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SeriouslySense:
Not all kids are like that, for instance, i don't resent my parents, and i don't hate that they are not together, i even grew to love having a single parent, no additional person to boss you around .

But every kid needs two responsible parents.

As for me, i don't blame anyone, although love mother more, I think we can all come to an understanding.

Nice comment.

I don't understand why no one is trying to disprove the logic. It's not always true. Children from broken homes don't always hate either or both of their parents.

mrblessed:
Date from any ethnic group, but marry from your ethnic group.

Why?

JovialJune:
Happening to a friend of mine right now, she and the guy have been battling this tribal issue since 2018 that they started dating, she is Yoruba and he is delta, but his mum wants him to marry from either Edo or Delta cos she is Edo and his father is Delta, you see how some mothers can be, my friend and the guy keeps breaking up and coming back every time cos they are so much in love with each other, and time is no more on their side as they are in their 30s, she doesnt want to marry into a family that she is not accepted, he doesnt want to break his mum's heart, so they don't even know what to do again cos fate abi God keeps bringing them back together, I'm just pitying her cos I don advice tire

This unnecessary tribal differences championed by mostly parents on their kids should be discouraged and stopped, let grown adults make mistakes and learn from it or let them marry who they like and live happily every after, we are humans first.

Just imagine.

Iyaebe:
Deeper life doctrines are for the downtrodden

Not only in deeper life but across all religions.

GloryIsaac:
Shawberto Carlos?

You dey mind am?

Iamemma:
Simple!

Agree you have a body count of less than 5

I seriously don't see why this is a problem. Just pick a random number below 5 and hold on to it.

Is it that hard?

lilvicky68:
She represent well..

People from Rivers state are more likely to date/marry people of other tribes, there are a lot of tribes in Rivers but when you move to the South East, South West or the North where a singular tribe/religion dominates, the discrimination becomes evident.

pharmagba:
Yes severally
Jeje I go serve my fatherland for Adamawa state..
A Fulani lady, Bororo confirm- Aisha
A biu lady- Maria
An ibo lady - Chidinma

We loved but couldn't marry
I'll never forget them

Magnoliaa:
A relationship? No. But all my love interests have always been of other tribes or races. No big deal. My parents would think nothing of it; they don't care...so I'm not gonna have any problem, or relate to any issues that'll 'arise' out of such relationships. I'm glad my parents are that enlightened, even though they are still traditional and religious and all the whole package sha. But they're modified. I don't have problems with them when it comes to ideologies or non-conforming lifestyles.

Still do not care about what society or family members will say... It's their mouths? I seriously do not get how some people allow others' opinions run their lives. Na wa.

Seriously, the opinion of the society is really important whether we agree or not. It is the individual that will decide to no give a fucck.

I am happy for you, you have parents that don't see this as an issue.

May thunder fire him if returns.

A lot of Nigerians especially the elderly are tribalistic, the ones that are not would most likely not consider someone of other religion or the non-religious.

But against all odds, some have had relationships and even gotten married against the societal and parental pressure to someone of different race, religion and tribe.

How were you able to cope?

Why does Ryan Reynolds likes wearing chinos?

seankafor:
Has anyone seen my cat

Has anyone seen my cat

NPC to the world.

I genuinely love the Avenger and Star Wars theme song.

It's not so bad.

Brandonx:
I’m still shocked at how parents tries to live their lives through their children.

Telling your children the type of friends to keep, How to spend money, who to help with money , who’s evil and who’s not evil.

Even choosing a career

That thing annoy me as fuuckk.

The same parent would not consult you before making important life decisions.

Some widows/widowers/divorcees would remarry without taking guidance from their children but they would be the one to hand pick spouses for their wards.

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When people give advice you didn't ask for.

Mecka:
They believe it's sexist. Suggested new name: X-Force

As suggested by Deadpool.

Free guy is available on the high sea.

I will simply drink sniper and end it.

I have one and I use it.

Naomi in the news, again.

Ayo n payan rora yo.
As he dey go eniyan lo n sowo nyan.

Ladugbomio
Tin ti yo.

eleshin:
I'm telling you. Baba dey rest just like Cristiano and Pogba.

InvestorO:
Perhaps if he was huffing and puffing in the box-18 like your ewure waiting for TAP-IN and rebounds,he would have had one.....

Currently listening to Mr. Real ft Falz - Zzzzzzzzz.



Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

InvestorO:
TAP-INaldo *forcing himself in* as always(America most wanted list) into OLE's list to start against westham u-20's to statspad

Wake me up when the midget provides an assist in the farmers league.

I'm going to sleep now, I hope I won't be sleeping for the rest of the year.

JimmyDarmody:
Sequel to this thread;
https://www.nairaland.com/6765187/careers-women-turn-off-man#106048053

I think a married woman should not have to work. Your wife stands to be treated as a subordinate and even disrespected by her bosses. Some may try to make advances. A man should make enough money to a point that his wife does not have to work too.

What do you think ?

Trust me, a woman that doesn't want to cheat will not cheat whether she's a house wife or something else.

If this is your reason for not wanting a woman or your wife as the case may be to work then all I can do is

I don't get the idea of house wife, it has never made sense to me.

All the women in my lineage I know are working, from my late grand mother down to my mother. To of my aunts are retired and they have a shop.

So when I finally finally decide to have a wife, the only option is for her to work.

RedpillAnalyst:
No sir,

Women are frustrated when it comes to relationship not sex. Women can get sex anytime they want with little or no effort, it does not require any skillsets or braincell for a girl to get piped down.

Most men are not 'bangable' and worthy of relationship going from women's perspective and they would rather resort to vibrators and toys like you mentioned in order to avoid, ugly, poor, dusty, short and low quality boys.

You know close to 40% of men are borderline virgins and not by choice and these include fairly attractive guys who are not just good at manipulating girls to bed.

How did you get this statics?

Reality disagrees.

RedpillAnalyst:
Wrong sir

Many men in their twenties and thirties have never talked their way into bedding a woman. You'd be surprised.

Law of hypergamy and female desires dictate who gets to mate and who do not.

There's a Pareto principle of female sexual selection and desire and it posits that 100% (not 80%) of women desire top 20% of men. The rest 80% of the men are for the mostly invisible or non existent from average view of a woman.

While any woman will get are back blown out anytime she wishes. Many men on the other hand are getting none even when they try.

Wrong!

Women are more sexually frustrated than men.

It explains why they buy sexx machine more.

Forget all these wanting analysis.

I will take the 2.2 and get the Bleep off.

Botfuss:
If I start complaining about our tough fixtures in league cups now, you people will say it’s conspiracy. Man city played a WiFi password yesterday but we are facing west ham. This thing has been going on for the past 4 years.

Manchester City has been notorious for having easy fixtures in cup competitions since the arrival of Mr Conductor.

This was exactly how our people started selling our people as slave to the whites.

It further proves that the elderly are not as intelligent as we take them. All they need to change mouth is money.