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Why did you sleep with her when you knew somewhere at the back if mind that it won't work?

Why didn't you think of all this incompatibilities and hindrances before you got into her panties?

You want to have your cake and eat it. Now you want to run and you are looking for an easy landing.

Deal with this yourself! Why didn't you come and ask us if you should sleep with her? You wanted to taste and see. Scammers everywhere parading as boyfriends/lovers.

Op the bitter truth is that your brother doesn't respect your wife and women for that matter. Slapping your wife whatever the reason is an affront to you. That also means that he doesn't respect you.

Let me ask you a question...if you slap him, will he slap you back?

Samyj247:
don't support any of them. caution both to live in peace. is your wife pregnant, why can't she fetch water....she is just 24 n I believe she gave him that first slap. both of them should b fetching water......the guy is no longer a kid. it shouldn't b a one mans duty.

if u know ur brother has a better place to go to, let him go, to avoid more trouble cos both of them won't live in peace in that house..

Does she have to be pregnant to get help? Why should the younger brother allow her to fetch water when he is around.
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It is very disrespectful for the guy to go and dish out food without asking. Obviously one of those chavunists with an inflated ego

truthsayer009:
Habba, enligthen us na, what of us that don't know nko?

There is nothing to enlighten you on. No vex

truthsayer009:
Which Tribe plizzzz let us know

No need to mention. To who it May concern know already.

lefulefu:
haba thats not true.we do support d ladies when they get wronged.

I will be watching you

lefulefu:

You don't want us to tell the truth abi. I am not like you guys that take sides and always support the guy and bash the lady in most cases.

lefulefu:
ehn na wao
are my eyes decieving me

You better go and wash the eyes in River Osun.

YouareaBITCH:
She's being a protective mother, that's all.


Alot of girls abused by their dads, their mothers didn't see it coming.. They all trusted their men too.

Prevention they say is better than cure.



I know of a lady, that has told her little daughter to keep her distance from her uncle's room
Is not like she doesn't trust her brother,she's just acting according to recent happenings

But in all, it shouldn't be the kind of thing to be made public.

While she is being protective of her daughter, the husband should also be protective of his son and not allow her bath him.

I have a daughter and she likes her dad doing things for her. That's normal with daughters and father's. We just have to pray for them that they don't allow the devil use them

You and your mum are complicating your lives by visiting prophets and seers. Please desist from it and make God your only source.

You need to move out and be your own man. Your mum should not meddle.in your affairs. She has done her job as a mum, now you are an adult, you can take it from here.

I still discussed this issues with a colleague of mine yesterday why mothers(especially from a particular tribe) won't just let their sons be men and live their lives.

The final decision lies with you, not your mum, prophet or whoever. Be your own man.

TarOrfeek:
Women art useless.


Women art now Kobo Kobo.

Any man who art carry their matter for head. Is a bastard.

Why this hatred for women? A man slept with 23 women and posted it online and you don't see his wrong but decide to insult the women who thought they were dating a normal person.

Say no to hatred towards women.

Even if you are having a bad time at work, you should not transfer the frustrations on your spouse.

The man himself had to run for comfort in church activities. What if he too decided to commit suicide because of his wife's naggings and overbearing attitude?

Both of them should have communicated better. It's not just about the wife here. It is about both of them.

victorian:
Starve you of sex indeed.

Pay her dowry, do needful and u will have enough sex than u bargained for.


She's smart I will say. Before you suck all the nutrients out from her body and widen her pussyyy like borehole, then after 4years , you will open another thread : please how do I break up with my clingy gf, without hurting her feelings. I want to move on.

So true. He will now leave her when she 33 to start afresh so that she will be tagged "evening newspaper". Many guys just want to have their cake and eat it.

Starved of sex indeed.

Interesting and brutal, but true. Sometimes I actually sit and wonder why our men especially on this forum are so consumed by hatred bitterness and cannot resist the urge to bash women all the time.

It is probably their way of lashing out due to the bad situation of the country and somehow women are easy targets of their wrath especially if they have been dumped or or let down by one or two of them.

Guys, why not focus on the positive. It is really getting tiring opening NL and seeing many sulky and bitter threads dedicated to us. I pray you all outgrow it and learn that complaining and murmuring changes nothing.

So Nigerian guys are looking for who to drive then around and pay the bills...lol. Will you also be the ones to cook, clean and take care of the house while the lady works and supports you. Or your egos will still want to rear its ugly head .

Nigerian men here sulking and complaining like they are perfect or worth anything.

Ask your parents for your school fees and don't shift responsibility to your bf. It is important for your own self respect and the respect he accords you.

If he gives you money, fine. But do not demand it like you are entitled to it. He isn't your husband.

pacificman:
na kids full this thread and see how these girls day rush the thread..is she your wife bull crap...but when she wants to beg for money she becomes what...these nairaland girls will F the highest bidder and come and pretend on here..lol..i know una..infact i don comot here and make any little kid no quote me

As if you can quote yourself

One poster said the guy should not give money if sex is not involved. Some people don't really know what relationships are about and that it isn't about trade by barter.

Our men should be more respectful of a woman's body. It will go a long way to make them understand much.

And OP I don't know what your relationship was founded on and the purpose for it but you guys need to talk to each other. And if you are not on the same page, you move on.

Sex is not a requirement in dating but in marriage. The fact that people do it doesn't make it right and anyone that doesn't want to do it, should not be pushed.

IamPlato:
Starve You Of Sex?

Sir Are You Okay At All...


Did You Marry Her?


She Is Not Obligated To Give You Sex

Entitlement syndrome. He feels entitled to the sex.

khalhokage:
We've been together for a while now, and I intended to marry her, but she has a flaw that i can't get past and she has to change.

She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel.

It may seem like a small issue to some but I've thought about it, if she's like this now what will she be like during marriage?
At this point i think I should just end the relationship instead of going ahead to marrying someone with a flaw I know I can't live with.

What do you think?

It is not a small issue. Not being able to admit your wrong and apologize is a major flaw that will affect the other person. She has to change before you move ahead

Makito015:
Father Mbaka shouldn't have embarrassed Peter obi.
Let's be honest, how can a man like Peter obi refuse to contribute to the church?

But it is a thing of choice. Not really a must that he contributes

Lovable.and popular in terms on what? What they have impacted in people's lives or how they are a nuisance and disgrace on social media?

Very stunning..I remember she didn't finish her reign . Regina Askia, the first runner up had to take over.

allthingsgood:
Some of the heartless wicked and demonic nurses and doctors can be found in govt hospitals. Demonic witches and wizards!

Even cleaners too have mouth to talk to people anyhow. Ordering people around. One tried it with me last week when I went for immunization and I cleared her doubt.

GuyWise101:
This man will certainly disvirgin this girl in the future, he had paid his dues.

GuyFoolish101

simpleKUSH:
Its still better, at least they will have kids, not like banky that spends heaven on earth and las las adesuwa can't give birth to even a lizard

It is their decision to have children or not and at their own time.

Stop judging people with your village mentality.

Cross riverian bride without onyonyon. What happened?

A lot of Nigerian men think that after they pay bride price and marry a woman, they become king, Lord and person saviour to their wives and the wives should bow in reverence to the King...indeed!

Op I completely get you. She doesn't have to be from a well to do family perse but from a family that doesn't depend on her and can hold their own.

Keep looking and God will grant your request.

Dee9977:
I also have that mindset but you limit it to marrying a wife that is last born in their family ... to avoid much responsibility

Lol...like moi. I am the collector instead.Hubby is lucky