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davidylan:
Surah 19:71 . . . yo're going to hell as a good muslim anyway.

bros david, i beg tell me na true say mole people dey get forgiveness of sins after they sleep? someone said here the people that died in their sleep na thier paradise him dey land

Quote from: babs787 on Yesterday at 11:26:48 PM
Na wa o. I read posts but none has been able to answer the question but I will do that. The answer needs no lengthy story but firstly, I thank God for making me a muslim thereby providing the answer in which none of you has been able to. The answer is mad person will not go to hell. The holy prophet said that three people will not have their deeds recorded. The first is a person sleeping and would have nothing written till he wakes. The next is a child that doesnt know right from wrong while the last is insane person till he becomes sane,

[quote author=pilgrim.1 link=topic=265611.msg3810530#msg3810530 date=1241230265]Hi JJYOU,

Good evening sir. Lol, of course I know you meant no harm. As for my background, I'm into IT (not quite good at it, though. . . but I dey manage). [/quote]chei if you are not too far into IT just stop and go get proper training towards being a prof. u were born for academia not for IT work.

you know those kind that teach hebrew or reformations those kind of things with strong eye glasses.

my mrs always read your work and she agrees with me. i only go half way becos i dont know too much book. i like your thorough and balanced mind.

God bless you.

eghosaobas:
make you talk ooooooooo pastor

you guys know very well that God and church have nothing to do with this. it is the insatiable quest of the nigerian mind for wealth and money that is at work for all to see.

God sees and will judge everyone one day. you cant keep robbing the vulnerable and gulible people. anyone that has God's Spirit will never do such.

IyaKadijat:
Now I think I understand why you're such a prick sometimes! You're a child! Because I think only children wouldn't understand that adults don't have curfews. I am a grown woman, and if it is my desire to stay up 48 hours, I will do so. If I got up to take a p!ss at 4am, what business is it of yours? I know my life is really exciting-but to know every minute detail? Wow.

But since you're sooo interested, I'll have you know that my date included dinner, then dancing. I didn't get home until 3am. I went to take a shower, put my nightie on, and went to cut off my livingroom light and close my widowblinds when I saw baby daddy's truck outside. Does that answer satisfy you enough, Baby? I can't believe I'm explaining this to a child.

And if what I'm posting up is such trash, then why do you seem so eager to put down a response? I'm going to tell you what my Momma told me: "when you're an adult, if you don't like someone or what they have to say, you don't have to get nasty with them-all you have to do is be cordial, maybe say 'hello', and keep it moving."

Grow up, amebo.

iya, she is trying to help u all she get is u being nasty.  i know u need a pillow sorry our amebo dont do pillows.  she ask questions that makes u see what u didnt see originally.

anyway if u knew  what amebo as a word mean u wont get this wahala u are giving yourself.

i dont think she mean u any harm. she is just pissed off that u allowed this guy used u like u were a kid.

he is a control freak by nature and i can see you unknowingly giving this jerk another kadikat if care is not taken. the signs are already there.  your are the type that wants to make a point  sadly you make yourself very vulnerable in the process. 

you should be looking for how to fill the void you are filling relationships.  knowing men like i do, they are mostly users and takers.  sorry i told you that but i am telling you truth.  sadly you are a very good and available candidate the way you come across.

you should seriously consider dating/curfew as a policy now. have you ever heard of rebound in relationships. you are still hurting my dear sister. take time to heal. you dont want another person robbing your 8 next yrs do you? any sweet smooth talker can easily sweep you off to cloud kookoo land if you are not careful.  you should know the home front of your beginning is where this opening is coming from sadly you are still very open to this form of abuse.

am i going to get my own tongue lashing too? 

i dont know why u guys get shocked when rats do what they are supposed to do.

tpiah:
sorry, but I have to when women sell themselves short over something they'll regret and moan about later on.


Didnt Omotola"s husband marry her at 18? This lady clocked 24,25,26 right before her dude's face and all he gave her was cake, if at all he even did.


How can someone date a girl for 12 solid years with nothing to show for it? What else is left for him to find out about her that he doesnt already know, will she appreciate or depreciate in his eyes, and if she wasnt good enough for him to marry for 12 years, when will she ever be good enough? After she turns 39?

I know too many women who were left high and dry after the man chopped them freely for years oh

Not good at all. Some remain bitter for a long time afterwards.

mmmmmmmmmmm

why do we always take this stand that being nigerian rxcuse you from the law. why do crimes if you cant stand the purnishment?

do we ever think of the users of these drugs people like this sell? of course not she is nigerian so she must have the right to use her BMW and BENZ. yesterday it was yetunde in ghana today this fool? the fool has the opportunity to get free education in london she wont use it because it is easier selling drugs and living big after i am nigerian who dare ask?.

and the shameless mother have the mouth to talk.

do you people believe any crime should be purnished at all?

wbb

ferdiii:
You are happy she is fu cking legally once again? I never knew singleton is not cherished here.

did people attend your naming ceremony?

blacksta:
Nigeria is a safe country  - Bleep all this oyinbo people.

you people will never change.  it will cost them millions of dollars if one staff get killed by the silly robbers in nigeria.

safe environments are better for business than the anarchy we have in nigeria.

how do you sponsor a private member bill in nigeria?

if anyone know please tell us. many thanks

IyaKadijat:
Maybe I'm weird, but that just made me laugh. I'll pray for you, crazy lady! LOL!



Yes, he is Muslim.

this was why i asked on the other thread.

is he not entitled to 4 wives? have you guys changed that rule now?

arrant nonsense.

@ moderator, how did this stay one hour? this must be unacceptable and gabby i tot u wazzz nicer than this?

[size=28pt]close/lock this thread please.[/size]

karma thanks for showing you choose your fights.

papa giddy:
well, i ve often posted here, that the more u pple shouts about the redeemed jet, the more it get plenty!  u just sit down there and be talkin rubbish about the church and the gosple of jesus christ

exactly. make dem put airport for ogbomoso too make we buy our own.  who no like better thing?

you can now pass the offering plate kunle and huxley.

tamme:
A pastor with the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Israel Kehinde Ajayi, 40, has lost his wife, former Miss Anita Uzowuru, to pastor Godwin Mbamara of Rehoboth Covenant Bible


igbo women doing what they do best

did i see the tribe thing coming?

anonimi:
did you not hear?
that is daddy GO's jet purchase & maintenance fund.

shame on you.  how does this affect the GO even if this guy was his son?. this guys are exhibiting typical nigerian trait you are bringing GO business into it. is the GO a divorcee too?

@ jenny, we are recording your sins o.  u will have a lot to confess. lol

meetyommy:
If you say it is a directive from the Central Bank then i ll say NO WONDER, The only thing they do in those offices is exploit Nigerians and say they are helping them grow the economy.they come with so many names such as 7point agenda,vision 20/20 etc
The bottom line is Nigerians are greedy, if you reside in certain western states and you make your findings.you will agree with me that it only cost =N=2000.00 to take a fellow Nigerian life,
you dont necessarily have to use an ATM/CREDIT/DEBIT card to run transactions in advanced countries, particularly europe.
To me the =N=100 is a way of expoiting rather than encouraging the use of the ATM!
And for you Mr jjyou:you will agree with me that their are kinds of illiterates.if i tell you there are people that dont know how to use it, you can be sure i am telling you that from experience.

so we shouldn't make progress att all? if they dont use atm and cards in europe what do they use? cash or cowries?

i odnt get your point at all. why do you think in london they use the oyster card for instance or why do you pay for air tickets in advance rather than gopay cash at time of travel? we should not have passports too so we all dont pay for anything?

Lola Alao can’t remarry without my consent –Dare Ogunlana, estranged husband
By ’Nonya Iwuagwu
Published: Saturday, 2 May 2009

There is no doubt that Lola Alao is one of the talented actresses in Nigeria, especially in the Yoruba movie circle. But then, not many would deny that she is one of the most talked about actresses in terms of scandals.
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Not too long ago, news of her impending wedding to a certain man made the headlines and many people were eagerly waiting for the D-day. But the wedding was postponed indefinitely. It was alleged that Lola‘s estranged US-based hubby, Dare Ogunlana, said the actress was still legally married to him, thus she did not have any right to get married again.

And really, Dare called Life and Beat from New Jersey, USA and stated why he stopped the wedding. ”I don’t know where it is done in this country that a woman should be married to one man and get married to another without divorcing the first husband. She didn’t tell me she wanted to get out. I didn’t know she wanted to get married to another person. I only read it in the papers that Lola Alao was getting married and I was shocked.”

Dare said that if Alao had asked for a divorce, he would have granted it. “She has really insulted me by making plans to get married to another person while she is still married to me. It is a slap on my face. We wedded in a registry, so I think it is only proper that she gets a divorce before thinking of marrying again. She should not feel she has the right to do anything just because she is a celebrity. If she wants a divorce, I will let her go but not for her to go and get married behind my back while she is still legally married to me.”

Asked whether they had been having marital problems, Dare said, ”We have been married for some years now. Initially, I was coming home regularly. But for some time, I have not been able to do that and she knows the reason. She knows I am not ready to relocate to Nigeria now because I have to iron out somethings. A lot of people told me that Lola is the kind of person that would stick with you when things are smooth but would leave you when they get rough. I didn’t believe them. But now, I can see that what they told me about her is very true. She is not a for-better-for-worse wife material. If I know the person she wants to get married to now, I will definitely tell him that.”

When Life and Beat called Lola on the phone to get her side of the story she said, ”I am not ready to say anything. Let God be the judge. No comment.” When reminded of comments attributed to her in other papers, she said she had never spoken to any journalist about the matter.

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* She has her life to live, so why dont you step aside and let her move on. It is very unfair to be in the States , enjoying all the American honey, while denying this beautiful lady the privilege of make good of herself to another able man. It showed that you are no longer relevant in her life and not able. So , please let her go.

Posted by: sola Olabiran , on Saturday, May 02, 2009

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* bukky80, i feel what you saying. I dont see any reason why a man in US will go back to 9ja to marry a girl he never knew before while there are many beautiful responsible girls out here. The girl will probably leave when she cant get excess $$ cheaply. Its good for Dare Ogunlana for what eyes want eyes see. He will be a good example for others like him not me.

Posted by: Busuyi O , on Saturday, May 02, 2009

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* It is not being in US,Uk,or anywhere around the globe that matters;it is the individual's psychotherapeutics ability management,which he controls and allows to betray his emotions, lets be frank, a man who works and lives in Overseas is an "eagle eye",because he knows much of issues rather than just simple everyday enviroment problems,This women are good looking,although not necessary beautiful, but their mood of dressing starts from days on campuses like; uniport, uniuyo, unilag,UST,and others

Posted by: maximus Australia , on Saturday, May 02, 2009

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* Lola Alao is not a lady that can stay with any man forever. Her husband that introduced her into film-making regretted when she left him and married this American. She's leaving the American because he's broke. I knew her when she was staying at Baba-Ode Street, a slum in Mafoluku, Lagos State in the 90's. Lola, stop disgracing Kogi girls and stay with one man. Money isn't everything. No person has ever remain celebrity forever. Stop calling God into this matter which you caused. Stay blessed.

Posted by: The Patriotic Parrot , on Saturday, May 02, 2009

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* These actors and actresses lead fake lives and that's their problem. They, just like Nigerian politician, must be rich by all means so for the actresses their men must be rich pepople thet can foot their bills or else they dump you. There are still some decent people out there who wre in the movie industry but the bad ones outnumber them.

Posted by: Moore , on Saturday, May 02, 2009

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* This guy deserved what he got, Because i do not know why he has to marry an actress when there are so many good looking Nigerian in New jersey and other states in Usa. But, they look out for this big stomach and big ass not so good looking. Shapeless, women.

Posted by: bukky80 , on Saturday, May 02, 2009

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* Please go to the front page of the Daily Independent to read about Mercy Aigbe! It is the same OLLLLLLDDDDDD story of broken relationships.

Posted by: Deji , on Friday, May 01, 2009

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* And to you Naija men,who love to run after Nigerian movie stars because you live in the UK or US, this is the kind of hearbreaking calamity that awaits you. Can someone name one celebrity who doesn't have a dirty romance history?

Posted by: Deji , on Friday, May 01, 2009

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* It is unfotunate to realize how some our movie actresses are unable to have a blissful marital life! Too bad! Personally, I think a celebrity should be someone who leads an exemplary life. Last week , it was Kenny Brown, today it is Lola Alao, tomorrow, it will beAlex Okoroji, Rita Dominic, Bukky Wright, Ken Henswar, , RUBBISH! Our societal values are gradually eroding with every bit of western life we emulate. RUBBISH!

Posted by: Deji , on Friday, May 01, 2009

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http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art20090502224195

some men sha, you want to marry a woman who is not even divorced. lawless people.

bgees:
its sad one,

but for some certain hardcore NaS fans like me ,its a good thing. i never understood why he married the slut!


Nas can chill out and maybe get a better wife fit for a king that he is.

and the tattoo, he should find ways to remove it.

served its purpose. most of these marriages are put together by their various PR machines for sales, Tv and magazines. it is a con most insiders know.

[quote author=$osisi link=topic=265020.msg3810439#msg3810439 date=1241227336]my brother long time

how about the people tripping over themselves and about to "assasinate" those sharing out the free umbrellas and clocks.
It's a miracle I didn't die in my hometown last December [/quote]thank God for small mercies. i have been around. how you dey? how is my bros and the clan?

how about the people tripping over themselves and about to "assasinate" those sharing out the free umbrellas and clocks.

that is the part i dont like. the amount of unused or shall we say will never be used my mum/dad has is unbelievable.
even though i specifically instructed no one to do any for us trust my people we were on all unamables. calendars, notebook and jotters. money my dad would have easily used to give me another wife. that was without my dear mum being around. i always imagined what she would have done.

my brother was a guest in his own. it was like my mums wedding which i think most of these things really are. i enjoyed it though apart from the unnecesary photographers and video people. the church choir was really good.

i am out next week so keep us in your prayers. have a greak weekend and keep being good at what you do best.

Pittbaby:
only possible if all parties are on board with keeping it hush hush , if not all I will say is pick your battles not worth having a throw down fight with you inlaws over how many uncle labajas can attend your wedding, when at the end of the day even the people you invite will bring their friends sister's cousin and all her 15 kids,

trust our people

[quote author=amebo no1. link=topic=267741.msg3811083#msg3811083 date=1241245845]which one is quiet and loud again


nywayz i like inbtw, if the guy is as loud as i am , dat means house go burn naaaaaa [/quote]you are generally what you see is what you get. you can never figure out some people that is a nightmare.

lawrencead:
Hey your, do your see the dollar going down to like $140 at the black market anytime soon.

how do you see it coming down in a nation where you generally have to sell your own currency to buy other nations currency to trade?

uplawal:
am not trying to judge u here o,but if u look closely the muslims on this site are more tolerant compared to the christians, the muslims give valid fact and explain rather than cursing or waving the questions

muhsin:
Very fair input!

the "wicked" christians are also responsible for yoruba moslems being considered inferior to hausa moslems.

Lagosboy:
Slavery has been part of the culture pre islam and on the advent of islam there were still slaves in the time of the prophet. Islams message was directed towards the emanicpation of slaves and the rights of slaves as well. The freeing of a slave became a charitable act in islam and the wealthy muslims freed lots of slave and Bilal was a living testimony to this act of charity. Bilal was freed by Abu bakr (May God be pleased with them all). Other companions like Wukasha and co were freed slaves.

In surah Balad (Q90 v12 -13) Allah was talking abt the steep path to paradise and the first issue or act Allah talked abt here was the freeing of a slave.

However, during wars slaves were captured as this was the norm in those days even in west africa history of the 16th century and earlier and they were were deemed to be causalities and war booty.

The main point is the message of islam was to free the slaves. It is unfortunate that some countries like mauritania still keep slaves and this is so unfortunate 1427 years after the prophet some people still practise this.

Having said this , the slave practice of the earlier era i mentioned is not comparable to the transatlantic slave trade of the europeans.

If i have said anything wrong please my other bros should correct me.

And God knows best.

egbon, dafur and sudan makes my first highlight a joke. they must be reading different koran.

secondly it is a known fact the arabs treated slaves worse than the europeans. this is one of the main obstacle today with gadaffi championing the AU project.

slavery in all in its form is vile and wicked doesnt matter who is did it. i lived in hampstead & stanmore some few years back you can still see your arab cousins exhibiting their slave master mentality on sadly black and phillipino maids. sadly my naija peeps put in their little quota.

now back to the question why are u considered lesser than the hausa mole?

maballack:
@crescent,
Just as you have Nigezzie-Nigeria
las Gidis-Lagos
Bengazzi-Benin(edo)
@JJYou
if a $ is 179
and £1 is 1.49$

do the calculation, means £1 = 1.49 * 179=266.7~265 (most likely)

thanks so much. it is selling time.

acidrop:
quiet guys are silent killlers. . . . .i prefer loud so he can always say wats in his mind

would u call quiet women slow poison too? there is always no need for these names. people are peole first. see people before gender plssssss.

never possible. we only did our thanksgiving in naija. no cards no publicity. my dad and cheif organiser said maximum 300 including church people sister nwando it was more than 1200.

i only personally invited 5 people so plus wife lets say 10. bearing in mind the mrs dont know no soul there so they were all my people if you ask me. till today there are still people quarelling i didnt allow them attend my wedding. never knew my famiily was that large.