Elxandre:

You didn't have this info before you made your initial post.

Like it or not though, this is gold digging.

Imagine a court ruling you have to pay 100k to an ex boyfriend monthly after he dumped you, simply because you used to assist him and his kids financially.
E make sense?

I'm sure you'd curse him nake..d.

Elxandre:

So she deserves 50k monthly because they were together, even though the man tried marrying her but she refused?

Not even 10k, but 50k monthly, from a man that pampered her and her kids!

It's the m oronic man I blame anyways. If she was his baby mama, at least it would have made more sense, now he's going to train people's children for 10 years. Haha

Sarita01:

You aren't making sense,so you're supporting a woman who rejected marriage proposal 7 times,never invested anything meaningful into the relationship cos she even quit her job and now after breaking up she's seeking support,support for what exactly,did she bear any child for him,so he should support another mans children,cos of what na.she a lazy and wicked woman who only want to continue living larvishly but don't want to work for it.after they'll be forming feminist when all their dependence is on a man they want to see them as equals,tueh

ENG0701:


I concur with your second point. Men are richer, so they are most affected. The law is generally in favour of the poorer partner and also men often prefer to marry someone they are richer than, that is another discussion. But I do not agree with the notion that because they spent 14 years together, she is entitled to such benefits. From the story: 1- they were never married and never officially lived together, 2- she refused to sign the agreement, 3- she gained a lot from the relationship she is more than enough compensation. And lastly, if this is allowed to stay, there will be lots of court cases of people suing their ex after dating for 3 years.

pocohantas:


Lol!!! I love the way this post was avoided.





The kind high-jump over his over his post ehn. Legendary!!!

ENG0701:


To your first point, I agree that some guys also benefit from the law, however, it is mostly women that is why it seems to favour women.

And your second point, there is no mention of her raising the guy's children, as he is most likely paying child support to his ex, she benefited a lot from the relationship, the guy paid off her mortgage, so the idea of use and dump doesn't apply here. Relationship ends, it's not always because one party wants to use and dump the other.

MrBrownJay1:


Yep it equally happens to rich women who marry "poorer" men...go ask Halle Berry who pays $16K in child support monthly to her ex French husband; go ask Mary j Blige paying her ex husband $30K monthly; ask Madonna who had to pay up to $70M to Guy Ritchie; ask J- lo who gave her ex $14m spousal settlement; ask Mel B who had to give her ex $8M spousal settlement; ask Britney Spears who pays her baby daddy $20K in child support, and the dude now wants more, lol!

MrOjay1:
You only get paid an equivalent of the revenue you generate.


The men's game is far more marketable and profitable.
How many even watch women's football in Nigeria?
.

Brazil’s women’s national players will get the same as male players for representing their country.

LewsTherin:
Marriage is easy. Once you both are willing to do the work.

It's a lot of work. It's compromising. It's sacrificing. It's submitting. It's providing. It's tolerating. It's more than this.

But once you put in the work, it becomes very easy and very satisfying.

Cousin9999:
Op is a white troll, or paid by a white troll.

Do not dignify this r_tardation with a response.

Slaves, a necessary evil built Europe and America riches and new slave laborers are now flying in 707 or desert and seas to get there.

luminouz:


I didn't see you condemning the paternity fraud woman two days ago? Busy much then or ignoring her fuq up because it suits you?

I checked your profile and SMH for you. If you continue blaming men for every single shiit in your life, you won't have any life left to live

yettymuse:
His sexual needs may be more than the bills he pays.
Does he take care of his woman’s needs?? Is she still working?? Does he spoil her? Is she COMFORTABLE??

You think it’s easy to take care of 2kids and a Bigger Baby! Y’all cut these women some slacks!

You think it’s just to pay bills? In this age, lots of women can conveniently pay bills too...

If you don’t Moisturize a woman’s libido with good money, care and attention...she goes completely dry!

This is why I don’t find marriage interesting..especially in this part of the world.. plenty stress, no benefits no bag!
... all you got is a miserly MRS title that can’t even open doors! Taaaaaaaah! with a mad society expecting so much from you!

Unromantic Nigerian Men! Mtchewwww!!!

Sixfeetbelle:


Why are you spitting venom? Did I lie in my post? Men cheat, women cheat also. That's very clear. And nowhere in my post did I defend her. Read it again if you'd please.

Like I pointed out, fraternity fraud in most cases is committed by people close to the victim. If you check it, that child belongs to a Nigga that is close to the man. Only very few isolated cases are found in paternity frauds. And this is not a new thing. It had happened and will continue to happen until things are set right.

But of course, you're spitting venom because I didn't outrightly condemn the woman. Tell me, between you and me, who's being objective?

Elder0001:
The only flogging I received or have received in this life were in secondary and primary school.
My parents never flogged or beat me.
I have very Liberal parents who don't approach issues with archaic methods.

Now let's talk about the schools.
Why should a stranger be assaulting another person's child because he or she is a teacher

When I finally have a child and one idiot flogs him or her the teacher will know what's up.

Hathor5:


Maybe or maybe you are used to a lot of fear and despair and the child sounds normal to you.

Hathor5:


I can go on for days because I feel very passionate about children but I must warn you, I will never agree with you on what I saw and heard in this video.

Hathor5:


I have a lot of experience with children. That's all you need to know.

Hathor5:


She did.

Hathor5:


I can tell the difference between a child throwing tantrums and a terrified child. If mummy doesn't want to strangers to comment on her discipline techniques, she should refrain from uploading such videos, which is abuse of power in itself.

Hathor5:
It is horrifying that Nigerians are not moved by the child's despair and fear. As much as I also think that is highly questionable to film how you discipline your child to put it up on social media, I am more appalled by the cries of the child. I don't want to know the amount of abuse this boy has already suffered, which is the reason why he reacts the way he does. It's sad that Nigerians consider it normal/funny/entertaining but not surprising. They grew up suffering various forms of abuse and consider it normal.

sanpipita:


Your reaction is exactly why Nigerian men are languishing in different prisons abroad you refuse to learn anything, if a lady sends you an unsolicited nudes its harassment be free to call her out, when someone barges into your room or house uninvited tell me you welcome them with a smile?

Ibime:


Say wetin?

When I was in college, one girl wrote a poem/rap about all the sexual things she wanted to do to me and read it in front of my friends.

She was completely unattractive to me, so I was polite, kept it moving and later laughed it off with my friends.

philip0906:

[s]You dey ment!

That is what your block head is more interested in. The thread is about your fellow woman ruining the life of a young man through false accusations but you're more interested in yarning durst. Verbal sexual harassment gbuo gi dia.

You dey ment[/s]