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Positivechick:
I will never regret asking my boyfriend for money . For a year I hvnt really asked him for anything, n he didn’t use he’s senses! So I shouldn’t ask , to clear all doubt. I hv heard you .

You don't demand money from someone who is broke and without a job. If he decides to give to you willingly, that's cool, but demanding from him in that state is a big NO.

steveekeoma:
how would he takes care of her when he's jobless and proud? Whose money would he uses to care of her?

Lol I believe that's a question for her.

Lamanii22:
Don't confuse stinginess with being smart.... Read the OP's story again then you can make your comment properly...


P.S, I aired out my opinion, you should too. You don't need to mention me....

Hi Lamani! I've seen many of your comments on NL and I must say that you seem to be a really nice and sensible lady [seem to be, because I haven't met you in person]. If this is who you really are, then I think that's a gem-like feature you got there. I just felt I needed to compliment you. Take care.

Theundertaker:
which nonsense role , omo the babe try . If she’s relaxed about he’s present ways then she does not love him. No woman will comfortable in such dilemma

If you can't read between the lines, I'm sorry, I can't do that for you.

peterangelo:
Its obvious u see urself like a boss that knows nothing up dere

Nah! I'm just a lover of truth, and I say things as they are.

peterangelo:
Mk the boy mama do the advice not the poor girl



If u b 20 years old n u never get sense to advice urself
U will b poor 4ever

You are making this all about him, you are not addressing her role as a partner.

peterangelo:
bruh u r saying trash

You clearly don't know anything about life. Abeg avoid me.

I fear nothing about ageing, rather I'm only eager and praying to live to the point where I can see the fruits of my fruits.

Victoria Benin? Hahahahahaa..

You better remove your shoes from your legs and take to your heels asap. He saved her number as "my love" , and saved yours as "Victoria Benin" . The message is clear na, no one needs to interpret it for you.

Get married to Keri Hilson or her Naija lookalike, Eva Alordiah.

Paxie55:
My problem isn't his birthday money. Nothing concern me on how a broke boy decides to spend his #1 or 10kobo lol.
My issue with him is his visionless attitude and laziness. Why are you guys not seeing that? Is it only birthday money you guys are seeing? No wonder some people said it's only senile people that full this section.

Have you even read the other comments I made, or you just cherry-picked the one you initially quoted because you wanted to strike?

Paxie55:
You guys should just shut up. I'm sure you guys are less than 20years. What are you saying? Sidnt you see where she said the guy prefer to follow his friends around than find a career? Like you guys didn't see where she has asked him to look for something to do?
Can you guys saying this rubbish stay with a stingy male friend that always come to your house to feed and never contribute shi shi? Stupid comments all over here.

So he should spend for her, and not his friends huh? What difference does that make? Why didn't she advise him to use the money for something meaningful? He doesn't have a job, and he got some money by chance, and the best thing he should do is spoil you because it's your birthday? My dear, you're an epitome of selfishness. You seem like one who would walk away from her man when things go south.

Positivechick:
he doesn’t hv a steady source of income but this period he had some money and and spent all the money buying drinks and living like a big boy.

Then you should have advised him to use the money for something meaningful. That's a good way to show that you care. Does this mean that when he gets a job and gets his first salary, the first thing you'll do is ask him for money?

Positivechick:
nope , he does not do jack for me , not a single thing . This is the first time since almost a year I am asking him for money. He has chosen not to give , n I hv chosen to break up and focus on myself continue paying my bills without him .

But according to you, he doesn't have a good source of income, so how do you expect him to give, or even have to give? If he had a job and you know he earns well, and he decides not to give, I think that's a different case. So the problem shouldn't be about him not giving, it should be his refusal to do something meaningful.

Positivechick:
both .

But it seems like the former is the main problem. In other words, you want him to get a job so he can take care of you, which means that you're indirectly pushing him for your own gratification.

Though he seems to be proud and has misplaced priorities, you also need to look at yourself and see what you're doing wrong. Stop demanding things from him like you're his sole responsibility. That guy is pretty messed up, but you're not without a fault. You broke up with him already, but you should note this ahead of your next relationship.

Positivechick:
I should help him grow while he doesn’t take care of me , no matter how little. Am sorry I can’t do that .

What exactly is the problem? Is it that he doesn't take care of you or that he's not serious about getting a job?

MajesticKris:
I can never date a girl who is in talking terms with her Ex...

not to talk of sending your account number...

Lol you just made me feel guilty.

My ex and I recently got in talking terms, and we've been having moments that trigger memories. I'm dead sure she has a boyfriend, and that has restricted me from going any further. I despise cheating with every piece of my being, and I wouldn't help anyone do that, not even my ex whom I loved very much.

Demmtek:
Chai I don miss my childhood

Damnnn! Guy you just summed up my childhood with all these pictures. Do you remember coconut biscuit, pepper snack, stixi, fishly snack and milkmade biscuit, even coconut candy? Good old days, chai!

howmarket2:
that officer is highly combat ineffective .you should no when a man has submitted.guy am good with my fist.i no when to reduce the velocity of my hand cos it depends on who u are fighting.once you notice the person isn't strong enough.but if he is even stronger than you.u can use a big stick on him . except you really want to kill the person.my question is did the officers intentionally kill him, or was is a mistake or just incompetence in his job.

How do you pin a man down on his neck with a knee and not expect him to suffer asphyxiation? That's beyond incompetence sir.

OP! It's Floyd, not Lloyd.

This is the fakest story I've read on Nairaland. Forgive the pawn!

She's beautiful, anyone who says otherwise is just a sadistic hater.

OP! I'm not attempting to spoil the party but I notice some kind ojoro for here o!

The opposite of "Life" is "death" , not "dead" .

"Enemy" in a singular form doesn't have the same number of letters with "friend" also in singular form.

The opposite of "Truth" is "lie" , not "lying" .

FuckAllTheMODs:
If you can't read or update yourself online, please don't quote me again. Simple online check would have saved you from this irrelevant question bro.
I'm here to have fun not to teach/tutor

LoL typical sentimentalist.

FuckAllTheMODs:
Same Laporte or there is another one, e don do abeg. Please don't quote me again...

Yes, same Laporte.
I shouldn't quote you again? Na you bring argument, na you dey run.

FuckAllTheMODs:
Go and tell that to Ballon D'Or, UEFA etc...

He is better than Ramos at the moment and he is presently the best defender on earth at the moment, deal with it.

Best defender on earth? Lol because football is only played in Europe or what?

FuckAllTheMODs:
You need check up ASAP...

VVD stabilized Liverpool defense, you no sabi ball for saying that...
I only quote you to correct you.

Have you watched City's Aymerick Laporte? he's a tougher defender than VVD. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate Liverpool and I'm not saying he's not a good defender, but he's not worth the hype.

Badboibipo:
Shit has gotten me insane bro. I have serious anxiety daily cuz of it

Then that should have been the subject of your thread, instead of making it seem like you're bragging.

JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:
Cause he has done more than Pogba, Maguire, for his club, overrated ? but he won PFA, champions league and premier league is waiting for him

I’m not a Liverpool supporter but when you see greatness, appreciate

This idea of rating a player based on the titles he won for his team doesn't seem fitting to me. I mean, he's not the keeper, the entire defenders combined, the midfielders and attackers. So why should you rate him on that basis?

Henderson and Van Dijk are highly overrated. The only players I see in that LFC team are Wijnaldum, Mane, Robertson and Firmino.

Badboibipo:
You're wrong bro. I'm dealing with insanity, cause I by society. Everyone seems to stare at me endlessly daily with nobody telling me why

That doesn't necessarily translate to being handsome/ugly. You probably just dress or look a certain way that attracts people's attention (either good or bad), and it may seem like a rarity in your society.

You seem to have self esteem issues. If you don't sort it out early, it might escalate into something deadly.