₦airaland Forum

cooluzi:
no be only hurt.... you don't even know me,I've never been into any serious relationship with any lady before and I can never, I don't even know how it works.. my dear you got that wrong

Good then.

cooluzi:
this will be an endless argument, how about you provide me wrong and let take this outta here

Just let go of your animosity, bias, aversion, loathe or scorn for Nigerian ladies and any hurt that you must have suffered from them and you will be unprejudiced.

Apination:
And you saw where I said there would always be randy lecturers, which means it's not necessarily about whether you are dressed in hijab or bikini, but you dressing moderately is simply a security measure on your part and it doesn't stop those lecturers from being who they are

Yes I did. But I was addressing a portion of your write up

cooluzi:
as you can see I'm not the only one complaining about this, Nigeria men are complaining general and it's the fact I don't know why you are trying so hard to defend something that can't be defend

Ok. So because it is not only you complaining that makes it accurate? Even if the number is insignificant especially from a specific kind of people?

The point I have made from the beginning is, you cannot castigate Nigerian women and the men will not be caught in the same line of fire. The same factors affect men.

Apination:
Are you sure you read my post before quoting me

Women should as a matter of fact do their possible best to dress moderately so as to reduce the attention they draw to themselves. There would always be randy lecturers based on the existing standard, so it's not a debate on whether it's right or wrong undecided


Yes I did

cooluzi:
I'm not biased... it's the true tho.. some Nigeria girls are cool with good orientation but they are very few.. I don't know if you fall in this category

Saying they are few is based on the ones you have encountered out of the over 30million ladies in Nigeria?

Have you related up to 2miillion of these ladies? That number can not even make you reach an intelligent conclusion.

cooluzi:
are you trying to say it's the recession in Nigeria fucki.ng with Nigeria girls mentality

If you were unbiased, I wouldn't have to explain to you or try to make you understand.

You can stick to your views until such a time when you become open minded.

GOFRONT:


And if u check very well, It is one of her big gods that must have sponsored this birthday..............Argue with ya keypad

What has anybody sponsored for you?

Apination:
Women should as a matter of fact do their possible best to dress moderately so as to reduce the attention they draw to themselves. There would always be randy lecturers based on the existing standard, so it's not a debate on whether it's right or wrong

Please do not quote me if you have a problem with understanding. I never said the victims of sexual harassment are to be blamed for what they are put through. The thread is about sexual harassment in higher institutions and one mo.ron quoted me and was talking about victims in swimming pools, which is a total deviation from the subject matter.

I'm not justifying sexual harassment by any means and that's why I ended my point by saying what I had said isn't on the basis of whether there's a right or wrong to the issue, since there would always be randy lecturers, so it's a matter of doing your own part as a woman to keep yourself safe since the system is set up in a way that you have almost no backing

Even with my bogus NYSC uniform that swallowed my small stature, my camp commandant still sent soldiers to bring me as his dinner.

Forget dressing, a man that has the intention will go ahead despite the dressing. And men should stop expecting the women to "help them manage their sexual urge or control". They should help themselves and stop blaming others except themselves.

vingeophysicist:
my dear I agree with you. you can't compare the condition here with what we have overseas. Generally, women should be given a kind of step up to increase their chances of succeeding but that opportunity is not available here. With such vulnerability what do you expect them to do? Many of them bow down to pressure and become leeches and even the once in the cooperate world once in while resort to using their physical asset to reach the apex of co-operate achievement.

At least someone is objective enough to put sentiments aside and understand the issue.

cooluzi:
still not an excuse

You still can't compare their opportunities, environment, welfare, health care, education,etc to ours.

So it will be unfair to compare them when their amenities cannot be compared.

PrimadonnaO:
I can never support entering a marriage where the parents are not agreeable.

Sometimes it could be the parent's selfish interest. Realize that parents are humans. My friend shunned his mum's disagreement to the person he wanted to marry especially because it was because of tribe.

The mum had to give in when she saw that her son put his foot down.

kense88:
But we usually outperform them, when we go to there country

So do we. Because the environment enables good performance. So if we are talking about the Nigerian women, we are also talking about the men

cooluzi:
common don't blame this on Nigeria condition... you know its not all white people living fine... majority are broke too but it's just the orientation my dear... naija babe sucks let's be honest low moral you can. .. that's why most white women like black men from all race ... naija girls doesn't know the quality a black man possess...

Even with their "brokeness", they get welfare stipend every month? Food is really cheap and electricity is constant. You can not even compare Nigerian "brokeness" with theirs especially as citizens of that country

GistmoreNG:
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Hmm... assistant OP

Winter4:
Like 300k and above.

Gbagada is quite expensive. But there's a difference between self con and miniflat though

cooluzi:
op said alcohol not jedijedi

Is it your alcohol?

COOL10:
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Stale

But true

ehinmowo:
Aww! Why did you allow him to get under your skin?

Under my skin? He can't even reach on top the skin sef

Tosyno4tt:
Standards? Do standard exist in this part of the world.
True love breaks standard......Women who have had standard ends up being used and broken.
To those thinking you dont need a man in your life or otherwise...a man completes a woman and a woman completes a man.
Do not let people claiming feminism online mislead you....in the cold and lonlely nights, most of them cry to bed cos they have no man to call their own yet hide those pains under the heavy makeup and fake smile.
When you meet the one that compliments you....mehn...you will lose standards...
You dont necessarily have to lose yourself in the process of loving someone....infact, when you meet the right person for you, you tend to improve and be better not the other way round
The prayer is for us to meet our main man/woman.
Who feminism help.....Research indicates women tend to enjoy sex more than men

So, how do you think all those feminists dey oil their toto....or u think they are celibate...SMH...go ask LINDA

Na lie, dem dey do am and with random guys.....so, ask yourself, is that what you wanna settle for at the end.

I just hope i make small sense...as for me , my standard be say let there be a spark, we ignite then FIRE... Wey nothing fit quench.

Standards are important. But it is also important to know when to stretch to accommodate.

MariaLavina:
Uncle Lefulefu , laziness dey among jare. Better people no get time to dey chat women online up and down, why not direct that time into something productive, get enough cash and go meet these women face to face? Quality time must have been spent chatting to come up with their conclusions nah.

You are right oooo, one of the reasons I don't take them seriously. Na so one go download random image on Google dey claim her as girlfriend.When he was busted, him come dey stammer . These guys are something else.

Don't tell me it's Rex..tizzle that did this...

MariaLavina:
Most Nigerian Men in this section are dumb! 99% . I came to this thread hoping to read good points only to be faced with silly things.

I even saw only challenging you, beating chest that's he is gamed up for debate only to back out with excuse of solving puzzles.

Wetin person no go read for Nl

He is forming activity. Puzzle indeed.

Don't mind all of them. Don't you see all the pre-wedding photos and wedding photos of Nairaland guys. How many white brides have you seen?

They just like to deceive themselves and make mouth.

MariaLavina:
See Nigerian youths .

How are the white women better than Nigerian women?

Ans- They chat better, they aren't boring.

Chai and I was expecting mind blowing answers .


Y'all are bunch of dumb lazy boredom killers

Really pathetic!

Chatting is the yardstick.

They chat better therefore the are better than Nigerian women.

kunleweb:
Another sign oversabi


First the op is female


Two,the op asked a question


Theee,we pointed a difference and never infereed for once that our beautiful sisters are inferior in anyway tp akata woman


Before you posture next time, learn to first connect the dots before you strap.on your punching gloves.

If we embrace addressing issues from.neutral stance in.life, we'll be much beta. Asper white beyter than black,i leave that to you all to argue

I'm solving a puzzle.now.catch ya

You seem to be the one throwing the punches.

While I am commenting in an objective manner, you somewhat felt the need to add interjections like "oversabi" and the likes.

And where did I infer that the op was whatever sex?

You are actually the one who needs to drink water and stop panting. You need to calm down and stop acting like you have it all figured out because you don't.

Enjoy your puzzle.

Biglittlelois:
Thank you, they all didnt think same applies to them also, cos if we should go by statistics, Nigerian men display their insecuties when they see white women cos of green card n all, at the end of the day they get hooked to the old ones.

They haven't removed the mighty log in their own eyes.

kunleweb:
Keep applying salve to soothe your pain. Yet to see even by TV much outstanding ladies compared with the males. And asper white guys,bring them on schmuck. I'm ready to ball.whenever. i just cracked a complwx physics problem.even whil doing this now. Research and write journal na my.forte. bring the competition anyday I'm game

I don't have pain to soothe.

The men here are under the illusion that the white woman far transcends the Nigerian woman. And this might not be unrelated to the assumption that the white woman exists without faults compared to the Nigerian woman.

If we are going to make this a argument based on environmental and economic factors, both sexes will be found wanting.

N.B

I am not in any competition neither do I feel the need to boast of my abilities in return.

Factfinder1:
You Don fall victim abi

You wish

kunleweb:
Indeed. Delude yourself


Stop hanging.around failures my dear.

I could say the same thing for men and for this thread

It is not about your parents really. It is about you. Project in 3years from now...will you be fighting over all the money she is spending on parties and attires? Or how she might neglect the children to attend a party.

There are some habits that are hard to let go. Look at the kind of friends she keeps and her lifestyle generally. Can you cope with it if she doesn't change? Because marriage doesn't change people instead it magnifies their faults.

If you can sincerely answer this questions and you are still convinced you want to marry her, then good luck.

MissRaine69:
Being able to speak English is NOT a measure of intelligence. There are whole countries were English is not spoken at all and they have space programmes and very intelligent beings there. Thinking it is a measure of intelligence is a throw back to a colonial past that made us subservient to our own capabilities.

These countries you mention...is English their lingua Franca? They probably speak their own lingua Franca fluently.

If a person is unable to speak the official language of his/her country fluently, what was that person busy learning?

Is this some kind of advert or awareness scheme?

Fanta