₦airaland Forum

lanrywatt:
I know it hurts but he has a point, there is love in correction.. ..u can learn from what he said, just look into urself and make amends where necessary.

Mafizo:
This is one of the reasons why the whites are far better than us

Not that Africans especially Nigerians don't have food at home but they derive joy in killing innocent animals

Every Week we here about killings of wild animals especially reptiles of which most are endangered species

daretodiffer:
OMG! Someone is crying blood, an hypocrite cryng blue murder Not surprising.

By the way, this is a she. You are allowed to cry from morning till night because of Islam. We shall continue to pray for your bitter soul.

Soboyoke!

azeecoboy:
it is only a sin when women involve in sport whereby everybody will start to admire both male and female...too much of exposure...

FreeSpirited:
To be honest, i was really hard pressed making my deduction. But you have to be critically blunt and logical to see all women crave for is to be loved and fvcked by a willing and loving dick. That's why they try and worry too hard about getting pounded by a loving and caring dick. This is evident from their craze for fashion (dressing to exaggerate their sexual appeal, make up to look like a sex-goddess ,cosmetic surgery to conceal or correct their natural defect, all in the name of getting fvcked really hard.)

Maxineng:
Tuface male children resemble like say him use photocopy machine produce them. On the other side Annie is a strong woman.

FreeSpirited:
I doubt if womenfolk have anything to offer this world other than being paranoid about their looks, posing nude , fretting over fashion and getting fvcked by menfolk.............

azeecoboy:
ISLAM is just too perfect..
but as a muslimah,she shouldnt have participated in the first place.

daretodiffer:
How hypocritical! Read and re-read again madam bat! My reply was to your backward opinion. Did your own religiona and beliefs ask you to insult walht is clearly not your business? If you like call my religion from morning till night it won't stop me from insulting you! You can't hide behind the same religion that you so much despise!

Good riddance to bad rubbish!

AfroKnight:
Why would it be an issue for you to show respect? Did we Nigerians not grow up respecting our older family members? It should not be difficult to show such respect to your husband who is not your mate.

From all you have written, it is obvious that you want a husband whom you can jokingly "yab" or play roughly with. But this man is not ready for such "games". Give him what he wants. Some people cannot stand little games like rubbing their heads or beating them on the shoulder or calling them goat or refusing to greet in the morning. To them, it is just too childish and disrespectful.

Such people don't start acting hard suddenly. You must have overlooked this during courtship. Better adjust. This is not relationship. This is marriage we are talking about.

Jimbadly:
If he was like this when both of you started dating and you still went ahead and married him, well then I'm afraid you'll have to put up with his attitude for life. That is why dating prior to marriage is vital to know whom you're settling down with. It's obvious both of you are incompatible. You can keep trying to change him though. It'll take a lot of hard work and effort.

I have a feeling his background is responsible for his attitude. Perhaps he comes from a family where a lot of emphasis is placed on maximum respect. He might be one of the guys who believe that giving a woman too much latitude breeds contempt and lack of respect in the long run. In that case it'll be extremely difficult to change his ingrained mindset.

The way I see it, you have absolutely no reason to be unhappy in the marriage. As long as he's faithful and fulfils his responsibilities as a husband, then there's absolutely no reason for you to be depressed.

daretodiffer:
Backward mentality!. I thought people have right to choose what to wear and what not to wear. Are you the one wearing the clothes? Do you fvcking know what it is like to wear the ‘regalia'? You can't seem to mind your business. Soboyoke!

akankemi1:
just called customer service airtel. its fake

Adepts:
I think it is expected of those who have no knwldge about any subject matter under discusion sud keep quiet and allow those who av knowlge to have their say.....it is now common for non muslim to always want to make themselves relevant in matter dat doesnt concern them...am sorry to say that....in ISLAM IT IS EXOECTED OF OUR WOMEN TO COVER ALL PART OF HEIR BODY WITHOUT EVEN SHOWING ANY PART OF THEIR PHYSIQUE

sesaan:
well it depends,, a working class woman won't be available to do the cooking all the times... I don't think there is any nigerian woman who can't cook ... even me we're na man self sabi cook at least the one I can eat

sesaan:
I wonder how much he was having when he married his wife... I love ur man marry him you will grow rich together... a broke guy today might be a millionaire tomorrow

GoldenJAT:
I'm also a pastor in my own right!! what happened 2 that verse in d Bible that said*there is always a time for everything *how about the days of little beginning? if u can't stand by me in d time of little... u can't also chop in d time of plentiful. *peace*

iyke926:
Tired of the word religion.
Tired of hearing all those self made church rules.
I pity ladies that gon take this serious.
The fact a nigga is jobless today, doesn't mean he gon be forever.


What happens when he losses his job after marriage? Should she dump his asss and hunt for another man with a job??

I'm sure you didn't complain about a woman who must cook o. Nigeria men always wanting to eat their cake and have it.


Quote of the day: Religion set rules, God sets free.

niggi4life:
May God continue to bless you sir.
I preach the same thing for guys of nowadays, its mostly common with illiterate yorubas and hausas, you see a small boy gets a girl pregnant and the next thing, struggled marriage, they now start struggling to survive and bring innocent children into the world to suffer with them, turning them into hawkers, labourers and all that.
It's so demeaning, i advice a guy should at least get something steady coming in and at least be comfortable a bit before bringing a wife and children into the table.

For me it makes sense that way.... NOT forgetting the wife must also be doing something too and not just a mere parasite

marveangel:
You have practically erased everything meaningful a girlfriend should do for her guy....what then your highness should be the duties of a babe to her guy

JESUSBOIY:
Man up and put her in her place !

Vex for her, Tell her you are not buying her a new phone anytime soon, .since she doesn't value common material things.


Thats how i treat my girl. If i tell her NO, its a NO ...She go cry, beg, touch ,call me stingy and broke, romance and do all the girlie things she want do. I no go still gree....



She has started calling me hitler sef

murphyibiam15:
i have read several news on this nairaland about some people praising Nigeria
army for shelling militant targets in ogun/lagos.But truth be told, some
militants will be killed but a huge number of indigenes will go in for it.
while i may be neutral on issues bw FG and militants bc of obvious dirty
politics that runs in Nigeria..i want to also caution us on the things we should
actually rejoice for.Fact is that since humans were given different languages,
religion and culture it will be very difficult for us to unite...
for instance there is virtually no presence of boko haram rhetorics bc a
northerner is there, and if i may ask where is Shekau?
same goes for militants who were hitherto not there during gej era ...
rather than fan the embers of tribalism lets unite and make Nigeria great just
like the very much diverse America.
shalom!

princey83:
why did toyin and the aramide lady not make proper investigation before spearheading the fund raising. Now thatvthey saw thevamount of money that came in, greed took control of their lives. i even read about another man claiming back in 2013 that he was used for a similar fraud by aramide. If not for linda that exposed the whole ish. some illegal gotten money would have been changing hands.

idupaul:
So because she spearheaded the campaign does that mean they should handover the disbursement of the funds to her ..the truth is that the Toyin woman didn't know the fund raising would even be successful when she lent her voice to it but when she saw how successful it was the typical Greedy Nigerian spirit entered her and she decided she would love to be in control of the over 150 million naira raised so she can at least loot some ..Toyin has let her greed make the last days of Mayoral end in misery

S1mOne:
Can we stop with this tribal sentiment already. This can happen to anybody. The NGO lady concluded this was a scam because the family requested for privacy, the patient does not have a visa, the family told the matron they are taking her abroad and a family member gave a conflicting figure of the amount raised.
They will request for privacy because too many people wanted to help which is not free. I wonder how many kind Nigerians have given them addresses or phone numbers of their Pastors or Imams. My point is they cannot accept offer of help from everybody. I probably missed when the family released a statement that 30 million was raised instead of 85 million. If a member of the family came forward with the figure, was the person privy to the total amount in the account, was he the family's spokesperson. The patient cannot apply for a visa until they pay the hospital and they will then be sent an invitation letter. They told the Matron they are taking her abroad because that was the plan. There is no point having further tests (which is not free and can take days or months) if there is already an alternative arrangement.
People have done their part contributing the little they have to help this sick Nigerian. In my opinion the family should be left alone to spend the money for her recovery as they deem fit, this is no time asking the confused family for accountability. If you have ever been in this position you will understand how overwhelming it can be with hundreds of people offering to help at a time when you are already depressed and confused.
The NGO lady should understand though she is a part of this, she is clearly not the only one asking questions and trying to give advice to this family. I wonder if a judge can convict this family of fraud based on these evidence. This is clearly a sad case for all the parties involved.

omenka:
If you don't wanna be owing her, then get her account number and make your payment into it whenever she sends you airtime.

Abi??

Victorakats:
But I have a question really, was it this lady that chased Toke's husband?
I understand that some ladies can be wicked but I can tell you that sometimes some ladies are ignorant of the identity of men in their lives.
Some foolish men drop their rings and tell all manner of lies to win a naive lady into his bed. It won't be fair really to always heap curses on a lady who perhaps had no idea that her partner was married until she became pregnant.
Well, I ain't defending anybody but I know that a man who is cheating on his wife has so much blame just as the lady he's cheating with has.
My opinion though!

Victorakats:
But I have a question really, was it this lady that chased Toke's husband?
I understand that some ladies can be wicked but I can tell you that sometimes some ladies are ignorant of the identity of men in their lives.
Some foolish men drop their rings and tell all manner of lies to win a naive lady into his bed. It won't be fair really to always heap curses on a lady who perhaps had no idea that her partner was married until she became pregnant.
Well, I ain't defending anybody but I know that a man who is cheating on his wife has so much blame just as the lady he's cheating with has.
My opinion though!

Afrokan:
Its a common misconception.... Both are for the same reason because an unmutilated man as a higher sexual hurge and experience than the mutilated.

myners007:
I am in full support of FGM because i believe that it is the right remedy to curb the excessive level of promiscuity among our girls/women these days. Support FGM if u want a saner black society

Afrokan:
Why is it not okay to mutilate female children but its okay to mutilate male children? Let me guess, our ridiculous religions says its okay to mutilate male children.
Why the double standard?