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kendrick9:
He has a point..
Why the backlash?
Though the Clifford oji example was a bit extreme.
Never turn your back on your first family,
Just because you got married to a woman who can decide one day to dump your azz..

People just say stupid dumb shxt to appeal to sentiment. As if life were that straight forward.

As if people weren't born into good for nothing families who abused and talked them down all their lives.

People whose only beacon of hope was an understanding partner.

Always stand by TRUTH that's the ultimate. TRUTH knows no person, no family.

You've got no problem with leaving your family for "The work" of God whom you've never seen in your life, but to do that for a human who may be in the right is suddenly a bad thing.

Humans should always learn to think independently abeg. If you can't do this, then you're truly unfortunate. Uti is just displaying stupidity.

Simi should just shut the hell up abeg. She's becoming annoying. Tems is about to wear a thong and show some ass that no one asked for, and somehow, someone else is responsible for sexualizing her other than herself I don't know why women don't like taking responsibility for their actions, somehow it's always a man's fault.

chatinent:
That's because you toast everything in skirt you see with no intention of marriage.

Build your life, the perfect match will come by. You don't need to validate your wooing skills by deceiving random girls.

You are welcome.
Have a nice century.

Building your life would not land you your dream woman. They are many people who did this and ended up alone in their comfort. Worse of you attract a leech. Your advice though well intentioned, is a bit too presumptuous. Like everything, one needs balance. Balancing social life with one's personal development is the way to go. Sometimes what we think we deserve would never come until we go get it.

CaveAdullam:
Even if you break up with her, she still won the game because she has benefited greatly from the parasitic relationship you willingly and consciously accepted to be the robust host.
I'm not in great doubt, I'm very sure she has plan B, C... on the row that she can swing to when you eventually decide to put a halt to the relationship.

It is difficult for you to break up because you've fallen victim to the sunk cost fallacy: " I have spent and done so much in this relationship, if I should exit now it will not be too beneficial. Let me wait a little longer maybe things will change for the better, after all patience is needed in any relationship". This fallacy you proved greatly by seeking a pastor/counsellor.

Another rope still anchoring you to such catastrophic relationship is the "illusion of sex". Despite your great contributions she still dangles the carrot before your eyes, satisfying you with empty romance. Here, she truly discovered your vulnerabilities and exploited it to the fullest. (Except she's a virgin and of which you've physically determined to be true). If not, your simping knows no limit. Even if she's a virgin, that doesn't guarantee your typical foolishness in the relationship. Who knows if she's not giving it out freely to one alpha player.

My friend, elevate and look pass the sunk cost fallacy and put a away the bait of sex aside. Even if the sex is later granted it still won't worth the wait or the expenses you've incurred. Sex at this time will be a useful method to keep you in her tenterhooks. So, braze up and get out of that relationship. Let her exit your house and take all your belongings to your present location.

In any relationship, the one with power is the one with little investments. Let a woman show genuine desire for you and choose you and she will greatly invest in such relationship.

Let go off that leech!

Thanks.

"In any relationship, the one with power is the one with little investments"... Dude that shxt went straight to the brain.

fuckingAyaya:
Title pretender's

That answer really got me

deji17:
All PDP foot soldiers. They all supported PDP candidates in 2015 and 2019.

Coincidence? No.
PDP is evil.

You're a very big buffoon if you think this APC led government are performing. You people just spout out rubbish facts from your asses just to support your delusion. Look at what you're even posting sef. Ode

Bola146:
It's well with those people living in the north, I can't pray for my enemy to be posted there

And you think say if dem post your enemy him go carry him go? Even enemy get sense o

Uprightness100:
This is a Pictorial evidence of what Happens to us as humans when we go out and stay away from The LORD our Shepherd.

We become Shapless, Tasteless and Worthless.
Life outside the Shepherd of our Soul completely Changes our Identity.

The Good News is that as long as there is Life we can be Reconciled back to our Shepherd and our lives can be made Whole.

JESUS is the True Shepherd.

Guy, you get mental issues

9jaRealist:
Bodybuilding does equate to muscular...
And beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Meanwhile, try knocking on her door...
And the cops will let you no that it’s not Anyhowness Nigeria!
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True... But it's still in those same countries that serial killers exist and people are abducted and kept for years on end before they're discovered being hidden in plain sight. A lot safer? Sure, but it ain't all that

I can barely see the "bodybuilder" talkless of "pretty"... Her sperm, her problem. She's only doing it for clout. Thanks for letting all sex starved perverts know. They'll be knocking on your door pretty soon

Good thing they're straight now. But let's be honest, we all know who the winner is. Vector got Sonned

BigSarah:
This movie is gonna suck.

It's gonna suck Donkey Dick

I'm just happy Brymo got recognized

merits:
250k with this rag she put on.that's why I will forever respect Mrs okonjo iweala and some christian and muslim that take decent dressing as a priority.most of this females yeyebrities have nothing to offer for good for this generation to emulate.

All well and good. But the world would be worse off if it were constrained by religion alone. Think deeply about what decency really means, then you'd find out it mostly has to do with it's veering off from the "indecent." And when you consider the differences in views of various religions about what's decent then you'd be left with your own personal preferences. Stop being sanctimonious, if you don't like something leave it be, and do your thing.

rocknation62:
I listen to good music,I don’t beef,I’m a BIG fan of Davido but Burna Deserves it. The award Davido Won of recent (GOLD RECORD)Pass Headies no African Artist Don win am before not even FELA.

Don't ever mention FELA together with any present Nigerian contemporary artiste. It's even a much bigger crime to make comparisons

. Are you kidding me? Are you comparing an artiste who dishes out forgettable songs to FELA? Who the Bleep cares about gold record?

How many foreign artistes have come to Nigeria just to meet with davido? Paul McCartney of "The Beatles" came to see FELA. Do you know who The Beatles were?

I've got nothing but love for Davido but he aint at that level. The bar is really low now as far as gaining recognition is concerned. Most of today's artiste are average

WoundedLamb:
Don't hide your insecurities behind sarcasm. Like I said, if the term is too gay for your masculinity, don't use it. It's as simple as that.

Dude you're trying so hard to get under my skin you're starting to sound redundant. I wouldn't reply you again

"Sky Queens" Sounds like a club were girls bring their dolls to have tea time. Na better flogging go reset their brain

WoundedLamb:
Is your masculinity that fragile? Dude, call your bestie whatever you want and let others call theirs as they wish. Don't project your own insecurity on other people.

Thanks very much "Masculinity Detector." If only you were smart enough to detect a hint of sarcasm.

Which one is male bestie/male best friend Sounds gay. Nigga, that's his right-hand man

Just one look at that pic with Churchill and i can almost tell the type of person she is. Just look at those eyes, she's got that feisty resentful look to a T

Chiminemine:
How I wish it would just fall into san*o olu's house and shock the living day light out of him. Pass about one million mega volts of undiluted electricity into his head. Nonsense

LMAO! people dey vex o

Who cares dude? Who cares

jesusjnr2020:
There's something definitely going on beyond eye level because all these cannot just be mere coincidence.

That said, may God strengthen the family at this sad moment in their lives. Amen.

Prove it, and stop postulating.

mansakhalifa:
You guys always fail to understand something which I have personally noticed over the years. Whenever Chelsea have a new manager, the players tend to play and work their socks off.

As soon as they get used to the manager or he leads them to land a major trophy or two, the team begins to slack and you begin to hear all sort of things emanating from the locker room.

I still don't know why or how you guys have failed to notice this phenomenon. So, the man you quoted was absolutely on point; this is just a honeymoon for CFC.

The real days are coming ahead and Tuchel might just find himself at the other end of things by the start of the next season. Let's just hope that he wins something before his time comes.

Chelsea fans have probably the most fickle memories amongst fans....Don't mind them jare

Liverpool fans can now shut the hell up now until the end of the season

The pic of the dog being rescued melted my heart

ad3ajayi:
some can even have more than 10 years experience & not give a good advice

That's just the intriguing thing about this life. Sometimes the best advice is in the mouth of babes

He he... That first guy wan resemble person wey dey dance Konto

humilitypays:
Hmmm, what is with Yoruba land and "Igbo" this, "Igbo" that, yet they hate Igbos so much with passion but all indications point to the fact that they are descendants of the Igbos according to Ooni

Ooni of Onitsha abi?... Senseless being

tyup:
Actually the Problem is we Africans, the real wedding is the traditional wedding where we have both parents bless the young couple after that, they are officially n culturally recognized as Husband n wife. any other thing aside that is a waste of time and resources

Anyways from this side of the North, zero pity to give

The most sensible quote thus far

ProtectMyMoney:
One cold Ogidiga for you.

That is one Pastor after God's heart. Everything in God's kingdom is according to time.

The reason Nigeria is not moving forward is because of time.

We are quick to make reference to US, UK, etc...but we forget they value time because everything in their economy is run based on time....eg. The train leaves at 1pm, you arrive 1min after, you miss the train.

Pastor gave appointment time for marriage, she did not respect the Pastor's time.. African time does not work for everybody.

Both of you are stupid