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@Otosdd,thanks alot God bless u n LO.I'm having pains on my swollen feet,dont know what that means,does anyone know?

@Otosdd,i'm very much around o and i'm so happy to hear this gud news of urs,so so happy,this gives me hope that mine will also go up by His special grace.I'm going for another scan this saturday,hoping for the best and pls do let us know when u put to bed o,to God be the glory.

Hmmm,very interesting thread.

@Analytical,u're a dream man for every woman,a rare gem,wish u were my husband,LOL! God bless ur home mightily.


@OP,i'm still carrying mine right now.Hubby was very supportive in my 1st & 2nd trimesters,he would wake up every morning to cook whatever we need to eat & take to work.Though i can count how many times i had to vomit but that is the period he shows more care,he will clean up the vomit and take me to the shower and bathe me.But atimes he feels i'm just being lazy until the bump really started showing he has lessen his complaints about being lazy.Now i'm in my 3rd tri,i feel strong & hubby feel a little bit relaxed,i cook most times & he helps sometimes.But one thing i find very bad about him is that(i don't know if he's using my preg as an excuse)he's always so close to his phone which is unlike him(i.e if he's going to the loo,he goes with his phone,i mean everywhere).So started feeling suspicious,i got an opportunity one morning & i saw a lot of messages btw him & some ladies,hmmmm so this is it.Wouldn't want that to bother me,just keeping my fingers crossed cos i don't really know what i can do about that,i just want to have my baby peacefully.

I think d OP has done d right thing by confronting cos before u know it things will go out of hand right under ur nose. I once caught my husband in a situation when our marriage was barely a year,I confronted him n warned him dat if such continues dat marriage will not be as it was before.Though he has apologised n I've forgiven him but I find it hard to trust him again

Waoow! Congrats Pamperme

@otosdd,i'm in the same boat with u,i was told the same thing i.e to do another scan by 36wks to see if it will move up,i'm just believing God for a miracle

@sweettweet,thanks for ur concern,i say a big amen to that.

@Tessybaby,congrats God bless u & LO

so so sorry about ur loss afdman,such will never happen again in ur family and God will replenish u and ur wife IJN.God is ur strength,it is well.

@Agiboma & all,i went for another scan yesterday,the scan shows that i'm 30wks+5days gone(don't know how true is dat)and i'm still having an anterior low lying placenta,was asked to repeat scan at 36wks.Pls,has anyone experienced this before or is anyone also having this same issue of is it just me?I must not say i'm scared just believing God for a miracle.

Hi all,please i don't know what could be wrong now,i've been feeling feverish since yesterday:pains & weakness all over by body,been sneezing all over the place,i feel cold i don't know if it's the weather or not,can't even eat.I'm at work now,planning to go see the doc after closing if it continues.

Really enjoying this thread with funny replies from the men

What if u even get there and met their absence,u would have wasted ur time and energy so I think it's just logical to call before coming,no biase please even when it has to do with ur own relations or not

Waowww,it's been a long while since i came in here.Congrats to all whom God has blessed with their heart desires and to all still ttc,God who did it for me will surely do it for everyone IJMN,amen.

[b][/b]DailyNews: I forgot to add that if this brother-in-law happens to become a minister or a senator tomoro, it is dis same hostile wife that will be d first to remind d husband to meet his brother to give him contract, appointment or some other favors, so y create a hostile environment now?

Now, let me share a personal family story to help other single & married ladies out there to learn. Firstly, I am d last in the family, and I am working and earning good money from my work and personal businesses, etc. why am i telling this? to let u knw that my family is able and not reliant on any one family member. again, i am d only one still living with another family member; my 2nd immediate elder broda, which its becos he is still single, & there is no need for me to rent an apartment. ok, i have one hostile sister-in-law who acts d same way d wife op narrated acts, even though we hardly visit she & her husband cos everyone is busy & engaged such dt i even feel so thirsty to see & be with my nieces & nephews, bt no time.

dis sister-in-law acts so hostile u wud wonder wots her problem, y she is eating herself cos of ppl dat kia less or not. but unknowingly for her, her husband, my brother is even tired of her ill character & made move to divorce her & remarry, so he strted a serious affairs with one girl, nd finally went to pay d girl's dowry, & we got to find out & my father said over his dead body. becos he do warn us dat once ur married, no going back, so look well. my mom said never despite dis lady's hostile & shabby character. me & my siblings said, never and even fought with him secretly. so he went behind with his friends to pay d dowry & my father found out & went to the new girls family with my brother's wedding pics, his pic with d wife & kids to shw d parents of d ne girl, & warned them to tell their daughter to keep off dt his son is married legally & traditionally, & nothing like divorce in his home, so that ws d end of it.

dis lady never knew abt dis till date even as i write dis, & will never knw cos we did it for our family image & progress. & she & her husband are living happily nw. but in her ignorance, she still keeps her hostile life towards us, & her husband has tried to no avail, but she never knew dat if nt for us the in-laws, she wud have been somewhere crying her eyes out cos my brother as we later learnt, instructed his lawyer to commence a divorce case against her, which ws stopped after our intervention. all dis she never knew.

to all single & married ladies reading this, pls embrace true love, peace & happiness at all time, dis world is nothing, if u die now everything ends; ur enemies will even come & eat & drink on ur grave. love unconditionally, love ur house maids, they are humans, ur gateman, driver, colleagues at work, pls does it take anything much to love & embrace ppl around u? remember, wives that beef or nurture hostile environment with their in-laws always live to regret it sooner or later in life, so y create one? funny enough, this lady used to be an exceptional lady when my brother was courting her, sighs. pls embrace love my dear sisters & brothers. peace![b]DailyNews: I forgot to add that if this brother-in-law happens to become a minister or a senator tomoro, it is dis same hostile wife that will be d first to remind d husband to meet his brother to give him contract, appointment or some other favors, so y create a hostile environment now?

Now, let me share a personal family story to help other single & married ladies out there to learn. Firstly, I am d last in the family, and I am working and earning good money from my work and personal businesses, etc. why am i telling this? to let u knw that my family is able and not reliant on any one family member. again, i am d only one still living with another family member; my 2nd immediate elder broda, which its becos he is still single, & there is no need for me to rent an apartment. ok, i have one hostile sister-in-law who acts d same way d wife op narrated acts, even though we hardly visit she & her husband cos everyone is busy & engaged such dt i even feel so thirsty to see & be with my nieces & nephews, bt no time.

dis sister-in-law acts so hostile u wud wonder wots her problem, y she is eating herself cos of ppl dat kia less or not. but unknowingly for her, her husband, my brother is even tired of her ill character & made move to divorce her & remarry, so he strted a serious affairs with one girl, nd finally went to pay d girl's dowry, & we got to find out & my father said over his dead body. becos he do warn us dat once ur married, no going back, so look well. my mom said never despite dis lady's hostile & shabby character. me & my siblings said, never and even fought with him secretly. so he went behind with his friends to pay d dowry & my father found out & went to the new girls family with my brother's wedding pics, his pic with d wife & kids to shw d parents of d ne girl, & warned them to tell their daughter to keep off dt his son is married legally & traditionally, & nothing like divorce in his home, so that ws d end of it.

dis lady never knew abt dis till date even as i write dis, & will never knw cos we did it for our family image & progress. & she & her husband are living happily nw. but in her ignorance, she still keeps her hostile life towards us, & her husband has tried to no avail, but she never knew dat if nt for us the in-laws, she wud have been somewhere crying her eyes out cos my brother as we later learnt, instructed his lawyer to commence a divorce case against her, which ws stopped after our intervention. all dis she never knew.

to all single & married ladies reading this, pls embrace true love, peace & happiness at all time, dis world is nothing, if u die now everything ends; ur enemies will even come & eat & drink on ur grave. love unconditionally, love ur house maids, they are humans, ur gateman, driver, colleagues at work, pls does it take anything much to love & embrace ppl around u? remember, wives that beef or nurture hostile environment with their in-laws always live to regret it sooner or later in life, so y create one? funny enough, this lady used to be an exceptional lady when my brother was courting her, sighs. pls embrace love my dear sisters & brothers. peace![/b]DailyNews: I forgot to add that if this brother-in-law happens to become a minister or a senator tomoro, it is dis same hostile wife that will be d first to remind d husband to meet his brother to give him contract, appointment or some other favors, so y create a hostile environment now?

Now, let me share a personal family story to help other single & married ladies out there to learn. Firstly, I am d last in the family, and I am working and earning good money from my work and personal businesses, etc. why am i telling this? to let u knw that my family is able and not reliant on any one family member. again, i am d only one still living with another family member; my 2nd immediate elder broda, which its becos he is still single, & there is no need for me to rent an apartment. ok, i have one hostile sister-in-law who acts d same way d wife op narrated acts, even though we hardly visit she & her husband cos everyone is busy & engaged such dt i even feel so thirsty to see & be with my nieces & nephews, bt no time.

dis sister-in-law acts so hostile u wud wonder wots her problem, y she is eating herself cos of ppl dat kia less or not. but unknowingly for her, her husband, my brother is even tired of her ill character & made move to divorce her & remarry, so he strted a serious affairs with one girl, nd finally went to pay d girl's dowry, & we got to find out & my father said over his dead body. becos he do warn us dat once ur married, no going back, so look well. my mom said never despite dis lady's hostile & shabby character. me & my siblings said, never and even fought with him secretly. so he went behind with his friends to pay d dowry & my father found out & went to the new girls family with my brother's wedding pics, his pic with d wife & kids to shw d parents of d ne girl, & warned them to tell their daughter to keep off dt his son is married legally & traditionally, & nothing like divorce in his home, so that ws d end of it.

dis lady never knew abt dis till date even as i write dis, & will never knw cos we did it for our family image & progress. & she & her husband are living happily nw. but in her ignorance, she still keeps her hostile life towards us, & her husband has tried to no avail, but she never knew dat if nt for us the in-laws, she wud have been somewhere crying her eyes out cos my brother as we later learnt, instructed his lawyer to commence a divorce case against her, which ws stopped after our intervention. all dis she never knew.

to all single & married ladies reading this, pls embrace true love, peace & happiness at all time, dis world is nothing, if u die now everything ends; ur enemies will even come & eat & drink on ur grave. love unconditionally, love ur house maids, they are humans, ur gateman, driver, colleagues at work, pls does it take anything much to love & embrace ppl around u? remember, wives that beef or nurture hostile environment with their in-laws always live to regret it sooner or later in life, so y create one? funny enough, this lady used to be an exceptional lady when my brother was courting her, sighs. pls embrace love my dear sisters & brothers. peace!



Dailynews,u have really spoken well and i can't agree less with u. But let me remind u that some BILs too have their bad attitude with them.Have u ever seen a BIL that was so nice to u before u came in and immediately u get married to their brother it was as if u came to snatch something precious from them all because they depend so much on their brother for almost everything,such was my own case.This particular BIL was so nice to me before i came in to the extent of him dashing me one his chelsea jersey even though i didn't ask him and i'm not even a football fan,i'm not suppose to collect that gift from him but i did seeing that he was just trying to be nice.This same BIL turned against me immediately i got in(because they were living together with their brother before i came in and i thought i could tolerate them),saying all sort of things.Infact he expect that after going to work,coming back in the night,i should be doing everything in the house for him while he goes gallivanting about with friends,they expect u to cook for them,wash the dishes for them,wash the bathroom,wash the toilet,sweep the house without even caring to assist all because u married their brother,and to tell u that they're all younger to me,now tell me how will u feel? In essence BILs too have their own part to play in ensuring that there's mutual love and respect in the family.Thanks

Waowwww...congrats Ayorbamy on d arrival of ur baby,God bless n keep him.Big congrats to ur wife too.I'm overwhelmed

Thanks Agiboma,well i don't know what it was before now but i just know this is the first time he's telling me about that since i've been visiting,i think i will just follow his advice,thanks alot Agiboma.

well i asked him and he said i have to be taking lots of water and enough rest too. Thanks all

Thanks Agiboma,I'm in my 2nd trimester and dat phrase 'Too Low' scares d living daylight out of me

Hello mummies in d house,it's been a while. I went for antenatal today and doc said my BP is too low.I'm just so confused now,does anyone have an idea of what that means?

Waowww,congrats OSIKHUEME on the arrival of ur baby,God bless him.Please let's hear more of the story,lol!Congrats once more

I'm so happy for you dudugurl,God bless ur family

WAOWWWWWWWWWWW!Big congrats to u dudugirl,this is a great news and i'm so happy for you.May God continue to be ur strength and keep the baby,waowww congrats once more!

@maran1983, i'm in the same shoe with u.I'll only be given 2weeks maternity leave if i have a normal delivery and 2months if otherwise,hubby is so pissed off with that,but i'm looking unto God to take control by then.

Waowwwww......congratulations to u AMARUSH.

I pray to have such experience as u also had,straight and smooth.Oh! i bless God for your life and ur baby,God bless u!

Congrats to you too LUVLEE,pls do share ur experience with us,God will keep u and baby till ur due date and Happy married life in advance.

Wow!A lot of expectant mums here.Well I'm in my 23rd & it's my 1st.I always feel tired n weak,hubby does most of d cooking.I get tired & feel dizzy immediately I finish my meals,I wake up at night to eat too & presently I find it difficult to sleep with my clothes on,Just panties.I did scan & d report says placenta is low lying though baby's positin is fine.Doc says placenta issue is no issue @ my stage now.Just hoping & praying to God to see me thru dis 1st of its kind journey.

Deprecable yo-yoism with all the trappings of Presidential jiggery-pokery,

LWKMD! I no fit shout o

So sorry about that WHITEDOVE,God is your strength IJN.

@kemisuga,this is my own case when i got married.My husband's siblings were already staying with him before i came,so when i came they were trying to like take control as if to say it is still their house and i'm only a stranger in my own house.Imagine that kind of situation,so i think even if they were living there before the wife comes,it should be different immediately the wife arrives.It was a serious problem and it only took the grace of God for them not to divide us.It doesn't matter if they were living there before or not,infact immediately they start hearing plans of wedding,they should also be planning to change otherwise it's a big problem.

very very tragic story,may God rest the soul of the little one and grant the parents fortitude to bear the loss!

I remembered the day my nephew was telling her mum: I have kokoro and my daddy has kokoro too,how come you don't have kokoro. The mum was speechless! Then the next thing he says is: You better go to the market to buy urs! I was like OMG, dis 3yrs old boy,

You're welcome dear,cheers!

Waowwww,i can't wait to have that feeling as i will be due sometime this year, God help me!Amen.