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Gratia:
The worst thing that can happen to any woman is being jobless house wife. You will look older than your age.

Since you are stay at home mum, what exactly do you need a maid for? Don't you think it's high time you let her go so that you will have less mouth to feed.

Believe me...doing all the chores...cleaning bathrooms, toilets, kitchen, rooms, cooking and taking care of kids is not child's play. You just wake up one day and see that you have aged or are unkempt. Everyone needs some support.

Ekez:
Yes ,Infact they are the real christian.

Let me not talk jare

Ekez:
Anybody that celebrate his/her birthday is not a christian

Are JW Christians?

Ekez:
Anybody that celebrate his/her birthday is not a christian

JWs are not Christians

teelord1:
This is a big deal, he must be lost in the past....It just so good as you run from such person....They are toxic and will deteriorate you.

It is more common with ladies, I'm dealing with one at the moment....all I could just do is excuse myself. The worst part on her coming back is that she's not apologetic about the act.

I can't really condone it whether from a guy or lady. It puts me off and i stay far away from such people.

teelord1:
This is a big deal, he must be lost in the past....It just so good as you run from such person....They are toxic and will deteriorate you.

It is more common with ladies, I'm dealing with one at the moment....all I could just do is excuse myself. The worst part on her coming back is that she's not apologetic about the act.

I can't really condone it whether from a guy or lady. It puts me off and i stay far away from such people.

teelord1:
A guy do something of such....I bet you he is still a teenager or jobless, when you meet a mature guy are head up straight, he can do mood swings. Kilon je be

An old man in his 30s o. Not a small boy. It was really sad

teelord1:
Wow....coming from a lady I'm a little surprised and not also surprised....seems this is common with this Instagram/social media girls

Well the truth is that even guys claim to have mood swings.

I dated a guy that usually had mood swings and i found it annoying...like if something is biting you, just say it instead of entering a shell and calling it mood swing. I couldn't deal.

MrBrownJay1:
of course IT DOES.... any smart person knows that. the pleasure of having sex will have you produce more oxytocin injected into your brain, which in turn will release endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, into the body, which will therefore alleviate/relieve (or even cure) that headache. FACT!!!

so next time a babe says she has a headache, her man should spread her legs wide open and bang the hell out of her (for medical purposes, of course)

Exactly the words he used...oxytocin...endorphins.

And at the bolded...you are crazy mean.

Baawaa:
They should do autopsy to know the cause of his death

Pile keeps coming to mind

Prevhoo:
He is not entirely correct, it does not cause stomach pain but groin pain.

I ran an experiment on myself to ascertain this. It does not happen to him does not mean others are ruled out.

Those pipes can get clogged and you get this heavy feeling in the groin. I suspected hernia but when I want on a sex spree I never got the pains again.

Some weeks later, it came back fully blown. I realized I had not had sex In a while.
NOTE: I don't masturbate.

Doctors can't explain everything and I have never used this as a way to make a girl have sex with me.

Fluid build up causes groin pain that extends to the abdomen and sometimes downward to the leg in some men, some men I repeat!

Still, taking my mind off sex can relieve you.

Mynd44:
True But bro, it is her body. I think it is sad that women can't just say no and men respect it so they have to come up with lies like "I have headache" some even wear sanitary pad and stain it with sauce because the man will want to see.

OMG!!! Sanitary pad stained with sauce? That is a new one. You just killed me.

MrBrownJay1:
lol, just like no "headache" could stop a woman from having sex, but thats the bloody lie they use all the time...

this is the cat and mouse game played between men and women FOREVER!

My husband says sex cures headache. He explained it medically and i read it up

chikachuks1:
Many lecturers unnecessarily seem to be difficult, tough and impossible. Sometimes, you are forced to wonder how the wife and children of such lecturers cope with them. In the next few lines, I want to show you some simple steps on how to overcome these difficult lecturers. Mathematics has taught that every problem has a solution. Many students’ efforts are constantly been frustrated as a result of these kind of lecturers.

I have outlined some simple but real steps on how to overcome complex and difficult lecturers. If you apply these tips, very soon all your lecturers will start smiling with you and your result will also be smiling. Severally, I have met students who complain about a particular lecturer. In fact, in some cases, once they hear that the result for the previous semester is out, all they are interested in is to know their grade in that lecturers’ course. There are some lecturers who are really difficult, but there are some who are not. It is just that some of them pretend to be difficult lecturers, but if you go close to them, they are not. These are the few point for your consumption.

Attend all lecture and seat in the front: The very first step to overcome difficult lecturers is to always attend their classes. Not just attending their classes but sitting at the front seat. The reason is because the more they see your face, the more they know you better. There are some lecturers who are naturally gifted to the point that whenever they see your face, they will recognize you any other place. If you have a problem in a course and you approach the lecturer for help, the first thing he will do is to confirm if you are his student. Thus if you are always at the front seat, it will be an added advantage because your face will no longer be strange to him. Even if your lecturers do not know your name, ensure that they know your face. Always seeing you in classes will convince him that you are a serious student. Thus if you have any issue, it will not be hard for him to help you out.

Perform well in their courses: If you must overcome difficult lecturers, you must always perform well in their courses. Truth be told, there is a kind of grade you score in a particular course that the reverse will become the case. The lecturer will come looking for you himself. And as such the both of you become friends. Observe carefully that in most cases, it the average and dull students that have issues with lecturers. You will hardly see a first class or second class upper student having issues with lecturers. If you must break the code of your difficult lecturers, then you must ensure that you perform very well in their courses. By so doing, you will be on the advantaged side.

Ask questions: As much as been present for lecturers is important, ensure you ask questions frequently. This is the fastest strategy to make your lecturers know you. But then, you must ensure that you do not ask silly questions like many students do. It irritates many lecturers. Ask meaningful questions and by so doing, those difficult lecturers who have problem with smiling will begin to smile with you. From smiling, the relationship will graduate to laughing. Lecturers love when students ask them questions. This will prove to them that you are really understanding what they are teaching you.

Visit them in their offices: To overcome difficult lecturers, visit them in their offices once in a while. Remember that if you have issues with your lecturer, you are the one to suffer it. Your lecturer has graduated many years ago and you are still in school. Try as much as possible to visit them. If for nothing, to briefly gist with them, ask them questions or even run few errands for them. If you can do this one very well, you will never score less than a B in the lecturers’ course. Make friends with your lecturers. One of the secret of been a successful student is to love all your lecturers and courses.

Send them complimentary messages: Learn to send complimentary text messages to those seemingly difficult lecturers. If they have birthday, send them nice messages and if possible, publish their birthday on your Facebook timeline and tag them. These are little things that helps a big deal.

Pray: If you have tried all these and fail, then do not neglect to use the weapon of prayer. The Holy Bible says, “The heart of king is in the hands of God”. If you have tried all these above stated steps and the lecturer still prove impossible, then use the altar of prayer. In fact, if you use the altar of prayer very well, then the lecture will be the one obeying you. Send you the case to the court of heaven where he will be judged and given instructions concerning you. You can overcome that seemingly difficult lecturer.

In conclusion, no matter how hard beans might be, when you heat it with time, it will become soft. In like manner, you can win the heart of those difficult lecturers.
https://infoducation.com.ng/how-to-overcome-difficult-lecturers/

You actually got it right. I did all these things though unintentionally. I always sat in front so i could see...i wanted to pass the course so bad because it was the hardest and compulsory course in my dept.

When i didn't understand, i went to his office and he actually took time to explain. He wasn't that difficult after all. Besides, i didn't care about his being difficult. I just wanted to understand it.

I think i scored the highest in that course and he became my project supervisor. People pitied me but i had no issues

Spot on

oneroflo57:
Yeah I love onions
I didn't really think about blending the crayfish plus I like it whole too

You get the flavour more when it is blended. Then you can use those other bigger ones whole. They sell it separately. Apart from the fact that they taste nice, they also beautify the dish.

Very crazy thing.

I don't have mood swings. If i am upset, i know why i am upset.

It is not acceptable. She should apologize if she displays all in the name of a "mood swing".

It is not about getting a woman who cooks and cleans or for a woman approaching or crossing 30.

People marry for many reasons. I got married because we were tired of saying "bye" EVERY NIGHT. We wanted to be together forever.

I can boast of my cooking anywhere but sadly, my husband is a better cook. Infact, the late night chef is in the kitchen as i type this.

Besides, it depends on how a man sees a woman. Some men think that a wife is a personalized or customized maid with extra functions


People like to lump things together but really, reasons for marrying differ just like every marriage is different.

oneroflo57:
I'll try that next time I do it

Look nice. Why didn't you blend the crayfish. And you sure love onions

Just take it that your ex was not your husband even if you wasted years dating him. Close that chapter and don't judge other men according to him.

Do your due diligence on this guy...ask questions, be a private detective. There is a lot we learn fron asking questions. I dodged a bullet when i asked around about a guy that was on my case. No time.

I dated someone for 6yrs but i moved on. We broke up in October and by January i forgot him so much that his birthday passed without me remembering.Life is too sweet to be slowed down by anyone.

As for your mum, she has lived her life, she should allow you live yours.

[quote author= post=70637433]We respect their wish and opinion.
All we have to say as usual in our ever positive life is HAPPY MARRIED TO MR AND MRS NICE!

Hope he gets it right this time.
Not all marriages end in PAYNE!

Ok bye! [/quote]You are mean!!! @PAYNE

lefulefu:
her parents have their reason for their reservation on that wedding.i dont blame them oo.

Right now the guy is in money. I am sure he is richer than some of her family members. She knows what she saw in him

naijacentric:
mumu is dat not how u yeye gurls behave

Your manner of addressing people says a lot about your upbringing. I won't stoop to your level.

OgaBuhari:
common shut up and keep quiet. Stop saying rubbish cos it makes you look stupid.

You do not have to always sound childish. Sometimes try talking like an adult.

lefulefu:
its the girls from wealthy background that will marry the rich guys.thats how it has always been. Most ppl prefer to marry from their level of class anyway.they feel safer doing that.

Not always.

I recently met a babe from a wealthy family that married a guy that wasn't rich at all. Most of her family members didn't attend.

DissTroy:
A birthday party some years ago.

Not a party like, well, you know music-blaring-from-giant-loudspeakers-with-a-hundred-people-grinding-to-the-melody kind of party but it was a subdued one.

She'd days before chatted me up on WhatsApp to find out my schedule was for the weekdays and since it was midweek, it was a little predictable - busy all day till dusk.

Fast-forward to the day, she called me up by 4.30am to sing me a happy birthday song.

By 5.30pm, she called to find out where I was. I told her I was nearly home and she came to my apartment while I was bathing. She came in with gifts everything you'd need for a small birthday party. She suggested we go out but I was a little exhausted to spend time outside so she begun the 'party' - party for two.

She brought enough to host a birthday get-together of 5 or so but it was just the two of us and it lasted all through the night.

It wasn't necessarily the cost of it all but the gesture - the heart she put into it and the element of surprise; I mean, she's a NIGERIAN GIRL.

What's more, she was a student in her second year in the university then and wasn't exactly from a rich home. She taught English Language and Literature during the weekends and in an Evening School. It was all her money.


She's probably the only girl I have ever and would ever truly love that deeply and I wish her the very best of what life has got to offer. She taught me even with meagre income, with needs of her own which need to be met, there are still a few NIGERIAN GIRLS who are self-reflecting, beautiful, intelligent and self-less with the men they are in relationships with.

She's one of the reasons I never criticize and lump all Nigerian girls as one.

Lovely!! Thank God one guy on NL believes that not all girls are the same.

I remember taking my bf on an art exhibition(he liked that kind of thing) and a picnic afterwards on his birthday years back.

I cooked, got drinks, cake...everything.It was a romantic outing.

For my husband's last birthday, i made a special dinner and I spread a white bedsheet on the bedroom floor and arranged the dinner with scented candles and dried flower petals.

He gotback from work and was blown away...

I love romance

This ranting this morning.

Some guys are really bitter.

milemimi93:
At the emboldened, I would have done justice to it and also write out 50 reasons Why most bashers are guys plus why most ladies can't create a thread to bash guys. But because of the vow I've made to myself never to bash women I won't write it. Because there's no way I can write those 50 reasons without me bashing women. And this time around I would get an everlasting ban. Because what I'd spit, nobody here including the guys will take it. Everybody here plus the guys will call the mods at me. I have thought of a polite way to write it but I can't. So I'll let it slide.


I was done with that part of life.


Let this cup pass me by.

May God give you the grace to keep to your vow. You really need it.

Milemimi93 is that really you? So no more bashing for us? Thank God!!

Bashing us really gets you guys nowhere except making you bitter. And i noticed that there are more bitter guys than ladies on NL.

Ladies manage their emotions and feelings better than the guys here. Guys here are always creating threads to bash women.

The guy is not serious at all!!! Giving his brother inlaw pocket money? Seriously? The load he has decided to carry is his choice and headache so he should stop complaining

What is he doing for his own family? He should talk to his wife and tell her that he cannot continue like this. It is a complete rip off and they are taking advantage of him.

I advice that he stops every financial commitment to them and when they ask, he should say he is paying off a huge loan and can no longer afford to do as he used to.

But if he is father Christmas, he can continue but he dare not commit suicide later or react because he made a choice without a gun to his head.

Just be polite. Avoid her also. Be miserly with words and just say "ok" to whatever she says whether you agree or not.

When your husband asks you about her, just tell him that she is wonderful and there is no problem.

If you can, set her up in such a way that your husband walks in to her displaying and insulting you. It will seem more unintentional than making a video and showing him.