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Pank:
Majority of them are not materialistic like other Nigerian tribes.They are always contented with whatever you have as a man,provided you show them true love.Many of them are not moved by Money like other tribes.Besides,they are very caring,neat and respectful.Majority of them practise true love not money love.How i wish babes from other tribes are like them.I love them well well.

how much were you paid to say this sir? majority are neat i agree so are the itsekiris but i dont know where you got the materialistic and money part.

if they have monoploly on these things please someone help me out i can be reached on +44 (0)7848 500 90035

myrna summers      
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4w6eqayySCc
       

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-XbkAGuA9U     

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYXEdbR16M0 


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yljuQzoIJkI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aozN5EjeZ4Y  "It Pays To Serve Jesus"- Myrna Summers 
http://www.myrnasummers.com 

i first heard her about 20yrs ago  the album was  you are my miracle  recorded live in winston salem.    this is from the album 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaM4jMbnlQA     Myrna Summers - Oh How Precious Is The Name Of Jesus


she and timothy wright   
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqM1c6Fx9os
james  cleveland  the one and only

cece winans

lashun pace

judith mcallister

tramaine hawkins

shirley ceasar  how can i forget you?

micheal w smith

myrna summers is my first choice though

pilgrim.1:
@JJYOU,
I'm okay and doing well, thanks. Just that so many things have occupied me lately. And you, I trust you're doing great? Glory to God.

Indeed, the forum being a public place for discussing should not mean that we should throw decorum out the window. It is not by disparaging other people that Godly solution is produced - alas! we all find ourselves one way or another in that grip and need to be careful. All the same, thanks for the greeting and God bless you.

thanks well noted.  i am always trying to run away from loveless religious speak but i can never run away from this word i have been trying to show saint kunle for ages.

Galatians 6 (The Message)

Galatians 6
Nothing but the Cross
1-3 [b]Live creatively, friends. [color=#000099]If someone falls into sin, forgivingly restore him, saving your critical comments for yourself. You might be needing forgiveness before the day's out. Stoop down and reach out to those who are oppressed. Share their burdens, and so complete Christ's law. [size=18pt]If you think you are too good for that, you are badly deceived.[/size]

4-5Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don't be impressed with yourself. Don't compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.

6Be very sure now, you who have been trained to a self-sufficient maturity, that you enter into a generous common life with those who have trained you, sharing all the good things that you have and experience.

7-8Don't be misled: No one makes a fool of God. What a person plants, he will harvest. The person who plants selfishness, ignoring the needs of others—ignoring God!—harvests a crop of weeds. All he'll have to show for his life is weeds! But the one who plants in response to God, letting God's Spirit do the growth work in him, harvests a crop of real life, eternal life.[/b][/color]

i know a little about the Spirit of God. like i know He wont lead me into a sexual relationship with some strange woman, He wont lead me to abuse you even when i catch you doing wrong.  the word say be angry but DO NOT SIN. 

what i find strange with all the abuse oyedepo, oyakhilome and the redeem man and all that ask for tithes get from kunle and his cronies is that it is "allegedly" done with the spirit of god approval.

i live with a non religious christian it is all please, thanks and non abusive/ threatening even if you are so wrong.

thanks once more. i have enormous respect for you and the grace you show. if i have erred, i am sorry and sincerely ask for forgiveness

may God bless my brother david

may God help us.

Lax75:
Hold up, isnt this the same dude that was dissing Nigerian women also on another thread? Sheesh.

dae:
Yup!! _{pathetic isnt it}

hold on plsss. dont spoil his party so quick.

prittigrrr:
JJYOU: Per your request: Black brother I love ya, I'll never try to hurt ya, I want ya to know that I'm here for you forever true, @ OP and others, we should put aside generalities and focus on learning and loving one another. If you focus on negatives, you attract negatives. Focus on love and positives, you get positives.

thanks. may you find fulfillment and happiness.

Galatians 6 (The Message)
7-8 [size=14pt]Don't be misled: No one makes a fool of God. What a person plants, he will harvest. The person who plants selfishness, ignoring the needs of others—ignoring God!—harvests a crop of weeds. All he'll have to show for his life is weeds![/size] But the one who plants in response to God, letting God's Spirit do the growth work in him, harvests a crop of real life, eternal life.

omo oloye:
Hearty congratulations to her.She deserves to be happy.I agree she has not maximized her potentials as an actress.It's not too late.I wish  her the very best

there are so many things the love of Christ prevents you from doing. in her industry she wont want to do what others do to get parts. money and being fanous is not everything to some people.

there must be a paper somewhere saying if you use the counter services you will pay. it is not only nigerian banks that do it. 

meetyommy:
Is it by force to use ATM  for transactions?what of cases where the machine is faulty or the ATM user is an illiterate?it has been proven that this system of Banking is not secure and the bank cannot be completely  held responsible for any Mishap, if you dont add figures then you shouldnt have said what you said,
Bro.please think before making your contribution on any thread.

you dont need to be a university graduate to use an ATM.  illiterates use ATM world wide why is naija different? machines break down or run out of cash in europe and north america too. it is not a nigeria thing.

N100 is a small money to smear a bank for dont you think?

if you think you were wrongly charged go to bank and complain not online. i am in nigeria next week. i wont leave here with more than about 4 notes in my pocket that is what they are working towards in nigeria.  changes takes time to implement sir.

Take Care of What Counts and God Will Take Care of You

Today’s Scripture Reading:


1 Corinthians 1:26–29

Key Verse: :


1 Corinthians 1:26–27, 29


For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called. But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty . . . that no flesh should glory in His presence.

When God says, “All this is yours,” do not get frustrated because you do not have it. Go and possess it. How? You simply walk in the kingdom.

This means that once you see and understand a kingdom principle, then start doing it. Live it out in your life, and watch God show up. The best thing about God’s Word is that it does not depend upon our educational level, personal abilities, or resources!
Lord Jesus, I know that I have let Your kingdom principles fall by the wayside in my life. Forgive me. I pick up Your kingdom ways, Jesus, and I trust You with the results.
Education is important in our culture, but in the kingdom, it is not what counts. I know many people in the kingdom who do not even have high school diplomas, yet they make more money than other people who earned master’s degrees or doctorates! This is nothing but God’s favor and grace in operation. God can use anyone who dares to believe Him and possess the inheritance.

Let God promote you and raise you up. You just walk in the kingdom.

Lord Jesus, I know that I have let Your kingdom principles fall by the wayside in my life. Forgive me. I pick up Your kingdom ways, Jesus, and I trust You with the results.

http://www.newbirth.org/daily_devotional.asp#dailydev

spikedcylinder:
[/quote][quote author=prittigrrr link=topic=267349.msg3803072#msg3803072 date=1241091655]@ OP-You need to ask yourself about why the black American women are so resistant to YOU. If we are all hoes, as you say, you should have much success if your pockets are fat. Anyway, your generalities are unfair and unfounded. Start looking in better places like grad school functions, theaters, churches, black charities to find a better class of lady. Leave the clubs and parties alone. @ No2Atheism: real talk my brother. I have dated white b4 but even with all the negatives said about my African Amer bros being poor husbands and dads, and about my African/Nigerian guys being 419ers and controllling and about my Caribbean guys being womanizwers, I LOVE MY BLACK MEN ABOVE ANY RACE. I'm like Angie Stone's song Black Brother, I luv ya!

JJYOU:
please say it again.  

this is not a site with many AA women.where are the white women lining up?

we are on same page. so relax. this was what i said. i noticed the first time he said it too.
let him keep looking fo mini skirt wearing first date quick sex AA girls and expect good woman out of them. some boys like to be pitied. dont you see them dropping their fone numbers on NL for women to call as if the ladies lives depend on fone numbers?

ever so glad i am not a woman seeing the choice of boys available.

prittigrrr:
@ OP-You need to ask yourself about why the black American women are so resistant to YOU. If we are all hoes, as you say, you should have much success if your pockets are fat. Anyway, your generalities are unfair and unfounded. Start looking in better places like grad school functions, theaters, churches, black charities to find a better class of lady. Leave the clubs  and parties alone.  @ No2Atheism: real talk my brother.  I have dated white b4 but even with all the negatives said about my African Amer bros being poor husbands and dads, and about  my African/Nigerian guys being 419ers and controllling and about my Caribbean guys being womanizwers, I LOVE MY BLACK MEN ABOVE ANY RACE. I'm like Angie Stone's song Black Brother, I luv ya!  

please say it again.  

this is not a site with many AA women.

spikedcylinder:
So because white women are lining up to date the shafts left over of African men, other black women should thank their stars they have competition?

Good thinking dude!

where are the white women lining up?

another bank hating thread starting. why dont you use the machine as they said?

everything in life is not free

over rated and over here.

topsy25:
Believe me honestly, no matter how terrible a husband is; a woman has been specially made to make a marriage work and even change the hubby if only she can be humble and submissive without being foolish.

No matter how weak women are perceived, they're always stronger than men. They are specially created to help the weak men or the weakness in men. Such weakness could be anything ranging from drunkenness, bitterness etc.

I've seen women who helped their hubby overcome the problem of drunkenness not by nagging but with wisdom and love for their husbands. Most of our girls today, are always in haste to live their man to another one whom they're not even sure of what he would turn out to be after few months into marriage, then from that one, they will move to another and so it goes.

how do broken and battered women bring up girls that will help you? it is mostly women allowed to have the peace and decency of being women that end up raising great daughters.

let no ferminist tell me how successfull single parents go on to raise fine children. i am not talking about educated or beautiful young ladies here.

beautiful place but the indians and other guest workers are badly treated

[size=18pt]CAN: Putting Papal Ground Into Use[/size]
By PAUL OKAFOR (NAN)

The turnout was large and amazingly awesome as the Catholic faithful gathered fervently for a memorable occasion on an expansive land provided by the FCT Administration at Kubwa.


The late Pope John Paul II, visiting Nigeria in 1998, had been billed to celebrate an open Mass on the ground, dubbed the Papal Ground.


The ground was later given to the Catholic Church after the papal visit.


But other Churches under the umbrella of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), FCT chapter, asked the administration for land as an association.


Although such a request may not have been fully met by the authorities, the fact that the Deeper Life Bible Church ended its FCT crusade on April 3 on the ground has, for the first time, demonstrated that CAN is part owner of the facility.


The request led to the sharing of the Papal Ground into two — one part exclusively for the Catholic Church and the other for CAN.


However, over the years, only the Catholic Church has put its own part of the land into use.
The altar, which the late Pope used for celebrating the Mass during his visit, has been expanded and renovated.


A few structures, including a house for priests, has also been erected.


Catholic faithful have elevated the ground to a quasi parish where Mass is said regularly, while virtually all other activities of a full-fledged parish take place there.


Only the part belonging to the Catholic Church has been cared for and kept clean with trees planted and maintained.


However, this section caters to needs of different church organisations which hold programmes there.
In the past, CAN members have had to organise their programmes in the section owned by the Catholic Church, leaving the other part bushy and unattended.


Observers were, therefore, stunned when Pastor W.F. Kumuyi,the leader of the Deeper Life Bible Church, preached to the faithful from March 26 to March 27 from the CAN section of the ground.
Putting that section into use has made a difference, as it marked the first time CAN members would use their portion of the ground instead of relying on the Catholic Church section, the observers say.
Preparatory to the crusade, the bushy CAN section was cleared by the Deeper Life.


One of the crusade worshippers, Ogeh Ude, lauded the effort of both the Catholic Church and the Deeper Life for making the entire ground usable.


According to him, the entire land provides enough space for big crusades within the FCT.
“The venue is very convenient. Everybody is properly accommodated and we have the Catholic part of the premises where there are well planted trees under which we park our cars.


“I wish they could develop the place further so that other programmes by the various denominations of the Church can take place there,’’ she said.


Another worshipper, David Ogunlade, said: “I hope CAN will not allow the place to be overgrown by weeds again.


“Now that it has been opened, let other members of CAN continue to organise more events and develop the place so that God’s blessings will continue to flow,’’ he said.


Mrs. Alice Udom, a trader who sold beverages and other items during the crusade, noted that the organisers did not charge her and other traders any money for selling their wares.


According to her, “whenever such crusades are organised traders usually pay some money for selling at such venues but here there is nothing like that.


“This is the first time I have received such a wonderful treatment and we are all happy.
“I believe it is because this is the Papal Ground. You know the Catholics are more or less the landlord here and they ‘no de too put money for their things’.


“I am a member of the Living Faith Church but each time we have big programmes I pay for the space I use for selling, though I am a member,’’ she said.


Rev. Fr. Willy Ojukwu, the current Chairman of the FCT chapter of CAN, says the association will soon start to develop the land.


“We agreed to organise a fundraising ceremony towards developing the place.


“We intend to construct our secretariat there and other structures, including a guest house and a worship ground, ’’he says.


It is Ojukwu’s belief that CAN members will be glad if the land is developed as it will provide a spacious worship ground for them.


Besides, the ground can host other programmes.


Christians say that if this done, and urgently too, winning more souls for Jesus Christ will be a less arduous task in the evangelism crusade.

http://www.nigerianobservernews.com/30042009/features/features3.html

[size=18pt]CAN: Putting Papal Ground Into Use[/size]
By PAUL OKAFOR (NAN)

The turnout was large and amazingly awesome as the Catholic faithful gathered fervently for a memorable occasion on an expansive land provided by the FCT Administration at Kubwa.


The late Pope John Paul II, visiting Nigeria in 1998, had been billed to celebrate an open Mass on the ground, dubbed the Papal Ground.


The ground was later given to the Catholic Church after the papal visit.


But other Churches under the umbrella of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), FCT chapter, asked the administration for land as an association.


Although such a request may not have been fully met by the authorities, the fact that the Deeper Life Bible Church ended its FCT crusade on April 3 on the ground has, for the first time, demonstrated that CAN is part owner of the facility.


The request led to the sharing of the Papal Ground into two — one part exclusively for the Catholic Church and the other for CAN.


However, over the years, only the Catholic Church has put its own part of the land into use.
The altar, which the late Pope used for celebrating the Mass during his visit, has been expanded and renovated.


A few structures, including a house for priests, has also been erected.


Catholic faithful have elevated the ground to a quasi parish where Mass is said regularly, while virtually all other activities of a full-fledged parish take place there.


Only the part belonging to the Catholic Church has been cared for and kept clean with trees planted and maintained.


However, this section caters to needs of different church organisations which hold programmes there.
In the past, CAN members have had to organise their programmes in the section owned by the Catholic Church, leaving the other part bushy and unattended.


Observers were, therefore, stunned when Pastor W.F. Kumuyi,the leader of the Deeper Life Bible Church, preached to the faithful from March 26 to March 27 from the CAN section of the ground.
Putting that section into use has made a difference, as it marked the first time CAN members would use their portion of the ground instead of relying on the Catholic Church section, the observers say.
Preparatory to the crusade, the bushy CAN section was cleared by the Deeper Life.


One of the crusade worshippers, Ogeh Ude, lauded the effort of both the Catholic Church and the Deeper Life for making the entire ground usable.


According to him, the entire land provides enough space for big crusades within the FCT.
“The venue is very convenient. Everybody is properly accommodated and we have the Catholic part of the premises where there are well planted trees under which we park our cars.


“I wish they could develop the place further so that other programmes by the various denominations of the Church can take place there,’’ she said.


Another worshipper, David Ogunlade, said: “I hope CAN will not allow the place to be overgrown by weeds again.


“Now that it has been opened, let other members of CAN continue to organise more events and develop the place so that God’s blessings will continue to flow,’’ he said.


Mrs. Alice Udom, a trader who sold beverages and other items during the crusade, noted that the organisers did not charge her and other traders any money for selling their wares.


According to her, “whenever such crusades are organised traders usually pay some money for selling at such venues but here there is nothing like that.


“This is the first time I have received such a wonderful treatment and we are all happy.
“I believe it is because this is the Papal Ground. You know the Catholics are more or less the landlord here and they ‘no de too put money for their things’.


“I am a member of the Living Faith Church but each time we have big programmes I pay for the space I use for selling, though I am a member,’’ she said.


Rev. Fr. Willy Ojukwu, the current Chairman of the FCT chapter of CAN, says the association will soon start to develop the land.


“We agreed to organise a fundraising ceremony towards developing the place.


“We intend to construct our secretariat there and other structures, including a guest house and a worship ground, ’’he says.


It is Ojukwu’s belief that CAN members will be glad if the land is developed as it will provide a spacious worship ground for them.


Besides, the ground can host other programmes.


Christians say that if this done, and urgently too, winning more souls for Jesus Christ will be a less arduous task in the evangelism crusade.

http://www.nigerianobservernews.com/30042009/features/features3.html

olaadebunm:
I need a fat ,busty married lady /woman living in Abuja for enjoyment only. Interested person can ring or text me on 08034955958.thanks.

tpiah:
fat busty and married lady.

Quite specific.

that is naija for you now. most married are just in as married Mrs only. trust our grossly irresponsible men to buy whatever yeye enters the market

whitelexi:
With all the stuff girls do to their systems these days, a brother might want to test-drive and make sure the system is working right before comitting to anything serious. I know some people who even refused marriage until the woman got pregnant!

whitelexi, u must know people who died last year and you didnt.  why must people do things because others are doing it?.

@jenny,  i would say tell your friend sex is not all it is wrapped up to be.  and she should leave the guy she is with that she doesn't love.  true love they say always wait.  tell her to wait and real true love would come.

ifshe is all you say she is,  all she ned to do is have confidence in God's ability to bring her the right partner.

maray:
Must u guys sample before serious any commitment?

help me ask him and while at it must girls allow every guy that ask pay as you go?.

The Lord seem to be smiling on the widows in the Nollywood industry as screen goddess, Elizabeth Benson a.k.a Liz Benson 45, tied the knots years after being a widow with Bishop Great Ameye of Freedon Family Assembly International Church.

A mother of three (Richard, Roseline and Lilian), Liz lost her husband (Etim Gabriel Samuel) barely six years into their marriage. Though she had been linked with many men, none of the relationships led to the altar as this.

The registry wedding took place secretly at Area 10 Secretariat of Abuja Municipal Council (AMAC)on Wednesday April 8 2009, had friends and families in attendance.
Her husband, Great Ameye, we gather is a minister with Freedom Family Assembly International Church, Jesse, Delta State. Gist has it that the 49 year-old man is a widower who allegedly met our sweet Lizzy in the course of doing God's work. Their relationship has however moved from friendship to the altar and now man and wife.

Fully out of the widowhood circle, Liz Benson begins a new walk in the married life again.

Here at eNowNow.com, we say congratulations to Liz Benson for having waited this long and finally taking this bold step. We pray for a blissful marriage with lots of children (that is if the couple decide oh!)

tks ma'am. congratulations sister liz but na 45 years old this my sister really be?.

will she settle in jesse or is the church going to relocate them now?

kadman:
Somehow I think she's not

jenny, if this story is not true i will probably never forgive you because you just spoilt my day.

pilgrim.1:
Hello all,

Just thought to revisit the forum after a long vacation. Hope you're all doing great.

__________________

@Kunleoshob,

You know it is quite unfair to use Scripture in the manner you have often done. In the first place, it is dishonest to teach anyone that "our lord Jesus never taught tithing" - for we know He actually did, among other things (Matt. 23:23, et al).

Second, while you're accusing others of twisting Scripture by often quoting Jeremiah 8:8-10, are you not doing the very same thing by inserting and twisting Romans 16:17-18? In quoting verse 17 of Romans 16, you inserted "[paul, the other apostles and our lord Jesus never taught tithing]", just so you could dribble in your own unfair dealing into that text. You have done the same thing you quoted from Jeremiah 8:8, for you have "twisted it by writing lies" into Romans 16:17, in as much as you cannot assert that "our lord Jesus never taught tithes" (unless you're deliberately ignoring the fact that He did so in Matt. 23:23). It is quite unwholesome to be condeming others and yet doing the same thing that you condemn.

Third, let us understand clearly that Galatians 5:4 has nothing to do with tithing. Not in a single verse does Scripture present tithing as a matter of "justification", and to often pander that verse about as reason to condemn tithes is dishonest. The verse simply addresses the idea that people are seeking to be justified by the Law; it does not teach that tithing was ever given to justify anybody - whether in the OT or NT. I don't know how many people you have come across who are tithing because they are seeking to be JUSTIFIED by their tithes. How many such people have you come across? We know that there are many people who tithe, and yet they have never done so on the basis of trying to be "justified" by tithing! I'm referring to your previous posts here and here. In part, you have argued that:

[list][/list]

Quite to the contrary, you magically dribbled in those ideas, and you're sadly wrong on both premises. There's not a single verse that teaches that people who tithe were placing themselves under a devourer's curse - it is quite the opposite, for it is the anti-tither or one who did not tithe that were exposing themselves to the devourer (check it for yourself - Malachi 3:10-12). Further, tithing did not cut anyone away from the grace of Christ, and to insist that it does so is to teach the same fallacy that Jeremiah 8:8 condemns, as you have severally quoted.

It is not Christ-like to do the same thing for which you condemn other people in the mistaken idea that they are wrong and you are right, especially when your distortion is unarguable.

hello my dear sister. i trust you are well. it saddens me to see kunle insult the church and pastors the way he does. we are all free to rant and rave on NL but i know humility and respect for others is a christian virtue.

i suspect he is a very young person so i keep him in my prayers.

God bless and welcome

oYaTo:
correct yarns. .

@IyaKadijat   Most of these new posters only read your first post, and are ranting on you over here  , u don't have to keep defending yourself. Just know what you want for yourself and your daughter and take active steps towards achieving them.

Wish u good luck! 


The way some pple have gone about it over here, you'll think they have a personal vendetta against her or sth 

i was getting worried about her replying everyone.  this is your issue.  men and women do this wickedness all the time.  here in the uk when some men/ women  were in the position to pay off people and get on with thier lives some choose to go into relationships.

sadly the case is now the reverse as i see most of our people who got papers this way now being used and dumbed by others.  history has a way of repeating itself.

be very sure you reap what you sow the bible says. prayers may go unanswered seeds always produce after its kind.

Galatians 6:7-9 (New Living Translation)

7 [size=16pt]Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant[/size]. 8 Those who live only to satisfy their own sinful nature will harvest decay and death from that sinful nature. But those who live to please the Spirit will harvest everlasting life from the Spirit. 9 So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.

we remembered you in our prayers that God would heal your heart and give you peace.

you bet some clever american/ european sales people are already selling africa some "cures".

eyeshadow:
I appreciate your advise especially as you sound quite experienced. Could you please then tell me what you would do in my situation? I have never had this sort of problem in the past and although I think I have done very well by ignoring her I won't want to be described as a fool cos I'm not one.

thanks i am not experienced. we are all learning as we go. i have my own sets of in-laws but we all get along just fine.

the name you are called doesnt matter it is what you answer. we have to be a fool to win most people in life. ignoring her is more a strength than weakness. continue to ignore her and tell your guy you are ignoring her for his own peace of mind he will be forever gratefull.

if you think he doesnt know her you would be wrong. he is caught between 2 people he loves. be the lifeline for him and he owes you a favour. learn to keep your eye on the main person that brought you into the family and not the surplus to requirement sister. they are distractions. you have them in every family.

you determine how much i charge you for this.

in britain we had claire short. very sound and ethical lady. tony blair gave her international development to repair british name abroad unfortunately she didnt resign during the 2nd gulf war she disagreed with. today she is a damgaed good even though she resigned some weeks later.

i hope this is not nigeria's claire short?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Precisely why i asked the relationship of the siblings. It's easier but only by a small margin if he and the sister are not that close. [/color]

i dont know why some young women dont smell danger. if this woman know how many marriages collapse in the first year she will be very very carefull.

wbb

eyeshadow:
Thanks for the advice. Initially when I met her I tried to be friendly even as we are very different people but now I know we can never be friends however I don't want us to be enemies for the sake of her brother who loves her a lot. I'm not desperate for marriage and he knows and I don't try to take the attention from her (even though quite honestly it can be very easy by mere standing beside her). I have ignored every single thing she's done to me except the last one and I don't even discuss it with my family or friends cos I don't want it to escalate.

At the end of the day we'll be married and she will have to live with it.

i will caution you thread very carefully. my mrs say dont fight battles you will never win. the way you fight this lady will tell her family something about you. especially the older ones. you dont want to join any family fighting your way in. she is his sister never forget that.

can someone paste the shapey and her inlaws thread here for this lady to read please. that is a classic of how seemingly small matters go out of young people countrol without them knowing the way out.

there are land mines in every family. thread very carefully because you are most vulnerable when you come in newly especially when you are based in nigeria. you dont want to start a family life fighting. it will drain your energy and shift your focus. there are more wahala ahead so save your energy for them that is if the relationship mean anything to you.

God help nigeria so how much is £1 to the naira then?