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Why do you want to bleach your skin?

Have you ever thought about your new life being a result of his prayers for you? If he really did pray for you, then that prayer was from the depth of his heart. That guy really loves you, Tomilola421. I can't tell you to date him, as it's entirely your decision to make, but you need to really take this serious. You need to really think and pray about it from the depth of your heart, like he prayed for your salvation.

Rozz:
lol but he's behaving childish

How exactly?

tyup:
Nothing annoys me more than weaklings like you who always go pacify a lady after every disagreement either ur at fault or she is

That's an outrageous mumuish attitude from you...shit u should have ur pride

From my predictions she would one day disgrace and embarrass you Publicly n you'll still be the one to beg n this would continue for a very Loooong time till u get frustrated n shattered and she wouldn't care

Not everyone has a hard heart, and pride costs one more than they gain.

Will this nonsense ever stop?

I don't follow up with this Cordelia-Festus anymore. The matter nor dey bother me again.

Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point. The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and i bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early may, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone . we would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting. Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When i got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day

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Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Finestboy

For those reading comments, sorry for quoting the entire post. OP! Did you see the text I emboldened? Your answer lies there.

PrettyPrint:
you sure say you never send me dm before?

Hahahaha!! If my belle burst, na you cause am o!

Lol who wouldn't miss such a funny bloke? Dude always had me cracking up with his show of savagery. I also miss AkwaetitiBabe, she's one of the most down to earth ladies I know on here.

BTW, why did you tag those moderators? You expect them to push this to the front page? Lol.

nzehvictor2016:
or you might have a serious mental delusions,that's if the story is true,if it's a concocted story then I say your mental disorder is mild.

How does his mental state connect to the physical mechanisms of those cuts? Do you mean that he makes those cuts by himself unconsciously?

Evercurious:
Really?

Lol yes. Please explain the following passages: Acts 2:1-4 and 1 Corinthians 14:6.

Evercurious:
Obviously you NEVER DESIRED it. So you never got filled..

I was expecting a comment like this. That is not my understanding of the gift of tongues, I wouldn't desire anything that unscriptural.

MPESA:
As in very stupid gan.... Why will you be teaching me how to speaks in tongues whereby it happens naturally without you having control over it ......
Gone are the days when you only specak in tongues when holy speak descends on you but now they are now teaching as a lessons in our churches today.

Some time back in school, someone actually prayed for me, and was trying to "invoke" the gift of tongues into me. Like she was praying and "speaking in tongues" so that I could start speaking in tongues that moment. Aunty pray tire and was expecting that I would start faking it. Honestly, I tried to fake it, but I just couldn't. Why would I stay and start saying nonsense for no reason?

For real, I initially read the title as "Lockdown measures will no longer be necessary" .

Agbagbaregoo:
Before God and man I never accused her

You may not have done that verbally, but she'd feel that way after everything, especially with the fact that you just got to know each other.

Jim99:
Oga u send money, person no receive am nor be ur fault. E dey happen all d time.

U fall hand sha, come dey beg am on top ur own money smh.

Boss, as the matter dey, I nor sure say na because of the money they chick dey vex. Na because of the accusation wey them knack am. How you go feel if person tell you say you receive money wey you nor see?

@Agbagbaregoo

This might be a blessing in disguise, but I also agree with sisisioge. You should have shown her the evidence, then her reaction would determine your next action. I understand her decision to not continue with the "relationship".

She doesn't want any trouble, and she thinks that you'll have a hard time trusting her. No one wants to be in a relationship like that. Her mind may be made up but you should sincerely apologize. I know it's not your fault, and you shouldn't feel guilty, but just do it to let peace have its way.

Send her a text containing an outpour of your heart, include a shot of the document given to you by the bank. Do that just to rid your self of the guilt, then move on. Don't sweat it. If she's yours, she'll come back.

Nice words, but yet again, people can't differentiate between "lose" and "loose" .

Millenniumlady:
He said the truth especially all these fustrated broke boys on this forum bashing people is what they do for a living.....The truth is 99% of the men on this forum are useless.

99% of your comments on this forum centers around men and money, and 100% of those comments are senseless. What an airhead.

[quote author=Ahdunns post=89850669][/quote]The question is about your behaviour, not hobbies or likes. Someone can share the same interests with you, but their behaviours may not be something good to write hone about.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Before she began asking because she could hear footsteps plus the door was firmly locked.[/color]

Lol then I think you got it all twisted. Why would she want to start a trouble with you??

lol

Wow! This is a very deep question.

It should make us reflect on ourselves, to know if our behaviours are actually good. This is specifically for those who tend to criticise others a lot who exhibit certain behaviours that are not considered appropriate.

So let me help the OP echo the question: Can you marry anyone who behaves exactly like you?

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1, 4, and 5 lol.

Number 4 actually happened in the kitchen. My biggest bro caught me licking the bournvita kept in the kitchen for everyone, and that guy dey always discipline me anytime wey I mess up.

Omo na so bros descend on me with turning stick. He didn't even go for my hands, or back, he just kept hitting the joints of my knees. I became crippled for about 20 minutes lol. Since that day ehn, fear nor gree me enter kitchen oo.

What happened to freedom of expression? He probably didn't mean it the wrong way. This is tyranny! What is wrong with this continent sef?

Greatest baby daddies of all time.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]She pushed the door and it was locked.

I feel like she followed me to the restroom for some reason .[/color]

When did she ask? Was it before or after she pushed the door?

My guess is she pushed the door after she asked, since no one answered. She probably thought it was just closed without being locked, so since no one answered, her next action was to try to know if the door was locked or not. That could be why she pushed the door.

Why do you think she'd want to follow you into the restroom?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]She was sure, if not how else did the door turn up locked? [/color]

Did she try to open it?

The fact that it was closed doesn't necessarily mean that it was locked, so she wouldn't be too sure.