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Duru9:
I usually don't do social media trends, but one thing I noticed with this Stingy men Association versus the stingy women association is that our women have made themselves look more like prostitutes. I mean, if men say they won't give women money, what more insult can women give themselves by replying with "they can't give men sex?".

Does this now imply that it has always been money in exchange for sex? I don't get it!!

Three years ago, famous Christine Amanpour of CNN was in Ghana and she went to a beauty spa where she interviewed some women who were spending heavily on their hair, nails and facials. She asked a few of them why they embarked on such a jamboree considering the fact that Africa is the poorest continent on earth, one of the women told her "I'm doing this for my man, so that he won't have to look else where". Another said " looking good for my man because these young girls will snatch him from me" and the last one gave a more shocking response. She said, "to get money from my man, I have to look very beautiful for him and I make sure he never lacks sex because that is what he is spending for".

I still remember the disappointing look on Amanpour's face. That look that sums it all and be like "no wonder dem say una nor get sense".

Everything for these women ends in their pussy. No class, no value, nothing but just pussy.

It is such a shame!!! No wonder our men have grown to see you who falls into this category as nothing but "pay for the Bleep" which is nothing by any means different from the job of a prostitute. When your pussy no longer serves his cravings, he ditches you for another and boom! You become another social media feminist.

Good morning!!

bigcil2:
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Olive25:
I think if your wife left home, then she had important reasons for it.
Mostly women are very loyal and patient, and if she still dares to leave you, then you have done something that she can no longer tolerate.
It is very interesting that you did not describe why she left. I think you're hiding it because you know it's your fault. Maybe you insulted her, or even beat her.
I don't think the brothers came for no reason. I think she called them to feel more secure.
If she wants a divorce, it means that your relationship can no longer be saved. Leave her alone and live on.

asdfjklhaha:
Collectin gifts from admirers can ruin ur relationship, I remember sometime in 2018 I was still wit my ex, a guy in my church bought me a phone. I told him am in a relationship I cant accept it he said he is not interested in dating me that he doesnt like the phone am using, that I should accept it. I did an told my boyfriend then, he did not complain about it or ask me to return it, but that was the beginning of our break up, any little issue we hav he will say is because he doesn't have money to by me phone that's why I have started double dating. This is someone I told, I could easily have lied to him that an aunty or uncle bought it for me but I told him the truth, yet he started using it in every issue, after a while he told me to return the phone back to the guy, phone I hav used for more than 2 months, the problems was just too much I just had to personally end it so I can have peace of mind. But I learnt from it. Accepting gift from admirers can be risky cos it can ruin ur relationship especially if ur guy is the insecure type.

Hotbutt:
I disagree with this
All is Vanity...
BTW, what's the craze with Big Ass, Big Boobs and all.
Men need to be more real and stop being superficial. They are the ones laying much emphasis on these thereby making us feel life revolves around breast and ass.

Men should look more at Brains, Character and strong Prayer life in women.

Las las oneday, all these will still sag.

bizme:
Allow me to disagree with you on this. If we are to look at it objectively the oyibos have much better society using both economic and morality parameters to judge. So if we copy the good aspects of their life, it wouldn't be a bad idea at all.

Secondly, I don't think immorality is increasing everyday in our society like you have put it. Instead the ready access to the internet makes it easy for us to learn about things we wouldn't otherwise have known. Neither do I believe that this generation is worse than the previous. Our fathers and mothers and people before them were part of equally immoral generation, they simply like to be hypocritical when talking about the younger generation. Just like many of us might also feel like telling our kids that their generation is unnecessarily permissive morally speaking. It is all a lie. Our parents did their own kind of atrocities in their time, they were not saints.

Back to the oyibos, without flogging kids they somehow manage to produce more empathic and more human human beings that build the society. We continue to lay claim on a higher morality in our society yet we keep churning out terrorists, yahoo-yahoo, and corrupt individuals year in year out. It isn't a bad idea to copy their style of raising up kids.

bigcil2:
Cv

Stephansmily:
Whoever said "family is all we've got" lied to us, because in reality you're all you've got.

Learnt this the hard way. 2020 is most definitely the worst year of my life.

mjconcept:
America stole advanced technologies from Nazi Germany after the fall of Hitler. Read up "Operation paperclip" for clarification.

aribisala0:
You sound naive. Did the West achieve their current position by fairplay.#
#Throughout history animals have been eating animals to get fat.
There is nothing no special about the West

America's current economic position is achieved by its military might nothing to do with its innovativeness
By imposing the dollar standard on the world , by ensuring most commodity trades occur in dollars and enforcing the interests of American banks by the use of sanctions and military might the USA has remained in front.

Even Nigeria will overtake the USA in a fair world.



But today Africa produces the most Cocoa and nas no say in the World chocolate industry
America is in Niger, France in Mali Russia in Central African Republic.

That situation will not last for ever.

If the US dollar ceases to be a reserve economy the US will be bankrupted.

That status is imposed on the World by force and the US is printing dollars and passing on the cost to countries like Nigeria.
They are the ones printing money and our currency continues to devalue. Why?
We are forced to keep foreign reserves in dollars

That will not last for ever

America exploits the resources of the world to fund its military.In turn it attempts to use that military and economic sanctions to enforce its will on
China
Venezueala
Russia
Iran
Iraq
Libya
Cuba
Syria

Ogbotobo77:
Lana's NFR album is a grammy-worthy album...MASTERPIECE

Anoymus:
Thank you so much.

Danhoys:
He's not 18 yet, so going through a device I bought for him shouldn't be a taboo.

Jodha:
If yhu were a gf I would have said run for yhur life...since his libido doesn't match yhurs..

Since yhu guys are married all I can say is... try and sit him down and talk to him.... explain how yhu don't have strength for a sex marathon...yhu can't starve yhur husband if not he'll be tempted to go outside...try and take enough fruit ...milk and eat good food that'll give yhu energy for the action...and tell him how far yhu can go..if it's to agree on the number of times a week sef... it'll help..

Sex before marriage is a sin but try and discuss things like sex during courtship....so that y'all will know if yhu can cope with each other or not..

XXXXTENTACION:
Well the rape influenced the other choices. but now she has taken responbilty to change and settle down with one guy. But alot of people on this forum are already castigating her.

XXXXTENTACION:
For christ sake she was raped How is that her fault.

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XXXXTENTACION:
Bunch of bad advisers just full this forum as swear.


nobody is a saint. Just learn to love people for who they are.


no woman is perfect if you are waiting for a perfect woman you go wait tire.

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Magnoliaa:
So I read it. Truly touching... and - this is not a justification - I wonder, taking into account this particular story (and others like this), if establishing paternity is worth it?

I think most guys here tend to argue for it for bants and in theory, talking about using resources on a child that isn't theirs, AS IF the only thing that goes into child care is material things and they can just turn off their emotions for a child they discover not to be theirs.

I wonder why it's so painful for them (this is not an invalidation), I wonder for all their bragging about being logically wired and how men are only required to donate and spread their seeds. So, why it is a breaking point for them??

I'll attempt to answer that: they care and love and experience more than they like to let on. And if this is the case, for men who are deeply committed to the upbringing of a child and a family they have given their all to - do you want to risk knowing that that child, their laughter with the sweet personality and dreams you cheer them on to achieve - isn't yours? Is that a kind of truth to be known? (I believe in complete truthfulness and openness in relationships, like even if you've had ten abortions and did a term in jail for murder kind of openness, but now I'm questioning that belief in because of this story). Is fatherhood determined by genes/biology or by social, legal and psychological consequences? What difference is it going to make if you know?
It's not every one that'll take the result well. For the ones who can't (and will end up committing suicide) - what happens?


P.S: I'm not referring to YOU exactly, literally, just saying generally and thinking out loud.

Usorohtheman:
I'm no coward. Instead of reporting to the police, I will prefer the military.

Usorohtheman:
I have already made peace with her but I'm not going to apologise to her. If not for my dad that is telling me not to come back to the house, I for don go house.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Please don't generalise this!