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marry her quickly. after the marriage, buy her some anger and temper tablet. make sure she takes them 3 times a day for 50yrs. i you will have peace if she stick to it religiously.

this is the reason God gaeve you too running legs. RUN ABROTHER run

posakosa:
amebo no1. sounds like a playa,  his words maybe harsh but he's telling the truth.


I say you Cut the lad off!  

btw, is ur bf's last name Bassey, sounds just like the way my ex treated  mee and  I said those exact words,  what a loser!

though u suggest that he rots in jail, I hope my ex dies a bastardly death!  buahahaha!  

lhm

ever heard mind your business? some people dont like telling people all their business

KunleOshob:
@Krayola/sojioguns
Brilliant submission, i am really glad christians are coming to know the truth about the true gospel of Jesus christ which is a gospel based purely on love for God and Others targetted at making the world a better place for all. Churches have really distorted this truth for selfish gain. it is my prayer that Christ would reveal himself to us all so that we can genuinely understand his message.

it loooks like chris took your family land somewhere.

KunleOshob:
Another cheap way of recruiting free labour to do the work of sales men/women without any renumeration whilst they are fooling themselves that they are doing "God's" work.

[size=1[color=#990000][/color]8pt]another accuser of the brethren[/size].

OREAWADOO:
ROR IS FORCED ON MEMBERS THEREFORE CANNOT BE SAID TO BE A BEST SELLERS
SOME MEMBERS ARE COMPELLED TO COLLECT COPIES SOME THEY ARE UNABLE TO DISTRIBUTE
CELLS  ETC , ARE ALLOCATED A NUMBER OF COPIES.

SOME PEOPLE ENTER GBESAY TO PLEASE LEADERS

WARRI SAYING [ NO TAKE SHAME CHOP WITCH]

u no reach warri with this one.  the motor wey carry you break down for ogharefe junction.  how much do they sell this booklet that you are all hanging yourselves for?  you guys are all unpaid advertiser of this man and his church.

Pepeye:
Ignorance gone on rampage!

Go to any christ embassy church on the island in Lagos
Its distributed free of charge! Every month . . .this month inclusive  
all dis una whopping lies na wah for una twits!

warri far from lagos na. the man never reach warri you want him in lagos. how many years would that take a man that cant buy a copy of ROR to walk?

tope2000:
Amen to that in bold
May God bless you
U have have wisely spoken . . . . .many naija men dont know how to work as a team with their partnes at all
Its so SAD. . . . sometimes i just imagine if marriage is really worth it esp seeing how many naija men behaves . . .too much ego n pride

i am saying this in love. it is same problem dome men have with some naija women.  it is more a societal issue than gender issue.  did you notice most of our men were raised by mothers.  my mum had only 2 boys. she always told us God knew we could do what  daughters could do for her.  by God grace me and my bros gave her and my granny the best we could becos they both poured into us all they had especially my granny.

my gran ma always told us no son of hers would treat another person daughter bad. infact from the time we were small that was what we heard.  we didnt know it then she brain washed us and over praised us into doing things for her grand daughters we would not have naturally done.  she made sure we all lived together and looked after one another. today we are almost all in different continets but are still close.

all men were not raised to see women as trouble

~Sauron~:
There is an army of sexy lasses in Holloway, ma friend.

I agree but this is theoretically based.
It's a different thing to know what one wants, it's another thing to find the right woman.
There's no perfect woman but the level of imperfection these days makes Queen Jezebel look like Mother Theresa.

true sir  but there are no perfect men either.  theory! forget about theory my bros.  the no 1 reason these things are becoming theories these days is there are too few good men standing.

there is nothing you compromise to get that will be a lasting blessing.  most of us are too readilly willing to jump into bed with jezebel and expecting to get the reward of marrying a sarah.  

a good wife is ALWAYS from the good Lord. we know where the bad one comes from.  some many years ago  as a naive young man i nearly manufactured myself one.  thankfully a lovely good freind off loaded her off me deceitfully i must add. they had 3 kids in 9yrs. sadly he is resting in eternity now.  gone too soon as they say in naija.

there is no harm in waiting for the right one.  we dont have to rush into everything in skirts.  i am talking from hard learnt experience brother.  if we have value for ourself and desire to  acheive much in life we owe ourself the duty of saying No to everything that wont last us the journey we are embarking on.  there is always a price to pay for everything good.  id ont know why we think we will not pay for all this bed with rose today, sarah tomorrow and sister wonderful next tomorrow.

i learntthat you have more to loose as a man in life when you go into wrong relationships.  what has been your expeience or what is your opinion on this kind sir?

~Sauron~:
We all know that. . . . .
However, there's a border line.
Give a woman an inch and be damn sure she's taking a mile.

so we all should go to holoway for wives then?

my  bros some people were groomed to be human beings some where groomed to exist.  

make the choice of whom you allow into your life wisely. it will determine  to a large extent regulate how much you live and acheive in life. did someone say  your life is your theatre choose your audience carefully.

most of us allow little sally on a journey clearly marked GOING NO WHERE into our lives casually and dream of destinations you can never the unwilling into.

nothing saps your energy and breaks focus like bad and wrong relationships,  if you can help it work more on that area of your life you will almost achieve everything you set out to acheive easily.

if cooking and cleaning makes people not get fat why are some of our older women at home fat knowing most cooked and clean from dawn to dusk.

tope2000:
This is how most naija men lives will end up like . . . . .

i wont say amen to it becos it is one of the things that really made people like me  begin to seriously look at the tolerance treshhold of our people.  i cheerish the power because that is what it is.  power of a very quiet and not easily offended person.

i can stand most people  but i cant stand peole who dont know how to get along with people.  we dont have to win every arguments at least not in close relationships.  no one is permitted to shout or be angry around me. it took me years to find a person who can stand me and i am so glad i waited that long cos it is worth the wait.

most of our people dont know how to work as a  teams with our parners.  if you want to succeed in life you must learn to live in a strife free environment.  you produce more and blessings flow more freely.

some people turn relationships into war zones too quickly.

*Hauwa*:
Bless you JJYOU,  

i hope he has not started hitting/beating the hell out of the woman by now.

trust them, she did not wash my clothes, she did not cook food, then quarrrel, then next na beating. that's naija style. an hungry man is an angry man,  

i think he is a lazy man.

bless you too. i know what you mean. i used to attend an  all naija church here some yrs ago. our people still do some fighting here.  if you dont like hunger dont like anger because you add the letter D in front you become DANGER 'r US.  sadly most dangerous people always hurt themselves. there is theat song the heart you hurt may be your own.

one of the sadest thing i used to see in east london is lonely old men buying meat and food in the market. it used to tear my heart knowing some of them had good relationships they could have nutured for that period of their life.  dont get me wrong i know some of our sisters are ugly rumour  sister nasty when they get to this part of the world. a little endurance, a little give and take and a little loving can go a long way.

we must all learn to get along if we are to form a  happy and meaningful lasting relationships.

where is the tatafo man in the first place? he doesnt have credit for internet, cant help a pregnant wife, cant help an unborn child ,

who tell you say you waz ready for marriage kanayo abi na small orange seller u don give belle.

come talk for yourself and relieve sauron of his duties

MrCrackles:
U never halla!


For where?

Far from it!

how did u know edin agbon sir? which language is it? the word only makes sence in some old mid western languages

palebobe:
@JJYOU, its gd 2 hear dat. Am glad i ave a 'Voltron' somewhere. Make i go cause trouble. Na u go do PA 4 me oh. Tnx lol

dont bank on it cos i hardly know you. i know a few people here and know they wont knowingly do wrong so wont mind defending them but linda is not here to talk for herself.

the guy mentioning linda's name here is the type that goes blaming women for any bad thing that happens to them in life. you bet the same women dont get credit for when things are good.

linda is a fab person. i know her thru my junior brothers wife.

landwin:
I think this poster Just wants insults in Abundance

true

MrCrackles:
Try Adiagbon and Palm, they work wonders!

edin-agbon is a being ointment. mr crackles you are deff benin or someone from that area.

~Sauron~:
This is no joke!!!
No woman should let dirt n grime reign supreme in her home.
Blimey. . . . . . .What is the world turning to??

What if he cannot afford one??
How many houses in naija can boast of running water let alone washing machine??
Get real!!!

haba u mean u will let a gregnant woman wash ur clothes? i know u joke but u are not wicked.

~Sauron~:
Today's women are getting lazier by the hour.

He was prolly paying through his nose to get those luxury.
Now that he's got a wife, things would change.
How would you feel going to your sibling's apartment with him cooking and sweating profusely while his wife is stretched on the couch watching 'Sex n The City'??

o boy i know u joke most times so i really dont knwo when to take your post seriously is this one of yours trully?

cant u guys tell this guy it is no sin to use washing machine this day and age.

~Sauron~:
Cooking
Cleaning
Washing
Sex partner
Taking care of the kids.

you forgot
making sure he is always broke and poor
bringing him bad luck like not being promoted at work if he manage to get one in the first place
being responsible for him sleeping with other women
making sure he remembers hers and the kids birthdays
killing him with juju or ota pipia which works first.  
who better be responsible for killing a man that wont take care of his health?

tope2000:
Even when she is heavily pregnant??
Abt the washing, is it so hard for you to put your clothes in the washing machine yourself?

what are you talking about.  this is difficult for new  generation man who need his wife 50% contributions to succeed if not more.

sadly the ancient men who lived like this paid all his bills to keep the home going you guys dont want to do that do you?

some of you will be here tommorrow complaining she earns more than me what do i do?  

you cant wash plate, you cant make money. cant  know when to humble yourself  and you still call yourself a man because you have 3rd degree leg.  knowing my sisters they have surprice for you.  you wonder why they are playing away from the house you dont own the hifi, Tv and fridge?

*Hauwa*:
who was doing the guy's washing and cooking before he got married??

why are u asking difficult questions here.  i asked that before the shehes said who who was doing the girls washing before.

RichyBlacK:
Preach on brother!

would you give an offering if he ask?  can you answer my question richy  did you say you were a moderator and christian somewhere on NL or am i thinking you are someone else?

amarilo:
Why kant you gyls of nawadays borrow a leaf from your mothers?

turn that question and ask how many old fathers expected the women to pay for rents and buy other stuff.  if all a man contribute to a reltionship is the sperm what kind of man is that? there are sperm banks that you get it for free you know.

i hope some of u are kidding

palebobe:
@igwe, ONYE ARA. Ewu gambia ka iwu.
@JJYOU, am saying u r just doing VOLTRON 4 her too much. Wuld u do d same 4 me? lol

if i knew you enough to vouch for your character i would. like i said i know her to be a very decent and respectful young mind who wont involve herself in things this nasty. it is bad the man being deported but to say someone like her has a hand in it is to put it mildly telling a lie. we are talking nigeria here so it is to be expected. someone must be responsible for his trouble.

i wont be surprised some people here think seun does juju to get traffic to nairaland. you guys amaze me.

Sisi Jinx:
Aaaaaah soooooooo!!!!!!  
Oh Pleaaaaase don't take my passport! Please I beg of you

It's not my fault. . . you see the powers that be yanked me off Nairaland for more brainwashin. . . errr. . . I mean training.

Yes, they thought I was spending too much time online. . . not neccessarily a bad thing if weren't for the fact that I was learning to be the opposite of the perfect Naija wife and we can't have that. . . can we?

Anyperfectionhoo, I am back now. . . all re-educated and ready to pass it on.


How's you been my dear Sensei?  

i know tpia is reading this but i am going to say it.  

i missed you.   tot u wazz z already set in your ways to rewash the brains.  time shall tell. so good to know you are all re-educated and ready to do the needfull.  u didnt miss much on NL apart from the few new names from banning or shall we say rebranding.

we have been good. tks for asking.  getting ready for nigeria before the rains start to get heavy.

this thread is disappointing so i have to run soon. i dont want to think we have young men still thinking like this.

@poster,
Being pregnant is no disability. A lazy woman is a lazy woman. If she has some other health problems, then she needs special attention, however, if she wants to use her pregnancy to just do nothing all day, then you're an unlucky man. I see pregnant women go to work everyday and put in their time. I've seen pregnant teachers, nurses, TV hostesses, etc. Differentiating laziness from pregnancy is not rocket science.

Mai Suya:
Simple!  

the problem with agreeing with small minded word is the society raised by that mind set is self destroying before  our eyes yet we want to continue.  they say insanity is doing same thing over and over and yet expecting different results.  the callous idiots vandalising nigeria were mostly born by men who had this form of twisted thinking. loving your wife was a strange concept to most of our elders.  you can imagine a person with no feelings love or poor sympathy for his own wife and unborn child having love or as they say feelings for neighbours/strangers.

when can we wake up to start behaving like human beings.  dont you watch animal programmes and see that even gorrillas and monkeys take good care of their female species.

RichyBlacK:
LadyT,


No man needs useless women like you. People like you end up with effeminate men that you can walk all over and boss around. Get men like those not real men. Act fast! When he knocks you up, lie down and do nothing all day. After you've added 50 pounds, he'll start an affair with his work colleague and kick you to the curb. Nwa nsi!

richy i tot you said somewhere you wazz a moderator and a christian?

Igwe.:
@palebobe
Your profile location says America. How do you intend to carry out the protest plan, Ewww! Are you a victim of deportation too?

igwe, u want to crack someone's ribs. you know this is a free forum.

palebobe:
@JJYOU, i see u ave no oda thing to do. Ur own is to wait, read and reply anytin written abt Linda. Well keep it up. U wuld make a gd PA. Am even looking 4 one.

you still not telling how you and your kind think this girl has a hand in this ugly business. she is not the first naija girl with a failed relationship is she?

be fair on a fellow human being that is is all i am saying. is that wrong?

Ilelobola:
Most Pentecostal churches are registered with the Charities Commission including KICC. I've been on the CC's website to check, you may want to do so too and they have to file annual returns. KICC's annual returns are on there too. What has Afro Caribbean Evangelical Alliance or any other got to do with record keeping? If a church or any organisation wants to be known as a charitable organisation in the UK, it has to be registered with the Charities Commission. Victory used to be a Charity but after all their palaver they became a Limited Company so they can operate as freely as they want to be within the regulations of the Companies House which tend to be less stringent than the CC.

Well done to Pastor Matthew for his achievements, it can't be belittled in any way. But what do you mean by "yes we know you are on NL and not being charged"? You lost me here. Is it wrong for me to say I'm not a member of KICC or that I am not motivated by his sermons? Surely not everyone can be inspired by him eh? I find Joel Osteen motivating but I am not a member of his church. I just watch him on TV like I do many others.

calm down. no vex my brother, i dont attend kicc either. i count myself blessed knowing him. he inspires me and very many others. kicc is a free organisation. you dont have to join every church to admire them plus it is not wrong for you to say you are not a member. no one is criticizing you for that. NL is a free for all forum so live and let us all live oga biko.

i reckon pastor matthew is force for great good with all his faults. he is a very nice man to a fault that is why he is suffering this scandal today.

Sisi Jinx:
Please consult this guide for the duties of a woman in Marriage

[img]http://3.bp..com/_YOXRxlfU0S8/SP1lURx6ZSI/AAAAAAAAADs/jb9kuDO5TkU/s1600/housewife.jpg[/img]

Thank you.

sisi, nawa for you. you just disappeared.  where have you been?  you see what you caused.  this is the result of your failure to continue your write up on being the good wife.

where wazzz you when your country women needed you?

we shall take our passport from you.

welcome and God bless

ThiefOfHearts:
Lmao since when is judging dancing contests "working" and who wants to bet this Holly person has maids and nannies

Such a stupid example.

you guys make me believe the nigerian man will never be a fool forever.  richy dont know holly dont know the cost of her tooth paste and  brush let alone put that cloth on all by herself.  there is no way she will not have at least 3 paid hangers on that is excluding freinds and family.

he is here blabbing as if poverty and wickedness are the new  virtues. some people will never stop excusing stupidity.

when this bobo first came here he never mentioned preggars until he was outed by one of eagle eyes.

@ALL, what does kanayo mean in ibo pls?

ThiefOfHearts:
Your mates have washing machines, you're still there with water and omo looking for a cleaner

pls tell him for me.

tpia:
OP

the woman's duty is the same as the man's.

gosh, some of you can complain sha!!!!!

say it again one more time.

tpia:
abeg dont set me up for your wife to take potshots at. I'm not setting you up with anybody oh!

I wonder sometimes, thats all.

you are agent provocareur No.1. not even my lovely funmi would do this to me.

seriously Linda is the last person i know capable of doing what this boy is alleging here. she goes out of her way to do anything to help anyone.

did you see how he described someone he doesnt know

hugle:
jjyou, are you Linda Ikeji in disguise? cos you are taking this matter too personal. well for those of you who dont know her, she is blog writer trying so hard to be a celebrity.

that is so rude. the lady has 2 businesses and employees that get paid monthly without fail.

i know NL can be cruel but why get so low? this is someone who will never come here to defend herself.

JJYOU:
anyone found "sleeping open eye" song yet? please i am waiting. thanks for your help guys

lalaboi:
@Silent don
http://www.esnips.com/doc/6f218f81-f6d3-49f8-9f41-4c40153061fc/M.I-Talk-about-it

@JJYOU

BAba. . .dat song is a long ting oh. . . . lol

o boy thanks why na? why cant you guys get sleeping open eye O song? that is all i have ever wanted here. who did the song?

thanks for your help and have a great weekend

tpia:
is JJYOU in love with linda ikeji.

NO tpia, thanks for the offer. you are forever trying to set me up. you should know i am by God's grace and mercies happily married. i am a 1 man 1 woman person.

i find the way people talk trash of people they dont know funny. we have known linda for some yrs and count her as a dear member of our family. she is like a juniour sister. a very lovely and respectful person. how does an ex business concern her?

very funny

deor03:
Some age inconsistencies


Profile : 28

Picture: 35

Thread: 33


Anyway , cool picture.you have there

rafindadi.

RichyBlacK:
The fact that she's pregnant is no excuse to sleep morning, afternoon and night, or sit and watch TV all day. Moving around and doing some house chores is good for the woman's overall health. Being pregnant is not a disability! If she just sits and do nothing but sleep, eat and sh%t, she'll only gain weight and later become obese.

Unfortunately, this man made a bad choice in marriage. That there other women who would not be as lazy as his wife is clearly not in doubt. Except she adjusts her attitude, this marriage is headed for the rocks.

mmm what can i say all because a woman is pregnant. what if this lady is not well sir? different women react differently when pregnant.

there is more to a good marriage than food and washing of clothes bros. we are first and foremost human beings. it is within our gift to show love and understanding.