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hmm 1 & a half years. Ended because I didn't want to rush into marriage. he begged

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You shouldn't group people into a stereotype. There are women of every background that fit into that "capricious, superficial,needy" type. No one wants to be put in a box so if you are to have a successful relationship with anyone you first need to change your mindset and rid yourself from your negative qualities.

how did u even become involved with him? You knew the age difference

In one right now, its been six months since he has been gone. It's complicated and takes a strong will and faith in the relationship. It's like a 50/50 chance for me now.

born2fuck: I wish you are in front of me right now so I can slap your mouth for saying that

Violence should never be the answer. I just prefer food, it doesn't take guys that long to pick up on that. Not to say if I was given flowers I would throw them away, I, of course would thank the person and put them on display. All gifts should be appreciated but a preference is a preference

[quote author=Mynd_44]What if em flowers were a box of chocolates?[/quote]I'd take those

the only thing you should be paying is attention

If he is interested in you, he will pay. That does not mean "use him for his money" or that every outing has to cost money either.

Eventually, if you feel comfortable you can pay occasionally.

As a general rule, don't give money unless you don't plan on getting it back

Long distance relationship checking in! So far its been 6 months! Not easy. trust is very important as with having your own life. There is a limit on the amount of time and communication is key. All you can do is be yourself and pray that when you are reunited both parties are still willing to make things work.

Goodness, you never confess to cheating unless you want out. You have to think before you act, and if that's too late then you have to think before you speak/confess.

The choice is now up to him

A guy offered to buy me flowers yesterday. I declined. He was just trying to get a number/date/maid/sex. Decent approach though.

Chili is a forever alone. I watched her show a few times. She is a hypocrite.

No problem making me money, because I plan on spending more.

lust,the excitement of someone different,loneliness, fear of commitment, unsatisfactory relationship, lack of sex, lack of communication

Also, I have a few friends who have cheated just to have a bold reason to break up with their significant other.

miredia: u never truly loved him

I did but love is not enough.

He was a good guy but pushy, pushy into the relationship, pushy to get married always rushing me. We weren't right for each other. However, he taught me a lot about myself.

I had an old bf who used to write me poems and such. Me, being a mean person, dismissed them most of the time.

ppl cheat because they want to, all it takes is the action on a desire. sometimes there is no logical reasoning

Depends on the couple, communication is very important. I'm in one right now as well.

It is difficult knowing if it will work out but that's life, we don't know what the future will bring

Floxyluv: If you are tired of the relationship, then leave, there is nothing like "break", you are either in or out.

exactly

I like em chocolate

but I've crushed on and dated all shades

Condoms, safe sex.

If you are having issues with ladies not wanting you to wear a condom, you can always refuse and find yourself another lady.

No. because u said in the hopes of being reunited meaning that there is no definite plan to. Taking a break is just a lame way of breaking up without actually saying it. If you do end up getting back together with the person, thats great but taking a break = single.

in your shoes

Ladies in my shoes

1. What are the steps you are thinking about taking?
I just try to be more open to new experiences, perhaps joining certain organizations I haven't thought about before. prayer.

2. What are some of the dating mistakes you have made in the past?
Not taking the relationship seriously. Not making him a priority. Letting someone have too much control.

3. See this as an avenue to purge.
Right now I have a bf but things are iffy. We are long distance, have never told each other "I love you" and I just want to know if he plans on ever marrying me. if he hasn't at least thought about it by now I don't want to continue any further. However, I know a few other good guys its just difficult because I love my bf but I can't tell what the future holds.