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AngryNigerian22:
[color=darkblue] LAMO You want her to slap him in his own house. and why can't he slap her ?the lady lack manners .the guy tried self. It was me, only heaven's knows waiting she for see that morning[/color]

He is a human being and not a wild animal. He can communicate without physical abuse.

If he can slap her for something that little, she should be ready to be in an abusive marriage.

I can't stand any man that feels he can use his hands on me

pocohantas:
No, he isn't going to counsel the husband to beat the wife.
All he needs do is tell the wife to endure. That's all

That marriage is about endurance and patience

AngryNigerian22:
[color=darkblue] oh I'm sorry what do u mean by is he supposed to slap her[/color] ?

I mean why should he slap her? Can she slap him too if he annoys her?

babyfaceafrica:
you have not met some very strict parents.....very rigid...even if you are 40..they won't shift post.

It is not in everything that we should obey them especially when it has to do with a personal walk and decision like marriage.

If they like let them not shift post, they will come around even if it is after the couple have had their second child.

Nobody has the right to make a decision about marriage for anyone not even parents.

He is even explaining why he slapped her. Is he supposed to slap her? Is that how he is going to counsel couples?

Toks2008:
The Embolden shows you have proper training..that is my point....breaking 1..2..3...4eggs to fry for yourself does not make sense at all. Have a great day.

It is not just about home training but calories.

Toks2008:
I will leave you with this..i don't care how rich you or your parents her...

Except the egg is extra small which may warrant frying or 2 or 3max...any lady who fries 4eggs at a go to eat either lacks proper training,or she is a glutton and a danger to herself cos 4eggs at a go is very dangerous to one's health...

I rest my case.

If you are talking about the health aspect, i agree. Four eggs for me is a lot. I will even feel guilty eating it that is if i can even finish it.

The guy should have allowed her fry the eggs and eaten and later talk to her about it in a more sane way instead of making him seem stingy and petty.

Communication is really a mystery

pocohantas:
How many indomie noodles pack do you eat?

Good question

MrCork:
...calm down sweerat. ..am only tryna help u...u never beento London. .am from London. ..show respet to a Londoner!

Whatever!

MrCork:
...nah mah nah...Lefulefu is way too classy for u. But ..don't worry I will give u falconey. ...he dates anytin..THANK ME LATER! !

Thanks for nothing.

Give falconey to your sister. Start from there.

Tjohnnay:
how many man don Bleep u

Your question is a reflection of your level of thinking, mentality and maturity. Really juvenile.

Ask your sisters first and get their responses first. If they are truthful with you, they will tell you that you are small minded.

MrCork:
...I think lefulefu will like u.....was yor level of Education sef....have u beento London?

Lefulefu is my booh already

My education level is completed

Are they sharing money in London?

Even if personally i think frying four eggs is too much for my own stomach, i think the guy acted brash.

The scolding may have been too insulting and over the top that the girl poured the eggs away out of annoyance.

Slapping her for eating four eggs or pouring it away is way out of line.

He could have gone about it without coming off as petty and stingy.

Divay22:
Everything na wife material
You didn't consider the eggs might be small, more reason she took four.

Maybe he bought the 20 20naira eggs

Tjohnnay:
Na una sabi

Make una dey jump from one man to another.i wil rather get married to a 50 yrs old white woman dan to get married to 9ja gals

U can’t trust them

Bye bye

notoriousbabe:
I'm not going unless you show me

It is on my IG account. Find it

notoriousbabe:
OK show me yours and I promise not to laugh out loud

Oya come and be going to your house.

Thank you

MrCork:
....see yor head like stegomaya ghana moskitof. ... .don't u respect men..& then u complain u can't find man on nairaland. ...with this atitude..yor bridal price definitely cant be up to 20 pence!! ((Shaking my london head with disblif))

Respect men means not correcting them...i see.

I don't need a man on Nairaland or anywhere...lol.

My attitude is intact. And my bride price? ..i don't remember the figure or i never knew.

notoriousbabe:
no, it's a public forum and not a house, once you allowed them on your page, they are free to make their comments

It was an illustration to drive my point home. But it is ok if you didn't get it.

Again it is not their business. It is her body, her life. And she didn't ask for their advice.

notoriousbabe:
she posted it for them to see so that made it their business

Not on their page. They came to her page and made it their business.

You can imagine me inviting you to my house and when you come, you tell me that the way i decorated my house is not nice.

If i don't ask your opinion, you don't give one. It is called minding your business but many Nigerians are yet to understand the concept of minding your business.

What kind of relationship is that? That you have to snap the oil and send to her. If she doesn't believe you, then she should basked in her unbelief.

I think it was unnecessary for you to snap the oil and send.

However, calling her stupid was over the top. Try not to use abusive words. And please work on the trust issues you both have.

MrCork:
...we love women & our job as men is clearly to chase them......especially the lightskin ones. Anyways ..ladies..without u there is no us so ladies...

.....SO LADIES.HOW MUCH WOULD U SAY U WORTH IN DOWRIES?
(mature contributionstudents please ....& pls keepit clean)

At least ask your question in correct English. There is nothing like "how much do you worth"

Breastfeeding is natural but i won't expose my boobs in public all in the name of breastfeeding. It is still my boobs to hide abeg

BluntBoy:
She was not body shamed. No one said that her body is ugly. They only told her to wear clothes that would compliment her body size. There are clothes that would fit big women like her. This one does not fit her. Moreover, she does not look good posing like that. The pose looks childish.

This is not body shaming.

Actually, it is not their business. She posted it on her page, not theirs.

But people make everything their business and they must have a say.

ojay2053:
geminis rock

We do

Very insightful write up backed up with facts.

PDP couldn't have won because Fayose was contesting on behalf of an invisible Eleka that seems clueless about being a governor.

Riodiao:
leave all this long talk. Apc rigged ekiti election .they might have won the battle but they will lose the war at the supreme Court.it will surely go down to the wire. pdp planted moles in Inec for that election and at the right time hard evidence will come out.

The poster talked with specific facts. If you are going to challenge it, please do so with facts also and not layman's a assumptions.

You are an adult and you even have a valid reason for leaving.

Your dad will understand and come around later

May 26

Hanseel1:
Nothing much. The Indian case is absolutely mentality and faulty upbringing but not so with Africa.
It has to do with bride price, faulty upbringing and dependency in Africa.

Nigerian case is also mentality and faulty upbringing.

What would you say about a guy and lady are living together and they have kids but he has not paid her bride price yet he is mistreating her??

Leave bride price alone and focus on the real issue...mentality, ego and upbringing, etc.

Hanseel1:
Nothing much. The Indian case is absolutely mentality and faulty upbringing but not so with Africa.
It has to do with bride price, faulty upbringing and dependency in Africa.

You cannot isolate that case.

Paying bride price has nothing to do with maltreatment or owning a woman as property.

A man that is prone to such behaviour will still be that way even if he doesn't pay a dime

Hanseel1:
Nothing much. The Indian case is absolutely mentality and faulty upbringing but not so with Africa.
It has to do with bride price, faulty upbringing and dependency in Africa.

You cannot isolate that case.

Paying bride price has nothing to do with maltreatment or owning a woman as property.

A man that is prone to such behaviour will still be that way even if he doesn't pay a dime