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Bought another domain on namecheap with my GTB master card about 5 mins ago.I did not add funds this time around.I typed my name in Caps as it appears on card and filled in the necessary details.Payment processed no hassles.

What do you expect,the irish coach was the first to name his first 11 even b4 the euros and ends being the first to leave the euro championship with his third tier 11.Thumb up to the spaniards.

I am really glad to be part of this community.In reality ttc is the bigest challenge a person can go through.Just imagine some months ago a woman I know shared her testimony of having a child after 24 yrs.This will not be your portion.You ladies (names I will not disclose,what for?)have really gone "through the shadows of death" but I see God standing by you always to grant you your heartfelt desire.

I have really been visiting this thread everyday following through and reading the struggles and hardwork u put into this ttc of a thing.I'm really lost for words and lazily will want to post.But I have good news for u,ur labour will not go unrewarded.I see at "least two" of you getting a BFP in the next 1 month.IJN

I am really happy that in the coming weeks testimonies will take over this thread enuf of doing this and doing that to conceive.

But more importantly your quest has made this thread a BOMB on nairaland because of the information shared to help everyone ttc that they are not alone and also to have absolute faith .
Anyway we are all expecting your testimony.

RocksQueen: Congrats GenBuhari
@Info,Amen! But na so e be?U no know say u suppose come share testimony for here make pipo faith strengthen?!!!Anyway we wish u and wifey safe delivery too!

I am sorry I did not share my testimony when I should but I want to believe that I would be pardoned.At least na una talk say better late than never.

Honestly, I did not have too much difficulty making this happen.I really thank God for this because I know say e no easy.The ease I had was just a priviledge given to me by God.

My Dw is 30wks this week and I can't wait for the journey to culminate in the delivery of my baby ****

So here is what I did.(some weird things but there is no sin trying)

I had taken to work on myself over time by trying to live healthy,having so much air flowing around my balls and gathering and making use of relevant knowledge.

I started the journey on her CD3 last Nov,dw had began to spot so I decided to take an early lead.I had observed that her cycle had not been to regular at times 26 days,other times 28 days infact I hated keeping the details.So if her cycle that month happened to be short then I could be in luck.

I never BD in the night,(man don tire from day's work also those swimmers will be slow) but anytime from 4 am the show begins.(the swimmers are agile,fresh and ready to swim)

Made sure she eases herself before the show so that she would have enuf time to relax after BD.

(Pls don't say I am crazy) I used annointing oil for lubrication, got deep as much as posssible held her bum close during expel.And allowed the swimmers fully flow in b4 thinking of going another session.

So after that day I think I BD for two more days in a row the same manner and timing.(Going 2rds min). So I decided to wait for her ovulation b4 attacking.At a time I asked after EWCM which she told me that she had not seen it, so I told her she had her BFP.I kept saying it until she started showing symptoms.No morning sickness but back ache and the likes.All those ache thing.

Honestly till date I did not take her to hospital for pregnancy test but rather for ante-natal.

That is just the testimony.

Again I am waiting to hear two or more testimonies in the next one month from any of SW,HW,U,SB,Mrs K,RQ,etc etc etc etc etc ..................

@Pg 90 & 91 of thread
Don't want 2 call names but honestly I cried @ some of the stories I read(especially that of kemidebbie,I tot I said I'll not call names but can't just hold back). Women are really going through wonderful situations.I see God wiping ur tears soon and very soon.
I pray to God to give me grace not to take my dw for granted.

Enuf respect and loads of baby dust to ya all.

derickman: thx, i will try it again. Is your gtb mastercard new one; i mean did you collect it this year. Meanwhile my name is written in capital letters.

I collected mine May 2011.

derickman: Bro it did not work

If your name is printed in caps on your card, type your name in caps when filling the Add fund form.I have paid with it again today doing what I told you.May be your card was made to fulfill that purpose.Then see the customer service of your branch.

derickman: Hey guys i tried the gtb naira mastercard later on and it was still not approved. What is provoking me is the money i wasted to get that token of a thing. Now it seem useless. Right now am opting for the uba visa card and i hope this one will work because i really need to launch the project before the ending of this month.

This issue is simple if u are paying at namecheap use your GTBank card to Add funds in your account u will see the button facing u in ur name cheap home page.Click on it and fund it.Then from there u can make ur payment from the funds in ur account.Very simple.

@Topic
Let me tell you how to go around it.Simply load the ammount you want to pay into the "add fund" on your namecheap acount using the GTBank card and then pay for whatever u want to pay for using the fund you have loaded in ur namecheap account.

[quote author=Who I Go Ask?]i use mine on namecheap with no problem. But it's not working on fb and goggle. [size=14pt]Please which naira MasterCard works on fb and/or google?[/size][/quote]Use zenith visa card.

dayveed24: pls i want to confirm somethin? Must i get my token before i can purchase something online or make payment.. because my bro has a first bank mastercard. He was Den requested to get a token. But @d end OF d day wen he was tryin to make a purchase online. Dey dint even request for activation code or anythin dat relates to token.. So pls i wanna hear your View

Yes u would need a token for some online trasactions especially transfer of money to another account and even purchasing stuff online.

Army Day Secondary School 241 Recce Batalion Nguru Yobe State
Batch B 2003/2004. Had a great time in the barracks.

It is very clear if a thing like this can happen in this age.The head has failed and as such the minister of avaiation has failed and should be removed.

To travel these days have become another nightmare.Hundreds and thousands of people loose their lives just to move from one place to another.I am really concerned because,the plane have crashed,people have died, mourning here and there but nothing may be done to prevent future opccurence.
Nigeria has really struggled and it is now telling in the avaiation industry.Faulty plane to make a journey as if it were a molue that runs from mile 2 to orile.
What a waste of lives.

Adieu (victims)rest in peace.

Well the easiest way I can direct you is to get to okokomaiko or agbara and from there take a cab to canaan land. straight

Rexyl: Pls give the correct figure if you know.

N159.90

Aku1: A man in his physical self lacks the ability to remain faithful to his partner no matter how much he tries. The being desires pleasure of all sorts as the mind can conceive. Man is of a promiscuous nature and so covets the act of sex with multiple partners. This is not a change of the way things have always been but a continuation thereof. The days of old as stated in the bible is not free of such lifestyle.
Like i always tell ladies, LOVE or MARRIAGE does not make a man faithful rather his resolve due to a rock solid relationship with our heavenly father. Any man that thinks he can be faithful without the God factor is living in an unreal world and is filled with fallacy of the highest order. Pls tell me how in this time and age a man can contain himself so well as to maintain sexual relations with only one partner. That may be possible if the man is in a state of total unrest and extreme difficulty due to life's hardship and challenges. In that case his faithfulness is situational but fill his pockets with some quid and he would be the expected in that regard.
In summary,it is possible for a many to be faithful to his partner if he is closely associated with God and has resolved fully in his heart to be so natured.

My brother I do not agree with you from the begining of your comment until the summary.It is men of understanding that can control self.I know Men that are not close to God that understand the Venom women injects into their system and as such do not stray.They are wary of women because they know that they cause big setbacks that they will never recover from.It is only FOOLISH MEN that go after women other than their wife.

tEsLim: Its stupid question its just like asking if you will never lie or if you never lied.

No man or woman can remain faithful to one partner for a life time its stupid. And same as the idea of marriage to one person for lifetime. We all need change and change is the most constant thing. No man or woman can do that i tell you unless you are being deceived or lied to. People dont cheat sex happens. I support serial polygamy. Marry and divorce , marry and divorce and reinvent your life. Nothing wrong in it

Yes - presently in a relationship with kids And obviously wont last more than when the last child is 18years old! I will need to re-setup a new life!

Please write a book to let us know how this ur most "thoughtful" change will work.

sequel: the question now is: is it possible for a woman to stick to his man forever?
wat da H, ell is dis all about haba!!!, all of una get tym to respond to dis post wey one kind fru*****strated person just tink of.

The post is necessary as someone can learn that it is possible to stay with his wife or vice versa forever and actually stick to her/him.

Texther: There are alot of men that wishes to b faithful but these ladies with MINI SKIRTS wont just allow!!! Abeg women/ladies talk to una sef ooooo.

So the remedy is simple.The Bible says flee at any appearance of EVIL.
Avoid those skimpy skirt ladies as there is nothing one can do to eradicate them rather they will only get worse.

devekela: its a given that men must cheat, its in their DNA. If married they always cheat with womwen who r less attractive, less educated,less smart than their wives. Why will u leave fried chicken to eat rotten smelly fish?

Says who? Only foolish men do that.Yeah there are plenty of them all over the place.Come on think of it,to leave fried chicken to eat smelly rotten fish.It is simply stupidity,madness and foolishnes that will warrant that and as such only foolish men will do that.But not all my dear,Wise Men go everly dey.Those that keep repackaging their chicken for a sumptious chop anyday anytime instaed of going out for smelly chops.

Yes faithful men exist and will continue to exist no matter how corrupt the world turns out to be.By God's Grace I am one and I will remain faithful to my wife till Jesus comes.Who will I say I learnt unfaithfullness from? My dad did not do it.Isaac in the Bible did not do it so why on earth should I do it.
I have vowed not to do and I will not!

@Gen Buhari
Good to read from u again,quite some time.I have been going through the thread and I am in pg 43but I have left it for a later time.I was just wondering where u had gone.Read a lot of your contributions and I was impressed.Our man abiop is MIA.I can't wait to read his testimony.So Gen how is ur dw,the girls and ..... ur family?

@Bukieluv
All for good!Waiting to hear ur story.Your testimony will not elude you.

@Udoka
Na doctor u be, I fear u really knowledgeable.You will enjoy answered prayers IJN.Enjoy!

@Toyosi
No test , no scan unless you are having issues or as requested by a doctor.
But if you are not comfortable with the silence go to another hospital.

@all
Hi all,Nice job you mamas are doing on this thread.You will all continue to enjoy Supernatural Strength IJN. How time flies, and I can’t just wait for dday. My dw is 27 weeks on and about 13 weeks left. She no longer complains of all those sick aches despite the fact that she has gone back to her teaching. Now I can feel, touch and see my baby now. The baby has taken location around the sides not too far from the navel area. I see three visible points on her tummy where I humorously tell my wife is the knee, shoulder (at times bum bum) and the head of the baby. At times she will call me to come and see the baby moving. Good God, so I was in this position some years ago. Well I can’t wait to see this adventurous baby.

A testimony, in my last update I remember I wrote about what she was going through in pains in the joints and lower abdominal pains. She went for her ante natal at wk 21 (11th April) and a scan was requested. I accompanied her for the scan and the result was something I did not like. The result concluded like this “*The myometrium has intramural masses” The neat line read “The largest measure 8.1cm by 5.9cm” it further reads in two concluding line “*Normal 2nd trimester Cyesis” “Uterine fibroids”. Hmnn.

In reaction to the result, the dr we were seeing asked us to look for a gyn so that he can allow us to go to the gyns' hospital. My dw and I discussed what to do next but committed all to God. My prayer point was simple “What God has not planted in her body should be uprooted”
The pains persisted until one Sunday she could not go to church with me so I went alone. At my return I met her listening to a special ministration for mothers of Nation by Bishop Abioye(Shiloh 2010).Good at least she was not MIA that Sunday.She beacame so full of FAITH after the ministration. I no hear word again.

On the 5th of this month I moved her to another hospital and another scan was done. The concluding part of the scan result read “Normal (Late) 2nd Trimester Cyesis”. Goodness Uterine scrap disappeared! My joy is that despite the pains she went through in the early stages of her pregnancy, she never spat around for one day, no provoking morning sicknesses or vomiting. Infact God is a good God and I pray that every mother here carrying a baby in her tummy will give birth like the Hebrew women.Mother Alive,Child Alive IJN. The journey is pretty long but soon and very soon one day will the mostjoyous and the best day. I can’t wait.EDD Aug

Mothers I hail una no be small thing una dey go through.

My updates will keep coming ,it is just that it is not easy typing this post is long overdue.

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Firewood brings out the sense in the food..

Wow!You guys have spoken your views well.Many of these sensitive issues lies on the individual families especially how they respond to these confronting battles of life.There is a general perspective such as having the child is more important than love.But ther is a better understanding and that is Love is the Greatest.

As close and believing the couple were (the story)the wife says they still made love few days before his death and had always been doing that from time to time.God may just show up.I am keenly observing what may follow believing God along with her.

But I do not pray for my enemy to go through such an ordeal.I will prefer Love.

@CHAMPS
This is a SHOT!God has made you a champion.Congratulations my dear.Have a lovely 40wks trip.A really adventurous trip.Your courage and persistence is worth learning from.Congrats.Will share greater testimony with you on delivery day.Cheers

BIGER BOY: The only person I can compare to this guy in the current north is buhari.... I don't care from where a leader is if only they could exhibit half of this humility.... Just imagine what Nigeria would be globally if a leader like this would be at the helm! All the trillions stolen daily would have been put to good use.

Forget that thing. May be his eyes were not that opened.If he was in a Nigeria of today only God can tell what he would do.

diamondlove: Anoda thing, I hav not had SeX since I became pregnant
Dats abt 3months plus
I don't know if I am riskin anything cos I don't think I can even allow him do anything till I don't know

It is not fun at all but I know you will get over in no distant time.As long as he understands there will be no problems.My hubby too was not going to allow me though I knew what she was going through but once in a while she pacifies me and there are times she will say come on and I quickly top it up from the rear.Not fun like it used to be but only to make her know that I have not been going outside to do it.
You are in probably the toughest period of pregnancy because when my hubby was about 3months plus I really hear am.

@forumites
Quite some time away!Congrats to the newest mother in NL (pamperme).I am also an expectant father and I have had to cope with my wife carrying our baby.She is about 24wks old now and has started attending the ante natal.So far she is doing well no complains of aches here and there that she had about 6 - 8wks ago.I suspect because of her teaching activities.
She is stable now with her bigger tummy.She had a check up some days ago and she was given fansidar that means malaria was suspected in urine or blood (i no know which one).My biggest joy is I do not have much to worry about compared to the month of March.
I will keep you posted on how she is doing.All I have to say now is that I am proud of her and I really appreciate God for mothers.E no easy

Good to be back.I can only say one word "I am enjoying every bit of your gist and of course good information you are all providing".Thanks 2 udoka 2,champs,shiloh,etc and those making this thread worth following.

I have a little report I have been working on for some time and it will soon be out.It on this ttc issue.It is does not provide 100% solution but it really an eye opener to many ttc and it will greatly improve their chances.I will like to send a copy all of you(udoka 2,champs,shiloh,MSTIA) so that you can go through it and possibly advice.NL does not allow pm's so how do i forward it?

I will be posting properly from 2moro. I want to keep myself abreast with what has been happening on this thread so far.
Baby dust to ya all!

Ok,I have made my findings,the man did not have any child anywhere,he did not have any problems according to what I gathered but that could not be proved as he did not have child.He just wanted to respect his marital vow and love his wife.

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My brother I will do it till the child can help himself.

This thread should not have been written at all but I was moved to share this stories.
About 26 yrs ago, a couple moved into a flat in the close I lived then with my parents in Festac Town. Honestly I cannot tell which trade the man was involved in but his wife was a hairdresser. A beautiful couple they were especially the woman. As young as I was I admired her greatly for her beauty and also for her charisma. She was simply a loveable person. And her husband really loved her.
But they had no child. There was no where she didn’t go to in search for a child. As time wore on, she was getting older and the child didn’t come. Since I was young then I can’t categorically say what she went through from the in-laws but I know she went through hell as there are times when we would be woken up in the morning by shouts and blah…blah.
But in all these things the husband stood by her, he refused to adopt a child, and he continued to wait on God alongside his wife.
In the same vicinity, this couple witnessed marriages broken because of in ability to have children in fact there was a case of couple that the devil visited their home. The man was a military man and the wife a teacher. That Saturday only God knows what started them up that morning. The man locked the main door and beat a hell out the wife calling her Agan (barren) and some other related names. People tried to break into the house to save the woman but no way possibly they were afraid of what the man will do to them since he is military.
By 12 noon the woman managed to escape from the claws of death and broke loose and took to her heels out of the house half naked. Well that was her last day in that house. The man later brought in another chic that gave birth to 2 children for him. And many other cases like that.
But with all this, man was neither moved to get impatient with his wife nor situation. He loved his wife.
I have been away from Festac for about 16yrs now as I no longer live there. But time to time whenever I see someone from that area I ask after the hairdresser. Well no show is what I would hear.
Last week I learnt that the man passed on and of course the wife should be in menopause as she is close to sixty. You know the rest. He died without having a child.
There are several cases where men go out and have children without the knowledge of their wives and others the wife will know about it later but there is nothing she will do except to nag.
I have realized that women also walk out of marriage if found that their husbands are impotent. And the latest trend now that is gaining popularity. Women go into wedlock pregnant. That is to say no belle no marriage.
Nairalanders what is your take on this, which do you prefer Love for your spouse even if a child in not forthcoming or give me pickin (boy) and I will love you forever.