Ajakaiye83: Pls I need your advice. I am loosing it and I need your advice.
I have 7m cash at hand .should I relocate or build a house with it? I have a land in ikorodu and ijoko axis with foundation done .
As per relocating,I dont want to go through study route.i dont think I can couple with work and schooling.
Pls advice me
/ Did you steal the N7m?
I ask because what gave you the N7m if harnessed well can give you N20m. There are many business people in Nigeria that will shoot for the sky if they can lay their hands on N5m.
N7m sounds like a lot until you convert it to hard currency. If your host abroad knows that you are coming with such money, God don butter his bread. E no go last you pass 6 months. Friendship and brotherhood ends at Murtala Mohammed airport.
No advice necessary. If you have made up your mind to relocate, do it. Experience is the best teacher. There are only two possible outcomes: You either become rich or you become a philosopher.
By the way, cancel any thought of building a house with N7m. /
/ Fear is the greatest tool used for deception. That's why religion thrives. When people are suffering, there is no need to threaten them with violence if they revolt. A good leader will know how to keep them calm with a threat of hellfire or a blessing of heaven if they turn to zombies.
/ You can subdue people with violence as long as the people are not equally armed. Anyone can press a trigger. Back in the day, Law Enforcement officers used to raid meetings and football fields to murder unarmed people with the allegations that they were IPOB members. When was the last time it happened since AK-47s are in circulation within the civilian population?
Even the minimally trained bandits in the North are not showing any respect to the military.
Mandela89: Is drinking of water now an offence, the officer that videod him without his consent should be dealt with, he is merely accused and a suspect
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They are teaching you that no condition is permanent.
Only a few would understand the significance of the video.
orohbiro: You bought her gift then she break ur heart or u guys have quarrel or she rejected ur proposer u went ahead to collect your gift u are a weak man not a strong man. In fact u not a gentle man u are not qualify to be a man in the ist place. If u are doing that u should stop it is embarrassing
AngelicBeing: It is called Rub my back and I Rub your own back, know your way no be curse, hunger dey Nigeria, to eat Ofe owerri soup with Akpu, you need a sharp Brain better than the Philistine living inside Rock Aso, Alex is using his Brain to chop for Nigeria
Know Nigerians. Let them be acquaintances. But don't get them very close. How difficult is that? US is so big that you don't need the help/assistance of any Nigerian to survive.
/ Remember the Malabu oil deal? Many decades of cover up by the then Attorney General didn't stop the participants being hounded. In about a year, Buhari's tenure will be over. The mishandling and or cover up for Kyari can be unearthed and remedied by a willing AGF. Why commit a crime that will keep you on your toes forever? The stress is unimaginable especially when the pressure is coming from US who believe that to err is human, to forgive is divine. And they make no pretense that they are not divine.
/ Don't forget that a Nairaland moderator was here celebrating Mrs Obiano as a "no nonsense Amazon" when he thought that Mrs Bianca was the one who got slapped. It takes a little for some people to showcase their stupidity.
Mrs Obiano cannot believe that after today, she will be irrelevant and praise-singers will disappear. The freeloading ended today. It was the same frustration that made Patience Jonathan goad her husband not to concede the election that Buhari won.
By Monday, loyalties will be switched and she has to deal with the loneliness of after office. Her calls will not be answered. The number of visitors will reduce to the barest minimum. To make it worse, Bianca gave her a memorable gift---a resounding slap!
Now you understand why African Presidents fail to relinquish power.
This place is like a classroom of 100 students. Imagine giving the intelligent ones down to the person that comes last in class a phone and free data to post. /
Dailymice: Joe Biden dismantling the Keystone Project is one of the reasons of this inflation. Biden is a weak leader simple and short.
God bless Donald John Trump
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What has Biden got to do with a hike in interest rate? Do you know all the components in the inflation figure? Or you folks just like to entertain yourselves.
Why not concentrate on your President that absconded from his post in the time of national crisis? What caliber of a leader does that?
/ Nigerians are like children--they have short attention span and are easily distracted. Waste 7 years and in the last year, build an airport and a civic center, then the accolades will start pouring in. Some may even canonize him.
I've been dating this guy for a while now. He's been into tramadol and smoking for a very long time. Over 15years.
We've been friends before now, until late last year when we started dating. I've been making conscious efforts on helping him stop all these acts.
He has improved on quitting smoking, as he only smokes once in a day or twice.
My issues is the tramadol. He takes about 5 tab everyday. He's physically fit and one could barely tell he has that addiction. He can't do anything like reading, writing an exam if he doesn't take this thing. I've tried to help him the best way I can. Yea, I love him, but I cant afford to raise kids in such environment. I might have to take a bow if this persists, but I really wish and want to help him go through this.
What are the side effects of this drug?
How can I help him with this addiction?
Please help! Thank you
/ You think love is all that's needed for marriage.
You are on the road to perdition. It will never end well. Some people deserve to be left alone.
Betterprospect: Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.
I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.
Now my dilemma is:
1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?
2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?
3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.
4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.
P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.
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Now imagine if you are single, 30 and "happy at your job"? You will be very comfortable at your job to the point that you become stagnant without realizing that you could do better.
The narcissist attitude of your boss is the motivation you need for progress. And already you are thinking in the right direction.
/ If only japa gang will realize that only about less than 10% will make it and come back to make noise. Too many able-bodied Nigerian males languishing in prisons in many countries of the world. /
englishmart: In the old, people like Solomon, David, Jacob, etc married more than one wife. God is still God and doesn't change. Do you think He now sees something wrong in marring more than one wife?
/ Using the tool of brainwashing and indoctrination to counter an argument is counterproductive. For some reasons, polygamists found favour in the eyes of God in the Bible.
The fact is Oyibo people make the laws, we follow. Recently they told us that homosexuality is acceptable and even some churches and schools are already gravitating towards that. Read the Bible for what it is--a history book for entertainment and orderliness. Nothing in the Bible is the word of God. Prod the Christians and the only argument they have in the debate is quoting the same Bible we are refuting.
Ask any Christian where Cain's wife came from, then sit down and enjoy the show. /
Totilopussylick: In Africa Nigeria specially, we practice old age politics .
Any young contester is forbidden and regarded as a child in politics .
/ A 36-years old in Nigeria is still shouting WhiteMoney and Erica, or gambling on EPL. And if they dare go into politics, it is to be thugs for old politicians. Who will take those overgrown babies serious to vote them into elective positions? /
Desusi: Naira landers, kindly advise me on what to do.
l am over 60 years old, a widower. By the grace of God, l was blessed with three children of which two are graduates with good grades from reputable universities here in Nigeria, one is still undergraduate before the departure of my late wife some years back.
As a retired man with meager money, I decided to manage a little business which barely gives me much money. One of these my children, a professional, though not teacher, is currently residing with me doing teaching job in different places as part time, pending when he would get a much better job.
We are living in my personal house. l would single handedly pay electricity bills, lawnman, etc. My son would not want to help in any way, not even with pure water of #10 claiming that he is with his father.
Efforts to convince him to assist me is not yielding positive result, instead he would pick quarrels with me. His senior sister has married, while the junior brother is still in the school as dependant, what sort of counseling do you think he needs to change.
I am afraid even if this boy owns shop rite in future, he would not help either.
/ These are not ordinary times. Everything is negotiable unless you approach him with insults like "see your mates". Frustration is too much that some lads are willing to sacrifice their parents to make money these days. Bad leadership affects all one way or the other. /
ChangetheChange: Seem Iran is fuccking scared of Israel than United States. Israel killed 2 Iranian Republican Guards, Iran retaliated by firing missiles into an empty US consulate in Iraq, same way they fired missile into an empty US base during Trump era. Why not fire the missile into an empty building in Israel, to see how the Israelis will respond.
/ The whole of Middle East is scared of Israel. If you throw pebbles at them, they retaliate with stones. No time to be shouting "God of Israel" up and down or rolling in mud like Christ Chosen.