₦airaland Forum

You were probably pushing her away with your complaints, cheating, etc. And your cup just got full.

mimimile93:
The only time a naija woman (the one born from the 80s) is useful in a relationship is the 'sexx time'.

If u take sexx away from the relationship, don't u think u are abusing the woman's usefulness?

Remove sex from you, what and who are you? Will you still be useful to any woman?

Try not to obsess over me today ok.

I see that you are already going to my posts of many years ago. I don't have time to do the same

mimimile93:

It is better you keep quiet. You seem smarter that way.

akeentech:
Broh, are you addicted?

I can't afford to be. I have hours when i ditched it.

And i am a sis

mimimile93:
You just heard?

Ain't you in Nigeria again?

Now know this... Every lady in Nigeria (including the married ones) tax their men for sex directly or indirectly..

At your Last sentence, that's fairy tale.

Yes! I heard!!! Deal with it.

If the last sentence is a fairy tale to you, that is your problem and not mine

mimimile93:
Unfortunately all Nigerian ladies are useless.

Telling him to attract a lady with brain, where are those ladies? Absolutely not in Nigeria.

There's no virtue woman in Nigeria..

Nigerian ladies are prostitutes.. None is useful.

My advice to young men is, avoid these animals like plagues.

Hustle real hard save money travel out and marry.

They only time a Nigerian lady is useful is during sexx..

Ufan mmi,

I see that you have slept with at least 75% of Nigerian ladies to come to your conclusion.

Well...i am not useless...at least be fair to your mum, your sisters and all the females in your family. Or are you ruling them out of the uselessness?

Be responsible for your choices and stop generalizing it. You sound more intelligent than that.

An ex took off with over 500k of my money that he was supposed to pay down for a car for me. I never got it back. Do you see me calling you useless?

Or should i create a thread about the Nigerian guys that i have had to deal with that showed they were useless?

Please quit all this already. You are not the only one that has been hurt. People have had it worse than you.

If we turn off notifications, remove social media and most things you said, how would we have read this article?

He and Dino Melaye must be brothers. Drama kings.

Everything for them is neck braces

I just recently heard of a woman that collects money from her husband to do any other thing apart from penetration. She is someone i know well and i laughed when i heard it.

If he wants oral, he pays first. ..any extra extra, he pays first. And she keeps the money for those times when he is really broke and she gives it to him .

As long as you are close to the married woman, i see nothing wrong.

People just misuse endorsements...even using it for people they don't know.

A customer at work that i had never met before called me "darling" and i told her "my name is ......"

Money off course. It can buy everything on the list

BestDude:
You may be right but the only reason is that I don't want to wish or look outside when I have someone. YeAh, the pretty ones are often badly built... But do you want tell me all pretty girls are bad and the not so pretty ones are all good?

*moulds okele Eba Mixed with 7 days old akpu to stone her if she says yes they are"

No. Not all pretty ones are bad. But you could overlook the bad character of the heartbreakers becaus her beauty is tickling your fancy

Your wife's water broke and she was in labour. Instead of you to take her to the hospital, you carried your phone to create a thread to ask for advice.

What is wrong with us these days?? Did she attend antenatal on Nairaland?

Congrats anyway.

But they focus on the bad and bad keeps following them.

BestDude:
Thanks. You probably think I am the kind that falls for such. I am very picky. Well I like them really pretty, with brain and heart. I like them independent and understanding...

Beauty without brain is a turn off. I don't fall for slay queens either. Even if she is the best sex giver. I have never bonded with a lady by sex.

Maybe since you like them very pretty, you ignore some signs and are a blinded by the beauty.

But eventually, the inner ugliness always overshadows the outer beauty.

I see people dating successfully and getting married around me. But you guys on Nairaland are blessed with some certain kind of girls. Seems you guys meet somewhere to select them.

Heartbender:
A rare picture of Nigeria's true heroes but I know that zombies of a fulani monumental embarrassment would begin to wail over this.

Nigeria doesn't have heroes.

BestDude:
don't love me I don't want anhh :Dy of you to love me

Awww!!! Sorry ehn. Don't worry the Association of Female Bashers(AFB) will soon be here to help you bash us. They have probably not seen your post yet.

But maybe try and adjust your priorities. If you are looking for a woman with big boobs and yansh...that might be all she has without any values or virtues.

Why not attract a woman with heart and brains so that we the sane ones can even rest from hearing one wounded lion rant everytime.

And you may even be attracting your kind.

Sorry you hear.

akeentech:
Lol are you not a blogger?

Nope.

I was pointing out the cunning ways bloggers use to get people to visit their blogs

akeentech:
So why telling lie?

Pls ask them o

Another man obsessed with us in disguise.

We love you too honey

Op check the meaning of Linda

mhd5757:
Hey nairalanders, what do you think? Is this normal? Marriage doesn't appeal to me at all same as having kids, I prefer having dogs even now i have 2 of them and as soon as I get a job and make enough money I plan on getting 3 more making them 5 in number. I know most people, the first thing they want to do as soon as they get a job is to get married and have kids but not me, I'm also not interested in having a girlfriend, though I used to have one back then when I was in the university but we were forced to leave each other being that she had to go back to her country and I had to come back to Nigeria.
After that I got another girl here in Nigeria, but I had to leave her because she was too expensive and she was draining me financially. After that, I just lost interest in relationships and I decided to be single, I decided that even if I feel the need to lay with a woman I can just go to an ashawo hotel or get a steady woman who I can be calling any time I need company. I think this is the lifestyle that suits me especially in this harsh economy, its easier for me. If I get married and have kids imagine all the money I'm going to have to be spending, excess groceries, all kinds of bills, school fees and the list goes on.
At least having a steady woman to call like maybe once a week can't be as expensive as getting married and supporting a wife.
Also having dogs can't be as expensive as raising kids, with dogs all I need to do is to buy their feed, their grooming products and pay for their medical bills and probably training fees too but with kids and a wife imagine all the bills, the lists keep compiling and they never end.
What is your take on this? What do you think?

Op it is your pocket talking. It is not you.

[quote author= post=69256782]Kick her out of your life?
It's easier said than done sis.
Mothers are GOLDEN.
There is always this soft spot for them no matter what.......atleast 99% of the time!

You former comment: we concur![/quote]It is because you are a man and your mum is able to manipulate you with emotional blackmail.

But she can't do same with her daughters because they are also women and they also understand the act of manipulation too. It doesn't mean we don't love our mums.

A mum might misbehave in her son's house but will behave herself in her daughter's house.

Both of them should forgive each other.

It was a mistake from him and it was reflex from her.

akeentech:
You will lose people's trust

Exactly!

There is no way someone will not know that they are SS. An SS person is always particular about who they date from day 1.

In fact, my friend asks for the genotype right after the name of the person.

Bringing up children with SS and the challenges involved is enough to suck out every love and passion they feel now especially if they lose their child due to it.

Except they have other alternatives asides bringing a child to suffer, they should break it off. It is not fair to bring a child and watch them suffer. It will be heart breaking.

EVILFOREST:
Some LADIES do very well as side chicks.
Some do well as married women, becos they were prepared for such.

Some do well as BABY MaMas
Some even do well as BURIAL CEREMONIES side chicks becos they cry and sober a lot especially the ones with “SORRY FACE”

I hope you will say the same when a man is the victim instead of saying "women are useless...women are cheats", etc.

Now that it is a man that cheated, you still find a way to make it the woman's fault.

Have you also thought that guys that are cheated on are only good as side guys and are not husband material?

I wonder what mimimile93 has to say about this

Op you forgot lying to get people to visit the blog.

Example:

Click here for more photos...whereas, there are no more photos but just to lead you to the blog.

OrestesDante:



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∆ No. It's not possible. Because those making 4.8+ CGPA had several carryovers...

It's like they're tearing your trousers already with carryovers. The Lord is your strength.. ∆


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It is very possible. I never wrote a course twice all through. Not one carryover

mespusinglez:
N'landers is it possible?
To Finish Without Registering even a one Carry Over?

Very possible. I never had a carryover all through uni.

I failed one course though but it wasn't a compulsory course and my units were complete.

The lectures said it was pointless to redo it.

What did i just read?

Is it a must to stay with the "broke guy"?

Why stay and manage ar all?

The guy is better off alone than for him to be with a cheat, liar...someone that is just "managing" him.

Terrible thing to lose a mum.

I lost mine Oct 2016.

I had my daughter Oct 2017...exactly one year...on the exact day my mum died.

So it is kind of a compensation for me. Especially as all my siblings call her "mummy"