₦airaland Forum

Kyase:
De Gea need bench for half season

What would you then say about Rashford today? He was almost invisible. De gea isn't to be faulted for both goals. Man.U were completely bossed in the first half. Y'all could've been 4goals down sef. Overall, it was a poor team showing. Up Gunners!

ibkayee:
I swear I’m lowkey a ‘Marlian’, I find him so endearing for some reason lol

I hear... Na so una dey do. If na ordinary guy now e no for dey "endear" you. You for talk say na riff raff. Shior!

Soulsymbol99:
This is the type of person datz supposed 2 rule this country .

"Lead" my brother "lead"... We're past the Era of monarchy. And honestly speaking, he may not be fit to be perseident. That's one of the strangest things about life.

Thegeneralqueen:
Which ball him dey ball a whole President for that matter with this kind of house It's so classless and it looks too cheap for a President to living in this kind of house if your father is a President and you approach me to be your girlfriend with this kind of house I'll just slap you don't you have class ?

This is one of the problems of this country. That people who are really "public servants" are seen as celebrities and expected to posses the same financial power as business tycoons.

We complain of massive looting happening in our political spheres, but would smirk objectionably at anyone who has the semblance of modesty.

Have you Googled to see the houses of politicians in developed countries? I'm sure you wouldn't find many with the sort of "befitting" houses you're talking about. Over there celebrities and rich businessmen are the ones with the best houses.

I don't see anything wrong with that house bros. Some things aren't worth sacrificing for the sake of maintaining status, be wise!

itsme01:
your fears about corruption are legitimate, however the loans are going to be escrowed by chinese till the projects are delivered so no free money for any politician

I wouldn't claim to be knowledgeable in the area of carrying out projects but, if that's the most sensible way it could be done, I see no problem with this.

itsme01:
power and steel is a good start for youth majority population like ours

Nobody is questioning how good it would be to have such facilities. But I think people are oblivious of how detrimental our corrupt bureaucracy is to anything that should promote development, even we the citizens are complicit. Even if these amenities were to fall from the sky, who's going to be in charge of regulating things? We all know in the end whatever stride we're able to make would only be scratching the surface. Because we'd soon very well find our efforts severely stifled by bad policies.

We need to fight corruption, but not in the bigoted and partisan way its being carried out now. Which is in the aimless chasing of shadows, and scapegoating. We can't have the life we want with the way things are being run. Even if you had an endless source of water, you'd never be able to fully tap from it if you only have a sieve in hand. Corruption undermines everything!!

itsme01:
if given 24 / 7 electricity would you remain this less productive.. yes or no

Saying that 24hr power supply is all we need to be super developed is a gross oversimplification of our problems. Believe me, we'll need much more than that

itsme01:




nonsense talk oga pay back the 16 billion dollars you stole..

Is it not stupidity that makes Africans join IMF, World Bank, Paris club and demonstrate our commitment yet we are afraid to take single digit loans to fund critical infrastructures like US does?

If FG builts a mega power plant that can generate 3000 mega watt of power in each region through loan and borrowing and get steel complex like Ajaokuta working Nigeria would become super developed in less than 5 years and money we generate from power would pay back the loans and give us extra income

Small Rwanda and Ghana are leaving Big for nothing Nigeria behind through infrastructural Loans plans with National debt higher than Nigeria's yet we speak grammer everyday without taking any action

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Super developed in 5yrs!? What are you smoking?

Glad his marriage is going strong. I'm a big fan of his footballing ability, not some much his theatrics on the pitch. Gets on my goddamn nerves

Martinez39:
Hehe. You need to love her more and accept her sh!t. Worship her and apologise even when you are wrong. If she gets angry, insults you, and freaks out on you in public, don't set her straight or break the relationship, don't set standards in your relationship instead, you endure and apologise. Isn't that the price to pay for love? You still don't know what to do? Well, apologise even when you are wrong and accept her unnecessary anger and insults after all, you love her. Don't you? Endure, tolerate, and always be at her beck and call and always have the mindset that no matter what, her nastiness is your fault and there is something fundamentally wrong with you that you must change and be the man she wants. Oshisco.

... Sad things is, that's exactly what some guys would do

drips8:
Like the virgin tag was necessary

Bros I just tire... Na virginity ppl dey use dey boast now, e don turn title. Trust human beings to mess up a good thing

slimfit1:
Hausa people only get house arrest with his family coming to see him all the time. The rest of us get full detention and you say one Nigeria.

Keep on complaining about double standards and voting for incompetent leaders. You go complain tire

dermmy:
I said amen to this in the year 2000 well let me say Amen again.

Abi na

Johnpaul01:
Do you think 45m can by one top player? Arsenal needs top players in 6-7 positions in their starting line up, and it will take 4 years to excess failure to achieve that. Pep bought good players when he came to man city, they flopped, and the next summer he discarded them and bought new ones, arsenal cannot afford that

True, but there are definitely more sustainable models we could follow... Like Ajax's, and Atl. Madrid's. Our scouts would definitely need to be on their A-game in order to snatch promising talents. If I'm not mistaken, arsenal is richer than the two clubs I mentioned. We can definitely keep our best players when we're in the position to challenge for titles. Honestly, I don't want us to follow Man. City's model because it's not sustainable.

Johnpaul01:
Lol, pep did all that with over 400m, arsenal transfer budget is not up to 50m, arteta already has to pay about 50m to lille for pepe that he might not need, I'm sorry for him

There's nothing that can't be worked around, it's gonna take some time though. The key would be adding top quality in vital areas to compliment a "well organized" team(hopefully), and arsenal can definitely afford that.

Those Man city boyz can press man.And everytime they lost the ball they didn't rest until they got it back. De bruyne is phenomenal. If Arteta can do this for us, he'll definitely gonna end up being the best coach we've ever had.

Ariza:
With the recent outrageous increase in the numbers of "Help/Rant" threads opened by guys on this section, I am moved to give my Nigerian sisters a standing ovation, a thunderous applaud and a heartfelt doff. They do wonders .


However, I wonder on what type of Men society breed these days.Cry babies? Hypocrites? or confused lots? I wonder!

Say what you will about the OP being weak and whiny. But it also takes a man with a strong character to put aside his ego and seek advice. Although society suggests that we bottle up our emotions and "act like men". We all know that such attitude could even be fatal under certain circumstances.

I find it a bit of a bad development, that less and less of our females are sharing their burdens, considering how much more they're in need of emotional support. It could be for a host of reasons. I do know for a fact that our girls could be quite proud, and egoistic enough not to admit their mistakes nor take responsibility for their actions. Somehow it's always the man's fault. While many fear being stigmatized, of which there's some reasonable proof. Nonetheless, it's not encouraging

I cringe at the ignorance of people who completely deride others for bringing their problems "online", as if the online community were only filled with hapless morons. But amongst the fodder lie absolute gems from brilliant minds,in spite of the undeniable fall in standard of this forum.

If he ends up making the right decision at the expense of satiating his ego, then it's still a win. So keep quiet and let men speak.

When someone spells it as "selfy" and still goes ahead to write picture in front, then you bloody well know that person isn't in the loop. In this man's case, he's got no hope

donbachi:
Dis is a welcomed development...its high time pastors start explaining what they do with their tithes.

Pls don't leave our politicians out

chidiebereuzoma:
Because I am sure that heaven and hell are as real as the air I'm breathing right now!

My point exactly! Why should an account of something so spiritual be anymore believable than an account centered around our "immediate reality?" Your believing doesn't change anything, fact remains his story would be much easier to verify than what you believe. I'm just trying to get a point across

Well, you're the only one narrating now, so no one really knows the other side of things. But from what you've narrated, your SO has got SERIOUS ISSUES!!!... *you're not sure if you'll ever find someone who'd love you like him!?* like really!?
You live in the most populous black nation in the world, surely good men are not in short supply. And your best bet at love is in the hands of an insecure asshole? Pls don't insult the responsible men we have abeg. It's clear you're not very wise, you rationalized your way to this point, you clearly have no problem with needless suffering. Go ahead and stay with him, I wish you all the best.

chidiebereuzoma:
Lies!! Just to garner likes

But you would readily someone visited heaven and hell and came back. Somehow that's more "real" than what the guy just narrated? Dunno what to say

simplelad:
A very good development. All the slay queens busy painting faces and fixing nails, see your mate as commissioner. Keep on enticing men around. Well done to una

You ppl should quit it with this slay queen bashing jor.I've found that even the truest of statements become rather stale if uttered repeatedly. Its like they start getting tainted with hypocrisy. Slay queens are a part of what makes the world interesting let's be honest. Variety is the spice of life. I think we as human overestimate our knowledge of good and evil.

To be honest I can't even begin to imagine just how dull this world would've been if it were filled with the "good people" many of y'all have cooked up in your heads. Anyways, hope she performs. Goodluck to her

Wickedtruths:
Implications of whose ambitions?

Tinubu ruled Lagos, today you Igbos are begging to come to Lagos. If they chase you, na die be dat.

Stay in your region and elect sensible leaders. No.
Na to dey do oversabi on the leaders of other regions Una sabi. Meanwhile, you have people like Ugwuanyi and Ikpeazu punishing you in the SE.

If you had a Tinubu in the SE, you guys won't be politically worthless today.

I'm not igbo... But still, I hardly think your region is any better than the one you so much despise. I wonder when we'd realise this.But you have a point, that is that people should instead focus on electing good leaders.

vertueptime:
Na bleaching, powder and wig, wash d face and remove the wig and padded assets then i dnt know wat wil be left aside

You dey mind that one wey no know wetin him dey talk?

It's bad happenings like these that makes me wanna learn mixed martial arts, and if possible, the use of weaponry. I just don't feel safe anymore. I just wanna be able to f*ck an aggressor up whenever need be

Nothing new to see here ... You stupid Nigerians should keep on voting for PDP or APC. Switching between a rock and a hard place, we just never learn.

martowskin1:
U keep shouting PDP and APC, see how this old men are just playing u guys.

I dey tell you bros... I just tire for Nigerians... Politicians go dey play dem like ping pong dem go still dey happy. Na only APC and PDP dem sabi

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Butterscotch92:
I know I'm going to receive a lot of bashing here but I don't mind as I'm looking for solution. I've been following other related threads on the topic and it seems most men don't forgive women that cheated on them.

I cheated on my man. This happened over a year ago when the relationship was going through a rough patch. Actually I didn't set out to cheat and never planned it.

In fact the person it happened with was a person I was confiding in when I was trying to get solutions to my relationship issues.

This person was my married colleague that I joined to work in his car. I thought I could get mature advice by telling him. I was weak and emotionally down and on one of such days of crying to him it happened in his car.

It happened like 3 more times because I go to work with him and come back with him. But I was overcome with guilt (because he was married and for cheating) that I had to stop. But my mistake was that I didn't cut him off completely.

I remained cordial friends with him since he is a colleague and I stopped joining his car. He also moved to another branch. He called occasionally to try his luck but I never gave in. Somehow my man became suspicious by his calls and one thing led to the other and I had to confess.

My man said he has forgiven but can't get back together again. I have been following other threads with similar topics and I saw that men find it very hard to forgive a woman that once cheated.

In this case I'm truly sorry, I have learnt my lessons and I can never make that kind of mistake again. I don't love the man in question, I never wanted anything from him apart from advice from the onset, I stopped on my own, I only remained friends because he was my colleague. I love my man and will do anything to keep him and win his trust back. I'm not a cheat by nature.

I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt and regret. I can't talk to anyone in my circle for fear of condemnation because I'm wrong in every area.

Please is there any hope for me? How do I go about winning him back? How do I convince him that I truly regret my actions? How do I help him heal?

Honesty speaking, I stopped reading after the "It happened like 3 more times".... Una for kukuma marry na. mtcheew!

Hismasterpiece:
Good job, but will they maintain it?

That's the big question bros, that's just it