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Annoying behaviour...inviting friends. For what??!

But this attire is Akwaibom/Crossriver

What is the point of this thread?

victorian:
Lol


Na so..

Stop reading mills and boons

Naah...i enjoy your comments better.

Bluezy13:
Goodnight too
Cheers...

@victorian. This is the point you guys kiss

I enjoyed your conversation. Nothing wrong with a man dropping money for upkeep.

A lot of people responding are just talking based on their perspective of marriage

Besides, as long as the couple agree and they are ok with it, every other thing is background noise.

Michael8026:
its not easy what they did in this present Nigerian economy they should be applauded. it really takes a lot to return that kind of money

From the way you are talking ehn ...

tellwisdom:

Let me dai

You have your wish.

tellwisdom:
Madam shut your gutter mouth up. There's no chaff or wheat here. You all are the same with different disgusting manner.

I know a gurl who feeds on her boyfriend, but came on social media to fight and brag she buys things herself". when I see am, I just weak

I can swear with my life the phone you are presently using was not purchase with your 100% money. I can bet my life with that. Yeye people

Tellfoolish or whatever you call yourself. Just see how you sound shallow and unintelligent drawing conclusions because of one girl or some girls you have met.

You are concerned about my phone. Don't worry your pretty little head about it. You better not die because of my phone...swearing by your life. You will just die like chicken.

majamajic:
hmmmm

bro if your grand mum is 125 , u should be around 60- 70 yrs, and your dad 90-100 yrs. and your own child around 20- 30 yrs.

this woman should be around 86- 90 yrs. based on the poster's age.

world's oldest person is around 116 yrs

in Africa we always believe our grand parents are some where around 100- 120 yrs. knowing fully well that average marriage age for a woman in Africa is around 25yrs and a man around 30-35 yrs .

then how come we all have grand parents of around 100- 130yrs yet we are 25-40 yrs

Your calculation might be wrong. My friemd's grandpa died at about 140 or 150 over 10yrs ago. He had 29 wives and many kids. My friend is less than 40yrs.

HeWrites:


Yes, We do but without each others consent.

But our madams practice it most.

That is what guys tell themselves these days

Not worth the trouble at all. It should be good riddance.

lilyheaven:
I really need to learn how they are doing it. I want to apply their method.

Some people have family that theu drop the child or children off with. What of those that don't habe mums or family that can help?

It is really what works for you that you do. Because we might be struggling to be like someone not knowing what else they are doing or what alternative help they have but do not say

Olalan:
The guys decision is right.....why roll with someone you aren't proud to show off.......

In her defence, it might be that she is trying to hide her man and code. Some girls do that in a bid to protect their relationship or not to jinx it. But that could be th case or not. Who knows?

tellwisdom:
What does this mean??...All these Nigerian women no get sense...Poor and uncultured with a begging spirit. Nigerian gurls?? # Spits

And what about Nigerian guys? Especially the ones that talk like this?

Very poor mentality with no brain to process information correctly and select the chaff from the wheat thereby generalizing issues.

When next you want to say your mother has no sense, think deeply about it before you open your mouth.

There should be no competition. Wife and mother are both important and the man should know that his immediate family which now includes his wife is priority.

On a lighter note, i watched The Johnsons yesterday where Goodluck's mother was fighting to be in a family portrait that was meant for her son, his wife and daughter. They eventually allowed his mum sit but told the photographer to cut her off

lilyheaven:
Really?
How are you doing it?

When she starts having children and she is working at the same time, the story will definitely change.

They think it is easy to do laundry, cook, clean the house go to the market and still be working. By the time the woman looks like a shadow of herself, it is the husband that will start looking for help.

So who will marry the rich guys?

It is not everyone that will marry a struggling guy.

Must a woman struggle with a guy? Why can't the guy struggle alone? Or doesn't she have her own struggles?

Abeg let us quit labelling girls bad or gold diggers because she is with a rich guy and virtuous because she struggles with a guy.

samysmoothfresh:
On a more serious note though, i honestly dont give a f**k if y'all chase after already made men



what i dont understand is while at it, y'all continue broke shaming 'em "soon to be made men"




it's like saying i have herpes but enjoy mocking someone else with herpes just cos she's female.

Maybe because the soon to be made men keep shaming girls that date or marry rich guys as if it is a plague.

Atlanticfire:
You took advantage of your husband's love to bring disagreement between him and his mother.

Now you are also trying to take advantage of the mother to help you take care of your child.

Madam, bear your cross. Wives that bring disagreements among family members are not worth having.

But watch it, those who think that they are smart and bring disagreement in families that they are married into end up isolated at the end.

But you conveniently missed the part where her mum inlaw made life difficult for her and poisoned her son's mind against his wife and even turned her sister inlaws against her.

Both wife and mum are wrong and the mother started it. Both of them should be blamed equally. The mum inlaw should even be blamed more because she is older and should act better and more mature.

Ego.

I think it is more about the man's ego than anything else.

megareal:
Don't mind those quoting you. They are yet to understand that relationships are unique. I had only male friends before marriage. Hubby, then fiance use to come meet us where we were and give the guys drinks. They were there at my wedding and child dedication. We still talk but hardly meet. Infact I am still the refree in most of their relationship ish as it was before I married.

Hubby maintained his female friends too and as each of them married off, we will go to their weddings etc.

The problem I see with a lot of folks commenting is that sex to them is too cheap hence they think everyone indulges in it casually.

The sooner folks learn to control their libido the better trust will be established between both parties.

Exactly! Sex is cheap to them and they can just indulge in it without much thought.

My husband was having this same discussion on a group yesterday and had to ask me if i have ever thought he has anything to do with his female friends.

For one of them, he even helped drive her and her hubby outside lag for their wedding and they still keep in touch. She also came for hers. Infact i tease her to feed him when he visits them. I call her my boo's boo

It is about understanding and creating boundaries. As long as there is trust, it's fine. If my hubby were to be the womanizing type, i would raise an eyebrow. We dont hold each other back from our friends as long as we draw the line.

eagleonearth:
Most women above 30 and unmarried are the cause of their situation.

Don't be too sure about that. You cannot just conclude.

Don't worry...when you have a sister or close relative or friend that you love and admire for her good nature and the person is unmarried at that age, you will have a rethink. Now you are just talking based on your limited knowledge of the situation.

hotwax:
Thats not what they are saying.

A married woman should keep distance. Still be friends with them, but on long distance basis.

This isnt hard except you are a cheat. And they that are still gluing with you after your wedding are trying to wreck your life.

Any sensible woman will know that she needs not be too close to avoid awkwardness or stories that touch.

Tolexander:
Stella doesn't hop from one man to the other.
If not that Jaiye Aboderin died, they may likely still be together.

You could have said "snatch another woman's husband", that will still be accepted.

But she was married to another man after Jaiye.

Although i do not subscribe to the "hop" idea that was ascribed to her

shimzu:
Birthday mate

Hmmm

Tompoi:
I paid 5k when I was 17 to ferk a 43 year old married woman whose husband had left her penniless and without food

And you could not just help her with the money?

Next2Bezee:
This is an online forum. If you feel its a waste of your time, you can delete your account or leave permanently, lol.

That being said, this debate itself is a waste of time.

Cheers.

Delete my account because of an ANAL thread.

Not a chance

Next2Bezee:
If you haven't gone out of your safe space to do some exploration before, know this... It's just you. If the "natural order" was absolute, then those who believe in God will be widely ridiculed as perverts.

I compare exploration in business to exploration during sex. The underlying term "explore" doesn't lose its meaning in either of these comparisons.

So, no. He is not a pervert.

I say he is a pervert.

You say he is not.

Ok let us leave it that way becauae i do not intend to waste precious time on this matter

Crazychris:
no one Is destroying anything and I'm not pervert. I can bet my balls you will love it if your husband or boyfriend calmly put it in your back without rush.

Bet you balls all you want but stop trying to force your rubbish down my throat.

You have supporters on this thread already that have helped you justify your cravings. Enjoy it

romenna:
if u fcck n kiss u r a pervert too.

Please get educated on the meaning of perversion