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jobaskia: It's really painful women go through pains TTC. God in His infinite crown it all. I had my first child five years ago and my wife was on TTC since then. Having undergone serious test previous years. But we give God the glory now that after a month trial on herbs from massage therapist she was able to locate that the womb was not well positioned after first delivery . So, reposition of the womb was done by this woman and its been wonderful i must tell you My wifee EDD is november by God's grace. All she does is massage therapy to detect any abnormalties on a woman 's set up whether be it fibroid , pelvic problems, unwanted infections

Apparently, out of curiosity i went to the centre myself to appreciate what God has done through the woman. I can aknownledge the fact God is using the woman positively . TTC women consult her every tuesdays and saturdays. feel free to contact me on 08082915084

Congrats and thanks for the info,November is just around the corner.I hope you have started shopping for the baby?Anyway, could you please tell us on this forum where the massage therapist is, her location infact her address.Many people reading this post may just be interested.Just as I am.Thanks

limsycutey: Hi everyone, this is my first preg, im im 6wks gone. Cant wait to have my bump and feel my baby move.. Altho i have to admit that going thru this thread ive seen that preg is not easy , so many things to be careful about, i just want my baby to come out well and healthy. Pls when do i start antenatal and should i be taking some drugs now. Congratulations to all the new moms and i pray for safe delivery for the pregnant ones, it is well in Jesus' name.

Worry less and do the right things you and your baby will be fine.In my opinion you can start ante-natal from 12wks(that was when my wife started hers).Please do not take drugs.Even the doctor will not prescribe drugs for you now.You may just be limited to using paracetamol(much later as pregnancy advances),Vitamin C,Follic acid and ferrous.
But that should be taken when prescribed for you.Please make sure you don't lazy around.
Your meals should include vegies and also take lots of water,infact you won't be told to that to time.

Thanjs dont8,sure your wife will come out without shakes.Thanks also Agiboma,nenepea.
Yoruba's will say ire a kari.So ire a kari oh.

ACM10: ^pls ignore him

I beg your pardon,it will be very abnormal if you want to limit people
to the limited knowledge u have.The information I gave above is very correct
and I will like you to do proper research before making comments like this.

naptu2: I love my country
I no go lie
Na for inside am I go live and die
If e push me so
I push am so
E push me I push am
I no go go


Sura, Sura
Sura the tailor is your man!

na so.lol

kaysy: I have made an advert on facebook with UBA AfriCard but my ad is running and my credit card has not been debited, besides i dont think my ad is running frequently as i want it to because i haven't even seen it among others, though its my first time advertising on facebbok due to my GTBank Naira Master Card has refused me this opportunity since but that apart now, all i want to know is how long do u guys advertise and how much do u pay [maybe a month or 2months] then what billing plan do u use [is it daily billing or lifetime budget] because i need my ad to be so frequent on facebook, any info i get will make me re-advertise it using the suitable options. Thank You

Facebook will debit ur card within 4-5 days depending on the amount you are willing to pay in ur payment settings,also ur ad will not run frequently daily because u have specified an amount you want to be billed daily so your ads will only run until that amount has been depleted.
How long you advertise and pay depends on you,your business and how much you are earning or afford to spend for advertising.
And if you want your ad to run frequently increase your daily budget.

Can anyone remember "Sura the tailor"?

jidebobo: @doctor in house pls is there any way to unblock falopian tubes . Thanks

Yes,depending on the type and cause of blockage but from what I read hear,Fertility massage and the castor oil therapy can help unblock them.

Yes, because u stop thinking about me, myself and I

Congrtas to bikay,strita , mogbomoya and all expecting mothers.This journey is very easy and God will help all expecting mothers.

I promised to give the gist of the birth of my baby.It is will help someone here I believe.
On the wee hours of 24th Aug my wife woke me up telling me to see that her bag of water has broken.Though she had been awake some hours before then adjusting to the labor pains.I stood u and encouraged her that we could wait till day break b4 going to the hospital.In a nutshell I attended to other things and took her to the hospital about 12 noon accompanied by a good family female friend.

We were told that she had 5cm dilation and would be observed in 4 hrs time.I went back home to get some other things and attend to other business.By 5pm I was back in the hospital and my wife was yet to put to bed.Dilation still 5cm.But the worrying thing was that dw was just releasing the waters and was going through pains but dr says they will have to wait for full dilation.

My sisters,the situation remained the same till 3am and I was told that she would have to undergo cs.My heart was heart broken,dw had gone thru a lot without a meal on that friday.Tired and worked up in pains,infact that moment I vowed never to cheat on this woman and to make her the happiest woman if she got out of this horror of a place.

Well,we had to look for another hospital that could carry out the cs.I called my inlaws around 5am so that they would know the position of things,honestly I didn't put them in the picture earlier since I believed all will be fine.But as it was that hour I had to call them.

We got to another hospital,even though I didn't like the hosp but my inlaws preffered it.She was checked again infact I wanted to slap that nurse the way she carried that check,very hostile.Still 5cm dilation,thereafter She was palced on a drip and then moved to the labor ward.There she was till about 3pm.

And so from that hour the nurses were working on her to give birth normally.What they were doing I don't know but I know dw must have been thru hell.At about 4:35pm a nurse came to call me that I should start praying for my wife as she has refused to push as the baby's head is in between her legs.So I and my inlaws started praying.

The issue was that there was no longer contractions.

To cut this story short she gave birth at about 5:15 pm and the baby weighed 3kg and was discharged on Sunday.

I really learnt a big lesson from this experience.
Lesson :I will neva advice my enemy to go to a general hospital to deliver.Though I had my reasons for allowing her to go for ante-natal there in the first place.

It was really God at work.
3 days after her discharge,the woman bathing her was not comfortable with the smell around her and decided to check properly why that smell,only to discover that a soaked pad inserted into her when she delivered was still inside her and she was not told about it.The pad was removed and honestly I want to believe that she is ok now just because God loves her so much.

I bless God for the unusual strength he has given to women and I admire their courage.
God will strengthen every woman that is pregnant on this forum for a very very safe delivery.

My boy name is David, Okikiola, Oluwaferanmi,Ayomide, and Shalom just for the records though.

From 21 ways read about 100ways here http://www.johnchow.com/100-ways-rich-people-think-differently/.

Well I am pleased to inform you all that God has blessed my family with a baby boy born unto us on Saturday.The story surrounding the delivery is long as I will furnish you with the gist later.It is just God and God alone.I am yet to recover physically but my dw is fine and baby great.
God is Good.

@poster
Educate the house about this technology.

@poster,
cotton101 and debrief08 and some others have spoken well.
Your banker girlfriends may have made your marriage worse.Forget them.
Whatever happened in the past such as the lie should no longer hold as it is concluded you have forgiven her.So pls don't ever talk about it again to her or whoever you are no longer a child.

Women will always be women and it is important you value her as such.You have spent 800k no problem money gone and she does not appreciate, why,reason is poor communication.Now you are broke, what is the way forward?should be the question and not running away.

If you are not happy at home, you will never find joy anywhere.Love your wife like yourself.Create the atmosphere of joy in your home.It is your responsibility.Let her know how much you earn and how business is treating you.Learn to carry her along and you will see exactly how important she is in ur life especially if you brainstorm regularly with her.Once she is fit get her into business even if she is in school and let her do something too.

Sex,na wa, if you and your hubby can relate well then you will definitely know when she is good to go.Don't get pissed off because of that.She will want to make love as much as you do but if she is not fit then she won't do it.Also she may not oblige you because of how you feel towards her especially if you have been attacking her verbally.Make her feel loved and she will express that in return to you.

You will not remain broke.Just plan and work out ways you can improve your business and run with it.Also mind your spendings.

In conclusion,making amends with your wife is a must and do not act foolishly by checking out.Start by praying together with your wife and I see God making things work in your home.
Enjoy

stephanieoghogh: Hello doctor,ℓ̊ was once treated for urinarytract infection i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ my early teenage years,buh as times passed ℓ̊ noticed after my cycle ℓ̊ normally hv very thick discharges and its comes out without any control,pls would love to get Чя urgent response,thanks

I will have to ask some questions.For how long have you been going thru this form of discharge? And what are the symptoms that you are currently experiencing that are not normal?

darne: @InfoGenious
Doctor, please a lady was pregnant for 2weeks of which she had a miscarriage, three weeks later she was adviced to do Ultra sound cos she still felt like there is still pregnancy, and her Ultra sound result reads thus : Ultrasound findings: uterus contains single gestational sac no fetal pole seen !

So she's asking and wants to know what that really mean, Does it mean she's still pregnant or no pregnancy was found ??,...Please I need your response doctor !
Thank you

As it is after five weeks, no heartbeat detected and and no fetal pole seen.A miscarriage no doubt has occured.And as such she is no longer carrying a foetus.

4shizzle: Good day doctor,

Please what could be the explanation for waist and lower back ache and sometimes pelvic ache.
Also have a bloated stomach and been having cramps. Feels like I have a lot of gas in me and i feel relieved when i pass wind
I have seen my period twice since all this symptoms started.
Did a home pregnancy test that came out negative. All this started when I became sexually active 2 months ago. I was excited i could be pregnant but came out negative. Can it be an ovarian cyst? Awaiting your response. Thank you

Symptoms point to a cyst as you have said but I will advice you go for diagnosis from a doctor.

safeLove: Good day docs,thanks for this good job. Hubby and I are trying for a baby. I noticed that I had my flow twice last month (2nd and 5th week of july).I also noticed that right now,I am still having some bloody dischage/spotting. I am trying not to worry about it. Pls what could be the problem?
Thanks

Pls let me know the number of cycle days you had before last July.Was your cycle days regular before last July? May be you furnish me with some symptoms that you have seen since last month or anytime.And of course do not worry about it.You will be ok.

kolexy: @Poster, which bank do you work for? You do not have to demarket a competitor to draw customers to your bank.
GTB is still miles ahead of the rest.

From your comments,I may assume you are GTbank staff.I am sorry to say that until last Friday I have held GTB in high esteem as they are the only bank I use.But my brother,GTbank is a mess full of confusionists that are not creative at all instead of being creative they are 4 looking for ways extort hard earned monies from customers at all cost and that is reflected in their services.It is only a matter of time to see what becomes of them if they continue this way.

We only need to be very vigilant as I would not be surprised if their marketers and staff hold guns to force you to part with your money if that is the last resort.

I am not only dissappointed in them I am also thinking of letting them go so that I can sleep well which I will.If GTB is the only bank in Nigeria I am sorry I will do as much as possible not have a bank trasaction at all.But thank God there are better ones.

Abeg I will like to open an account with First Bank which is "truly the first" what are the requirements to open an account with them?

Honestly I am pissed off with the way Gtbank treated me on Friday.As usual their ATM machine had network problems but somehow people managed to cash.After waiting for close to 1hr as a result of delays due to their inefficienT atm.My turn came , I put in my GT card and the "ole" machine held unto it.I waited and nothing happened.

I went into the banking hall and made my complaint.The chap went to retrieve my card and went to make a call.Then the "mumu" sat down to continue his yeye work.I asked him for my card,he refused to answer me ,anger building up slowly in me,I asked him again only for him to give another chap the card and asked me to follow him.

Wonders will never end

I followed that one and he told me that he will not give me the card again as I had to apply for another one.When he realised that he could not tackle me he called another officer and that one told me that it was a policy in place now that if ur card had issues with the ATM,u'll have to apply for another card.

After the whole drama,I did not get my card back and I didn't apply.

Similarly Some time ago my wife went to this same GTb branch to withdraw from the counter,she was asked to use the ATM.She has long lost hers(though I lost)and so she insisted that she wanted to withdraw from the counter at least una go comot una N100. Only for her to be told that she had to apply for a Card b4 she is paid.She didn't apply and she was not paid in that branch.

My question is this,is it a must that one must apply for another card if his card got stuck in the ATM.Do u have similar experience with other banks? Because these banks should have just carried Guns into the street instead of this forceful BARA.

Adufetohposh: Too bad most of us dnt understand d op. Well, I personally ll change mai line once am married coz av been using dis same like 4 d past 8yrs, definitely there re some calls I ll not want 2 entertain once am married. Dnt get it twisted, its nt dat am avoiding some Ex's calls alone, there re some friends I ll like 2 cut off completely once mai status changes.... Mai oppinion anyway

You are simply right.The wise way to go.
Though my wife didn't change hers.

nanaman: Lateness no dey for marriage,early or late God's time is the best..If you marry early and u no get early pinkin nko?? abi no be pinkin we all dey find for marriage before happiness..mcheew..ONPE

My guy if na pickin one make go marry, then you are really missing.


In my own honest opinion,early marriage is better as you sort out married life early,raise your children in your prime and have enough time to work and plan ahead.

It is no fun at all that one is 65yrs still paying school fees for his first born that is 19 yrs and some other 3 smaller ones in secondary and primary.If the man is still struggling and waiting for pension na handout money go kill am.
It will take God for that kind of person to live and continue his romance with his wife from were they stopped before children came along.

There is absolutely nothing wrong about my wife knowing how much I earn.Infact,I enjoy letting her know when money hits my account.It builds trust and cement bonding in a unique way.

Well I don't think this is photoshop http://www.npr.org/blogs/krulwich/2011/04/08/135206497/the-worlds-tallest-tree-is-hiding-somewhere-in-california

Honestly I am pissed off with the way Gtbank treated me today.As usual their ATM machine had network problems but somehow people managed to cash.After waiting for close to 1hr as a result of delays due to their inefficienT atm.My turn came , I put in my GT card and the "ole" machine held unto it.I waited and nothing happened.

I went into the banking hall and made my complaint.The chap went to retrieve my card and went to make a call.Then the "mumu" sat down to continue his yeye work.I asked him for my card,he refused to answer me ,anger building up slowly in me,I asked him again only for him to give another chap the card and asked me to follow him.

Wonders will never end

I followed that one and he told me that he will not give me the card again as I had to apply for another one.When he realised that he could not tackle me he called another officer and that one told me that it was a policy in place now that if ur card had issues with the ATM,u'll have to apply for another card.

After the whole drama,I did not get my card back and I didn't apply.

Similarly Some time ago my wife went to this same GTb branch to withdraw from the counter,she was asked to use the ATM.She has long lost hers(though I lost)and so she insisted that she wanted to withdraw from the counter at least una go comot una N100. Only for her to be told that she had to apply for a Card b4 she is paid.She didn't apply and she was not paid in that branch.

My question is this,is it a must that one must apply for another card if his card got stuck in the ATM.Do u have similar experience with other banks? Because these banks should have just carried Guns into the street instead of this forceful BARA.

camrygmail: I am a first time mom (FTM) and I am now 23 weeks. I can feel baby kicking. but i am getting worried that all her kicks are below my belly button and above my bikini area. Is this normal?

Very normal my dear.Nothing to worry about.But I had been worried when dw complained about these kicks and the pains that she was experiencing.But the nurses will say it is just normal.

darne: @InfoGenius
Doc Pls I need your help and advice ! Pls don't ignore my message,..Thanks !

I did not ignore ur message I only didn't want to comment because I do not want to encourage such actions.
I am really sorry about that.

@fantababy : touched by your account.I am also an expextant father and my dw should put to bed in about a week,though she had been very strong by God's grace I have had to help do some things once in a while.There is something she says whenever she needs help and I'm busy doing something she feels is unneccessary.Let's she needs help in the kitchen.
She will say "you will eat early if this food comes out on time and two of urs can make it come out faster.Please do blend tomatoes for me while I fry or boil ......whatever"

It is usually like a hook on me.My strong advice is that since ur dh married u out of luv and not compulsion.Tell him on a lighter mood how u feel in ur body especially at this delivery period.And how much you love him and how he can be of help to you.Because no matter how it is ,when u put to bed u'll need him to help you.

You just have to make him understand,tell him to take a walk with you or drive you just try and have wonderful moments with him and I am sure you will be fine.

More importantly, change ur manners towards him, like when talking to him do it gently.Remove completely resentment from ur dealings with him and that may soften his heart and long for you more.

And don't forget to PRAY.
WIshing u d best and safe delivery.

slovenia: Hello Doc, last week I had unprotected sex. Most stupid thing I've ever done. Afterwards I've had lower abdominal pain, vaginal itching and just today pain in urinating. Pls help. I just started my period so I know I'm not pregnant.

Probably an infection.See a doctor ASAP

MamaTriplets: @Champs, where have U bin all along . May God Almighty Bless U. . U see en, this ur two weeks wait will be worth more than all the years U av waited as God will put a new song in ur Mouth. My Doctor put me on clomid n said it wld trick my body into producing more estrogen as it inhibits estrogen! Ma sista, small tin, I for no dey see my period again ooo! I used pineapple core to build back my uterin lining(it really works!). It also means fertility blend is not for me as it also contains vitex which lowers estrogen. Am tired of being a guinea pig to doctors. Infact some issues that infertile women are having are so caused by wrong medications! @All, do you know of any natural food or veggies that I can indulge in to boost my estrogen levels? :'. Baby dust to all

You can start by eating a low carb diet rich in mineral supplement such as zinc. Berries, apples, dates,tomatoes, yams, potatoes, rice (avoid white rice), oats, wheat, garlic can help you increase estrogen in your body. You can also eat beans, fresh green vegetables with foods that enhance estrogen production.

Likewise, some foods can prevent estrogen production and should be avoided when eating foods that produce estrogen. Such foods are corn, white rice, melons, grapes, green beans, white flour.

Wishing u luck MAMA TRIPLETS

bukatyne: hi doctor in the house! pls wat makes menstral period irregular? i mean ceasing for 2 months, 6months etc consistently and coming again?

Possible causes are Emotional stress,hormonal imbalance,perimenopause,illness,diet,exercise,excessive weightloss or weight gain,eating disorders,drugs(used for birth control methods),problems with pelvic organs,travel,premature ovarian failure,breast feeding,obesity,liver disease,tuberculosis and diabetes.But also note that you can get pregnant even though you are not menstruating

Engrsam: I need a good herbal supplement drugs for low sperm count

Look for maca supplements.

Fun loving thread like this should not just go away.Pls sisters revive it oh.

GTBank mastercard will not work for adwords and facebook ads today.I do not know about 2moro.But Zenith VISA will.