friends when she claims to be in serious relationship can't and won't make good home.

The last sentence is just the truth. Many besties with different genders tend to develop feelings for each other overtime, they're just too scared to admit it. A lady with much male friends will almost always be caught in a string of complicated emotional affairs.

donvoice:
Are you trying to find an excuse for them?

No, I'm just not ruling out that possibility.

What if he's a divorcee?

kalex0:
Don't mind me
How was your day ?

My day is going just fine. Thanks for asking. I hope it's same for you?

kalex0:
Yh she did
she is pained.
Still don't know y??

Lol obviously because she loves him, and doesn't know what she did wrong.

kalex0:
I said this based on your response

I'm not a sex freak.

The fact that he chats with her everyday doesn't mean he likes her that much.


Do u want him to keep deceiving her till they meet and Bleep...


U guys don't want the truth

I really blame the dude

He should have played along

Are we cool now??

Now you agree that she dodged a bullet? Lol.

kalex0:
Let me tell u the fact

I do this sometimes just for the fun of it or stuff.

It might be I'm new to that area and I needed someone to talk to.

Once I find a new companion around my area, I back off.

I swear she din do anything wrong.
She will surely be remembered when the guy is planning to come to Lagos.


She should move on!!!

You should have said all these in the first place, instead of justifying his action.

kalex0:
I hardly get rejected
I have sex anytime I want to.
If she can't handle rejection, tell her to stop giving guys her attention.
Simple!!!

You think it's all about sex? Now I understand you. Shame!

kalex0:
I hardly get rejected



That's the truth.

should be mature enough to understand and move too.

Is that too much to ask for?

Why this thread then

Supposing it was a guy that created a thread like this , u will start calling him names.

I'm only trying to make a difference

You just don't get it, do you?

They were both getting clingy. He said he was attracted to her, and she reciprocated. Then he suddenly started ignoring. Guy, use your church mind judge this matter. Is that fair? The OP doesn't know what she did wrong. Don't you think she deserves to know at least?

kalex0:
How m I pained!
I don't understand

You don't have to be a jerk because a lady rejected you.

kalex0:
I can only accept your claim of she hasn't rejected any guy b4 Shalom

Pained soul! Lol.

kalex0:
I wish we can meet in person, let me introduce you to some classic babes not all this u chase in your street.

I'm pained??!

I'm just being real here

Let her handle the rejection

She has the audacity to say all guys are trash just because she was rejected

Wow!

U are truly an ass licker

I'd have to fault her for saying all men are trash, but it's not enough reason to justify whatever that guy did. Oga you seem like the one who can't deal with rejection here. It's different when a girl gets flirty with you and then starts ignoring. When she doesn't give you an immediate attention and shows no interest in the first place, you should be mature enough to understand and just move on. The former seems to be the case in the OP's narrative.

kalex0:
Y judging first based on her story?
Y dint u wait to her from the other side

Y will u say she dodged a bullet??


Do u even know if the guy dodged a bullet too


All this SIMPs self


What's so special about the lady?
Lol

I make my assumptions based on the information that I have. The lady is obviously hurt. If she wasn't, she wouldn't bring the matter here. I can give her the benefit of the doubt on that basis. From the way you are typing, it would be difficult to even debunk her claims, since you are already justifying his actions without knowing why he did it. Simply put, you are wicked and you shouldn't blame any lady for that.

kalex0:
I don't understand

U made your point and I made mine

Y are u taking it personal?


She should accept rejection for once

This is just a waste of time

Have a nice day

No, you didn't make any realistic point. You're pained, and this is due to the rejection you probably got from ladies. You don't use your unfortunate experiences to judge others.

Have a nice day too!

kalex0:
You are talking in the rubbish.
What if she has done that to someone else??

She dodged a bullet?!! I just don't the kind of breeds we have here

What if she she hasn't done that to someone else? When did you become her judge?

kalex0:
Is it by force for the guy to keep talking to her
He no like am again ma Im be say he no like her...
Tell the motherfucker to move on.

I'm being realistic here too

Ass licker!!!

Hypocrite na im you be. You nor different from the girls wey you dey criticize. Park well baba!

kalex0:
Nice one

They can't handle rejection but the can reject guys

Lol

This is a different case. She probably wouldn't have had a problem with him if they didn't get mutual. Why did he get flirty with her in the first place if he knew he was going to eventually treat her this way? 'cause it seems premeditated to me. Bros, women get wahala but let's call a spade a spade, the guy is wrong for ignoring her just like that. He should have at least told her what she did wrong.

BTW, is it by force for a lady to accept you? She nor like you na im be say she nor like you. Move on!

Don't call me an ass licker, I'm simply being realistic.

Things like this just piss me off to the core. Me nor dey waste time for nonsense o! Once I see a red flag, I move.


You need to discuss this with your fiancée who doesn't even seem to be much different from her mom. If she doesn't respond positively, please end things immediately. Forget love, your mental health is what matters here.


Wait! What am I even saying sef? Talk to her?? Bros please leave that relationSHIT right now. You are simply wasting your time and risking your health and wealth. You only need to put your head down, and with time, the right woman will be there.

I know it's not going to be easy, but it's a bold step that needs to be taken. As people always say, "A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage" . Please I strongly advise you move on.

It's pretty simple. Develop new priorities and focus on them.

Thank you! I needed this.

People will always try to disrupt a good course, and they always give "good" reasons for it.

YorubaKinging:
How Is everything you just wrote going to stop someone stabbing you?

I think you're doing this for the likes and I will stop commenting on your posts

You're great lukeworms, you're quoting the bible without knowing how and when to use it


You're a fool

Guard yourself (your heart) -- Protect your heart from evil thoughts so they don't become a part of you and start manifesting in your actions.

Put on the whole armour of God -- The shield of faith, the breastplate of righteousness, etc, will shield and help you fight against those evil thoughts/imaginations.

Those two lines can go a long way to stopping heinous crimes told in the original post. You only need to be able to meditate and apply.

I have lost hope in humanity.

I schooled in a state very far from my home. Few months after I graduated, I got to know that one of my ex course mates lives close to me. Person wey I think say I nor go ever see again. Small world huh?

Anuoluwa1234:
U don't need to agree with my analysis dear, intelligence differ, the way we assimilate differs. So it is not a molust u get the picture of what am saying

I'm not arguing with you. From the way I asked the questions, it should be easy to see that I'm only asking because I need an explanation, not to prove you wrong. I simply do not understand, as an intelligent person (as you claim to be), the least you could do is offer an explanation. No need to get ahead of yourself.

Anuoluwa1234:
.. lie from the pit of hell.. for males, it is even more dangerous. Cuz as you masturbate, etc . The semen coming out of you is very high in protein, it also contains some % of blood, etc.. that is why semen carries DNA..etc.
The danger there is, the more you masturbate as a male, the more you loose proteins in you body.
And proteins are body builders.
All organelles, enzymes, tissues, hair, nails etc..are proteinous in nature. Etc.
You can only HV a separate case, if you are a male that eat good thing.. etc. And that doesn't even really matter,
Cuz, proteins are needed in the body, the body doesn't store it, it recycle it..
Don't listen to all those yeye scientific updates, wey name of scientist wey prove am no dey self

How does the percentage of protein in semen determine the percentage of protein in the body? Semen contains roughly 50% protein, but that's not the same thing as saying the semen is responsible for roughly 50% of the body's protein composition. I don't support masturbation, but I can't seem to connect the dots in your analysis.

jasent:
Why is Arsenal playing for the second time and Chelsea have not play even one?Am I missing something?

The match they played against city was an outstanding match.

I almost did recently, but thank God for self control.

Yxxx:
After charging the hormones of young men with your pose. You say No means No. You make these men imagine stuffs and knowing they can't have you, they go to the next available female victim.
What's wrong with some women?
I hate rape but I also hate bullshit.
Shame!!!
Whoever deleted my previous comment, my question to you is " have you lost your morals"?

Anyone who disagrees with this comment is nothing but a dolt.