Celebrities › Re: 18 Most Handsome Men In The Nigerian Entertainment Industry (pics) by Izen: 9:23pm On Oct 29, 2016 |
midworld: Really! And you left the finest of them all Who is this? |
Celebrities › Re: Miss Anambra Leaked Compromizing Video Tops Nigeria's Google Search (photos by Izen: 5:50am On Oct 28, 2016 |
cr7lomo: Look at what she has brought upon herself and her family because of one stupid pageant or money or unnecessary fame..
One stupid thing I hate go hear is " do not judge" people are really taking advantage of this and that is y we have lost or morals...alot of ashanas will come to this forum to defend her because they are also guilty of the act...if u wanna 4k no problem...but y record it?? To the extent that it leaked...
We have our morals in Africa....girls are becoming too desperate these days because of I wanna belong... Nigerian girls are one of the most laziest women on earth...they just love quick money at all costs... The annoying thing is that they use the money for stupid material things like phone cloths hair travels and car... Bunch of bumbos Stop generalizing. Both genders have moral issues please. The woman-hate on NL is despicable. And just remember, if there's no demand, there won't be supply. Kapish. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:33pm On Oct 27, 2016 |
Dvibs: You see...this is what i mean! You got it all wrong with what i said. You don't have to feel bad dear. This is where your inferiority complex come to play, you don't have to go up to this extent to prove yourself and worth to me. One more thing, you sound like pessimistic being, always try to look at positivity in all situations. I ain't hating dear coz i got no hate in my blood. ONE LOVE. At the end of the day, you don't go about telling people they don't know their worth. It is quite insensitive of you. If you don't have anything nice to say, it's better not to say anything at all. ONE LOVE. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:16pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Dvibs: Why do i feel like... you don't know your worth? Is more like you are suffering from inferiority complex. Work on actualization of self-worth dear, and your love life will fall back into normal. Really dude? Honestly, people like you disgust me. Let's say you're right and I really do not know my worth, is it necessary for you to push someone who is already down lower? It's just like people who throw low self esteem round as an insult to those who didn't hurt then. The only time you're allowed to do that is if the person with a with low self esteem or inferiority complex as you call it is trying to drag you down with them. But that is by the way. My dear, you don't know jacks.h.it about me. Having a crush doesn't mean I'm stupid or that I don't know my worth. It is just what it is. Falling in love. Don't read too much meaning into it. If I was that stupid I wouldn't even be asking for opinions from others. And asking questions doesn't mean you don't know your worth. No one knows it all okay? It seems to me that you're the one who lost your worth and you're trying to drag me down with you. I won't let you. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Experience Job Hunting At Linda Ikeji Media by Izen: 3:51pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
Philipmems: Descriptive essay was okay but highly biased... when using Pathos in your write up don't give your audience an obvious feeling that you are sentimental, let them be the judge of it. That's how to write a good descriptive essay of this genre. Did she tell you she is a descriptive essay writer? This is nonfiction biko. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 6:22am On Oct 26, 2016 |
Izen: No I won't thank you now and I won't thank you later. No one judges guys who look at beautiful ladies. This time since it is not money I'm after, you've looked for something else to judge me for. Oh please! Only if you can't read and comprehend, that's when you won't understand the qualities I listed above. Before you get to know someone, you have to be attracted to them first at least. So please stop judging me for my feelings and face front. Me asking questions is me trying to get to know him better, that's why I'm seeking nairalanders opinions. And who says ugly guys are the best? You'd be surprised. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 6:22am On Oct 26, 2016 |
tonaydo: do you know your problem? you are after cute guys that you don't take your time to look at other personality in the guy. . .I know your type very well cos I got some around
its annoying how you girls always want a perfect man. . .my candid advice to you is. . .the day you stop going after cute guys and just get to know people not minding what they look like then you would discover you are the one at fault
and I assure you that you will find love. . .tnk me leta No I won't thank you now and I won't thank you later. No one judges guys who look at beautiful ladies. This time since it is not money I'm after, you've looked for something else to judge me for. Oh please! Only if you can't read and comprehend, that's when you won't understand the qualities I listed above. Before you get to know someone, you have to be attracted to them first at least. So please stop judging me for my feelings and face front. Me asking questions is me trying to get to know him better, that's why I'm seeking nairalanders opinions. And who says ugly guys are the best? You'd be surprised. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 9:22pm On Oct 25, 2016 |
Alfred234: The fact that gay people follow him on social media doesn't mean he is gay but "fishy pose" sounds gay/bisexual tho... Some girls know their boyfriends are into guys and they don't mind so it's up to you... Can you cope dating a gay/bisexual guy? Wouldn't that be like giving him a pass for cheating? Not sure o  |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 9:18pm On Oct 25, 2016 |
CheedyJ: Miss, seems u re looking for luv in d wrong places...anywez, I feel luv should b allowed to grow & not all this crush u re having up & down... I want to bliv u re of age sha....in any case, am single & hoping to mingle, am goodlooking, and I speak quite well too... So, if u reside in Lagos maybe we could hook up & see where it might lead it...... I don't live in Lagos. Lol, I'm a bsc holder o. I know me seeking advice is childish but I'm not a kid lol. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 9:16pm On Oct 25, 2016 |
bitchcrafts: Why not just pop the big "will u be my boyfriend" question while being serious, holding his two hands and looking deep into his eyes? and stop worrying over shi.t? Lol, if only love was that easy  |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 9:15pm On Oct 25, 2016 |
queenitee: I'm sorry about those people insulting you op,I will just say the little I think can help All those signs point out to the fact that he's gay,don't be blinded by your feelings. You say you date guys that can express themselves properly,you should start moving with the type of people you really want to be with. Plus,don't start a relationship with someone you are really sure you will never marry(Maybe cos of different religion,tribe,educational background)or whatever And lastly,define all relationship, if you think what you want with a person is just friendship,let that person realise he won't get more than friendship from you Thank you for your advice. I'll keep it in mind. I just wish he wasn't this hot  But we probably will never end up together anyway. I wish I didn't have to see him very often too |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 5:21pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Abso1uteZero: Haha...But Come O, Which Reaction Were You Planning To See Cause Ayam Not Understanding. I wanted to see if he'd be super excited or just meh but he didn't even react. I didn't press further because we were in the midst of other friends. |
Romance › Re: Will You Still Marry Your Fiancee If An Accident Makes Her Disfigured Like This? by Izen: 5:15pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
schumastic: this two sentences are the strong part of the whole story, some ladies who believe all they can offer is sex, there are over a million girls out there that will snatch your man from you by offering him a better sex, good characters, personality and fulfill his dream, if you think that's all what you can contribute in your relationship then don't feel bad if he dumps you for the next lady.. You really didn't have to make your comment gender specific. It goes both ways or do you have something against women? |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 5:10pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Young03: so I read this story finish
babe my advise for u is to Rape the guy.
if he's gay u will know from that Ha! Rape is a no no for me. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 5:07pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Abso1uteZero: Op Bia, Does Watching Oitnb Make You Gay?...Lmao Gtfo No o. I watch it too. I just wanted to see his reaction. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 5:06pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
tosyne2much: Your writeup is too voluminous and will discourage people at a glance... That aside, I think you're demanding too much. Try to lessen your grasp on the worry that a guy cannot speak like Hon. Patrick. Oh sorry for the long text. I don't want someone like hon pat lol. I'm just looking for someone who can hold a normal conversation without throwing bombs here and there. I come from a family of educationists and I'm generally surrounded by this category of people. So please understand. Everyone would automatically expect me to do better in terms of grammar. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 5:00pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
firstking01: Why crying foul like a toothless puppy huh ??...are you new on here ??...this is nairaland and romance section of all sections...weather your post makes sense or not people will still bash you...always have this at the front of your mind....
Unto your issue, i 'll advice you give it more time...stylishly lure him into gay porn or something and see his reactions...i'm sure he has friends you can subtly and nicodemously find out if he's gay from his friends/colleagues...ok, have a nice day. You're right tho. I'll ignore them. I'm scared to ask around o. What if I start a rumor and it ends up being a false alarm? It'll damage him. What if he finds out and gets hurt in the process? I've hinted watching this series (oitnb) to him before but he didn't make any comment. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:39pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
freeman95: i know this guy u are crushing on must have some zero's in his account....
crush kor jam ni Please don't let your low self esteem about your negative bank balance rub off on me, it's not my fault you're broke. You clearly read where I listed the qualities I love about him and chose to ignore. The funny thing is that we're colleagues. Not everything is about money. I've spent on male friends before and it's really no biggie to me. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:36pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Okay, you know what guys..... You don't have to give me any advice. Let's all pretend like we don't have our emotional sides. I'm asking a genuine question here that affects me because I don't want to fall in love and get hurt in the process. Is it bad to ask? And no, I'm not jobless. My life is perfectly okay. I'm just falling in love and hoping it's not with the wrong guy. If you have ever experienced something like this and want to help, thank you. I'd really appreciate it. But as for those of you insulting me, I really don't know what you're trying to achieve. Is it to make your selves feel better about your maturity or what? It's not by force to comment. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:23pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Davash222: How old are you  Let's just say I'm not under pressure to get married but I'm done with school. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
dirtyslap: Who do you expect to read this your fabricated stupid epistle? Me or other nairalanders?....is something wrong with your head? Do you want to get hit by 20 trucks @ a time. Rubbish  It's not fabricated. And I reject your curses. |
Romance › I Have A Crush On Him But He Might Be Gay. by Izen(op): 4:11pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
I don't know why I always fall for guys beyond my reach. I've had two boyfriends all my life, both cute. First loved me to the tee but his English is not of this world. I had to break up with him because I was embarrassed to show him off. It wouldn't have been fair to him. Though in recent years, I realized that he has joined bad gang. At a point, he suggested that I be his side chick  I eventually broke all comms with him when out of the blue he asked me to send him airtime. I was like, "does this guy think I'm still stupidly in love with him?  Oshisco! The second was an asshole. Also had grammatical problems (am I cursed or something?) though not as bad as the first. He broke up with me out of pettiness and when he tried to crawl his way back, I put him in his place. I don't do all that ex s.hit. I've had serious crush on just three other guys. Two ended up being my best friends. One knew I had a crush on him but sister-zoned me. Even when I tried to distance myself from him especially when he started dating a mutual friend, he didn't let me. The other one is my longest close friend. I came to know from a mutual friend that the feeling was mutual but that was a long time ago. We both never talk about it. The last one went to school in another country. I have a feeling he knew because he unfriended me on Facebook. I've not had any other real crush until recently. I had a brief crush on this close male friend but we were both in relationships then. He used to hint that he wasn't interested in a relationship with any other girl then. He also had too many female friends for my comfort even though he tried to make me feel special. I had to borrow myself brain and kill the feelings. Not long after, his girlfriend broke up with him, mine also broke up with me (for unrelated reasons). He then started changing his narrative that he wants to stop fighting how he feels about me. Unfortunately, my feelings had died down by then so I just told him I couldn't date him because of religious differences. Little did I know that I would be eating my words in the near future. Now I've fallen for another guy, same religion as my friend. Cute to the bone. In fact, he's everything I've dreamt of in a man. Soft-spoken, silently naughty, smiles a lot, common interests, in a profession I'd love hubby to be in, etc but different religion. I thought that was the worst thing that could happen until I started following him on his social media pages. Mehn, was I in for a rude awakening? My people, his pictures are mostly of cute guys in very fishy poses. He is followed by a lot of gay people and their rapport is always something else. The last straw was when he posted a pic of himself almost groping himself half-naked. As an observant person, I just felt that pose wasn't for girls (he's not your typical fuc.kboy), he was trying to get the attention of a certain group of people that I'm no part of. Now what I want to know is if I should kill the feelings I have for him or am I overreacting? He hasn't made any advances other than being extremely friendly & chatty. Recently, he did something for me that I know he's never done for anyone before. In fact, I had to remind him and he just laughed it off. The way he looks at me sometimes  there are times I feel he laughs way too much at my jokes cos they're not always funny. Nairalanders, am I reading too much meaning into all these signs? I know gay guys tend to be free with girls. He is not feminine at all tho. You can see that I've had a limited number of crushes because when I fall I fall really hard. Some last 2-3 years. My shortest was the one before this current one and I believe this current one contributed to me killing those feelings. Should I be open to love if it comes or should I face front? |
Politics › Re: Eberechi Suzzette Wike: "I Belong To The Kitchen, I Also Belong To Court Room" by Izen: 1:07pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
TeamSimple: I keep saying it,theres nothing wrong with Buhari's statement about his wife either as a joke or real.
Shes first his wife before being a firstlady He's first her husband before he's the president so is it safe to say that she has every right to make the same statemebt about him? I hope that when/if she does, y'all won't eat your words back. |
Politics › Re: Eberechi Suzzette Wike: "I Belong To The Kitchen, I Also Belong To Court Room" by Izen: 1:04pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
duduade: Nothing spectacular about her statement...
Anywhere a woman chooses to belong to is her cup of tea Abi o. It is a woman that should decide where she wants to belong to and not some slowpoke telling her where to belong. If you like belong to the toilet sef, that's your choice. |
Politics › Re: Hadiza Buhari-Bello Replies Ezekwesili, BBOG: We Don’t Need To Steal Your Ideas by Izen: 10:37am On Oct 22, 2016 |
iconaus: oby is foolish . it is time she looks inward and pursue biafra agenda where she has hope She is not self centered like you |
Politics › Re: Lagos To Impose Death Sentence On Kidnappers by Izen: 8:20am On Oct 22, 2016 |
DuBLINGreenb: Tamuno ehh. This might be killing a fly with a sledge hammer. I think the judges discretion should be used if it's a professional criminal league or militants or boko haram then very well but if it is a small something with no intention to kill or harm the victim in any way then life imprisonment or any other short sentence will do Kidnapper alert |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh's Ex-Boyfriend, Michael Awujoola Shades Her Over Her New Lexus Car by Izen: 8:59pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
SalomonKane: Not really, but if the husband starts complaining or misbehaving as a result of him buying her everything, will you be there to tell her she should have been self sufficient instead of happily spending a man's money?  This lady here is not jobless. We all know her as an actress. She obviously took a break from the industry to focus on her new family and child. If she was up and about doing her own thing, you guys would have insulted her like you did to Toke. Can women ever win with you guys? |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh's Ex-Boyfriend, Michael Awujoola Shades Her Over Her New Lexus Car by Izen: 10:35am On Oct 21, 2016 |
SalomonKane: As much as I like Tonto Dikeh, she should puhlease stop this unnecessary show off, especially as the case is she's just another house wife enjoying her husband's money. Because it is a crime to enjoy your husband's money  is the husband complaining? |
Crime › Re: I Knelt And Begged Him, Yet He Slaughtered My Daughter In My Presence – Mother O by Izen: 5:48pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
DesChyko: Hahahahaha.. Very funny.. Stick to what? A common knowledge has zero intrigue and if all these badgering is over common knowledge, then, you're not being truthful to yourself.
I'm prejudicial because I explored a possibility and expressed my uncertainty in the same breath, but the mother isn't prejudicial by insisting her daughter was murdered by no fault of hers: Where are the facts that support your claim other than her worda up there?
It's now my turn to ask you: Do you know the meaning of 'hero' or 'heroine' of a plot? In this case, the mother is no where near this role, so perhaps, you can quit painting her omniscient. I commiserate with her on her loss. I didn't not sell off my logical nature as well.
I look at my comment up there, I see likes, and I'm convinced you're speaking for yourself. You do not need my advice. Even a dumb person would have deduced that already from the first mention.
Nothing woild bring her back. Not me wasting my 'non-valuable' time on this subject. Not you quoting me either. I can see that you need likes to make yourself feel better. |
Crime › Re: I Knelt And Begged Him, Yet He Slaughtered My Daughter In My Presence – Mother O by Izen: 9:35pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
DesChyko: You and your likes are trying so hard to see it that way. You have your cup filled and sealed, so how would any other thing that doesn't concur with your contents make any sense to you?
Every comment I've made was filled with uncertainty because I am not in the know over what transpired between the couple. I keep an open mind; no one is an embodiment of perfect knowledge.
So it astounds me to see people becoming violent over hasty conclusions. I just pictured a possibility that remained unexplored by the mother's statements and everyone decided to make that an issue, as if what I said is far fetched from reality.
Whatever happened resulted in her death. And the witnesses must learn lessons. That is my firm belief. As to what led to her death, I don't know. Ever heard of prejudice? In case you don't know, that's what you're doing. You keep making your comments based on assumptions. It's just not possible that a lunatic went on the loose. Ever heard of stalkers? Do they sound alright to you? I'm pretty sure, if it was the other way round you wouldn't come to these baseless conclusions. We have a fact here and that fact is that her daughter was killed. Let us stick to that. Anymore speculation is doing more harm to the poor woman than good. And no, the rest of us don't need your advice, it wouldn't bring the girl back now, would it? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Does Anyone Know This, Help Pls. by Izen: 9:10pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
44smart: you are invited for test/oral interview and job briefing @ P&C branch 3rd floor sijuwola house(wema Bank building) dugbe Ibadan,batch PC1.come with your CV and passport. Anyone with helping information should pls help me on its genunity.tnx. Please I got a text like this today. Is it legit? |
Crime › Re: I Knelt And Begged Him, Yet He Slaughtered My Daughter In My Presence – Mother O by Izen: 11:39pm On Aug 20, 2016 |
DesChyko: So says the first sentence of my comment. However, we must not let sentiments paint the lady innocent of any wrongdoing simply because she is dead.
I was simply seizing on this misfortune to address certain things ladies do that may throw a man over the edge. It's a two-way thing. Oga, why are you trying so hard to make it the ladies fault that she was killed? |