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truthsayer009:
Ma'am this one you're supporting Nigerian men on a family thread. Very unlike you, anyway congratulations.

Am I supposed to support them on another thread?

The you will create another thread on how useless girls are when you can see that all she is interested in is the money.

Maybe they think it is contagious

lefulefu:
are u a good guy urself?

Good question.

cooluzi:
nobody is talking about prostitutes here.... I mean you have to alway be the alpha when dealing with lady's if you know what I mean

Who are oloshos then?

Another wailer

cooluzi:
we shabi your type better wise up and stop being a puss

So not sleeping with prostitutes means a guy is a puss?

Jobola1:
I totally agree, our society needs to mature above these sentiments. Most ladies were once somebody's gf, the only "offense" was that the op knew d guy.

It takes maturity and understanding to make some decisions damning the consequences.

It isn't easy without help. Thankfully I didn't marry one of those egoistic men who think house chores and taking care of kids is for women. I get a lot of support from him.

Creche is beside my office and I don't work too far from home for now. There is always a way if there is a will.

Or you mean that your ex is trash. Deal with your bitterness and leave "Nigerian men" alone.

Jobola1:
I will borrow a quote from Nike..."Just do it."

Most people are just talking with sentiment quoting some made up "guy code", who dash una code?

But the way this OP dey talk about pounded yam sef, I doubt if he can do anything if given the chance. So u have to wait for one pounded before u meet up with a girl? Hian, ahbegi. What if pounded yam or Xmas never existed at all?

Lol... don't mind them quoting guy code. My ex's best/close friend married me. And the ex attended the wedding.

At first, we thought it was a bad idea but we realized that we loved each other more than any past relationship or guy code.

Besides I dated his friend almost a decade ago at that time. Now all that is inconsequential. We are married and he and my ex are still close.

openmine:

It was expected that manutd will win cardiff nah!
But at least its a start for olegaar!

It was also expected that Man City would beat Crystal Palace who are at the bottom of the table but they didn't.

cooluzi:
again ask your ancestors

Hmmm...I see what the OP means.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

cooluzi:
trailing you? are you rich? only if I can gain money in trailing you

So you are broke?

Go and slap yourself

I guess mum's do what works for them. For me, I didn't do co-sleeping and I breastfed exclusive for 4months plus. It worked for me because I wanted her to get used to sleeping on her own especially at night.

It didn't mean I didn't love her or want her in my arms always.

Besides, I prefer to co-sleeping with hubby and keep our own bond going too.

cooluzi:
how do you know they are children... are you their mother?

Cooluzi I am beginning to think you are trailing me. Am I safe?

cooluzi:
how do you know they are children... are you their mother?

And are you their advocate?

So many small children that think they know.

Nice marketing strategy

Dogalmighty17:
I have dated this girl for three years. We fixed a date for the wedding for late this year. However, events seemingly out of my control necessitated that I shift the wedding to February next year. Initially, she was against the shift but I pleaded with her.

Sometime in August this year, we had a disagreement because I noticed she was being disrespectful towards me. She is hardworking, cooks well and is very business oriented. But her sense of independence makes her struggle with submission to her man. I told her how uncomfortable I was with it and she's promised to make amends. She has but from time to time, her old self comes out.

I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family. When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship. I got to know about this decision and I called her and she said she was going to obey the wishes of her family. Her mom also told me that since I keep complaining about her daughters lack of respect, I should leave her daughter alone. It took serious pleading from me before the family accepted the continuing of the relationship. They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much.

My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.

My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not

This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?

I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issues into my own hands.

All I see here is so much background noise that both of you are listening to. The marriage is about both of you and not your parents. There is a limit to what you both should accept from them.

They have trained you both to become adults to be able to take decisions for your lives so their interference should be minimal.

Things like this come up when planning a wedding. My wedding date had to be shifted because it fell on my uncle's burial day(good reason). We shifted too because his uncle(standing as his dad) had a prior important occasion(good reason)

Then his mum wanted us to shift it because of her yearly church programme. I will not explain how my husband flared up. But he refused to move the date. He said that if she can't attend her 1st son's wedding because of a programme that she has been attending for over a decade and will still attend the next year, then so be it.

Op don't be under pressure from your family or hers. If she loves you and it is meant to be, it will work out. But if you keep begging her and her family and trying to please them, it will continue that way in marriage. Learn to put your foot down and damn the consequences.

The power of money...

She can afford a personal trainer, nannies and housekeepers, dietician, etc.

She looks good though.

chendstone01:
This is why I hate Christmas people keep acting foolishly. Jesus probably hates you for celebrating Christmas

Whether Christmas,Salah, or no celebration, people will always steal and abuse a thing or concept.

Don't get it twisted. He is stealing because he is a thief and will probably use the excuse of Christmas in this case

GisterBlogger:
SEE THEIR BEDROOM LOVE-UP PHOTOS HERE >>> https://gistmore.com/davido-rumored-to-be-dating-ghanaian-tv-presenter-serwaa-amihere

Indeed! You guys are making blogging synonymous with lying.

Stop the lies

iamJ:
wonderment and some were carrying money for Christmas in their bags

december is jesus birthday, wonder why his angels allow anyone to be killed

abi calendar no dey heaven?

About you want to be next. So that you can help us check if they have calendar in heaven

Emescot:
English is a foreign language so yes a foreign language is included.
Yoruba, Igbo, pidgin and English

That means I speak more languages than you.

Yoruba, ibibio, pidgin, English, French and Sign language

Biglittlelois:
I will overlook the insults and innuendos,

Now as you said, there are thousands of languges around the world, true, but i care less about them, the Chinese use an official language yes, but do you know they have different dialects? no you dont, but they agreed to use a particular one to make it official which worked for them till today.

In Nigeria, we have different languages, and some languages e.g. Yoruba, have different dialects, so please, school me if there is, but there is no language of ours that have words for codes and everything as you said, if you want us to start that, you can suggest it to FG to work on it, then they can decide on which language to use officially if other tribes will agree


I am open to other valid points, but to me, English may not necessarily be an 100% measure for intelligence, but it takes a higher percentage of 80%.

I have to disagree with you Lois. As long as English is our official language, an educated person should be able to speak it fluently. Or what language was used in school for them?

UyaiIncomparabl:
No virgin deserves a narcissistic, self-centered and senseless person like you.

At all

Vizzy4u:
could u pls say more abt d camp commandant,etc

More...like??