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Romance / Re: Why Are Our Girls Dis Promiscuous? by IyaBasira: 2:47am On Sep 04, 2010 |
@ Poster ; Oh shut up. Like you are any better. Olodo. |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 2:31am On Sep 04, 2010 |
debosky: I can't believe that Debosky actually typed this and pressed the reply button. So just HOW do you expect to verify the doings of a girl you don't even know? seyibrown: VERY VERY TRUE. This was exactly what I said but some idiot called "like me" used it as a pretext to twist my meaning into something else. Any way it seems like the poster only saw the advice he wanted to see. You can do the right thing but it's very obvious he himself is not a very nice person. The last time he replied he said he found the video and was going to mail it to his friend. And that's just really nasty of him. He can tell his friend everything without showing him the video. |
Romance / Re: I Sent This Email To My Girlfriend But She Was Mad: Why? by IyaBasira: 4:04pm On Sep 03, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd: ROFL!!!!! I was a little . . . disturbed to find out that this was actually a poem. I wonder how they figured out what it was meant to be. |
Romance / Re: Which Is Appropriate? Being Ethical Or Moral. by IyaBasira: 10:37am On Sep 03, 2010 |
So basically, morals define ethics but ethics are not necessarily moral. Right? |
Romance / Re: Which Is Appropriate? Being Ethical Or Moral. by IyaBasira: 9:37am On Sep 03, 2010 |
Sorry but what's the difference between ethics and morals? Aren't they kind of the same thing? |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 7:07pm On Sep 02, 2010 |
A question; How do we know the guy doesn't know already? He might you know. He might just not have wanted to tell the poster that she was going for a re- virgin operation. I am just guessing ooo cos after all he funded the check up itself. |
Family / Re: Please Help Me My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy. by IyaBasira: 5:32pm On Sep 02, 2010 |
seyibrown: A sensible woman would have noticed that the visits decreased but that still does not warrant her cutting the girl on her FACE . . . |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 7:02pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
dancewith: Actually the re- virginization thing started even before 2007. Its ONLY for those who have the money. lol Your second query I agree with. It doesn't make sense for a video of supposedly several years ago to still exist, although it might be possible. |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 6:49pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
likeme: Dude . . . is it so difficult to read and comprehend what another person says? I was making a comment on the poster's own thoughts when I mentioned that no one is truly "good". There is a difference between giving advice and giving your own opinion based on what someone else has said. I did both. And if you cannot differentiate between the two, then you need to polish up your reading skills. Have your own opinion but don't address mine in an insulting manner. |
Romance / Re: I Made A Mistake And Now She Won't Forgive Me, Help! by IyaBasira: 5:13pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
You truly are an evil person. Let me guess. So she dumped you and now you posted the pics seeking revenge, eh? Clap for yourself. |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 4:31pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
Hauler , are you male or female? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Mobo444, This Is For You by IyaBasira: 4:28pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
Please don't tell me you actually paid any sort of attention to that buffoon. |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 4:27pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
He isn't confronting her. He is just telling her to be honest. It's against every rule of decency to know something that would affect your friend and NOT tell them. If she does it herself, he won't have to be the evil friend who ruined things. |
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Him The Dirty Secrets About His Fiancee. Urgent by IyaBasira: 4:23pm On Sep 01, 2010 |
swiftyc00l: I hope this gets to you before you spill the beans but I just wanted to give you my advice. To be honest, the re- virgin operation thing is not new. But it doesn't mean she is a bad person. She may have found a guy she really loves and theres something you said earlier that pained me. You said and I quote , There are some good girls out there better deserving of him than her, one of them ought to be blessed with a quality guy like him, NOT her. What exactly is a good girl? Is it one who has never slept with a man or is it a girl whose heart is truly pure? People say that God chose Mary because she was a virgin and its not true. It was because she had a pure heart and a sound mind. So in the world we live in today, who is truly good? It all depends on your definition. She may have done awful things but please don't be so quick to judge. My suggestion is that you speak to HER . Be very honest and straightforward with her. Her doing the re- virgin operation might not necessarily be that she is capable of murder as someone said earlier. That is a girl trying to fix a mistake she once made. She probably feels that her virginity ( which is now gone) was the only thing she could have given to her guy and she's not going to tell anyone how messed up she feels inside. You know how Nigerians are , they'll say "OH! Didn't you know when you were doing it ?" Everyone tells you to move on but no one explains to you how to forgive yourself. You might see the whole re- virgin things as an act but I see it as a girl admitting that she messed up - not to her bf because she is just too scared. She is definitely not going about it the right way but thats why I said please speak to her first. And depending on how you structure your words, she might have a change of heart, who knows. I am not justifying her actions in any way, however. If you can convince her to come clean then no harm done. But be sure to ask your friend how things are going with her a while later. If you are really good friends then he will tell you about her coming clean (if she has). If she hasn't then feel free to tell him. And please, please, I beg of you, do NOT show him the videos, Put his feelings into consideration. Showing him will just traumatize him for life and this will just make things extremely difficult for the next girl who comes along. You said he already has trust issues and the video will not help matters. I know you want to look out for your friend but please follow my advice. |
Romance / Re: Grown Women Vs Girls! by IyaBasira: 4:11pm On Aug 31, 2010 |
A HOTLIL@sa: I concur with the above bolded segments. |
Romance / Re: I Need Ur Help! How Can I Break Up Wid My Boyfriend, Which I Still Love by IyaBasira: 3:52pm On Aug 29, 2010 |
I feel very sorry for you. It's obvious from what you've told us that he doesn't love you any more. Please pack your bags and leave. Please do so before death knocks on your door. |
Crime / Re: How Police Brutalized A Beauty Queen by IyaBasira: 1:35pm On Aug 28, 2010 |
chukxy: The word is ROUTE , not root. She DID leave early , and if you had read her story properly you would have noticed that she was already driving at 10.45am while the appointment was due to start at 11.30. Also, any Nigerian knows that if something is said to start by 11.30, it will ACTUALLY begin at 12.30. Jumping lanes is wrong, yes. But if her car was over heating she had a concrete excuse for leaving her lane . Some people jump lanes without better reasons. Even if she did jump her lane, she cannot be blamed for the policewomen's unreasonable behaviour. In her situation you would not have moved to a faster lane? She even asked and we all know some people just butt in in front of your car and you have to wait for them to go in first. |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 9:37pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
tpiah: But you remember that in the end, the girl he got pregnant was a nurse and she was crying because she knew Tade didn't love her. I felt sorry for her too. But if Tade wasn't in love with her , then it was probably Rosaline he still had feelings for. 190, : Funny enough I had seen this topic and read it before I even decided to join Nairaland . |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 5:31pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
yorke: Clever boy . .! Clap for yourself. tpiah: But I could never figure out whether he actually loved her or not. 1 Like |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 4:57pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
tpiah: I remember that book!!!! I loved those Pace Setters series. The girls name was Rosaline and the guys name was Tade and it was called the Hopeful Lovers. Sick book. Yeah it looks like it might turn out that way in real life from what I can see. The guy I initially spoke about has already cheated on his gf about twice or so. Omolola1: You could just say that you are ONE of the girls he has slept with on the phone when you call her anonymously. Sorry if it seems like I'm badgering you. I just wish she had some way of finding out. |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 4:40pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
tpiah: That actually scares me because the guy I was talking about is my friend's boyfriend. But he's a Warri boy and not a yoruba one like you mentioned. |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 4:38pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
Omolola1: But that is messed up on so many levels . . . what if he gets aids or whatnot? Is there any way you can make an anonymous call to her and tell her what her bf is up to? You don't need to mention your name, of course. |
Romance / Re: I Am Older Than Him by IyaBasira: 4:33pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
SA Goddess: LMAO! ! ! It's just that I'd seen this thread and for some reason I never opened it . . . till today. And I know how frustrating it must have been for you because Mutter has said something similar to me before on the thread about the fight for equality in marriages. Jennykadry even posted one of her replies. Anyway, no wahala. |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 4:29pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
Omolola1: WOW . . . his fiancee is in deep shyte . . . poor girl. |
Romance / Re: I Am Older Than Him by IyaBasira: 4:21pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
Just read through the whole thread and I'm like . . . How could I miss such a spectacular cat- fight? Oh well, always a next time. ***Sighs sadly*** |
NYSC / Re: What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 4:01pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
Omolola1: Honestly? Did he really say so? |
NYSC / What Does NYSC Mean To A Guy? by IyaBasira: 3:45pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
I was talking to a guy one day and he mentioned NYSC and was saying stuff like " Men . . . I cant wait for NYSC , I just can't ". And I was like " What's so special about it? " but he just laughed and said nothing. Now that may seem extremely irrelevant, but I have since heard that NYSC is merely an avenue for everyone to sleep with as many people as they can. I don't know much about NYSC myself so I thought I'd ask. If what I heard is true, then what happens to those in relationships who go for it? Do they just go with the flow and sleep with as many people as they like? Thanks for any future replies. |
Romance / Re: Say Somtin 2 Dis! by IyaBasira: 2:42pm On Aug 27, 2010 |
@ Poster ; If the two of you genuinely love each other, then this shouldn't be a problem. Talk to him and see how he feels. But if you are not comfortable with him coming over, then tell him it has to stop. |
Religion / Re: The Biblical Meaning Of Tithe by IyaBasira: 10:29pm On Aug 26, 2010 |
Confetti's post completely answered the question. Before that, I was following the back and forth questioning cos it made me laugh. Now I don't know what the argument is about any more. |
Romance / Re: Guys Be Honest, How Many Boyfriend's Or Girlfriend's Have You Had Before Now? by IyaBasira: 7:26pm On Aug 26, 2010 |
Godmother: Actually, I think it's a good idea. It enlightens us to the fact that the average guy is nothing more than a slut. |
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