₦airaland Forum

lisbonabdulahi:
She exhibited some of these characters during our two years of courtship, but her mother and some brethren advised that she will change after marriage.

This is the major factor that leads to violence and divorce in marriages these days. You saw the Red Light and you still went on with it.

Well, this is a lesson for those of us that are still single; never assume he or she will change from an extremely bad trait after wedding.... don't be carried away by the love u have for him/her.

As for the OP, for the sake of your children, please sit your wife down one last time and try to figure out what is going on with her...because it is obvious u are not d only one at the receiving end of her bad attitude...it could be as a result of an event she experienced in her childhood....speak with her folks and try to figure out when it all started...If it is from childhood, it's already too late, let her go before she finally kills u or d other way round out of anger (or d children)...u will be doing yourself and the children in particular a whole lot of good.

But it is obvious she needs help...she is your wife and the mother of your children...try one last time to help fix her if she is still fixable.

May God intervene in your marriage.

pocohantas:
Nawa.
Man wahala again?

A young lady in her late 30s is his niece?
Then how old is the said fiance?

I hope you're not about marrying your forefather?

She can be his niece now....What if she is d daughter of his eldest sibling who is far older than him (say like 20 years difference)?

As 4 d OP, the handwriting is boldly written on the wall already, OP will be doing herself a whole lot of harm going further into this already doomed relationship.

There are somethings that can't be changed, if you think your partner would change a particular trait after marriage, you are on a long thing.

Seeing these dangerous traits before marriage and running will reduce violence and death in marriages...even the very rampant divorce case here and there.

ShaqFu:
I hope Nnamdi Kanu and his bunch of IpOb miscreants are not alien to facts. I wonder what they'll survive on given the stats above if their feeble dream of Biafra becomes a reality.

Main reason why they are trying hard to make sure South-South joins their succession campaign by fire by force.

Someone she knows probably s3xually abused her to death and burnt the body to erase all forms of evidence that could lead d Police to him.

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked...Jer 17:9

EuroBoy007:
Na bomb dem dey check like that.

Guy, no be bomb be that, na the security official remains.

Maybe with people like him at the National Assembly stricter laws would come to fore to tackle all these Alaba boys that are reaping where they did not sow.

Seriously, i marvel at the effrontery of some students.

There was this guy during my Diploma days, he did his own exams outside the exam hall unsupervised ...

His tactics...

1. he will somehow collect 2 Answer Booklets

2. keep one away from plain sight

3. probably fill a wrong Student Details on one booklet and write God knows what for like 90 mins.

4. stands up and submits...the invigilators will even be like "is this not your mate that has finished? keep counting the ceilings and be wasting ur parents' money"

5. He will then go outside, and with a speed of light answer most of the questions on the hidden booklet.

6. He will then start pacing outside d exam hall, waiting for d opportunity to submit.

Once the Supervisor or Invigilator shouts, "Time up!!!Anybody who fails to submit after the count of 10 should be expecting a C/O".

He then takes advantage of d pandemonium that follows to submit. Imagine, see liver!!!

I don't know how he did it o, maybe na Jazz him bn dey use abi na just strong face...And he did it throughout our Dip days.

Lancelott:
The truth is if you want real change, don't vote PDP or new PDP, don't vote APC...vote a party with a candidate without affiliation to criminals both past and present. Vote a party like KOWA or something different for once. Vote vision not the same old trick (old, useless, greedy politicians forming a new party). It's time we don't sell our conscience anymore neither should we be gullible. APDA has NOTHING to offer, APC has NOTHING to offer, PDP has NOTHING to offer. We need NEW FACES not the same old vagabonds in new parties. 2019 let's vote em all out!!!. We need young, educated people below 55 at the helm of affairs...we don't need scammers and con men. Bag of rice and money won't help this corrupt people come 2019. Their eviction is long over due. Vote a neutral party fielding young, vibrant, vision filled faces not the corrupt ones

I am so with you on this one.

They will just be jumping from one political platform to the other all in their quest to further enrich themselves at the detriment of the masses.

TonyeBarcanista:
APDA Is a new party in the making, it has NO corruption stain like APC

Politicians in this country sabi repackage sha...

Is it not the same known sets of recycled looters that will still form the bulk of the bigwigs in dis new party?

Our mumu too much for this country...When APC was formed with all sorts of parties fussed together, we were all rejoicing, thinking we've seen the party that would change our lots as a country.

Now u are telling me another 'Holy Political Party' is about to emerge, and already the Politicians with stains all over them are already planning on moving to this new platform? The group of Politicians who laid d foundation of the mess we find ourselves in today?

But God, what have we done as a Nation to deserve these bunch of Serial Looters?

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cutefergiee:
And Anoda person is there forming slayQueen... Cornteenew

But wetin be this?

Na like this madness dey start oooo.

kropotokin33:
dredge river Niger with 100 million

Why not reduce it to 20 million

useless propaganda to discredit a just man

Amaechi is a thief

lol he go use 100 million drain nkisi river not river Niger

why not 100 thousands

I agree with everything thing u typed, and i also agree with you that this Buhari's government has so many faults....But pls tell me, How is Goodluck Ebele Jonathan a just man?

Though some women can be annoying a times, i will never raise my hands to beat a woman, as there are better ways to punish a cheating woman (that's if d allegations made by Mr. Gentry are correct). I always walk away from a situation that can lead to violence and then attend to it later.

Domestic violence on the part of a couple can have ripple effects and as a result destroy as many as 10 lives or more...Husband or wife beats or stabs d other death, he/she is put on death roll, children's lives destroyed, grannies going into shock and dying in process, children carrying d same trait into their own future marriages...and d circle continues.

My advise to single people out there, don't manage someone who is showing u vivid signs of violence be marriage, don't say i will change him/her after weding (one's behaviour is like smoke, no matter how hard u try to hide it, it will come to fore eventually), marrying a rich person is good, but have u weighed d pros and cons?

And for all those of u enduring abusive and violent marriages, pls leave now before it leads to events that can lead to your children bn scattered all around, where they could even be exposed to all forms of abuses.

One of my best scenes is that of Lukman, the Thief's scene...

Ali Baba: The boys didn't mean any harm, and like i said, i am not a member of their family.

And he wanted to leave d room....

Then Sola Sobowale entered...

Thief Lukman: ooooo, are we expecting any more guests?

Sola Sobowale: (Opening the door) Let me go and check...


They were even using the thief to settle their differences sef....mumu thief

The dance scene nko....Eyin temi bawo ni o, sewa......lovely, lovely nollywood movie.

I have watched it close to 10 times, and i still derive loads of joy watching it....comic relief nla gbaaaa ni

One of my best scenes is that of Lukman, the Thief's scene...

Ali Baba: The boys didn't mean any harm, and like i said, i am not a member of their family.

And he wanted to leave d room....

Then Sola Sobowale entered...

Thief Lukman: ooooo, are we expecting any more guests?

Sola Sobowale: (Opening the door) Let me go and check...


They were even using the thief to settle their differences sef....mumu thief

The dance scene nko....Eyin temi bawo ni o, sewa......lovely, lovely movie.

I have watched it close to 10 times, and i still derive loads of joy watching it....comic relief nla gbaaaa ni

Well, let's see what these greedy lots will do when their selfishness eventually takes Buhari's life.

But something is not adding up here...

Where are Buhari's children? Will they just be watching their father like this?

What about Aisha Buhari?

Is Buhari so weak that he can't even decide what is good for him (what can prolong his life)?

No one dares to try this with my old man's health...except Buhari is allowing this himself sha.

Xaos:
[color=#008080]For you to know how ‘they’ behave, one of ‘them’ must have ‘used’ and ‘dumped’ up.

Now, we all know why you became a Ninja.[/color]

Guy, butu why?

abbeyty:
Thank God he was dinned, they must have killed his career by now

Abi, with their "there are no funds to call athletes to camp" song.

A blessing in disguise...d turn-down 4rm d coach must have pushed him to become dis successful.

Lesson: Never give up on ur dreams no matter d discouragement; you are d architect of ur fortune or misfortune.

Left to me, it's a no-no...With a kid, maybe, but two? Hell no!!!

I wouldn't advice u to go for it or not, after all it is ur life.

But know something, marriage is not about pity or sentiment, it's a lifelong decision, and u don't want to start on a wrong foot. It's obvious she's seen it all in relationships, and she has more experience than u, so u need to be smart about this.

Forget about the s3x she has exposed u to, and think deep about other aspects of her life. The fact that she's an HOD in d church doesn't follow, she might just be doing all she's doing to win sympathy and trick unsuspecting men in the church to help her in catering 4 her kids. We've heard d stories of ladies who had a very rough n unholy past ending up in d church for marriage. U sure can change a wolf's coat but not its character.

Before taking this life changing decision, ask urself these questions


1. Are u even sure her story about her baby daddy is true?

2. Will u still want to be with her in the next 10-15 years?

3. Is she really the best for u?

4. Can u cater for her, her kids, d 2 or more kids u will have with her (to University level), and her dependent folks if there is any?

5. If truly she has learn't her lesson with her baby daddy, why is she still having ceaseless rounds of s3x with u, or have u promised her marriage?

6. Are u sure u are d only one she's seeing?

7. Will her baby daddy always have his way into her pants whenever he shows up?

8. Can u handle d pressure that will follow once u announce ur intent?


There are so many questions u need to ask urself bro.

Just note: women can be very deceptive before marriage (no offense), only to show their true colours after wedding.

However, if u have made up ur mind to marry her after asking yourself these questions, get to know d kind of family she is from, learn about her past 4rm her friends and maybe neighbours if need be.

Best of luck bro.

Buhahahahahhaha

Love U've got to be kidding me

I can't just stop laughing

Noneroone:
I just remembered Abia isn't yorubaland

See mumu....But they still found a headless body in Abia State now

Think deeply b4 u go tribal, biko ehn.

Davash222:
Too bad. Fear Humans.

Dogs? Aliyah (of blessed memory) and her folks would disagree with u

Okuda:
If na nigeria now them for don kill the statue start to dey chop am

Guy, u no well...What are taking Nigerians 4 now; Gluttons or hungry pple?

In as much as i encourage the injection of new bloods into our senior National team, this guy's record shows no reason why he should be invited.

You have a boy who's only featured 11 times for his team this season, with only one goal to show for it. I will rather we look for strikers in the local league who are rugged and can hold their own against the ever physical African defenders.

I just can't imagine this guy starting against that Cameroonian defense.

He might prove me wrong sha.

WhiteSoup:
I does not even knows what people gains from washing this show. I think the battle life have been draw between Kemen andTboss

Blood of Jesus!!!

spartan117:
Naija these guyz are looking so thin and unkempt. I blame buhari and d economy

Anyone is allowed to quote me except sarrki

Make we hear word jare, before recession started nko? It is plain greed and get-rich-quick syndrome.

Funny enough, most of these guys always claim they are doing it 4 d 1st time whenever they are caught.

steppin:
Showbox or toptvshows

Thank u very much

steppin:
Try West Wing, Veep or Commander in chief.
For the law series, try Ally Mcbeal.

Please where can i download VEEP?

In Pete Edochie's voice

"Young man, the Iroko tree is too tall for you to climb"



I love this man die; one of my favourite actors.

sisisioge:
Awwwww...I think he absolutely loves her. That bride is ironically hot mehn! May God continue to bless love.

In as much as i hail Fayose for speaking up and taking on d party in Power, Fayose as President will d worst mistake of d century. How much has he bn able to turn around the fortune of the pple of Ekiti; a State with a population under 3M?

I have not forgotten how he said he built a billion Naira poultry for d people of Ekiti...he went and rented chicks so that d then President (Obasanjo) would come and launch the thing. Obasanjo, bn a farmer, knew instantly thru d odour that those chicks were just brought there and made a joke about it too.

Fine, he is a grass-rooter, he poses to support the common man by feeding them, but can he handle the Economy as big as ours? Does he have pedigree to lead a nation? I just smile when pple says he should run 4 a higher office.

Well, it won't be a surprise if he runs and wins. One thing i know about Nigerians is that, if they don't want someone in Power again, they won't care who's coming to replace him, even if he is a gallant tout - main reason we find ourselves in this situation in d first place.

I look around to see those that are already showing signs of Running in 2019 and weep 4 d future of this country.

Beremx:
That moment when he tries to put on a generator because he sees daddy and mummy putting on the Gen every time.

Smart boy!

But pls monitor d boy closely to avoid anything catastrophic 4rm happening...kids of these days are just too observant and smarter than we think....Only late last year i caught my son trying to light up our gas cooker...he had already lit d match stick, and was already playing around with d valve when i entered d kitchen.

In as much as i am 4 we encouraging our kids and celebrating them when they do extra-ordinary things beneath their age; i suggest we don't encourage dangerous adventures.

May our source of joy not turn d other way.