Health › Re: Necessity Of Birth Control, Family Planning In Nigeria by ImaIma1(f): 8:27am On Jul 25, 2018 |
dominique: Those that need it most are the ones not practising it. They keep breeding like pigs and bringing in kids they can't cater for in an over-populated country. That is why i am upset with the woman who cleans our compound. Someone that is pregnant,saying"i dey find girl" after having 3 boys. Someone that will keep coming to ask for food stuff to feed her children and keeps complaining on how her husband is not giving enough. Now the scan has revealed that it is another boy. I told her that she can try again. |
Family › Re: Ladies Share Their View On Male Logic by ImaIma1(f): 11:17pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
theunnamed: Even though the question in itself is belittling, I will answer it
I am a full blown man. Lol... Then accept responsibility rather than shift blame |
Romance › Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by ImaIma1(f): 10:46pm On Jul 24, 2018*. Modified: 11:18pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
KadunaMafia: Try to understand my post first I do. My point is people have also have it bad in life but it doesn't make us dread life. |
Romance › Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by ImaIma1(f): 10:42pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
 ImaIma1: Not everyone will understand my post.
It is not for all |
Romance › Re: Is Marriage Really Important? by ImaIma1(f): 9:31pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
KadunaMafia: No correlation. Not everyone will understand my post. It is not for all |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 9:02pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: Are you asking me? Pls disregard |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 9:01pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: your ass was grabbed and you couldn't do anything but you want the man to do something.
If you can't punch his balls, call the cops on him or sue him then you've yourself to blame not your husband.
The best he can do is to hold you and leave the scene or call the cops.
I don't understand how a full grown ass woman will be expecting another human to protect her.
This was how one Chinese woman divorced her husband because he preferred to help his mom instead of her when flood came.
Women have been fighting for gender equality over the years but when it comes to the situation to prove the equality they'll turn to weaklings.
SMH. Elder move along. We have already had this discussion. If you like walk away when your wife's ass is grabbed. That is your problem. |
Family › Re: Ladies Share Their View On Male Logic by ImaIma1(f): 8:57pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
theunnamed: It's not true in my case. Are you a man or boy? |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 6:08pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
DonroxyII: Hian, you are too quick to generalise .... you didn't see guys that posted they will kill such a fellow ..... Lemme assure you sha , In Nigeria that you n I both reside or as far as Nigeria is concerned , An average Naija Man can never take such trash even if he and him wife dey quarrel 
Dafuq, such niqqa is Dead !! Yeah you are right. That's why i wonder if these guys that are talking nonsense are from Jupiter. Well...they tend to say one thing on SM and do another in real life sha. |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 4:50pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: a man should simply have the other man ARRESTED, he has NO OTHER obligation here because the women would have already return him with a dirty slap. what else you want that man to do (to a mad person who assaults his partner)?! i know some people who have died or being left with crazy scars because of such nonsense!
here is what REAL woman do when such happen:
here is an idea of what can happen when a man act a damn fool, instead of simply calling the cops: Sorry...couldn't go through your videos. I still maintain that any man who does nothing after his wife's ass is touched should hide his face in sand. The person who touched her ass will wait while he is calling the police abi...or what does he do to make sure the guy is arrested? Isn't that an action? Read the first few posts and my first post and you will understand. I can't keep going back and forth with you. |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 2:41pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: you should only beat someone if you feel your life is in danger, if not then simply call the police to arrest that person.... there will always be someone bigger/stronger/tougher than you out there, expecting a person to put their LIFE on the line (because of BS) is very childish, let alone DANGEROUS.
there are people out there who see your blessings in life, and whose sole purpose in life is to bring you down to their miserable life, and have you act like the desperate animal that they are. If your answer to my question is no, then we know where the problem is from |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 2:35pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: you should only beat someone if you feel your life is in danger, if not then simply call the police to arrest that person.... there will always be someone bigger/stronger/tougher than you out there, expecting a person to put their LIFE on the line (because of BS) is very childish, let alone DANGEROUS.
there are people out there who see your blessings in life, and whose sole purpose in life is to bring you down to their miserable life, and have you act like the desperate animal that they are. I haven't mentioned beating. I am saying the man cannot look the other way like nothing happened. Nobody is saying they should start fighting or wrestling. Any man that cannot defend his wife in a situation like that has not tried...leave plenty story. He must react. |
Romance › Re: "To Be A Man Is Not Easy " - AN OVERRATED STATEMENT? by ImaIma1(f): 1:14pm On Jul 24, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 11:40am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Mcy56: Ma'am, two wrong does not make a right and violence is not always a best solution most times. The woman is expected to react back almost immediately if such things happen. She'll be justified if she reacted. What if she were to be the only one going and such happens, will she phone the hubby to come and fight for her? If the man should fight and it turned bloody, do you think the consequence will be palatable? Anyway, different strokes for different folks. But she was not the only one. Let me ask a question... If you were walking with your mum and someone grabs her ass, will this "two wrongs does not make a right" also apply? |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 11:12am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: Even the law views marriage as a partnership. Business partnership or love partnership? |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 10:37am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: We are on the same page.
I'm a civilized man.
If you fight that man or do something silly and he sues you, you'll regret it because the court will tell you he grabbed your wife's ass not your own ass.
I'm in Thailand not Nigeria. Thailand isn't lawless like Nigeria.
Like I said earlier, the best I can do is to hold her and leave the scene. If she can't punch the man's balls or sue him then we'll have problems because I can't be living with a coward. Then the court will charge both of us. I don't think we are on same page. You paint your marriage as a partnership where each party has no say without a job or money at a particular time. Mine is not the same |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 10:17am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: The best he can do is to hold his wife and leave the scene.
You don't expect me to fight because of another full grown human in the name of wife.
If something happens to me it won't be all these talks.
If the woman can't punch the man's balls or sue him I'll divorce her with immediate effect. I can't live with a coward. You think if a woman grabs my husband in like manner i will just let her go. Even if it is a man that does it to my husband, i know i don't have the strength to fight him but i will make sure i make an impact on him. I didn't just marry for marrying sake. I love my husband and he also shows that he values me. Just someone talking rudely to me at a store and he is already scolding the person. Not to talk of grabbing my ass. So i don't understand you men here that are just talking like you were begged to marry. We are talking about a wife here and not gf or chick. |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 10:04am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: I guess this is the equality women have been blabbing about.
He should fight so that he'll get killed.
Madam, you're a full grown ass woman don't expect another human to protect you. Oga a man cannot grab your wife's ass and you will look the other way like you don't care. Whether she is a full grown woman with complete teeth or not is inconsequential. She is your wife and yours to protect. I don't care about your equality. I have not had the need to fight for equality because i know who amd what i am. |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 9:57am On Jul 24, 2018 |
Elder001: Why should a full grown ass woman be expecting another human to protect her?
What exactly do you want the husband to do? Start a fight?
If the woman can't punch the asshole's balls or sue him then she's a coward.
Yes, she's a coward.
Only animals fight and every civilized individual should know that.
The time in which women were viewed as weak is over. Women aren't weak.
She should do something not the other way round. If a man cannot defend his wife, he should go and hide his face in sand. Quote me anywhere. |
Romance › Re: "To Be A Man Is Not Easy " - AN OVERRATED STATEMENT? by ImaIma1(f): 12:30am On Jul 24, 2018 |
WORDWORLD:
Bro, CIVILIZATION ORIGINATED BY A WOMAN?!
Even the term “FEMINISM” with which these 'CIVILIZED WOMEN' pride themselves today by FACT originated from the French word “feminisme,” COINED by the utopian socialist CHARLES FOURIER, ........A MAN! A man whose dream of an Utopian society is the illusion called 'EQUALITY'!
* I don't do gender wars. Am for uniting men and women in TRUTH. Some ladies need to stop living in FALLACIES OF COMPOSITIONS. Unfortunately that is the backbone on Nairaland now...about "men are trash" "women are scum". Really pitiful. |
Family › Re: HELP: MY Wife Is Refusing To Cook For Me And I Want A Divorce by ImaIma1(f): 11:45pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: "To Be A Man Is Not Easy " - AN OVERRATED STATEMENT? by ImaIma1(f): 11:26pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
AngryNigerian22: [color=darkblue] see your mouth like it even hader to be a woman. but if na to fvck anyhow it won't be harder[/color]  Learn to communicate like an adult if you are one. But if you are not, stop meddling in things you do not understand. Only little boys think everything is about f.....g when it comes to women. |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 10:49pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
IamPlato: ...
I Love Your Puppy I have a spare room cc Biglittlelois |
Family › Re: He Is Ijebu, I Am Igbo; Should I Marry Him? by ImaIma1(f): 10:39pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
It seems you like wahala.
This guys and his family are not worth your trouble.
You will just realize after many years that you wasted precious time and money that you could have used for more productive things.
You are ibo and he is ijebu... dejavu |
Romance › Re: "To Be A Man Is Not Easy " - AN OVERRATED STATEMENT? by ImaIma1(f): 10:23pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
To be a man... not easy.
To be a woman... even harder...especially in this country |
Celebrities › Re: Dayo Amusa Celebrates Her 34th Birthday In Style (Photos) by ImaIma1(f): 8:40pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
okwabayi: Yoruba men love fat women. If you see them with a skinny or moderately built woman they are only managing till they get one their desired size.
I'm sure their fans secretly skinny-shame them so they quickly bulk up to feel secure. Oh i see |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 7:00pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Igbokiller: . Such petty mind. In other words wives don't cheat around? Go deal with common sense. No way I'm wasting my energy on an unstable HOE which is found all around I thought you already pointed the fact that your wife could be a cheat and so you won't fight for her. My supposed pettiness is because I do not share your opinion right? We don't have to agree. Any man that cannot defend a woman he calls his wife in that situation is just a male figure and not a husband. It takes a lot to be a husband. If you were married, you would know. |
Family › Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by ImaIma1(f): 6:52pm On Jul 23, 2018*. Modified: 9:40pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
GoodFaith: Love, women do have ego too Not near where a man's ego is. Have you met a proud broke man before? Women still bend and try to shift ground but men are always too rigid because of fear of their ego being bruised |
Family › Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by ImaIma1(f): 6:05pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
GoodFaith: Ok women shouldn't be humble? please don't take that to your marriage if u are not married we all have to treat each other with respect and love I know 11 year old who told her mom nobody care about your money The 11 year old dad have lot of asset too more than the mom The mom was talking about money I said that because it is mostly men who have issues with pride and ego. I am.all for love and respect. And i do not have a man with an overinflated ego |
Celebrities › Re: Dayo Amusa Celebrates Her 34th Birthday In Style (Photos) by ImaIma1(f): 6:00pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
I always wonder why most of these yoruba actresses are always plus size.
Even the ones that were slim when they joined the industry end up being big.
Look at their counterparts in the "English" side, they try to remain trim...a lot of them. |
Romance › Re: If A Man Grabs Your Wife Butt In Your Presence, What Would You Do? by ImaIma1(f): 5:49pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Igbokiller: it's not about about cowardice. As a man I can't put my line on the line on such situation until I know that the woman I'm fighting for is truly mine not some hoe in disguise. Same thought is in most guys saying they will resist fighting. Unfortunately Nigerian society is producing less of women and men.
Go deal with that The topic says "wife" not babe or chick. But if you are referring to your wife being a hoe in disguise, then you also have a problem as much as she does because you married her. Besides you too could be sleeping around which also makes you a hoe that she cannot waste her energy on. |
Family › Re: Lady List Ten (10) Ways To Make Husband Happy by ImaIma1(f): 5:45pm On Jul 23, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: They are monarch because they buy you as their property. Can you pay for my brothers groom price?? Are you even a working class?
Don’t be naive girl You can be a monarch in your own home because you pay bride price. Don't just allow your mentality spill over to other homes. |