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CharisEleos:
Lol.. this one is serious o.


Yes it the woman. She should understand her body and better still do a family planning to avoid such. No be only to dey follow man up and down for night like chicken under heat.



Wow! Imagine...

Some people just need to be flogged.

Funny enough, the robbers flogged him 11 times before giving him the money! Cash o!

WesternOligarch:
There's absolutely every reason to get married..

Finding a good submissive woman wouldn't be an issue if you're a good responsible man.

You're absolutely right!

CharisEleos:
You're talking of family of four. I've seen family of 9 in one room. 7 children with husband and wife. Though the man later took the room beside them when the tenant there left.

Some women are the cause of this. You know the condition you live in and you'll still be producing children anyhow..

An uncle to a friend had 11 children plus himself and wife in one room in Lagos... guess what? One night robbers came to the compound, and when they saw his crowded room, the head of robbers was shocked! He asked if the man came to Lagos only to breed!
Well long story short, they gave my friend's uncle #150,000 and gave him one week to quit Lagos and return to his village or else they will return and kill him...
He packed back to benue state and flourished before passing away about 8 years ago...
The man had a saying: NOT ALL THIEVES ARE BAD!

yungchop:
Amen bro. Dad's gone too.

Oh dear!! Oh dear....I'm so sorry!! May their souls rest in peace!
Well...you have your family to show love too... your children to see your parents in you...and your spouse to see the man who showed your mother love in you!
The Lord is your strength

yungchop:
hmmmm..

there's alot to be said but I can't even start to type. I am my mother's only son and she had me after 14 years of marriage.
she went through a lot to make sure I survived, she brought me up to know how complicated and wicked life is before she finally lost the battle to spiritual attacks. I can't even say things she went through, she always told me to pray to God that I don't lose her or else I'll suffer greatly. She was correct, I lost her and I'm still suffering till date but I know my enemies now actually and ways are beggining to open up for me.
I held her hand before she was buried, it was cold. looking at her once beautiful face stressed in death, having that thought in mind like "will I ever see you again? "

Dad on the other hand was a supportive pillar too, he always made sure I never lacked anything despite being down with stroke for almost 10 years.

Tinuke, Adio, E suun re o!

Painful.... prayers must be constantly said. Don't give up... whatever your Mom wanted for you will come to pass...and you will use it to care for your Dad! Stay focused.

GOFRONT:
And someone is always around itching to wear the snake around his shoulder....

Maybe there's an Olympic sport going on where snakes are worn as garlands!

Ugaboy:
swears my man....since I commented...I just left to check other topics.

I just happiness.... Nigeria problem is too much to start adding people's experience to thought.

Honestly,
But since it's an experience that happened to our parents, we who are now parents pray never to be in a position that would rock our emotions in front of our children!

Left Minna heading to Accra via lagos-Benin-Togo....in the bus I was speaking with a friend and mentioned I was going out of Nigeria and a sylph like lady turned to make eye contact with me... when we stopped for fuel she initiated conversation. Said she was going to Port Novo with her 8 year old daughter...so we made small talk once a while...got to Lagos late and couldn't continue to Benin as planned.
So, cos of traffic along mile 2, I just casually mentioned we could put up In an hotel for the night. It was already 9pm.
She caught her breathe...I smiled and said you'll be safe... I'm doing it cos I've a daughter same age with yours. And she relaxed.
I paid for the room, gave her privacy to shower and later we slept on the same bed.
I woke about 4am to see her two legs across mine!
Just woke her up and she snuggled closer to me ... smile on her face.
I just told her to get prepared we're already losing time and after we freshened up we continued the journey.
At the border she asked for my number and said she's surprised I didn't take advantage of her vulnerability.... it's not my style...
So we parted...we continued to contact each other for a few years....

Ugaboy:
I for talk about mind...but the emotional piercing is too much, this, let me just read comment.

Do you know? I'm even scared to open and read people's experiences on this thread now....I don't want to be moved....

Omihanifa:
The snake is a bandit

This your comment, I don't know if to smile, laugh, giggle or guffaw!!
Really funny!

Just when the guy needs to concentrate and build on what he's achieved over the last few months!
Son Min of Spurs said his Dad adviced him to stay away from girls for now so his career could grow.... sometimes we just don't stay long on top because we're easily carried away by fame....and women!

Be of good cheer, Mary, your health will be fully restored by the Lord! Amen...

Muyiwaipere:
If you see the way those Mazda drivers they perform fast and furious for that road .....even paul walkers dry bow

Those buses are called "hired killer"....

Hammyaladin:
The stories above are touching... Indeed parents go through alot to see their children make it in life!!!

Three Gbosas to all parents who participated in the life of their kids!!!

May heaven and Earth favour the efforts of responsible parents!!

Amen!

Modupeoluwa123:
Hmmmmm
I remember back then in Jss1 when my dad’s brother came to brainwash him to build houses in their village.
It all started like this: My dad singlehandedly came to Lagos on his own at 15, he toiled and suffered before he eventually became a multi millionaire. He was able to build houses and owned a lot of landed properties and trained us in the best schools.
His blood brothers were envious of him and they always lamented on how he was wasting his money training girls in school. Whenever they come to Lagos, they do return to the village with bundles of money. Well, that wasn’t enough for them though. In fact, my dad helped them by bringing some of their children to Lagos to work.
One day, a particular brother of his came to Lagos and told my dad he needed to build houses in the village because of his mother. My dad loved his mother so greatly. I remember my mum kicking against the idea but he was determined, his brother took him to the village and after seven days, they called us that he was sick and couldn’t eat.
Eventually they brought him back to Lagos but he was like a walking corpse. All the test we ran showed nothing, he would pee on his body and whenever he ate, the food just sinks in and you definitely hear the noise.
To cut the story short, he died three months after suffering so hard. I couldn’t bear the sight of him. He suffered to death for no reason.
All he labored for, they didn’t allow him enjoy it in his old age.
I was 12 but I knew I wasn’t going to see him again the moment he was buried.
And boom! These family people came to share properties.
The only saving grace was that my dad had a lawyer.

Speechless!! Whaaaaaaattttt Somebody help me with words to say please!!!!

primeache:
Seeing her lying helpless and lifeless brought tears to my soul.
My greatest counselor, her encouragement made me who I am.
Continue to rest on mum, but it pains me that all the roads we trekked together, I have rode my cars over them as you told me.

Be comforted Sir, she's in a better place...

Kirchoffs:
I didn't have any parent because my grandma played the role of a father and mother ,I remember when we were very young, I think I was about 6 years old my dad had abandoned us already, things were so bad for us to the extent that we were using rain water to drink garri once a day.

I remember my grandma and big sis going out to hawk banana (ogede paranta), those were very dark times and even despite my young age I can still remember the scenario vividly.
My only regret is that my grandma isn't alive to eat the fruits of her labour.... I really miss and appreciate her...God bless her in heaven for me.

I hope to build a house in her memory to mark her burial anniversary.

Wow!! If at 6 years old the memory can be imprinted on your mind...then words can't explain the situation!
May Jehovah help your project to immortalize your precious Grandma! May her soul rest in peace! Amen

Chaiiiii.... opening this thread self has made me emotional! The contributions so far has dealt blows to my heart!

Kroos205:
seeing my mom taking lapo loan and others sadden me.
my family is just complicated, my dad is rich but he does'nt take care of home. My mom was once rich i remember vividly even tho i was young then. she own a very popular amala restaurant then but the death of my elder sister and younger bro crashed it all.
the memory of my mom using most of her sales money to deliver my baby bro through operation nd yet he still died a year later weakens me.
no matter what, i will strive hard to take of mom since dad no send us.
gat many stories but pain won't let me write

Oh pain! It's not easy... BUT....!!!
Take consolation in God, receive strength, stay focused, push ahead....the Lord will crown your efforts!

bestabigaelever:
You are all lucky or let me say blessed

Oh yes... but let me say, you're not "unblessed" either! Whatever is your case may be a stepping stone to your future perfection when you're a family person! Nothing happens without a reason...

Foodqueen:
Seeing all this struggle to make sure we never lack

Op, no let me talk, I feel too emotional talking about my mum.

I pray, that I am able to be as a mother she was to my kids.

Continue to rest on mommy.

Initially I didn't want you to say anything...so emotions won't run over.... but I think we're here to encourage each other...so, if you share, we can learn, we can also share your emotions and support you in our spirits!
Keep her characteristics with you as you look forward to motherhood too!
And....may mummy's soul rest in perfect peace!

ClassicPesGamer:
he surely is a good man...

may his soul rest in peace

Amen my brother.... thank you so much

stubbornman:
When I was in Secondary school I was quite brilliant (even till date) , then came early retirement for popsy, though having served 32 years ,we didn't see it coming but it did.

Mehn things where rough ,I was in Jss3 then in a private school with the dream of going to London or Canada to complete my education but all that was halted as I even had to voluntarily drop out of secondary school since we could not afford my school fees again and took to cement selling.

Dad was in Lagos struggling to make ends meet all he could afford was maybe #1500 card every week for a family of 5, the day my Dad learnt I dropped out of school his voice broke on the phone...I was the one consoling him like "hey don't worry Sir I will be great, I'm fine "

Mum really tried , sometimes I see the pretty woman going to hawk waterleaf I will just start crying.

God preserved us with a certain kind of happiness and bond if not ehnnnn.... It was crazy .

Kaaaiiii.... this your experience brings tears to my eyes honestly! Chaiiiii.... when a father's voice breaks....then an earthquake has happened! Hope you are all good now ...

ClassicPesGamer:
speaking of parents....

no one can perform their roles except from God....

remembered those days Mum and Dad followed me to every registration(academic).

There was one particular day my dad was carrying my travelling bag and nearly fell down....

only an unwise fellow will ignore his/her parents speaking of parents....

no one can perform their roles except from God....

remembered those days Mum and Dad followed me to every registration(academic).

There was one particular day my dad was carrying my travelling bag and nearly fell down....

only an unwise fellow will ignore his/her parents after becoming successful in life

@op
may his soul rest in perfect peace

Thanks for sharing your experience bro....
Speaking about registration, I didn't allow my dad to go with me then, but when seeking admissions he was everywhere with me ... he'd step into any office and speak with boldness....and even when I couldn't get admitted twice he made sure I stayed focused....and these characters I still have today.... thanks to him! RIP Dad...I really missed you...

Early 1996, I fell sick suddenly and had to be rushed to the hospital. It was a private clinic and while I was waiting to see the doctor my dad was at the cashier trying to pay....
A while later he came towards me with a sour face...I couldn't read his thoughts...
Much later I was attended to and given some drugs and allowed to go home.
When I got better, my dad told me what happened at the cashier.
He hadn't enough money to complete my treatment...so he was lost in thought... while pondering on the next move...a man was also at the cashier trying to pay for his sick child's drugs and treatment....and was leafing through a bundle of notes! Counted and paid without flinching! More than 10 times my treatment money! My dad said he felt sorry for himself that day....and so did I!
From thence I promised to do all I can to give him a great retirement... unfortunately he passed before this was to be!
Please share yours....

This is why I advise guys who want to toast ladies to listen to great songs of the 50s to 90s that describe feelings and affection... needless to say you will hear words and phrases that describe feelings in more ways than the unidirectional ways of today.... honestly those songs gave me confidence, unlimited words and left ladies swooning at my feet....
If you wanna bet, try me and see if you're a lady....PS: I'm married o.... but if you wanna learn...try....

If you're an avid reader of Jeffrey Archer you will notice that ALL his novels have a mention of Nigeria....

Insult go full this thread...if you agree Dem go gree, if you no agree insult go land ya don't! Chaiiiiiii.... humanity! Fighting for what is not eternal!
Like I say: AT THE START OF HOSTILITIES, TRUTH IS THE FIRST CASUALTY!

SonOfAfonja:
Comot the pako wey block your own eye too...

Thank you sir.... I've removed the pako...
"Your grammar....."

Rich4god:
Is it just me... But this pix looks like old pix.

The first picture is from port Harcourt... The other ones seems like pix from old attack.

Thank you for your observation! The pictures are old pics and of course the first one is the attack at Rivers! Hatred won't let people reason! Very unfortunate! Threads are being opened in despicable desperation just to fuel anger and more hatred....no one is thinking about the consequences.... hmmnmm...OP continue oooohhhh.... whatever you wish for them might just be waiting for you!

Like I always say: ONCE THE HOSTILITIES BEGIN TRUTH IS THE FIRST CASUALTY....

BeautyO:
The moment you ask a woman for sex you're a rapist

Ok, so, what do you call a girl that dresses to show her curves knowing it will turn guys on and will lead to them asking for sex? In building construction it's called invitation to tender...you have goods... you're selling... there's a buyer and you call the buyer a thief? Haba mana...ki ji tsoron Allah fa!