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Jokerman:
"platonic"

Teutonic

hotwax:
But its quite unfortunate that 90% of men think about sex when they see opposite sex especially none blood relatives.

Friendship is best for same sex. But for opposite, care should be taken. Men can pretend for life.

FYI. This post is about "best friends" and not friends.

You can have many male friends who you dont meet or go out together. Maybe just at work or on whatsap. This is not in the scope of this discussion. We are talking about best friends.

Your post said nothing about "best friends" but "just friends" but it is fine if that is the story you want to stick to.

hotwax:
No problem with having friends. We all need friends in life.

But the question is. Do you trust those friends? Are you sure they are not after you to pounce on you when opportunity shows up? Do you know their intention?

Or we should ask you.

What is your intention with those friends?

The rate at which married women engage in office romance these days, you wonder whats they really understand by the word "Just friends"

Maybe because people do not understand friendships. I have always had more male friends than females.

It is just like asking what my intentions are with my female friends. You expect me to avoid talking to or mixing up with my male colleagues but just the female ones.

Well, maybe some people only think about sex when it comes to the opposite sex. That is their mindset, not mine.

The married women that cheated with whoever did so because they decided to. They don't need to have male friends. They could have all female friends and still cheat with the only male they happen to meet.

Jokerman:
Then you ain't ready for marriage....

I am married and i have male friends

Nobody said all our friends have to be same sex.

To those that feel IVF is magic or 100% success.

Some men actually think women are slaves or marrying a woman is doing her a favour.

A woman also needs to be respected. Respect is not reserved for the man alone. So if the food isn't ready, you need to ask her why and make sure that she is ok instead of selfishly thinking about your stomach alone.

Your mum should be respected...fine. But she should also accord your wife her due respect and not act like her son was snatched from her.

And sex...hmmm. now the man is the head of the home because of sex. Sex is supposed to be enjoyed by both parties...not something to be surrendered because the husband wants it. Do you even romance or do pre-intimacy? A wife is not a seex object but a human being with feelings and emotions. If a woman is not happy, sex will be far from her mind.

A man should not be all about taking and taking from his wife. He should also give and show care and concern.

KendrickAyomide:
1 Million Ruppies ?

1 million Zimbabwean dollar

They will say they are not her father. But i think only guys that do not have money to spend that have this mindset.

A guy that has money will be happy to spend on the one he loves...buy her gifts, etc.

It is when there is no money that "am i her father?"..."why can't she spend?"...will start entering the matter.

If a guy cannot spend, please it is better not to have a girlfriend because even if she is working class and spends also, the guy still needs to spend whether or not he is her father or grandpa

So what happens to her male friends she had when she was single?

Not everyone can handle it but i see nothing wrong with it as long as she knows how to manage it.

Modified!!

Everyone suddenly quoting me and talking ignorantly.

Am i supposed to ignore male colleagues and guys generally because i am married?

FYI, my hubby maintained his female friends and it is not an issue.
You guys just calm down!!!

Somebody will come and say it is konji...like it cannot be controlled.

All these number "8 will surprise you" caption is getting old

How much is coldstone and pizza?

Abeg i can pay for it myself. Reward indeed

Stinginess

When a guy is vain and too conscious of his looks.

Lol...anything goes kind of guy

Prognose:
And yet you chose to speak for the majority.

Oh well. I'm tired of arguing.

There is a difference between friends and acquaintances and even family.

Besides, haven't you attended parties of people you do not know directly?

No one is arguing with you.

93Miles:
1. Alright.

2. That makes the difference between boys and men.

Boys would always rant even if you give them the world.

Like you were ranting?

93Miles:
1. ?

2. I don't think low of women.
That was a typo.

Women have a lot to offer a man.
Should I list some?

No you don't need to. I know we offer so much.

I take rantings of guys saying such with a pinch of salt because they are talking from their own inconsequential and limited experience.

93Miles:
1. That goes to show u that human beings are never perfect.

2. Pls be at a close watch. As soon as any of them gets unhooked, u hook me up.
Thanks.

I doubt i would.

Why would i want to hook my friend up with someone who thinks lowly of women and thinks theu habe only sex to offer?

93Miles:
1. Ur elder ones are married I guess. They say; 'Show me ur frnds, I'll tell u who u are'. Since u are a mountain climber, I can imagine who ur frnds are. Link me with one. Thanks.

2. That was another typo. Nigerian women are very beautiful and attractive. A young Nigerian girl just won 'Most Beautiful Girl In The World'. ..

You really make a lot of typos.

I have very few female friends and they are hooked.

Prognose:
High or low class. It rarely happens. Be realistic.

Ignorance of this things doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

The fact that i have never seen an alligator doesn't change the fact that it exists.

I am being realistic and wondering who you guys have been associating with that you are using to judge us all

93Miles:
1. If I'm focusin on the outward, then Nigerian ladies won't be on my list. I'm about the inward.


2. Congrats. Wish you HML.


Link me up with your sis if you don't mind.

I beliv ur sis is also a mountain climber

Lol...i am the last child. Sorry.

So Nigerian ladies are not attractive or pretty...another wrong conclusion/assumption.Do you think you Nigerian men are all that? But women are not into complaining about you. We make the best out of you

Nobodys:
.... Please ma'am, about the bulgy stomach issue, what do you say?.

I think it works differently for people. My tummy greatly reduced in the first few months...maybe because i was exclusively breastfeeding. I don't know.

One of the things i did was to drink warm water rather than water from the fridge. Then tummy exercise after your doc says it's ok.

Some people are lucky that they don't have to do a thing.

Flaj:
It depends on the individual. Some people want to spill blood over their kids to get a sense of accomplishment.
My close relative who had two vaginal births before a CS says she will choose a vaginal birth over the CS mainly because of the healing process associated with a CS.

After the first 2 to 3 days, it gets better. I attended a wedding exactly a week after delivery through CS

Oyindidi:
Just imagine my sister, I had the to educate the women in my church about CS.. One delivered 2 years ago through CS and they were busy saying, in this Church, no one delivers through CS. That they deliver like Hebrew women, I was mad.

Women make other women who do CS seem like incomplete mothers.

I was in contact with my pastor's wife when i was in the hospital. When i told her that they wanted to do a CS and i didn't want it, she told me not to resist that there is nothing wrong with CS.

Bottom line is vaginal or CS, we are mothers

93Miles:
1. It was very wrong to conclude. Like I said, it was a typo.

2. I have change crowd tire. Still haven't concluded yet. I beliv there are some few ladies who can/are swimming oceans for their men.

3. Oh wow!

4. Are u married?

You will find what you are looking for. And i hope you are not just focusing on the physical aspect and ending up with the same kind of girls.

Yes I am

Evince:
soon the world will be free of it all. Now come and die and see ur god u wont agree. be deceiving urself

I see you are not done yet.

93Miles:
1. Was a typo.

2a. U said I should change my association. I associate with Nigerian ladies so it's like saying I should change Nigerian ladies and associate with outsiders.

2b. I really want to experience this. Maybe u can make me experience it. I mean like throw a party for me. My birthday has passed but we could rewind it. Fix a date and venue that is comfortable for u.

3. Wow! U mean u still climbing mountains for ur boo? This is amazing. Please whenever u're tired of ur man give me a call. I'm next in line.

If i keep dating Nigerian men who are gold diggers everytime, i could easy conclude that all Nigerian men are gold diggers. But no, i don't conclude. The bad eggs spoil the good ones.

Instead i change my crowd and the kind of people i fall for not necessarily leaving Nigeria. If you think because you have dated a few girls and you think you have seen it, think again. You haven't started living.

And for my boo? I am even on a mountain right now...

And i can't be tired. We signed together forever till death do us part

Evince:
na so god tell u to advocate for him. u guys are so brain washed. when ppl are staying awake learning a process to help human lives nigerians are busy being superstitious. all this god story Europe gave u is myth and superstition even the one Arabs gave. all are mental slavery. God doesnt exist my frnds all na myths

Are you done?

93Miles:
1. If it can't be learnt, the people who know it, were there born with it?

2. Teen relationship is very different from adult.
@teen, a girl will do crazy stuffs for her boo. Teen girls go miles to please their boos. But when they become adult, the society changed them. The society makes them beliv that men ought to spend on them and reverse shouldn't be the case.

3. Nah! I didn't conclude. I guess that was a typo.

Lol @ typo.

You cannot learn how to know that ladies also throw parties and spend on their guys. It is just something you experience based on your association. That's my point.

Well...then you can call me a teenager forever cos nothing has changed. I am even more creative.

93Miles:
1. How would I know if I don't learn? You said (if you don't know, you don't know).

2. I haven't concluded yet. I believe some day it will happen.

3. Wow! That was awesome. But can it happen now that you're eyes are more clearer?

4. What's the sign to look out for in such women? I mean it's not written on their faces.

As i said, it isn't something that can be learnt.

I don't know what you mean by my eyes being clearer. That is funny anyway. However, i am nothing like your girls.

And...you concluded which wasn't intelligent. You said it was "impossible"

93Miles:
I really want to know.
I'm open to learning.

It is not something you can learn.

I don't even believe that you actually concluded that ladies don't throw parties for their men.

Even as a teenager, i took my first bf out on a picnic. I cooked, got drinks and took him to an art studio cos i knew he liked art and afterwards, we had a picnic.

If you don't know the kind of people who would spend on their men, then i can't teach you.

Prognose:

Fab fab fabuuuu

You guys need to stop mingling with chewing gum girls