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Fierce11:
Someone posted this same news earlier though..
Op, you are also supporting the woman's claim of calling a 2year old child a demon? Haba!.. A child that might not even know the consequence of his action? Nawa o..
The woman sef, see how fvck word litter her post.. That one alone proves her irresponsibility and aggressive manner and trait.. What sort of woman calls another's kid a demon?
A child that probably damaged his cake with a knife because they've not yet known how dangerous it is? A child that gets angry when another child picks his own toy? Haba.. This one must have been caused by 'toy war'.. It is common among children.. I have seen where one child hit another with that shaking stuff when he got provoked.. She should just sue the school for neglect but the other parents should also sue her for using 'insultive and damaging' words on their child.
No child is a demon.. It is society that makes them one

How does a 2yr old do this? This is extreme. If it were your child with all this marks on her body, you would be mad. A 9month old that cannot defend herself.

Merimental:
he be like " i say make i check if na pin mouth"

You just made me laugh this night.

romenna:
pure lie. My side chic disturbs me for it.

She is a pervert.

Next2Bezee:
A very unfortunate way of thinking. Must everyone be the same as you? So, those that don't conform to what you term "normal" have "no love for themselves"?

The same drive to explore is what makes humans dump the job markets and start their own businesses; it's also what makes humans continue inventing; thus, improving technology as we know it.

Perverts are the pedophiles, rapists, exhibitionists, etc. If a guy has consent from his girl to try anal sex and he goes for it, he is not a pervert, neither is he someone with gay tendencies.

It is not about conforming. The natural order is the manhood to the vjay.

So now you liken starting a business to going anal. What kind of analogy is that?

A pervert corrupt or distorts the original course of things. So...yes...he is a pervert.

MissJoy29:
He doesn't just respect himself, he respects me too. Besides, my own vulnerability doesn't make me forget I'm in a relationship. So no matter how vulnerable I am, I still remember that because I don't condone cheating, I shouldn't cheat too(by God's Grace).

Yeah, in a happy marriage, the couples are each other's best friend & closest confidant. Remove "happy" from the marriage & you will see the two parties allow others come into their lives and threaten the existence of the marriage.

The guys on this forum expect that once you are married, you severe every friendships with guys and talk to only ladies

Many people in this generation act like sex is their god. Everything is about sex. Vjay is not enough...anus has to be penetrated too.

They will get tired of the anus soon and start asking if they can penetrate the ear and nose. Just wait and see.

Originalsly:
Let's reason....if the urge to have anal sex is coming from within you...then you are already on the road to becoming gay.Your gf would just be the starting point....your urge to do it with her only. ... then it will move on to other girls...then a babe's ass will be your focus...get you all sexcited ...then you will graduate from babe's. ..to any ass period...man or woman. It's a process....the same way people become drug addicts...that was never ever their intentions.
On babes loving it. Man ass...woman ass....serve the same purpose... made the same. Would you like someone to shove something up yours? It will be painful to anyone...man/woman. Why?...because it is set up to allow stuff to flow out...and prevent stuff from entering. If you force your way in...you will damage the muscles that ehmmm....serve as a gate to allow stuff to exit only. After sometime...those muscles get destroyed. ....anything is now free to leave...free to enter. Is that what you want for your gf ?
On babes loving anal sex.....but that is only after those muscles are damaged..when there is no pain on entering. Why love it? .... there is an area close to the back passage that also gives a lot of pleasure to the woman...so why not?...as after all....no pain.
To you the guy...no damage..but you are causing damage to the babe...permanent damage. Is that what you want? ...for down the road your gf must wear pampers?...or be leaking?...can't go the pool or have to wear a butt plug to prevent water entering her ass?
Just saying. ......my advice..... Uninstall beast mode...kill that urge.

He is tired of the normal part that gives pleasure. He wants to explore. It is the mind of a perverted person.

I blame the girl that will allow a man penetrate her anus. No sense and no love for herself.

Many men will not agree with number 1 especially.

Their excuse..."an erect p-enis has no conscience"

Wilfredpat22:
SIR, that is we women for you. It is so difficult for us to close our legs especially if we have been sleeping with countless men before marriage.

Her colleague has been enjoying her with you and you are the weaker man here. I will advice you to take a divorce. If my man cheats, I don’t even want to hear forgiveness, I am exiting from the house (that is if it his house)

And sir, it is only the colleague you are aware of, she might have been opening her treasure for the Bank manager, Auditor, Security guard... etc

Please take CHARGE AND DONT BE A SISSY

You are loose does not mean every woman is. Please speak for yourself alone.

MykOnyxo:
Thanks all. I appreciate all your replies. they have done justice to my worries. God bless you all.

When you say small, how do you mean? Is she below the expected weight for her age or is it based on comparison with other children?

I used to complain that my baby was small too cos i wanted a chubby baby. But my older ones made me understand that i was a smallie too. Besides, my baby is very strong and developing in all areas as she should despite her lepa body.

And please stop paying attention to people that complain. Just love your baby and make sure she is ok.

Crazychris:
Hey guys I'm bit curious, I want to try this with a girlfriend and I'm thinking if she would accept it or not.


Do women love anal sex?

You will now destroy her anus and dump her for another man to marry her. Having premarital sex with her is bad enough and you want to add anal. Continue.

When you have a daughter and she comes to confide in you that her bf wants to have anal sex with you, what will you advice her?

Only a foolish girl will do something that detrimental to her health with a mere boyfriend. Doing it with a husband is even bad enough not to talk of a bf.

And no...from my knowledge, women do not love it. The ones that do it only try to satisfy an insatiable man.

Op pls get a job. Just the fact that you earn something and are useful is enough to lift your spirit.

nikkypearl:
Nurses!!!! Most especially government hospitals..they call you by your illness

Exactly!!! My main reason for not giving birth in a govt hospital.

I can't stand the rudeness when i am vunerable and scared and need care.

Govt hospital nurses are rude and have badmouth.

skarlett:
When you see picture perfect families like this on a normal day, you'll just start getting depressed for nothing but when you really go behind the scenes, you'll appreciate what you have.

Pictures do not tell the true story. I stopped all the envy of all those pictures of perfect couples and people on social media.

Especially when i saw a man who has been terrorizing his wife and not been in good terms with her, asking her when they were going to do pregnancy photo shoot.

I was weak. He likes keeping up appearances.

The problem with the yoruba movie industry is the yoruba culture...people trying to prove seniority and be called "aunty".

I don't know what this "aunty" does for them. Always wanting to feel old and superior. I think that is what causes majority of their fights

CodeTemplar:
I tell ya.What is the definition of this league self. People tend to use slangs when they want to play ojoro. What is league in romance? Is it money? Clothes? Background? Looks? Romance is suppose to be a thing of the heart and not a league thing.

I think i agree with the OP.

It is on this same NL that a lady opened a thread some weeks back complaining about her man wanting her to dress up and wear all the expensive things he was buying her.

She kept resisting everything and complaining about all the expensive things.

And then some guys that marry wealthy ladies complain about the wealth and feel threatened by her and her family or one issue or the other.

It is just always complicated if the person cannot manage it.

Minjim:
She is underaged , she cant go to prison.

*Modified *

She can only be taken to a juvenile home.

https://www.quora.com/What-happens-if-a-child-murders-someone
Due her age, there are many things a judge will consider... Like if she's a first time offender, whether the crime was premeditated and if she's remorseful.

In Nigeria?

She will await trial till she is 18

shimzu:
Omg

What

flames01:
It isn't about having male friends; it's about getting too close to them

Thank God one person finally sees it

victorian:
Not all ladies are like your female friends.
My lawyer is a married man, we are good friends and he has not slept with me nor even made any attempt to.

My best friend's husband is like a big brother to me, a senior official in FIRS, we became close through my best friend , when she introduced us during her engagement. He's from my state, our village is close, while my best friend is a Yoruba lady. He helps me professionally ,in short we are this close but it has never occured to me, to betray my friend and have sex with her husband.. Not even the devil can trick me on that. Am a fairer version of his wife but he has never hit on me.
And He knows I will never hit on him.. The respect I have towards him will fall below low, if he tries any hanky panky move. In fact none of us drink, so we can't blame alcohol. Our senses and Brains are up to date.

In short we are better off as family friends.

People should stop blaming Devil for everything.. And take responsibility for once!

Don't mind these guys. I don't know what they think a friend is.

I think it is this present set of younger people that cannot see past women being sex items/objects. So they cannot understand that a woman can actually relate with male folks without sleeping with them.

I understand you perfectly. I have always had more male friends than ladies and the only one i ever slept with was the one i got married to.

IbnAbdullah1:
Different strokes for different folks I guess.
This is me just speaking.
You may be lucky doing that but the overall benefit of having a male or female 'platonic' friend or whatever while being married is not always palatable looking at the state of affairs.
Remember humans are not robot one thing may lead to another and there you have it.
I feel generally there should be a safe distance.
And not forgetting, using yourself as a standard is very wrong.
People are so different and so many other factors that come into that may potentially make or mar them while in such unsuspecting relationships.

After all,wetin I know?

A safe distance is necessary. Even my female friends i hardly visit not to talk of the males.

I won't put myself in a precarious position and try to test myself or the friend. So i am not being foolish here or ITK

NairaMaster1:
You got it.

As you quietly agreed with me that one day that your male friend will lose control to Bleep you.

Your narrow mindedness and shallow thinking is really getting me bored.

Try to take your mind off sex once in a while. It will help you.

IbnAbdullah1:
There is nothing wrong in knowing somebody whim you having a working relationship with,but it is preferable that a woman and man keeps their distant.
This I can 'manage it's claim have made many married persons leave their husband's house.

If he wants to be friends many unmarried Females are out there whom he can potentially marry.

Guy i have male friends the same way i have female friends. Whether you understand it or not, we need people for one reason or the other. And we check up on each other from time to time.

One of them even MCed my wedding and i have hooked him up with other events. And he has also brought businesses my way.

I see friendships as an asset and i don't have a lot of friends. Maybe my understanding of friendships is different from yours.

AmiciLord:
Una no dey gree until e happen. Na am sorry dey end am.

U beginning to talk like a man. U sound weird.

Maybe because i am not your regular girl

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
shut up cheater.
I pity your husband

Ignoramus. Get enlightened and leave your stone age mindset.

NairaMaster1:
My sister, that's how I ended up fucking two of my female friends when they were about getting married ooo.

It started with hugging, kissing, smooching then mistaken penetration. We both felt bad but we did it again and again.

Well you obviously have no control or a conscience. I do. There os no comparison.

The person that should be worried is not. Stop swallowing panadol for another's headache. Ok

goodnewscliff:
if i were to b ur huzzy.... I would have female friends too..... Jst friends..... And hope issues dont proteude from diz

He has female friends. I don't have any problem with it. We have an understanding. Plus we have mutual friends.

AmiciLord:
Na clap person dey take enter dance. The robbers you see today never believed they will end up becoming robbers. The more time u spend with someone the more u get attached to that person physically and emotionally.

Just be careful.

Maybe you should not judge all guys based on yourself and your thoughts when you habe a lady as a friend.

You don't need to tell me to be careful. That would be stating the obvious.

AmiciLord:
It's wrong for u as a married woman to keep close relationships with other men. Men are men and will always take advantage of u anytime the opportunity arises.

You may think u guys are just friends but if it were possible for u to open their minds and see the lust in them na there u go fear men.

Your close male friends should be your brothers and cousins. Or families and no other. Even your Male business partners are not excluded. People no longer respect marriage in this generation. They sleep with any woman. If you like wear the biggest wedding ring for hand and neck dem go still wan do you. Even your husband's friends.

Just test one of those your male friends and see how they will fall like naira vs dollar.

They might not respect marriage but i do.

Besides, i don't just have any kind of twisted person as my friend and it takes me nothing to drop a friend if we don't fit.

lefulefu:
you can have a male friend as a married lady but distance should be maintained oo for safety's sake. The idea of some married ladies having long late night chats with dudes they claim is a close male friend or him taking u out for one thing or the order might lead to feelings or old feelings sparking off.soon u go start to dey compare him with ur husband...especialy if ur husband dey fuk up small.na so e dey take start.

Any sensible married woman should know where to draw the line when it comes to friends generally, not to now talk of male friends.

Please you guys should relax. My husband doesn't even stop me from relating with them. He trusts me. And if i want to cheat, i don't need to have male friends to do so. If he acts too strict, he knows that i will still do it if it is on my mind to do.

AmiciLord:
OP come see one of dem here. Na dem be this. We don know you now.

Pls know me.

You guys only think of sex when with the opposite sex.

All my friends didn't evaporate because i got married and it's same for hubby too

Why does the girl look like him?