Family › Re: Woman Who Gave Birth To Quadruplets After 15 Years, Celebrates Their Birthday by ImaIma1(f): 8:06pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Sunymoore: Madam, we debated on this issue on one thread like that. I hope this is not an emotional one.
Madam I'm a theist, but acknowledge the work of science please. Atheist also go for IVF and have success, so?
Blood, sweat and fund were sacrifice for IVF to be a reality? We can't affected people just pray and conceive? It won't work right? But people can carryout IVF without prayers and still have success right? So, is the other way round, people just make it seems that only prayers worked without IVF.
Appreciate decades of research please. It's okay to thank your Lord but criminal to omit IVF as the saving grace.
I pray, may Allah continue to boost the brain of thousands of scientists across the world trying to find cure and fixes of many ailments.. They deserve praises.. Oh you are atheist. Case closed. No issue |
Romance › Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 8:05pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
93Miles: Only a sugar mommy does that.
N/B: I don't hate Nigerian ladies. Ok. Let's not drag this issue. If you don't know, you don't know. |
Romance › Re: Lady Beats Up Her Husband And His Side Chick After Catching Them. by ImaIma1(f): 6:33pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Fierce11: Priest: do you forsake all others? Me: i do... * But madam, who am i forsaking? My family? My friends? My ex girlfriends? Or sew with other people? Ehn.. It wasnt stated na; Have gone through wedding vows? Either from the court or church? Obviously not |
Romance › Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 6:19pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
93Miles: More like saying ; "Change Nigerian Ladies". So you are saying that no Nigerian lady in the whole of the country has ever thrown her man a party? |
Family › Re: White Woman Grinding Pepper With Native Grinding Stone. by ImaIma1(f): 6:11pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Why go through that stress and waste precious time when i can use a blender?
Besides, if i want the "grinding stone" effect, there are women in the market that grind with stones. |
Romance › Re: Lady Beats Up Her Husband And His Side Chick After Catching Them. by ImaIma1(f): 6:07pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Fierce11: That is not what it entails ma'am.. That's just want we believe it does.. Ok na.. When you said your vows, which sentence did you use to restrict the love-making to your spouse Forsaking all others |
Romance › Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 6:06pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
93Miles: Super story. Change your associations. |
Romance › Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 5:49pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
93Miles: 1. Is impossible if the lady is a Nigerian.
2. A guy does not need to tell a lady that he's in for sex. Of course, everyone knows that sex is the motive since that's the only thing a lady can offer. Well you cannot use the girls you have been with to qualify every other girl. Nigerian ladies throw parties for their men. Nothing new there. I have even attended one of such surprise parties. Thankfully, not every guy thinks that way. Some actually do respect women. And that is probably why they meet the women who have other things to offer than sex. |
Romance › Re: Lady Beats Up Her Husband And His Side Chick After Catching Them. by ImaIma1(f): 5:42pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Fierce11: P.s:- this may seem odd but....- So she caught them having sex and she sees it as cheating? Biko how is he cheating her? Did they sign any agreement that says he cannot have sex with someone? Did they go to the court and accept sex restriction between themselves? If the man is wise, he should sue the hell out of this woman.. Besides, is it not the same women that always claim that marriage is not all about sex? The same way people buy food outside even when the woman of the house probably cooked something, is the same reason why men have sex outside.. and until external sex is finally accepted, then marriage shall (and must) always be riddled with problems.. Imagine a society that accepts homosexualism but still finds fault in sex with any lady of my choice 2e7 . Yes at the bolded. That is what the marriage vows entail both church and court. |
Romance › Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 5:35pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
93Miles: Nothing is free even in free town.
If you won't let him hit, don't waste his time or spent his money. Rape would be legal if you do. Not when he wasn't begged or forced to spend his money. What if it is a lady that spends her money to celebrate her man's birthday, do you think she would ask for sex as payment. Let's stop acting like we are trading sex. Maybe before you spend your money on a girl, you should let her know that you are doing it only because you expect sex from her afterwards. |
Family › Re: Woman Who Gave Birth To Quadruplets After 15 Years, Celebrates Their Birthday by ImaIma1(f): 5:10pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Sunymoore: Yeah! But acknowledging the process is always a good thing, it will help a lot of people. The process of delivery is also something to acknowledge but God still makes it happen. IVF is not sure. It is still God who makes sure the foetus do not die or that the woman can even carry it. But people just make it seem like IVF is one process independent of God's intervention. |
Romance › Re: Lady Beats Up Her Husband And His Side Chick After Catching Them. by ImaIma1(f): 5:04pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Hanseel1: The funny thing about all of you commenting on this thread is that you people didn't condemn the lady's action but If it was the other way round and the man was doing the beating I'd have seen comments like “he has no right to beat a woman ” “why didn't he divorce her instead ” . I was only responding to your comment about side chick. For the record, domestic violence is bad irrespective of the sex of the victim. |
Romance › Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 4:58pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
victorian: Honestly, it's just like that sometimes.
But most guys brain is zeroed on knacking!
I remembered an ex who celebrated my birthday at Sheraton. After all the wine, dinner, I was in high spirits, very happy, slightly tipsy. In a perfect good mood. All my mind was, he will drop me at home and I will sleep peacefully with nice dreams  My dear, as he was driving down, he smiled and said will I spend the night in his place? Drink clear from my eyes, I looked at him. I wanted to get angry.. I said in my mind, Vicky calm down.. You should know that's typical of a guy after spending some money, but this night o, am not going to end up in his bed.. No matter what. I don't feel like it and he can't force me.
I controlled my anger and smiled back sweetly, saying darling am really not in the mood for sex.. Can u just drop me at home? Please don't ruin this wonderful night we've just had. Am really not in the mood. Don't worry later we will have enough boogie.. But tonight? Am not in the mood at all.. He sighed and said OK. As your lordship demands .. I blew him a kiss thanks dear..
He jejely dropped me at home with a scowl on his face. I say Abeg, Na him sabi Jare. Must we Bleep? Smhhh.
Got home, opened the gate, bade him bye, then my door and slept like a baby on my beautiful peaceful bed.  Especially when a guy has spent money...lol |
Family › Re: Ceasarean Section Or Induced Labour Delivery, Which Is Better? by ImaIma1(f): 4:37pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
I would pick CS. That's what i did anyway even though not intentional.
But a close friend kept pushing me to do CS. She had a normal delivery and vowed to do CS next.
She had a tear. She said she would sit down and cry everytime she tried to pee for a long time becauseof the pain. It was always a battle. |
Family › Re: Opinion Needed by ImaIma1(f): 4:26pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Wedding is by capacity and not by trying to impress or outdo anyone.
You should be on same page. Not that you are planning for 100 while she is looking at 350.
Big weddings are not necessarily the fun and interesting ones. I believe the smaller the wedding, the more interesting it is. |
Romance › Re: Soon-to-be Doc. Throws A Fit After Hijabi Woman Refuses To Send Her Nude Pics by ImaIma1(f): 2:02pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
EzendiEgo1: sharap there
What's wrong in sending nudes to people.
This is how they will be forming hijab, I am a child of God but check their phones you will see hundreds of their nude.
Rubbish women Everything is wrong in it? What is the purpose of sending it? Is it a wise and safe thing to do? Should a man that asks for nude be taken seriously at all? |
Business › Re: Best Bank To Open A Savings Account In Nigeria? by ImaIma1(f): 1:29pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
frankosivue: Good Morning Nairaladers. This will be the first time I will open a bank account, so I need to be guided please. I want to open a savings account with following features: 1. Good Interest rates 2. Internet banking 3. ATM service.
Please help recommend a Bank that will offer me good service. Gtb is overcrowded and you will just be a deep in the ocean. Their customer service is terrible. They act like you are a pest. Diamond bank gives better service and you can always reach your account officer and their mobile app is top notch but people see it as an igbo bank. Their int rates are just regular.. Union bank is kind of laid back and lacking in technology. Though that is already changing. Sterling bank is not bad also although not popular. They have internet banking and good customer service. |
Education › Re: How To Groom A Child For The Medical Profession? by ImaIma1(f): 1:11pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
[quvote author=ikbnice post=70223023]why dont you allow your child grow and discover his strength. He may be a rapper like megabyte, a footballer, an artist or just anything that comes naturally to him. You should have watched the Indian film titled 'three idiots'.[/quote]0v Lovely movie.
Parents fail in this area. They keep pushing their children and trying to live their lives through their children and using their children to correct some mistakes they made in their own lives.
What we should do as parents is to create a wide space for our children to explore and develop natural gifts and talents.
They will excel better rather than when we try to treat them like zombies. |
Family › Re: Woman Who Gave Birth To Quadruplets After 15 Years, Celebrates Their Birthday by ImaIma1(f): 12:14pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
No husband/father |
Family › Re: Woman Who Gave Birth To Quadruplets After 15 Years, Celebrates Their Birthday by ImaIma1(f): 12:14pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
Sunymoore: Thanks to IVF Even IVF is still by God's grace. It doesn't work for everybody. |
Romance › Re: Lady Beats Up Her Husband And His Side Chick After Catching Them. by ImaIma1(f): 12:08pm On Aug 13, 2018*. Modified: 5:37pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
MRSoftapples: The sad reality of life is that the woman will be out of the marriage for her actions but the side chick will still be forking the man and even turning to a main chick..
violence is not the option, i wish ladies can learn..
The only thing that you can do to stop your husband from cheating is when you confront him quietly in a peaceful manner at home, serve him food, pet him and drop the bomb.. he won't be himself for days and will keep apologising to you.. And when the side chick becomes the main chick, the position for side chick becomes vacant. And the cycle continues. |
Romance › Re: Lady Beats Up Her Husband And His Side Chick After Catching Them. by ImaIma1(f): 12:05pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Why Girls Like To Carry Their Friend To Outing With Her Guy? by ImaIma1(f): 11:41am On Aug 13, 2018 |
SmilingMary: You are matured that's why you made this matured comment. This idea is prevalent among kids who see some guys as Maga/Mumu, or perhaps the guy has placed himself in that position.
BTW, I would like to be a friend. I don't have much friends either   |
Romance › Re: Why Girls Like To Carry Their Friend To Outing With Her Guy? by ImaIma1(f): 10:49am On Aug 13, 2018 |
It is a foolish practice...i never did it. Why would I carry my friend(s) with ne on a date? What if the guy didn't budget for all of us? Except he specifically tells me to come with my friends, i won't. How many friends do i even have?  |
Celebrities › Re: Tosin Ajibade 'Olorisupergal': Men Say They Can't Date Me Because I'm Richer by ImaIma1(f): 9:13am On Aug 13, 2018 |
Some men have that issue. They cannot handle a lady that is richer.
If she has a car and they don't, they will refuse to enter her car to be driven by her especially.
Abeg you will find a man that has a liberal mind that doesn't see it as anything. There are some genuine ones |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Ashamed Of Me But I Got What I Wanted by ImaIma1(f): 6:10pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Since she rightly said that she wasn't getting sex from her husband, why would he think the child is his own? |
Romance › Re: Addressing The Issue Of Savage Responses On Nairaland. by ImaIma1(f): 8:39am On Aug 11, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: THERE'S NO CORRELATION BETWEEN YOUR POST AND THE TOPIC. SORRY. You sure? Or you just refuse to see it. A discerning person would see it though. |
Romance › Re: Addressing The Issue Of Savage Responses On Nairaland. by ImaIma1(f): 8:35am On Aug 11, 2018 |
CreamyBanana: sharap. look at her mouth like wetin call. Hmmm... The JSS 3 boys are awake |
Romance › Re: Addressing The Issue Of Savage Responses On Nairaland. by ImaIma1(f): 12:30am On Aug 11, 2018 |
Op you are right. Permit me to say that most of these insults are from guys.
They are very quick to label a lady "olosho" and many degrading names.
And if a lady happens to prefer a guy that is rich, the insults roll in. They are ok if she likes and dates broke guys.
We should learn to respect the opinions of others. |
Romance › Re: How Do Broke Guys Manage Relationship? by ImaIma1(f): 11:58pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
chiraqDemon: Lmao. I don't. I don't even try to like a girl. Relationship without money is just going to make you depressed as the guy going into it. Cos you'll see your friends treating their girls well and you'll feel bad even when you know she loves you and doesn't mind your financial status You have sense!! |
Romance › Re: How Do Broke Guys Manage Relationship? by ImaIma1(f): 9:08pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Dating a guy that is labelled broke can be likened to dating a girl that is considered ugly. Most guys want to date a pretty girl. They don't want to date a girl for her inner beauty but they expect a girl to date them for their inner potential  |
Family › Re: Can You Take This As A Working Class Woman? by ImaIma1(f): 8:38pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
yettymuse: So if he doesn't eat a sweat engulfed pounded yam garnished with several teaspoons of tiredness he would die? I never want to be with a man that idolizes food! Phew! Lol @ idolizing food. For some men, a wife means cook, laundry woman, dishwasher, all round housekeeper/housemaid. And she must do his bidding. If he wants pounded yam, she has to run and pound it to prove she is wife material |