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Another female bashing thread.

You guys never tire.

donbachi:
yah!i still do.i'm a gud swimmer.u care to join?

Nice. I am a fish.

Naah!! I have a place where i go when i want to. Thanks

donbachi:
they tried dragging me down and a man putting on white.pushed me out da water...are we cool now.

Do you still swim??

donbachi:
wat cha want gurl

I was just curious to know what you saw.

Never mind.

donbachi:
are u one of...

What?

donbachi:
things and things

Like?

Thinking about growing old, dying and what happens after...

donbachi:
during my childhood days,i left school with two of my friends,and we went to a river not too far from my school.we climbed angala(mangrove) and jumped the same time into,a river of about 70 to 100fts.i swum out,but my two friends didn't make it out of that river.still scary of very event,couple with what i saw beneath the water.

What did you see?

You visit a whorehouse because your wife is pregnant?

And you do not see anything wrong with not being able to stick to your wife and exercise some self control?

What a disappointment.

Mynd44:
Well actually, its her body and she can decide not to have any children sef.

The flip side is that it is his life, he can decide to walk out of the marriage to go have more kids.

These things shouldn't be binary. Childbirth isn't easy and a lot of women after going through one dont want or are scared to have another and they should not be blackmailed into it. But women should also not blackmail men into staying in a marriage where she has refused to have more and he refused.

A better solution is surrogacy. Her eggs, his sperm and someone else (paid or whatever the arrangement is) carries the baby to term. Everyone is happy.

Childbirth does a lot of things to women, a lot of women have to stop their careers, have to give up dreams, have to watch their body go through (sometimes irreversible) change so please do not blame them for not wanting it.

But is it selfish? Of course it is. But is it wrong? No.

Nothing is cast in stone.

As a couple, they should be able to discuss the fears and how she feels. But she should not decide by herself that she isn't having another.

Afterall, her body has become his and his body has become her's too.

They could even go the CS route...no need to go into labout and push. Just fix a date get cut open. And then bear the after pain for a few days.

Communication is really critical in marriage. They need to be on the same page and work as a team and not as opponents.

IamPlato:
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Just Ordinary Kiss Na

Na from clap to dance.

IamPlato:
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I Playfully Kissed Another Girl

So you cheated?

Hmmm...just tell him "guy abeg when are you going? I dey try manage myself here" .

Just look for a way. You are wearing the shoes and you know where it hurts.

HypocriticalMod:
Hahahaha.. Lazy hoes, after fucking anyhow and doing several abortions the poor future husbands will now be the ones to suffer for your atrocities. Nah, you must carry your cross
Real women give birth to plenty children when it's demanded. You can't eat your cake and have it. Selfish set of humans, always wanting the smooth way instead of learning to survive the tough way

What are you on about?

Saff:
Most women do this. A friend slept with his ex days before she got married. Nothing new.

It won't be new if his own wife to be will sleep her ex before their wedding.

Abd he should just take it as the fruit of the seed he sowed.

Elder001:
You're so inconsiderate. Do you think it's easy to resist an ex?

If you find yourself in the same house with an ex even though you're married, it'll be very hard to resist him/her.

You guys should stop talking like kids abeg.

Lol...i really do not understand this attachment to exes.

I don't even see them as attractive.

GrammarNazi1:
Does this make sense to you? Who really dodged a bullet between the two of them?

It doesn't even make sense to me.

Which guy will want to get married and be looking over his shoulder.

It takes a lot to decide to cheat while you are in a serious relationship. It means she didn't love and respect her man

If he is a considerate husband, he won't ask her to pound yam for him after a long day at work.

Pounding yam might take just an hour or even 30mins but it is energy sapping.

He could wait till weekend or offer to help pound the yam.

Some men still do not understand what it means to be a husband.

chrizzyace:
It’s only in Nigeria you’ll see one foolish African thinking mentality man that already has 6 or more girls, and still looking for a male child, cause of one or two weird reasons.

I could remember when my wife wanted to give birth to second child, had ruptured womb, she lost blood as a result of that, I was so worried for her, and the poor child. It was devastating, she really believed and so wanted to give birth through the non-surgical process , unfortunately it didn’t, i was advised immediately for an emergency CS to be carried on her, to save her life and that of the baby. I had to agree immediately, I can’t even imagine what life would be like for me without my wife and child... I’m glad I wasn’t selfish like some men that would still go ahead and tell dr that they don’t want their wife to give birth through CS, and the poor woman will end up dying, and he’ll remarry again.

Nigerian men need to wake up and appreciate their wives, they should also learn to be in labor room with their wives to see what their wives go through during birth process.

God bless women...

Exactly like my hubby. After i had it in mind all those 9months that i wanted a normal delivery, i was told they had to do a CS because i wasnt progressing and they were losing the baby's heartbeat. I was still crying and saying i didn't want.

As soon as my husband got to the hospital, he approved without thinking twice. And i am glad he did because he said when the baby came out, she didn't cry till like close to 5min of spanking.

And as soon as she cried, he too burst into tears. Imagine if we were acting stubborn.

yeyerolling:
Desperation for marriage and poverty means many women would end up with lunatics and mad man. My uncles wife nearly died cos she was trying to gv him a son after 4 gals .she had complications and was advised not to take in. Madam no gree took in again. Had twins male survived female died . Wife spent 6 months in hospital as she almost died. Pikin na pikin abeg dangote no even get male child

My friend is the 10th girl in her family. The 11th child was finally a male child.

I cannot even imagine a woman going through childbirth 11 times.

Disclaimer on Christian threads for Muslims. The same way we have it on Muslim threads.

mistacoco:
some women need to be dealt with, if he says he doesn't Av the money at the moment why didn't she keep quiet.

Some women are just waste in the family, there are just consumers, the shameless woman is solely depending on the husband on everything even buying of her toot brush. Why won't he get exhausted when he provide everything in house.

A man still needs to be in control of his anger and act in a way that commands respect.

No matter how she wants to shout or wail, a wise man will not hit her.

A man that hits his wife cannot be respected by his wife. What he will get is fear.

ikeno:
Why naa, and u sound nice

I bully them and watch what i want to watch

delugajackson:
The beauty of Akwa Ibom women is second to none. I used to tell people that the best kind of women are found in Akwa Ibom state. They are precious and pure, as beautiful as the light of a thousand stars. Celestial beauties endowed with brains and the best, agreeable body features you can ever find.

That Blessing Joseph is a confirmed 100 yards of wife material. I can't help but admire her hard working nature. Even now, her smiles still penetrate my very soul. Shout out to the beautiful Akwa Ibom women both home and abroad. You all are the best and there's no debating. Akwa Ibom Isoñgó!

Iyah!!

We are special like that. Though i don't know how to fry garri

ikeno:
Same thing with my nephew who as deprive me from watching any of my favourite programme on tv.
it's always,"uncle,I want to watch Ben 10"

You are a nice uncle. Me i am not a nice aunty .

mistacoco:
I don't support the man action but the woman must Av bad mouth for the husband to Av dealt with her to this level.

No excuse.

Whether bad mouth ir rotten mouth, walk away.

It takes more strength to walk away but too many men are weak.

yusuff4u2c:
Google is your friend.

I know all my friends.

Google ain't one of them

yusuff4u2c:
Lol. Many will pretend they don't know what the guy is talking about. Trust me, Okirika wears rank only after Garri on the list of lifesavers in Nigeria.

What's okrika?

onexile:
It's been almost 3 years now since Oshimole married/imported this woman to Nigeria as his wife, but ever since then nothing has happened,

Please when will she get pregnant so that Edo people will get value for their money which Oshim-ole spent to marry her.

Or is it that she doesn't allow him touch her?

As a concerned citizen i am only Just asking!

*modified*

Please all this attack on my person, so sombori can not ask questions on Nairaland again?

didn't you guys see question mark in the tittle?

mynd44 please protect me

When you start minding your business.

muhibat18:
Entrepreneurship Rocks......be your own boss

I like this product. How do i get it in bulk?

You like trouble.

Hope you like acid too.

If a domestic staff is in the picture, she doesn't need to do some of those things.