₦airaland Forum

olafolarin:
The governorship is still zoned to Aregbesola's constituency and he has a solid name and good chance of beating everybody come 2011.

Kobojunkie:
@Illusion2, good one.

Fhemmmy:
If they were so against marrying a minor, how come the dude was able to walk away without being arrested?

edoyad:
^ Ehe , una don come with una fight again ba ?

mukina2:
no use style toast my husband oh

ritchboy:
@illusion,
can you explain the motive behind starting a thread about one fan's daft opinion?
Like Mourinho can survive one year at Arsenal under the circumstances. . .

As an Arsenal fan, I hated him - we never beat Chelsea when he was their manager, having beaten them with monotonous regularity before he took over - but I had to admire him too. If you gave me the choice for 2010-2011 between Mourinho and the dismally unambitious Wenger - who couldn't motivate a lawnmower - I know who I would choose.

toba:
@all, theres something troubling me. I spoke to two of the muslim sisters here about 'love'. They said nothing for me that i am a keferi. I asked y&they said allah commanded muslims not to marry unbelievers. My point is im i an unbeliever&cant marry a muslim because im a christian? Does allah tag christians as unbelievers?

AIRDIG:
@illusion
In a precipitance to issue a vitriolic comment, you fail to peruse my response. Do me a favour read them again from pg 7. to get my drift. (but given your predilection, I will have to wait & see)

nuggard:
Muslims are Paedophiles

nopuqeater:
@onlysose (m) « #156 on: Yesterday at 08:35:49 AM » Common sense, is permissable in Islam, as long as it is not against Quran and Sunnah. When the prophet sent Abdullah (RA) as the governor of Yemen, he asked him how will he judge the people. his answer was by the Book of Allah. he then asked if you do not see the decision immediately from Quran, what do you use? he said by Sunnah of the prophet (AS). the question is the same about sunnah as that of Quran above. the governor to be said i will use by own discretion (brain, common sense, etc, acting independently). the prophet (AS) said that he is grateful that Allah allows people of independent conscience in Islam. for if there is no independent conscience we will all be like drones, not seeing the fullness of the sea of knowledge in Islam. for example, all could just have married their first cousin, rather than looking far and wide even accross the pond for a mate, in order to vary the genetic pool.

give me a single verse of the Quran that supports your statement and or provide a hadith or give example of a marriage between sahabah, male and female companions or a woman mate that is not a muslim that will support child bride. and before you use Aisha(RA) as example, please know that the conditions of Muhammad (AS), are unique. his fasting, his number of wives, etc, are not like that of muslims in general. what is important too about Aisha is that she was seen in dreams, twice by the messenger (AS) and dream is part of revelations and when was Aisha (RA) born relative to her father's first year of Islam entry to it? if she was born before the beginning of revelation, how old was she before "Iqra" and then 13 years in Makka, she couldnt have remained 9 in the second year of Hijra!

I need a single verse from the Quran that says child bride is allowed. But of course Muhammad (AS) says get knowledge even if it means going to china for it. even from nigeria and on plane, china is a long distance journey and the one who goes there for knowledge must be dedicated to the intention.

wrong my brother. any law by anyone that does not have its thread to Quran, Ahadith must be innovation which leads to hell fire. for exampke, the prophet [ra] sent some companion on a mission made one of them a leader whom all must obey. the leader on the journey ordered his associates to collect wood and made a fire, which when it became inferno commanded them to jump into. they refused and he quipped that the prophet (AS) had made me your leader and commanded you to obey me. they said yes, but we will not obey you on this. finally when they returned to Medina, they asked the prophet, who told them that if they had obeyed his commandment of jumping into fire, they would have remained in the fire until the day of Judgement. of course no believer wants to be in fire! We must not obey blindly. Allah does not even want people to worship Him blindly, except to know His Lordship as Absolute.

Ibrahim (AS) the father of faith and a FRIEND of Allah even wants to be sure, by asking question, using common sense in order that his heart be at peace.

there is no law in Islam that is rigid. there are always choices. there is no islamic state, there is no Kalifah. we have individual believers, mumim, mumina, but there is not true muslim country. saudi arabia is not it and definitely iran is not it. look at what they do, to other muslims and even to non muslims! the guy who is marrying 13 years old woman, and devorcing them at 19, is performing Zina if he knew at the time of marriage that there will be a time in the future that he will devorce her. if he does that, he is what we call people of Zina. finally, Sahabah Ali Abitalib (RA) cautioned women from marrying his son from Fatimah (RA) because he was fond of marrying and devorcing just as much since the women were willing because they wanted to be part of the "HOUSE of the prophet (AS)" in order to be covered in the prayer Commanded by Allah in Surah Azhab. Deeds are looked upon by intentions. If the intention is unIslamic, the deed will be looked at as unIslamic.