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kazyhm:
Men age like wine
Women age like milk

Ok Wine. Whatever makes you sleep well at night.

Favfables1:
1. Well...
Your beliefs about me is IRRELEVANT ...

2. So now it's about the "kind" of men, no more about the number

3. So if women can't see themselves differently, whose fault is it, men??

4. Where in my write up did I say this, biko ...

5. one of a kinda spec

6. Wowwwww....
So men are the cause of the low self-esteem issues faced by some women ...

I slept well o my dear
I hope you did too?
Have a nice day at work...
((Thumbs up))

Good to know.

Enjoy your day.

kazyhm:
There are so many truths that you can do nothing about.....this is one of them.

Both genders have opinions and options for certain things........

The issue mainly is women want to dictate what men should and shouldn't believe..........while they tend to fault what men want woman to believe about men........

What truths are you referring to?

Who is dictating what you should believe?

Favfables1:
Kikikikikikikikiki

I was laughing the entire time I read your write up...

1. "Men like me"? Really? Gosh! I hate to break it to you ma'am, but no man is like me ... I'm a spec

2. No one is trying to "break" anybody ma'am... And besides, those views are not unfounded, unless you're being sentimental about it... An average 23year old will attract more men, anytime, anyday as compared to an average 30year old woman, and that my friend, is a fact....deal with it!

3. If an adult woman wants to feel inferior and desperate over some societal views, then that's her fault and nobody else's .... If for instance I feel that you can't make money unless you sleep with a man, should that make you desperate to sleep with any man you see? And even if you want to sleep with a man, why should I take the blame for that act?

Face it...
Women of 18 and above are adults and ALL ADULTS should take responsibility for their beliefs and their actions... Stop putting blames on men for a woman's beliefs and actions, that's just irresponsible and pathetic!

4. Where in my write up did I say a 40year old woman doesn't have a choice? Where in my write up did I say no man approaches a 40year? Uhhnn? ...

I said this before and I'll say it again, "A 23year old lady will be approached by more men than a 40year old anytime, anyday" .... It doesn't mean men won't approach 40year olds, it means as compared to younger adult females, women of those age are severely lacking (contextually speaking)....

5. Hahahaha!!
You must be kidding me...
Since when are women attracted to a man's age? An average woman is attracted to the depth of a man's Pocket and as men get older, their capacity to earn increases (mostly)...

If men are so undesirable as they age, why will a girl of 18, agree to date a 50year old man who has money? Is it because there are no "desirable" 25year old?

6. Don't women too try to "clip a man's wing and put them in their place" when they broke shame men? Don't you think that, that makes men feel less of themselves??

Sweetheart....
Just do and believe whatever makes you sleep well at night ...

1. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you sound like every prejudiced man on this forum. Nothing unique aboutyou.

2. A 23 year old could attract 100 men daily. 70 of them might be useless. The number might matter to you but a 30 could get a better man out of the "two " she attracts. Deal with that fact mister!

3. Some societal views? Believe it or not, society has a way of branding women unjustly. And not all women can see themselves differently.

4. Oh! I thought men remain young forever and live forever while women age and get less desirable.

5. Based on your statistics and judgement from you and your kind? What spec are you again, Mr Spec?

6. What can I say? They learnt from the best. You guys have mastered the art of shaming and passed it on. You even do it with fictitious statistics.

Have a good night honey. Don't let "age-shaming" women keep you up at night.

Favfables1:
No one is saying a woman of 30plus years can't achieve great things...

A woman of that age can buy a car or a house or can treat herself to a tour round the globe if she wants to and if she's willing to work for it...

Achievements are not limited by age....

However, when you hear people say "a woman expires at 30", they're not implying that women can't achieve those great things, what that means is that her options in the dating market reduces as she ages...

On average, the number of men who will pursue a girl of 23 is far more than the number of men who will pursue a woman of 30... A girl of 23 on average, looks far more attractive to the eyes than a woman of 30, thus more men will flock in her direction....

In other words, a woman's SMV (Sexual Market Value) depreciates with age ...

Her value as a human as perceived by the world is dependent on what she has been able to achieve and is achieving in her life time and that isn't limited or dependent on her age, but her ability to attract quality men (relationship wise) depreciates with age....

Who are the people who say these things? Men! Men like you.

It's men who are always trying to break and dominate women with such unfounded views about their biological makeup.

These views by men are meant to make women desperate and feel inferior thinking that they have to make hay while the sun shines. So she gives in to any fool that makes he feel that time is not on her side.

Women are smarter now. Now, while you might be more attracted to a 16 year old girl, another guy like you is attracted to a 40 year old woman. Everyone has a choice, even that woman that seems expired in your eyes has a choice.

And you should know that men also become less desirable as they age. There's a difference between the fresh thick body of a 25 year old man and that of a 38 year old. The biological clock is not affects men too.

However, many men feel this urge to "cut women's wings" by making her feel.less of herself. Women should be wise enough to see through such men and put them in their places.

Women have really suffered in this country and on this forum. Imagine the stereotyping!

What trousers do men need to wear in their lifetime?

lalabamba:
He lied that his son got scholarship and housing only to ask the boy and he said its only $2,000 out of $35,000

2k out of 35k...lol

Don't say anything. Just book a flight, take him to the airport and watch him board and go.

When they see him at their doorstep, they will get the message. Everybody should be mad together.

Where is the huge amount? 120k?

Nugesboi:
I'm not here to argue or justify my decision to take loan. I'm here to seek for help. please if there's anyway you could help me to get on my feet again. please help.

That's why I asked if it was a bank you worked in, and what unit you were in.

Mariangeles:
It’ll be better for him to look for a foreign girl to marry o.
Not after all he has written should he dare to marry a Nigerian girl.

I donate him to Benin Republic girls

Mariangeles:
That is why those banters and gender wars should never be taken seriously.

Especially Kriss216. Someone that is deceiving himself. His Nigerian girl is in front waiting for him .

AMGBoss:
Keep waiting for someone to lead.

And you are doing what? Waiting for someone to follow? You should be the leader since you are on about people not doing anything. But alas! You are part of them.

Nugesboi:
I quiet understand your point but you were not in my shoe. I took those loans so my children can go to school and not for my personal use. its not like I had other options.

That means you didn't have the intention of repaying, no matter what you used the money for. Because when these loan apps start dragging you, they won't care if it was for kids' school or anything important.

Na wa o. Even STEM course is a requirement.

Congrats iya ibeji

Collecting loans without a source of income to pay is a recipe for disaster. You as a former staff of a financial institution should know that.

Was it a bank you worked in? What unit?

AMGBoss:
Let's continue to rant online instead of hitting the streets.

Are you on the street now? Or have you mobilized anyone yet?

AMGBoss:
LoL...see how toothless Nigerians who don't have the boldness to fight for thier right will continue to rant online behind thier phones.

You that you have teeth, what are you doing to fight it?

advanceDNA:
For the record, which is clearly on the thread...I never said women don’t get bashed...You can look at my comment if you like...

I only gave my opinion of why they get bashed a lot by men here and why it’s much on this forum,....you disagreed and the u started to accuse me repeatedly of hiding, pretending, and speaking from both sides of the mouth.

I just ddnt get your reasons..I further made my self clear...but u u kept sensing something else other than I said here...if that’s not paranoia then I don’t know what is..

Gosh!! U even said I’m afraid that people I don’t even know will call me names...it’s patronizing....

Ok. Have a good night

advanceDNA:
U keep coming up with a lot of figures and creating scenarios asking me if that’s what I’m saying..
for the record I’m not insinuating anything more than what I’ve said as you are trying to assume...
we have some contrasting views on some of the things going on here ...why is that a problem....??

I don’t have to agree with all you say...since we have been conversing, I clearly told you what I agreed with, I also gave my view of what I don’t completely agree or disagree with....that’s not pretending or talking from both side of the mouth....it’s called having an opinion..u don’t have to like it..


it’s like you already starting to overread meanings to my statement: earlier you said I was hiding the true meaning of points,

now you are saying I’m talking from both sides of the mouth..u even accused me of being afraid of being called names..

the problem is, u are trying to put me in a box...I can have contrasting views on different topics or even slightly related topics...I can be gay and still not like transgenders... don’t put me in a box...

If you can’t handle a contrasting view of your opinion without being paranoid that I’m hiding something then let’s call it quit..

.it’s been fun..

Also, I apologize for any wrong statement..

There is no contrasting view. Women get bashed a lot on this forum much more than men. That is a fact. That is all I am saying. You don't have to agree.

Now I'm paranoid? Ok. Enjoy the rest of your day.

advanceDNA:
Well we don’t have equal men and women..so your submission is technically a fallacy..still I’m not trying to say it can’t true..lots of men actually complain

What’s more, I agree thegridrepiller is a bit extreme, but how many of that extreme dude is actually on nairaland ?? Mention 30 out of 3million users on nairaland and I will start a campaign against bashing of women

.i mentioned earlier that i see topics everyday where men bash other men and support women, especially when men cheat or do wrong.....which is why I call these threads u call bashing men’s bad experience and not a target at you guys...it’s this same men u say hate women, that still support women against their fellow man’s wrong dating behavior..

You said there’s so much to life...of course...why are you trying to paint a picture that bashing women is all that goes on on nairaland ...there are tons of sections here, and men dominate them all discussion various issue that doesn’t even involve women..

So you are saying if we have 500 guys on Nairaland and 300 ladies. And 400 out of the 500 guys bash women, and only 50 women bash men, it is ok, since men are more than women on the forum. Is this what you are saying?

A bit extreme? Ok. It seems.you close your eyes to the things your guys do. Even guys like you have complained about the rate at which guys bash women here. But you don't see it.

But you disguise as someone that is unbias. But it's not hard to see that you are talking from both sides of your mouth. You want to support women but you don't your fellow goons to call you a simp or the other names they love to use.

Quit this disguise. I don't know where you stand and i don't want to get dizzy trying to figure that out.

advanceDNA:
It’s not the same people that open threads to complain...it’s different men....so it comes down to numbers at the end of the day......don’t women complain too?? But I feel you don’t see women’s thread here that much becos there are only a few women here..this is simple statistics...

As for your last statement, I’m honestly lost here cos my statement is exactly what it is... u said men just open thread to bash and others join in.... that’s like saying their aim for opening the thread is just to bash and not to share their horrible dating experience...that’s why called it invalidating peoples’ motive for complaining....

If we have 10 men and 10 women, 8 men will still open women-bashing threads. May 1 woman will. Women don't occupy themselves with such things. How many women do you see like thegridredpiller and all the followers opening threads to bash women. There's so much more in life than all that.

descarado:
Ouch

You want Kayperry to come for you and tell you that you wake up everyday and breathe for men's compliments . That's if you are a lady...lol

advanceDNA:
I call what you are doing invalidating people’s horrible dating experiences by calling it an unnecessary bashing of your gender. However, That doesn’t mean I don’t agree with you that the “bashing” is much...the simple reason they are much is becos the ratio of men to women here is 5000:1...

I disagree with the bolded. The reason is simply because men have perfected the art of complaining and whining that they don't even realize it.

...and for your first 2 sentences, say what you mean exactly and stop dancing around the point you want to make. It's ok to come out straight.

kayperry:
AwwAwwwww! do you know major consumers of fictions, fairytales & novels are ladies there are other means to be my fan its not a must i becum a writer you know

You are beginning to bore me. Run along and enjoy the rest of your day hopefully.

kayperry:
Funnily 98% of gurls if men don't approach, DM, tease or woo them in just one week they will join MFM. you as a wife the day ur man stop finding you attractive is the day you start losing sleep whatever affects ur sleep already affect ur existence
I have cracked & racked my membrain, nothing makes sense like, female existence depend on male validation.

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You should consider writing a book. We won't want this young imaginative mind of yours to go to waste. Fiction seems like your forté. Give it a try sweetie

Pasima:
We have done that severally I open up to her, I hide nothing from her but she tells me the one she fill like, cannu imagine she save a guys number with MY HEART that was when my trust for her started shaking, I confronted her she said he is a friend. I told her to change it but she didn't. The other day I came her house I saw two plates of ice cream yet she didn't explain it. I felt bad.

It seems you are not the one she is dating. Saving someone else as "My heart" is something to be suspicious about. The fact that she doesn't communicate properly with you sas a lot. Are you sure this relationship is not one sided?

kayperry:
Yiimu! you belong to jesus buh you are wearing a man's ring, if you can leave ur parent to go be with a man just because of mere words like "i love u lori iro" and because he said you are beautiful lori iro you got pregnant for him, only God knows what you will do if he says he can catch a grenade for you .... what i can't figure is why you ladies make us lie daily

Ok. Hit me up when you have figured it out.

AdeOri99:
That is why you should always leave an introvert to their world, when you feel threatened, you fight back.

I can never understand the external way.

I am just glad I am become self-sufficient to pursue my passion without external interference.

It's on this forum that I see people making being an introvert to be some kind of condition or special situation. Soon now, you guys will claim to have super powers.

SugarPapi:
She can't replace my wife. Also, I cant leave her.

Haaa...are you sure this is not jazz. You described her as homely, soft spoken, etc, as per she's a good girl. Will a good girl sleep with a man that has a family? She has her plan and you should know that.

Forget that she refused to collect the money you offered or that she covered up her body. It's all part of the game plan to lure you in. And you fell face down. Women are really proving to be more intelligent than men. And you guys never learn

Since you cannot leave her, enjoy the sex very well. So that when she's through with you, you will have memories to fall back on.

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Taken
Notebook

AdeOri99:
Even though I am not faultless, women made me this way.

While I am not a fool, I am meek, gentle, and humble, always immersed in my thought and studious too. So I don't have a problem with anyone.

But what do my aunt do, she said I am too gentle and bullied me as a result, I was able to go through that.

After that, I was at the mercy of two women also at different times, it was the same, they fight against my gentleness and when I could no longer take it, I began to observe my environment, and I see why it was so, I gradually changed from being intuitive to a sensor that notices everything around me, and because most of these things have negatively affected me before, I tried preaching to these people that exhibit those trait maybe they will change, they don't, until I begin to use force and fight back, and that is what changed me completely from the meek and gentle boy that mind his business to one that quickly spots what is not right and reacts.

Believe me, this is affecting me because it is not my business, but because women always try to get close to me, I had no choice but to fight the traits that make them toxic towards me, and even though I know it is not general, any slight provocation can easily trigger my displeasure and I can barely help it.

How women chose to live their life is not my concern, but I am someone that women get attracted to easily, but I have also been maltreated by toxic women, so I just fight generally.

I should stop this very soon though because I am changing my environment.

Blame toxic and selfish women, not me.

You overthink and over-analyze the matter. It is not that deep. And you are sounding like the one who is toxic and self-centered.